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If you are pregnant with a rainbow baby, you will probably experience a lot of different emotions. Many women will have fear and anxiety during their pregnancies after a loss, and worry that they will have another miscarriage or that something may be wrong with the baby. 2. Talking with a doctor who knows your history and asking for certain accommodations, such as working with an ultrasound tech who will. What to expect when you’re pregnant with your rainbow baby.

A rainbow baby is the name given to babies born after a mother has experienced a pregnancy loss. Becoming pregnant after a miscarriage, infant loss, or stillborn baby is anything but easy. If you are pregnant with a rainbow baby, know that as isolated as you feel, you are not alone. As many as 10 to 15 percent of pregnancies end in miscarriage (via March of Dimes).

It’s also important to find the support you need. What to expect when you’re pregnant with a rainbow baby �� > What to expect when you’re pregnant with a rainbow baby �� You are not alone and you will get through this. Claire Nicogossian, Psy.D. October 08, 2019. pregnant with a rainbow baby.

I would describe myself as a ‘cup is half full, happy in the morning before coffee’ kind of. And when I became pregnant after my loss, with my rainbow baby, I had a mix of emotions. Pregnancy after a miscarriage, infant loss or a stillborn baby is anything but easy. Many people have a perception that becoming pregnant (again) will make the pain of the loss lessen or go away.

What To Expect During Your Rainbow Baby Pregnancy: You may feel HOPE – Afterall, the entire point of a “rainbow baby” is hope, right?! Hope that there is good to come. That there is light at the end of this dark tunnel you have just came through.

Hope that you are finally getting your sweet baby you have longed for, for what feels like an eternity. You may feel relieved that your body is actually capable of. You should also expect to feel a whole range of emotions, including fear, worry, renewed grief, guilt, joy and relief, when you get pregnant again with a rainbow baby after a loss.

All those feelings are completely normal. It can help to talk to others who have had rainbow pregnancies and babies. Self-care is also important when you’re pregnant with a rainbow baby.

Remember: Grief can be exhausting, and even more so when you’re expecting. Ask for the help you need during this time. [4] Thought Catalog; What Is A Rainbow Baby? This Is Everything You Need To Know About The First Child Born After A Miscarriage, Brianna Wiest, October 09, 2018. [5][6] Very Well Family; What to Expect When You’re Pregnant With a Rainbow Baby, Chaunie Brusie, RN, Anita Sadaty, MD, October 21, 2018.

Below, women share how they honor a lost pregnancy. “I had just gotten home from the hospital this morning after an extremely painful miscarriage. On my way home, I bought a pot, a beautiful evergreen shrub that flowers around baby’s due date and a small wooden box that I’ll engrave baby’s name into.” — Elshee.

List of related literature:

Suffused with emotional rainbows, these first days are passed in partial seclusion in a hospital or at home, while to the rainbow are added whatever emotions the new baby arouses in the mother, along with the flowers, the gifts, and the ritual congratulations of friends.

“Birth as an American Rite of Passage: Second Edition, With a New Preface” by Robbie E. Davis-Floyd
from Birth as an American Rite of Passage: Second Edition, With a New Preface
by Robbie E. Davis-Floyd
University of California Press, 2004

cluster of bright echoes or the bowel appearing dilated and echogenic.

“High Risk Pregnancy E-Book: Management Options Expert Consult” by David K. James, Philip J. Steer, Carl P. Weiner, Bernard Gonik
from High Risk Pregnancy E-Book: Management Options Expert Consult
by David K. James, Philip J. Steer, et. al.
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2010

Figure 4.1 Mare feto-placental assessment.

“Equine Reproduction” by Angus O. McKinnon, Edward L. Squires, Wendy E. Vaala, Dickson D. Varner
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by Angus O. McKinnon, Edward L. Squires, et. al.
Wiley, 2011

The ‘Mickey Mouse’ sign and the diagnosis of anencephaly in early pregnancy.

“Clinical Ultrasound, 2-Volume Set E-Book: Expert Consult: Online and Print” by Paul L Allan, Grant M. Baxter, Michael J. Weston
from Clinical Ultrasound, 2-Volume Set E-Book: Expert Consult: Online and Print
by Paul L Allan, Grant M. Baxter, Michael J. Weston
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week 12.15 In most normal pregnancies, a yolk sac will be visualized when the gestational sac is greater than 8 mm in diameter.16 The “fetal pole,” or embryo, is seen as a small discoid mass adjacent to the yolk sac shortly after the fifth week of gestation.

“Point of Care Ultrasound E-book” by Nilam J Soni, Robert Arntfield, Pierre Kory
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by Nilam J Soni, Robert Arntfield, Pierre Kory
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2019

The baby will be a strange, bluish color and may have a gummy white covering on his skin.

“Village Medical Manual: A Layman's Guide to Health Care in Developing Countries” by Mary Vanderkooi
from Village Medical Manual: A Layman’s Guide to Health Care in Developing Countries
by Mary Vanderkooi
William Carey Library, 2000

Your baby’s first poop.

“Expecting 411 (4th edition): The Insider's Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth” by Ari Brown, Michele Hakakha
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by Ari Brown, Michele Hakakha
Windsor Peak Press, 2017

At this stage, the baby is unrecognizable from the one you met in the delivery room—they will be pink, vigorous, and feeding well.

“Oxford American Handbook of Clinical Examination and Practical Skills” by Elizabeth Burns, Kenneth Korn, James Whyte
from Oxford American Handbook of Clinical Examination and Practical Skills
by Elizabeth Burns, Kenneth Korn, James Whyte
Oxford University Press, USA, 2011

Your baby heard your heartbeat, your voice, your partner’s voice, and other internal and external noises while inside you.

“Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn: The Complete Guide” by Janet Walley, Penny Simkin, Ann Keppler, Janelle Durham, April Bolding
from Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn: The Complete Guide
by Janet Walley, Penny Simkin, et. al.
Meadowbrook, 2016

Pregnancy was making rainbows all over the damn place.

“Nowhere Near Normal: A Memoir of OCD” by Traci Foust
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by Traci Foust
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  • Plz can anyone help me i just diagnosed with molar pragnancy because i have started spoting so now i want to travel to another country for dnc can i travel in 2 days

  • Thank you for posting this. I have struggled with infertility for over 2 years. We finally got pregnant with the help of a fertility doctor and had a mmc at 7 weeks (found out at 9 weeks). We got pregnant quickly after that and had a complete molar. My doctor only made us wait 3 months. I am now 6 weeks pregnant and have the same brown discharge that I had with my molar and I am worried it either came back or I have new molar…The waiting game for ultrasounds is horrible. And you are right, it is just bad, bad luck. I hope mine has a happy outcome like yours.

  • Congratulations on your pregnancy and its wonderful that you recovered from the molar pregnancy. Did you eat a special diet to reduce your hcg?

  • You explained your story so well. I’m sorry you had to go through your first pregnancy that way but you got your miracle in the end.

  • my daughter Yarizel passed away on Jan 08 2019 she was born early on Nov.30.18 at 23weeks 6days My water broke @ 21 weeks from pprom she only lived 39Days…& now I’m pregnant again I’m happy But so scared but I’m hoping & praying everything will be ok for my Rainbow baby ��

  • I found out that i had a cmp last week at 9 weeks and i have my d&c tommorow. It’s my first pregnancy and it’s honestly really scary hearing about how i might have to possibly do chemo. I hope everything goes well and don’t need to do the treatment ☹️��

  • Thank you so much for the video it was very helpful. I have question for you, did your doctor suggest you to take any pills for this pregnancy since you had a miscarriage in August? And do you recommend taking any pills to avoid miscarriage? (I had only one miscarriage 2 months ago and I’m now 4 weeks pregnant).

  • Hi, Im from Malaysia, ive also had a molar pregnancy(complete molar) june ago. I was ao despressed, so sad. No one can talk to. They thought that it was just a normal miscarriage. Molar pregnancy is way more terrible than a normal miscarriage. I cried a lot, i dont know what to do. And then i found this Molar Pregnancy Group at facebook. I told them m experience and i felt so sooo relief. Bcs i thought i was the only one who have it, but then they share their experience too. But after a month of blood work, mine drop less than 2. Which is good, the doctor told me that it was a big success bcs you dont have to go to the chemo therapy. Yet still, i was sooo scared. I’d do my everymonth check up for blood work for almost 6 month now. Finally the doctor said that i can conceive on january next year. Deep in my heart, i was so scared if that can be happen again. BUT THEN, i heard you said that have faith. Your video really really make me feel sooo relief. Bcs most of the patients had partial molar pregnancy. Meanwhile, i had a complete molar. Im not so sure the differences between these two, but what i know is google said that complete molar is more dangerous partial molar is. I was cried again, and i found this video, and i believe that it was just a badluck. I love your video, it gives me hope❤️ thankyouuu. Pray for me to have a mirable baby like you too ������

  • Thanks for making this video. I had a d&c 2 weeks ago and found out recently that it was a partial molar pregnancy. I’m pretty devastated but this gives me hope��

  • i also had molar pregnancy..but really this video gives me some positive energy… but still I feel some pain about about what’s going to happen..I have undergone d&c treatment… now I want to know what to do next.. what type of treatment should I need to continue…please reply me

  • Thanks for sharing your story!! I am having a D&C tomorrow for a molar pregnancy. I am also a boy mom & my son was probably the most devastated to learn that we were not having a babyit is so helpful to hear your storyhope you had a healthy delivery of your sweet girl! <3

  • So, I just watched this video for a second time bc I find it comforting going through this myself, and goodness we have a ton in common. I’m also 28, hairdresser, and a boy mom. Thanks for sharing. Trying to focus on my blessings and a somewhat hopeful future.

  • Anyone looking for resources:

    There is a Facebook group called “My Molar Pregnancy Support Group” full of ladies that have gone through this.

    There is also one called “After My Molar Pregnancy Support Group” for women that are TTC and continuing to grow their families after a molar pregnancy.

  • I lost one of my babies during a twin pregnancy at around 11 weeks. The other baby girl was luckily born healthy but the feeling of loss stayed. Then we got pregnant again and….they were twins…again!! This time I got 2 healthy girls, so I actually have 2 rainbow babies����. Altogether we have 4 girls now but I will never forget our 7th member of the family.

  • Im a little behind you I am now 6 1/2 weeks with my first pregnancy thanks for sharing it really helps specially for is first-timers… i started with nausea at the end of week 5 and it has been horrible can’t eat anything i just feel sick all day

  • Thank you for this video. I too had a molar pregnancy this past September. It was a tough road these past 6 months. I was with a midwife and I didn’t have an US until close to 13 weeks. I was referred to an OB whose been amazing. I ended up having a d&c 2 days later. Then I had to get my blood tested every week until I hit negative, which was at the beginning of November. Last Wednesday I had my 6 month follow up appointment with my OB. I went in thinking I was going to get bad news, like we still have to wait a few more months to start trying. Well he told us that my levels have been negative for awhile so we could start trying again. The last thing he told us is that he hopes to see me soon. I was so thrilled and excited. I’m hoping and praying that this is the month we conceive our rainbow baby. If not then hopefully sooner. �� Through this journey I’ve learned so much. To not be bitter, to be patience, and to have joy in the midst of sorrow.

  • Thanks for sharing, I am still coping with my loss after a molar pregnancy and very scared about the follow up monitoring and results, hoping it all goes well. I am going for my third blood test tomorrow. Your story is very reassuring and helpful, best wishes for you and your family, God bless you.

  • Thank you for doing this video. My doctor believes I have a complete molar and my d&c is scheduled for Monday. I have been literally freaking out on & off worried sick. I have been googleing and doing lots of research. I’m older then you, 39 so I already feel that further complicates things for me. Luckily I do have a perfect son already from my first pregnancy and realize now how lucky I am. I know exactly how you feel. It does give me hope that things can correct themselves and get better, that this isn’t the end but at the same time I just feel so very unlucky and sad like why me. I have never heard of these types of miscarriages in all my life. I just don’t understand how conceiving a baby can possibly lead to something so harmful to my body. I’m actually very anxious to get this d&c now. I’m just starting to feel more nauseous. My levels were up to 72,0000 on Thursday they were 67,000 at my first scan on Tuesday. So they are going up only a little I guess. I’m just hoping things turn out good like your situation. I’m so happy for you!! ����

  • Thank you for posting this. I just found out yesterday during my ultrasound that I have a molar pregnancy. There are hardly any videos on it so I appreciate you posting this. My doctor also told me not to google, and I didn’t listen to her so I’ve been panicking all night. I have my D&C next week. How was your D&C experience? I’m afraid of being put to sleep.

  • Im 29… also have a tilted uterus and had a cmp and d&c at 10 wks (6 wks ago). I get my next round of blood results this week and hoping for a decrease if not a miraculous 0. Thank you for sharing your story. It has definitely been a lonesome experience; no one I know personally had ever heard of a molar pregnancy or knows anyone that has gone thru it. I found your video encouraging as I feel like there is a mountain to climb ahead of me.

  • Thank you for sharing your story. I just lost my right tube last friday. I hope will be able to concieve soon with a viable pregnancy.

  • I love this! Subscribed for sure!:) I just found out that I’m pregnant with my 4th baby (technically 5) and it also happens to be our rainbow baby. I’ve had three full term pregnancies before and never miscarried before so i DEFINITELY agree that it is so different being pregnant after experiencing that. I am so excited for you, I can already get that vibe that you’re gonna be an amazing mom:) WOOHOO!!:) I am vlogging my journey as well and IM SO NERVOUS!!!! hahaha

  • Thank you sooo much for your story. I had surgery last week for my ectopic pregnancy. I went to the doctor on Wednesday morning for my first ultrasound by 1 pm I had to see the doctor by 9pm same day I was in the ER and by 2 am in the OR for surgery to remove ectopic pregnancy and lost of my right Fallopian tube.The day just went so fast. Me and my husband definitely want children. Your story give me so much hope! Thank you

  • This video made me feel so much better. I have had a few miscarriages and I am 4w5d today just trying to make it without falling apart. I have yet to make it 7 weeks but I am claiming my blessing this time around! God Bless you!

  • Isn’t it crazy how many things you can blame on yourself when you’re pregnant?! At any other time you would know that getting sick was just bad luck, but when you’re pregnant you go on a massive guilt trip

  • I never knew that my youngest is a Rainbow Baby.. You see, I lost my supposed to be second baby way back 2015.. And exactly a year after that I got pregnant to my youngest.. And she was born the day of the due of the baby that I lost.. Now, she’s 3 years old and she’s one sweet little girl..

  • I just got my positive! Due 10/3 been trying for 20 months. Never expected test would be positive. Only thing I have is sore boobs, some cramping, and back pain, just like normal Pms stuff.

  • Wow almost had the same exact thing happened to me. Last week I got really sick, cold chills, nauseous, no appetite, cramps that was very similar to when I gave birth 2yrs ago. I thought it was the stomach flu and wanted to take day quill but I knew there was a slight chance I was pregnant so I waited a couple days which I was 2 days late from my period. Took 2 pregnancy test and boom both came out positive. So on top of being sick and finding out I was pregnant, my 2yr old got sick, but luckily my husband wasn’t sick so he was a big help too.

  • I watched your video about on “how to get pregnant” and immediately bought the pregmate ovulation test strips because I had been trying for 6 months and COULD not figure out when I was ovulating( turns out I was ovulating later then the apps told me I was)
    … so I watched your video and did exactly what you said testing every single day at 10&2……. took my pregnancy test (or 2) and got a POSITIVE! I am 5 weeks and 4 days and cannot thank you enough for your informative videos!!!!!

  • thank you for this video i had an ectopic pregnancy in March 2015. i had two shots of methotrexate but my tube still ruptured i had emergency surgery. they of course had to take one tube. do you have any advice about getting pregnant after ectopic? me and my SO finally decided to try again.

  • This video definitely made me cry. Love the authentically. This is my first pregnancy and i’m excite but scared to be to happy and get my heart crushed. I am going to take your advice on the positive affirmations. Thank you, blessings and baby dust your way!!

  • Here we go again! I just finished your last week by week saga. My daughter was born 12/30 via c section, she was frank breech as well. Congratulations on your second baby!

  • Hi this video popped up at the time I’m worrying… I am currently 7 weeks pregnant, I did an ultrasound last week and the doctor saw the gestational sac only, he said it could be embryonic pregnancy… I dont believe that as I said it might still be too early to detect. I have to repeat in 2 weeks but it’s really stressing me out as I’m worried

    Have u done any ultrasounds so early? I cant watch the video atm as I do not have data�� please respond anyone. Much love

  • I’ve been watching your updates with your first �� I’m currently pregnant with my second girl 29 weeks! Congrats to you! I’m excited for the new updates!

  • I’m so happy to follow your journey! I followed your 1st pregnancy when I was pregnant with my little girl… I am so glad that I watched your C-section delivery multiple times because I ended up with an emergency C. Seeing how wonderful your c-section was made me feel so much better about going to the OR. I had norovirus when I was 6 weeks with her and boy… was it miserable! All the love to you and your family… also… your due date is my 31st birthday!

  • I am so so happy for you and your family! I just had my first baby in November and your weekly videos got me through each week. I am praying for an easy and healthy pregnancy for you ❤️

  • Thank you for making this video, I’m recovering from surgery two days ago after an ectopic pregnancy, but sadly I did loose one of my tubes. Hearing you say that you never got to feel happy at the fact you were pregnant because as soon as you found out there was the worry something was wrong, is exactly how myself and my husband feel. You feel robbed of something so many other people get some much joy from. The feelings you had are exactly where I am now, and it’s such a comfort knowing that others feel the same. It’s a terribly hard experience to go through. I hope that we will have a happy ending with a rainbow baby in the future too.

  • So happy for u.. �� my wife had 2 MC which were result of blighted ovum.. now shes pregnant and we just went for our first appt where we saw e heart flicker.. it just warms our hearts when we saw w heartbeat as its e first time we saw any.. it’s our first viable pregnancy.

  • Thank you so much for sharing. For some reason this pregnancy which is my 4th child, and I had a miscarriage before, but it was different from yours. But either way I feel your pain. But I have been so worried about this one, and had what I felt was scary/you dont ask questions. But you showing and giving that information is the most bravest and honorable thing you could of ever done for women. Thank you so much for sharing, and truly appreciate your sharing. Looking forward for what is to come in my first appointments. (Deep down inside still kinda scared.)

  • Hello how’s the pregnancy �� I.m currently 6/7 weeks pregnant and I’m soooo scared as iv lost 2 in the past. Watching your videos really seem to help me I don’t know why but.. They do �� I have not been the hospital because of the virus outbreak and I have no idea what to do next xx

  • I’m 7.6 weeks and we got to see the heart beat on Monday. I’m so excited �� it was the cutest little heart beat I’ve ever seen. I can’t wait to hear it.

  • Ugh, I’m 7 weeks today and have that constant state of nausea allllllll day long but no throwing up. I also have insomnia, tossing and turning all night.

  • Haven’t seen your YouTube in three years and I was pregnant around that time and again I am pregnant baby #3 and you are a couple weeks ahead of me again:)

  • Thank you for making this video, I just lost twins because of a partial molar pregnancy. My D&C was a month ago, I was 11.5 weeks at the time of the surgery but we had known since 8 weeks that something wasn’t right because the twins were very small. However, we didn’t know it was molar unruly after surgery because they sent the placenta tissue in for testing and I just got the results that it was molar last week. It so so helps to hear other people’s stories. This was my first pregnancy and I know lots of women who have had miscarriages but I don’t know anyone else that has miscarried twins or had a molar pregnancy or had a twin molar pregnancy, so it can be extremely lonely. Thank you again for sharing your story.

  • Just want to thank you for mentioning and bring even a little awareness to HG, were almost Due date twins (June 30th here) and dealing with HG has been a huge struggle, but seeing it become more known about is awesome:)

  • The worst part is that I get hungry, but nothing sounds appetizing. Then the little bit that I eat, makes me nauseous. I mean.. I feel you about feeling sick. Let’s hope it doesn’t last x)

  • So wierd.. In Norway you don’t “get” a real follow up before week 12. I mean.. You can ask for an appointment, but the doctors say it’s really no point before week 12 �� and the ultrasound appointment you get in week 18. You can order one in private clinics but man.. That is expensive �� (every appointment is free when you are pregnant, exept if you go to a private clinic ��)

    And you normally just get one ultrasound (week 18).
    Next ultrasound is 1 week after your duedate (if you go over it of course)

    I gave birth to a boy with a heart condition (nobody knew about this before he was born), so in my next pregnancy i will get more follow ups ��)
    My 8month babyboy is stable now tho ❤️

  • I’m 24 weeks with my first, we’re having a girl �� from 6 and a half weeks to about 13 weeks I had such bad sickness! It was awful. Now that I’m well into my second trimester I’m able to pretty much eat all the foods I went off at the start of my pregnancy but I do sometimes get the odd day where I will still feel very sick and sometimes I am sick in the morning but no where near as bad at the start! 16 weeks for me to go now it’s crazy how quickly it goes by, so exciting! Congratulations on your second baby mama! Praying for a healthy baby for you both ��

  • Do you feel comfortable showing what your c-section scar looks like now? �� I had my son like 3 weeks after Cole and mine is still super red and raised so I think that would be an interesting discussion for c-section mamas!

  • My sister just had an ectopic pregnancy. She had emergency surgery on July 31st 2018. Her left fallopian tube almost ruptured. She was 8 weeks pregnant. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • Ahhhh, congratulations!!!! Wow, time just FLEW by! I remember seeing your first pregnancy video and it feels like that just happened!

  • I loved watching your first pregnancy videos as well as these ones now. I am going through my first pregnancy now I am 26 weeks with a healthy baby girl❤ hang in there I know morning sickness sucks I had it through out my whole first trimester!

  • I just got a bfp a couple hours ago for baby #4. I am excited but a little stressed. I haven’t told my husband yet. Right after I took it I heard him say he may be layed off the last 2 week of August and his job is struggling right now. I haven’t even started my first day of work yet. I want to tell him but at the same time I don’t want to stress him out right now so I might keep it to myself for a little bit.

  • I’m. Currently going through an ectopic pregnancy! Iv had methotrexate injections twice now and my pregnancy is slowly dissolving! Glad Iv come across your video xx

  • If i am pregnant I’ll be 4 weeks. IM SO TIRED. Like next level exhaustion. I was supposed to get my period today and didn’t.. I’m going to give it a few days i guess!

  • Thankyou for sharing your experience. I’m so happy things turned out well for you. I’m 35 and was pregnant in August. A biopsy from a d&c 2 months back confirmed it was molar. It was atypical and appeared as an anembryonic pregnancy. My hcg dropped to 217 ( the highest was 127,000). It has been 3 weeks now and the are now up to 226. My first son was an emergency c section also. He was born with a birth defect that has been keeping all sorts of doctors on their toes for the last 6 years. We were blessed with a brother for him who is almost 2 and healthy. The thought of caring for both children while on chemo (and praying its effective) is disheartening. I know what you mean saying you feel like there is something wrong with you for these heartbreaking things to be keep happening to you. I pray things will be great for you from here on.

  • Wow, so long since I saw one of your videos! That last bump is a now a lovely boy! Congratulations on your latest babe in the making!! Hoping that you can do the suck in as last time, its not only cool to see how the baby is laying but I think its fun too! kind regards, nette

  • Congratulations mama ���� So happy for you. I lost my twin daughters at 21 weeks last year and I’m currently 15 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby and she’sa girl ❤️❤️������

  • I’m currently pregnant with my rainbow baby. I lost my son 5 days after he was born. He had multiple organ failure and they don’t know why. I’m petrified, how do we get through this? I want to be happy like I was the first time. But I feel like I’m holding my breath. I want to embrace this pregnancy like the last time but I am so afraid…..

  • Thank you for this!!! I was 7 wks 6dys pregnant at this point and I am currently dealing with an ectopic pregnancy. I was sent from my OBGYN to the hospital I just went in for a check up thinking I had a UTI or a yeast infection. They decided while at my OBGYN to do an ultrasound to see if they could check how everything is going and hopefully hear a heartbeat. But it all started This morning I woke up in extreme pain in my lower abdomen and went to pee and there was blood. So at the ER they gave me the methotrexate shots in my hips and now I have to wait and get blood work done for the next 2 weeks. I am sooo confused and upset at the same time. They sent me home with pain meds and lorazepam because we have been trying for a while and were sooo excited! But the baby wasn’t in the tube they are positive that it attached on the outside of my uterus instead of inside.

  • I’m 11 weeks with a loss at 19 weeks in September. Waiting for our 12 week scan in a week to see how he is developing (I don’t know if it’s a boy but I’d rather say he/she rather than it). I had a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks first pregnancy, full term happy healthy baby boy who is now 21 months, then a baby with chromosomal abnormalities at 19 weeks in September. I’ve had a lot of bleeding and pain this time around but he seems to have a good strong heart beat. Wishing you all the luck and baby dust in the world. 2019 is our year xx

  • This is amazing, congratulations!! ������ I loved your bumpdates with your first ��❤️ You clearly haven’t had a problem getting pregnant which is such a beautiful blessing but have you read up at all on Luteal Phase Defect? Your LP is very short if your period is expected at 9dpo.. maybe something to look into if it ever poses an issue for future TTC cycles ❤️❤️❤️

  • Can’t wait to hear about your symptoms.
    I had an ectopic about 2 yrs ago, and last year I went through a miscarriage.
    I’m now 11wks:)

    Really happy for you, and your family.

  • Congratulations! Your videos with you first pregnancy are my favourite to watch every week I’m at 23 weeks now. Super excited for you, hope your kicking the 1st trimester’s butt! ♥️

  • Pregnancy after loss is so hard. I was so anxious during the first trimester with my rainbow baby. I had a subchorionic hematoma and I thought I was miscarrying again. But thankfully, I am currently 34 weeks with a healthy baby girl and everything progressed fine (and the hematoma resolved). Wishing you a wonderful pregnancy and I look forward to your future videos!

  • So happy for you all such a beautiful family ������ I can’t wait to plan my next pregnancy after we get married this fall! You give me baby fever lol! Blessings to you and your family ❤️

  • Congratulations!!! ������ I followed your weekly updates with my first baby. He is 7 months old now and hoping to try for our second when he is around a year. Were you breastfeeding while TTC? I hear it’s difficult to get pregnant while breastfeeding and I would like to nurse my son until 12-15 months old.

  • I’m almost 20 weeks with my rainbow baby boy and it’s extremely hard to get attached to this baby cause of the miscarriage but try to enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can�� It feels like this pregnancy is flying by lol

    Edit:
    Try out the Ovia Pregnancy app. It’s my favorite.

  • Thanks so much for sharing! I am currently going through this. I found out I was pregnant with our first at the beginning of the month and less than 2 weeks later was in the ER having the shot to dissolve the pregnancy. Praying that when we try again the next pregnancy results in our rainbow baby.

  • 15 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby ���� ��❤️ miscarriage in June 2017 at 7 weeks..I still cannot believe I’m pregnant at age 37 I’m still in shock,

  • Congrats! Im 35 weeks with my first and have been watching your 1st pregnancy updates weekly since about 10 weeks:)) I hope you have a healthy happy pregnancy!

  • Love these updates! Whenever I get pregnant, I can’t stand the way my husband smells during the first trimester! I can’t even detect what it is just his natural body scent his pheromones. Soooo weird! My body is like “whoa, cool it bud, mission accomplished, back off, go away” ��

  • So does that mean I ain’t had an operation but had a PUL pregnancy of unknown location and at 5 weeks wasnt seen but found the gestational sac I lost my 5th baby does this mean I can have a normal pregnancy

  • Hey Erica! Just wanted to come on here and say thanks for the baby dust! It worked!!! Found out yesterday we are pregnant!!! My due date is April 18th!! So so glad you did week to week so I can follow it!!

  • I watched your video on how to get pregnant idk what it was called exactly lol but I got a positive test a few days ago after a miscarriage a year ago!

  • That was me throughout my whole pregnancy, about the craving the donut then wanting nothing to do with it! I would by things I was craving and when I got home the thought of eating them made me nauseous! Good vibes going your way! ����

  • I’m currently 6 weeks and 2 days. My due date is estimated to the end of October 2019! I’ve been through a similar situation where I miscarried at 5 months back in 2016.

    I’m going to watch your videos and follow your journey!!!!

  • You gave me hope! We tried for 2 years and after I saw you’re video I went and bought pre seed and I got pregnant using pre seed, I’m currently 4 weeks and I just found out yesterday! I’m glad to be following you’re videos throughout my first pregnancy!

  • We are one week and a few days apart I’m 13 weeks and 3 days with mine and my husbands rainbow baby. I had been trying since I was 19 to have a baby 3 miscarriage along the way the most recent was in oct and I lost it very early and then in December we found out again we was pregnant and so far we have a healthy baby growing and tomorrow Friday March 1st we will find out what the gender is so excited for you and your rainbow baby!!

  • We could be cycle buddies if i didnt have miscarried my baby last jan 12�� having symptoms already and hoping could have a BFP again..

  • I’ll be 6 weeks tomorrow with our rainbow baby… I miscarried @ 6w2d back in end of aug/early sept… Due date this time is Sept 23! Prayers for a healthy happy pregnancy, and congratulations!!!��❤

  • 6 weeks and 1 day (according to my app) ❤️ my first appointment is tomorrow can’t wait to see my little bean ��hopefully I get an early ultrasound ( also have history of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy) nervous and excited at the same time!

  • Godbless im 25 weeks today due on mother day after my 4 yr son try ttc for 2yr and surprise pregnancy now with baby boi number 2 gods amazing i lost 4 sets of twins prior to both my babys now last one was a boi and girl at 4 month so a baby is blessing

  • Hi! I’m a new subscriber.. I just found your channel 2 weeks ago.
    My husband and I were diagnosed with fertility issues on both sides a few years back. They told us our chances of conceiving natural were less than 1% and if we wanted a baby we would have to undergo fertility treatments. So long story short, 5 years later on 12/26/18, I unexpectedly found out I was pregnant (naturally!) and I’m due Aug 27th too!!!
    Congrats on your pregnancy! I can’t wait to see more videos!

  • I’m SOOO happy for you, praise God! I’ve been following you and praying for you. I just got married in July and DH and I started trying ASAP because I’m 38 ��. I got preg 3rd cycle but had a devastating mmc with d&c in Oct, similar to yours. So grateful we fell preg again 2nd cycle after mc (due Oct 3)!!! ❤���� I kept praying for you, thinking that if God did it for you He could bless me too! Pray for me, I’m so worried!

  • Thank you for sharing this. I’m currently going through this myself. i found out when i was 11wks pregnant and a day after finding out i ended in the emergency room. it’s very confusing and overwhelming to say the least. your video gave me hope that i will be able to have a normal pregnancy.

  • Experiencing an ectopic pregnancy is one of the most devastating events in a woman’s life because even if the pregnancy was not planned or confirmed, the shock of what has happened can leave a lasting emotional impact. Statistics suggest that as many as one in 90 women experience an ectopic pregnancy and some may not even know, as the egg can die and be reabsorbed by the body before the pregnancy is confirmed. However, for women whose ectopic pregnancy is detected, even though the egg will be at a very early stage of development, the sense of loss can be extremely traumatic. Sadly, however, not all pregnancies are successful and in the case of an ectopic pregnancy the earlier a diagnosis is made, the better the outcome for the mother as the egg will not be viable. The symptoms of ectopic pregnancy include pain which may be concentrated on one side of the abdomen and may be mild or severe; as well as vaginal bleeding, which also may be severe. I had a friend who had experienced the same. It was so painful to her. But with some medication at Bio tex it really helped in relieving her pain.

  • Make sure you eat lots of greens baby needs folic acid and occasionally look into eating salmon for omega 3’s. Lots of dried fruit and nuts for snacking is good. Also guacamole dip and pretzels it’s a good way to change up chips and dip. And if you crave pizza opt for a spinach and cheese pizza. (These helped tips helped my cravings alot). But I’m not gonna lie Tamales. Tostadas. Carnitas. Pupusas. And Mole were real bad cravings of mine.

  • Just found your channel! I am now 5w 3d pregnant after four miscarriages �� following your journey ❤️ I am on progesterone because I have low progesterone so hoping and praying all goes well with this pregnancy. I’m due September 25 ��

  • oh my goodness! I have been thinking of doing a video on my channel about my ectopic pregnancy and rainbow baby…..so I typed it in to see what else was about and found you and you’re video. my heart skipped a beat at the end when you said ‘it brought us our rainbow baby, James’ my rainbow baby after ectopic is James:) made me smile. congratulations, so happy for you xx

  • New subby! I’m currently 35 weeks with our rainbow baby boy. I understand totally what you mean by finding out your pregnant after a loss. It is different for sure. Good luck to you! Prayers for happy pregnancy!

  • I’m in the 4th trimester right now with my rainbow baby! But I definitely want to stay tuned because I cannot wait to see that precious baby in August or September (if you go over)!! When I was pregnant with Bruce, I felt like it was really hard to enjoy my pregnancy. I was constantly looking for signs of miscarriage and every time I went in to the doctor id hold my breath until his heart beat was picked up on the doppler. But I had an amazing doctor, he told me that I could come in anytime just to hear the heart beat because of what he called “miscarriage PTSD”. But let me tell you girl, I did not stop worrying that something bad was going to happen. Once I hit viability week (24 weeks), I thought I would relax, but no.. And it doesn’t stop after they are born either. The first few weeks we were home from the hospital, I was up EVERY hour just staring at him watching him breath.

  • #newsubbie!!!!!! Praying for our miracle as well. This TTC journey is no joke but so worth the wait God is a creator so life will form in our wombs in His perfect timing! Sis I have always used my phone as well for all videos. I will be praying for you with this beautiful rainbow baby Gods miracles are true and His promises are yes and amen ��

  • Thank you so much for this video. I found out yesterday that my current (3rd) pregnancy is a molar pregnancy. I use a midwife so I had no early scans and I had an extremely normal first trimester (sick, tired). I went in yesterday a day shy of 13 weeks and found no heartbeat, so my husband and I went in to the emergency room to get a better idea of what was going on. After another so sad ultrasound, blood work, and waiting. It’s a molar pregnancy. The grief is crippling. I’m going in for a d and c at the end of this week and I’m terribly nervous for it to be over with. My hormones are perfect, ovaries, and uterus all are great. Doctor just told me the same thing you were told: it’s just bad luck. (I should also mention I too, have had an early miscarriage right before this one) found out at 3 weeks pregnant and got my period at the expected date. So much bad luck. I have 2 boys (ages 4 and 2) and had no complications or troubles with their pregnancies. When do things start feeling better?

  • I’ve been a rainbow baby for 19 years and I just found out. My mom lost her daughter 4 days after her birth:( we visit her every year for her birthday and for The Day of The Dead; I wish I had my big sister with us. I know i will get to see her one day.

  • Please don’t feel insecure about your stomach, it is a lot flatter than most and I would kill for a stomach like that��❤ no seriously though your stomach looks great you shouldn’t feel insecure at all, mine has a lot more pudge����

  • I’m so happy for you both ❤️ We are expecting our rainbow baby after our Miscarriage at 12 weeks November. Our rainbow baby is due Sept 23rd xx

  • I’m due March 22nd so 32 and 1 day pregnant. Ready to give birth at this point! Your tummy looks fine!..the first trimester morning sickness is the worse. This time around I felt like i was knocking on deaths door. But thankfully once I hit 14 weeks it was all gone. Continued prayers! So excited for you and your husband! Is your husband off nightshift yet? I have 1 more night and my husband will be back to days. (Airforce wife)

  • I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby as well! I’m due Aug. 27th too �� this journey is defiantly more nerve racking than I thought it would be but I’m feeling very confident that everything is going to go as it should. Good luck and congrats on your pregnancy!

  • I just watched your video of your first pregnancy 5 week vlog and you craved tacos both pregnancies lol that’s adorable!! I’m so excited for you!

  • I needed to hear those positive affirmations ❤️ I’m 4w2d with my first pregnancy after a miscarriage at 9weeks and every day I’m constantly battling with myself between “try to stay positive, this pregnancy deserves your excitement and joy too” and “don’t get too attached, it’ll hurt worse if something goes wrong”. Watching this helped me realize I should take joy in these days ❤️ so thank you!

  • Omg this is definitely giving me baby fever! I felt like I was so sick for the first 3 months so I’m glad you aren’t experiencing too much of that. ☺️

  • Im pregnant after stillborn and miscarriage.. there is Hope! Congratulations to you again so happy for you guys! Im currently 23 + 2 weeks with rainbow baby girl ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • I m going thru my second miscarriage no heartbeat at 9w, first miscarriage was exactly same time last year same day which ended up being blighted ovum. Now I’m scared if I will ever carry a healthy full term baby. First one was ivf pregnancy, latest one was IUI super ovulation

  • I am so sorry Ysis for your loss. Ectopic pregnancy loss can be as painful as any other form of loss. You can start seeing your doctor to learn ways of preventing recurrent ectopic pregnancy. Since in most times they tend to come up more often to women who have experienced ectopic pregnancy before. Personally Bio tex clinic has helped me a lot in my journey of recovery. There are unique challenges that come with pregnancy loss. Most hospitals and maternity care facilities have an established support system for parents-to-be in coping with such. These support systems can include specially trained registered nurses, psychologists, social workers and religious supporters. All of whom are qualified to provide assistance to the parents and their families during the acute phase of the loss. When you’re grieving. It’s more important than ever to take care of yourself. The stress of a major loss can quickly deplete your energy and emotional reserves. Looking after your physical and emotional needs will help you get through this difficult time.

  • Good to know I thought rainbow baby’s were babies that their parent really wish their baby was in the LGBT spectrum or something ��

    But it all makes sence now

  • I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby, lost my last little one, Jamie, on new years at midnight of 2020 and found out about 3 weeks ago I’m pregnant again, praying this one goes better and it’s already going SO much better.

  • I had a miscarriage with our first baby 16weeks 5 months ago. My due date was next Friday��.

    I’m 5weeks with our rainbow. I hope to God we get to hold our rainbow baby❤️

  • Not sure why anyone would thumbs down this. I went through one in around 2011, red didnt have a clue where the baby was, very scary. Can relate

  • Congratulations on your rainbow baby���� I lost my son back in September 2017, he was sick with Potter’s syndrome gave birth to him at 38 weeks. My son lived for 2 hours and 20 mins��
    I’m currently pregnant with my Rainbow baby I’m almost at 17 weeks, I’m due September 29th ❤���������� we are having a girl.����

  • I’m pregnant after miscarriage as well! I’m 6weeks, 2 days. Our symptoms are similar. This nausea is kicking my butt also �� My energy levels are super low & I just feel like crap. My due date is September 19th.

  • Thank you so much…. This is happening to me right now… and i have to undergo laproscopy today or tommorow…. it’s really encouraging… n i believe i’m goin to have a baby again in months to come…

  • I have 2 rainbow babies one is now 6 and my other is 7 months 2 miscarriages one before my 6-year-old and one before my 7-month-old I have three living kids

  • I finally having my Rainbow baby! I’m 12 wks as of Monday. After losing 2, 1 otopic and 1 baby heart beat stopped @ 9wks. It’s hard of me not to be worried about this pregnancy. I bought a cobbler so everytime I worry I pull it out to hear baby’s heart beat. I listen for like 10 mins everytime count heart beats them I’m like ok, I can calm down n relax

  • How far along was everyone when they started having pain? Ive been watching trying to figure it out amd no1 shares as to when so im just trying to get some info.
    Thabks

  • me and my boyfriend had a break and I was raped….from my ex and my baby daddy…. but me and my boyfriend got back together and I found out I was pregnant and we found out it was a boy and we had lost it… we are talking about trying again but I have had 3 miscarriages…. and my 3 year old had a twin but I lost her bother…. so am scared of loading another…. sad thing is am only 17 almost 18

  • Wow wow im crying. Im around 5 weeks pregnant and this is my rainbow. I lost my son at 18 weeks in january. Ive been having so much anxiety and so fearful. It helped alot to hear those words. I really want to enjoy this pregnancy.

  • I told my friend that my mom had a miscarriage before me. They told me I was a rainbow baby and I was confused asf. That’s why I’m here. ����

  • I had a miscarriage at 19 weeks 04/04/2018 my water broke on 04/01/2018 he stayed in my stomach until the 4 days now I’m pregnant at 36 weeks and 3 days my rainbow baby almost here ❤️❤️

  • Just found your video today, hours after I had my own D and C to evacuate my molar pregnancy. Thank you so much for your transparency, but also your message of hope. I know no one personally who has had this, so hearing you share your story has been a breath of fresh air. Thankful that God has blessed you and restored your joy ❤️ and I’m praying He will do the same for me.

  • I think is going to be a boy, you have a glow in your videos. In the goals video, I thought you were pregnant just by looking at the thumbnail picture. You had that je ne sais quoi glow.

  • Are rainbow babies supposed to be gay or any other orientation apart from being heterosexual? Cause I’m a rainbow child of my parents.

  • Oh Ysis I can’t imagine what it must of been like to go through such a thing. James must be such a blessing after everything you’ve went through. x

  • I’m pregnant after 3 months of my son Vyven was born sleeping at 23 weeks. I’m really blessed but scared. I found out exactly 3 months after his passing that we were pregnant again. I feel really lost because I’m scared to be happy. I love my rainbow baby so much already. I’m about 6 weeks. Praying for the best. Please send me healing vibes really need them.

  • On a doctor visit I heard the doctor say that my mother had gotten pregnant 5 times, only successful 2 times with me and my older brother, that means I’m the fifth one with my brother being the fourth, am I a rainbow baby? I don’t wanna watch the video sorry! ❤️

  • Doctors used to tell my mom she couldn’t have children since she was 17
    When she was in college she had a 6 weeks misscarriage,so she pretty much gave up on my the idea of having children of her own
    2 years later she discovered she was pregnant with me

    When I was little I always told my mom I wanted an older brother, I feel bad now

  • I had my first miscarriage back in Feb. I’m still not over it. When I don’t work or when I’m home alone it hits me very hard… ����

  • I’m so freaking happy and excited for y’all!!! Your story gives me hope that it will happen one day for me and hubby. The Lord is amazing, and His timing is perfect! Praying for you! ❤️

  • I’m due June 20th with my second boy and they will be 16 months apart.
    Congrats!!!!! I was following you with my first pregnancy even though you were ahead of me and I’ll definitely be on your videos with this pregnancy too. Lol
    May god bless the new baby and your family ❤️

  • I am currently pregnant with my Rainbow baby as well. I had a miscarriage Dec 25 2017 at 12 weeks pregnant and in June 2018 had a chemical pregnancy. Now I’m 33 weeks pregnant with a baby boy.. My rainbow after the storm. Many blessings on your pregnancy.

  • I Lost a baby,she was born 7 Months and 2 days,when she was born she was a life for 3 days,and I just been scared to get pregnant again.R.I.P babygirl Roselle Azriyel

  • This just recently happened to me, and no one knew where the pregnancy was located! Cried watching it but it was definitely encouraging! Thanks

  • Thank you for sharing that with us.
    so sorry for your loss, and happy you didn’t lose your tube, Alhamdulillah
    I went through two miscarriages myself, and it’s really painful emotionally more than physically, only time could heal that pain, and hopefully a rainbow baby like your lovely one:)

  • My story was very similar to yours. I had to get an injection to terminate my pregnancy. So back to the drawing board for my husband and I. Thank you for sharing your video it was very informative and helpful.

  • I’m so happy for you Heather! I will be following along with you again, even though I’m not pregnant. I remember going through my last pregnancy with you (had my baby girl 11-17-18) and how it was so nice to connect with someone who was going through the same things ❤️ It also makes me sad because my daughter is our 4th and last baby �� Her pregnant was probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I was so sick and so miserable. I had a constant internal battle with myself, trying to live in the moment to remember my last pregnancy, but being so miserable and wanting it to just be over with! I wouldn’t trade her for the world, and I truly think god put me through all of that to tell me this was my last child and giving me my princess after 3 sweet boys ❤️ Lots of love and HH9M to you momma! ������

  • Your story is so touching. Its such an emotional rollercoaster. I ended up having a double ectopic in 2015. I am literally just sharing my story now. Id love for you to hear my story too. God bless you and I’m so happy for you.
    https://youtu.be/U19TajcIlZM

  • I’m so sorry for your loss. I recently have had an ectopic pregnancy. It was the most horrible pain and scariest thing I have ever been through. My experience unfortunately went on for two months. I knew something wasn’t right but doctors kept telling me I was okay and I was miscarrying. The pain was not normal. How long did it take for you to get your period back?

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story, it gives me hope. I experienced my first ectopic pregnancy 2 weeks ago and was very devastated
    I cried and cried the whole two week just thinking am I ever going to be able to get pregnant again or be a mom especially since I grew up as the only child. I never heard of an ectopic pregnancy. I’m gonna get an fertility specialist as you mentioned and just go from there because it was a very scary experience and really don’t want to go through that again. I’m happy you’ve in a better place now and have you rainbow baby, there’s always hope ☺️

  • This story really gives me hope. I suffered a ruptured ectopic pregnancy and lost my tube not even two months ago, was not told to wait a full cycle before trying to conceive and I am currently 6 weeks pregnant and waiting for my first scan. I am so happy it worked out for you!!

  • Girl I feel exactly like you, I just going out I’m 7weeks 1day today and what you went through in your 7week time I did to. Not morning sickness it’s all day sickness. I hate food right now. I have to force myself to eat but with my son I had no symptoms whatsoever which is odd maybe this ones a girl

  • I am so happy this pregnancy is successful! I wanted to share my positive subchorionic hemorrhage story. My first and only pregnancy (so far) I experienced a subchorionic hemorrhage. The bleeding was on and off through my first trimester. Before I knew what was going on I thought I was having a miscarriage. One day the bleeding got heavy and I ended up in the ER and they finally told me what was going on. But I never had cramping, still scary. I remember each ultrasound I would have the technician check the hemorrhage to see how it was doing. It finally healed on it’s own in the second trimester.

    I truly hope this helps someone. I learned a lot as it was my first pregnancy. So at least I’ll be going into future pregnancy more aware.

  • Do u have bleeding after your surgery? I just had an operation 3 days ago n got discharged day after.. but my bleeding continuing till now, did u experience the same thing?

  • I have gone through ectopic pregnancy in may month. It was in right fallopian tube. As tube got ruptured it is removed. Doctor says there is about 30% chance for again an ectopic pregnancy. I am really worried about it

  • I think it’s very offensive to call this human forming a mass of cells. These doctors are ridiculous. I’m truly sorry for your loss. I know you’ll have another chance to have your children. God bless you!

  • Хоть я из России и не понимаю о чем говорят в видео, но меня так тронуло прошлое видео, до слез!! Это замечательные эмоции. Я так рада за них. ♥️

  • Hi! I had also a complete molar pregnancy last year. I had a D&C after 8 wks due to missed miscarriage. I can relate with what you’ve been through and I feel like nobody understands my condition that time ‘coz it’s rare and it’s hard to find a chat group or forum that could share their experiences like ours. Neither of my mother’s nor father’s side had it. I’m so depressed that time since it is my first pregnancy and yet that rare condition happened to me. I’m already 38 and ttc. My hcg dropped to zero on my 3rd month of blood work and was advised to conceive after 8 months which is Feb this year. Now I have missed period and took PT but a faint test line appeared so I’m not sure if it’s just the so called evaporating line. I don’t know what to feel if I should be excited or just be optimistic but I’m hoping that I could have a normal pregnancy like yours despite of my age. But I feel more confident now and hopeful as your story really inspires me and removes my worries. I agree with you that no matter what you’re going through, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing.

  • I recently had an ectopic pregnancy a month and a half ago. It’s so crazy how all the women who have had ectopic pregnancies have that same pain of pressure in the stomach and anal area. I had laparoscopic surgery to remove my left fallopian tube which ruptured and was causing me to bleed internally and I didn’t know. I was 6, almost 7 weeks pregnant when it all happened. I can write the longest comment explaining everything but the hardest part about ectopic pregnancies is the recovery. Almost 2 months later, I’m still struggling mentally and emotionally about the whole experience and loss of my baby. This is probably the worst thing that has ever happened to me. And I hope to one day be okay mentally and emotionally again.

  • I got also ectopic pregnancy, my symptoms are severe pain in my lower abdomen that i cant stand from my bed, and im so dizzy that i feel im going to faint. I go for checkup nxt morning and my dr.says im 8weeks pregnant i should go for my ultrasound (TVS) to see where is my pregnancy. In 2 weeks i got 3x TVS and they cant determine where is my baby, but they told me, it wasn’t in my ovaries so i think it was ectopic. After another week i got bleed and rush to ER that day, i got my surgery Apr.15, 2019 8pm-10pm. They remove my left tube CS 12stitch maybe 3inches long, 3 days in tge hospital, and now im recovering. My dr.says i can try again 3-6mos for pregnancy, but i feel scared and worry that it could be ectopic again or miscarriage ������ Hope to have our rainbow baby soon. GOD BLESS to all the women out there who had the same situation. Be positive and stay strong girls!!!fighting!������❤

  • I’ve recently have a ectopic pregnancy December 11th!I was driving when I stare having sever pain!I went to the hospital the next day to be told I’m pregnant and sent back home.the next day I woke up with horrible pain screaming home alone cause my husband at work and I had no car.i go back in and to find out my uterus was filed with blood.I lost my left tube��I wasn’t even aware I was going to lose a tube it all happened so fast.I was waiting hours hours for answers in pain!and the lady right beside me was give the news she was pregnant she had the nerves to tell her husband to push her down the stairs cause she didn’t want it����My heart sank!!!Im tankful to be alive today.

  • I went through this and they gave me the shot it was visit after visit and a lot of blood drawn it was exhausting it seem like it was never going to end. This is something so hard to deal with I was angry and really depressed I know I’m not the only one going through this god bless everybody

  • Thank you for this video I had my ectopic pregnancy 2017. Me and husband are still positive to have our own baby after ectopic pregnancy

  • Girl we are on a similar path. My husband and I lost our first pregnancy in September at 9 weeks, and now due with our little girl on July 3rd ❤️��❤️ thank you for sharing and being so open and vulnerable, because that’s what pregnancy is; feeling vulnerable!!! Good luck in this pregnancy and can’t wait to see your little girl!

  • I’m going through an ectopic pregnancy now although I have just had the methotrexate shot instead of surgery. My levels are dropping but it’s one of the hardest things my husband and I have had to go through. You’ve given me hope that I will still go on to have our rainbow baby one day x

  • I finally have my rainbow baby after 3 miscarriages. All my pregnancies I never made it passed the 1st trimester. My rainbow baby, a daughter is 2 years old. Her name is Athena ��❤️

  • THE NAUSEA BRINGS BACK SO MANY MEMORIES. ��

    I threw up 5+ times a DAY when I was pregnant with my son from week 7 until the day I delivered. That is the one thing I do NOT miss about pregnancy. The day after my c-section I was SO excited because I ate and didn’t throw up for the first time in 9 months. ��

  • Parents experience different levels of bonding with a baby. The bond between a pregnant woman and the baby growing inside her is unique.  A woman can begin bonding from the moment she has a positive pregnancy test. Bonding for the father may start as he experiences physical signs of the baby, such as seeing an ultrasound picture or feeling the baby kick. However, especially for men, real bonding may not develop until after the baby is born. This is why men may seem less affected when the loss of the baby occurs early in pregnancy. These differences may cause strain in your relationship as you try to come to terms with the loss. When my husband and I started seeing a therapist at Bio tex, we appreciated the different ideas we had and focused on healing emotionally. Doing it together made things easier too. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting or making the memories insignificant. Healing means refocusing. Know the facts about what happened and potential implications for the future. Seek answers to your questions, look at the medical records, and take notes. Make decisions about what you would like to do with your maternity clothes and baby items. Others might try to make quick choices for you; instead, use others to help you figure out what option is best for you.

  • I have had 2 stillborns due to cord. I had 2 sons first. and then my �� baby is now 11. I’ve had 7 miscarriages. And 5 csections. So all in all I have 3 sons on earth

  • Thank you for sharing….I’m currently going through a similar situation I had surgery 4 days ago but had to have my left tube removed it has been very hard but my husband and I are pushing through it some how

  • this is the same thing that happend to me. Too early to tell where the pregnancy was. Constant doctor visits. blood tests for hgc it went up then went back down. pelvic exam after pelvic exam. I had been bleeding for two to three weeks. then they finally diagnosed it as an ectopic in my fallopian tube. They gave me injections to terminate the pregnancy slowly. So after that I had more doctor visits twice a week. more blood tests. my experience was so long and draw out it was draining. God helped me get throught it though. Thank you Jesus!

  • Thank you for sharing! I’m currently recovering from an ectopic pregnancy last month. For me it was also not in the Fallopian tube, it was in my ovary. The same thing happened to me where they thought it was in my tube, but when they did the surgery, they discovered that it was not. I can’t wait for my rainbow baby too, whenever that may be:)

  • I had the same exact thing happen….a positive test after a seemingly normal period. My hcg levels have remained low and are kind of in limbo without doubling just slowly rising. I’m getting a shot of methotrexate Monday:( scared of it happening again, but thank you for posting, I’m hopeful for a normal pregnancy after we can try again ❤️

  • I have 2 ectopic pregnancy, I’m really depressed. Does anyone decide to do IVF after your ectopic pregnancy? If yes, please share your story with me.

  • This is happening to my husband and I right now. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s like you’re in my head, these are my thoughts exactly. It’s so important we talk about this and connect for support.

  • I had ectopic pregnancy 15 days ago. this time I am very stressed and emotionally broken. I don’t know what to do now. can I be a mother or not..

  • Thank you sooo much for your story. I had surgery last week for my ectopic pregnancy. I went to the doctor on Wednesday morning for my first ultrasound by 1 pm I had to see the doctor by 9pm same day I was in the ER and by 2 am in the OR for surgery to remove ectopic pregnancy and lost of my right Fallopian tube.The day just went so fast. Me and my husband definitely want children. Your story give me so much hope! Thank you

  • Thankyou for sharing just an update on my life ive had my 2nd ectopic only 21 days ago and 2014 i had my 1st ectopic was 6weeks my 1st was treated by methetrexate and this year i had to have my tube removed due to the 2nd ectopic was 10weeks im just wondering when will i get my pieriod again or when will ovulation come. And how did you get through the news? Im still in pain and my wounds still have stiches in. Sorry for your loss and congrats on your rainbow. This is my 8th loss still trying for my 1st baby hole i have my little mirical soon. Im starting to give up trying and my hopes going.

  • For people who are having lots of miscarriages do not give up! My parents had 9 miscarriages before a successful pregnancy, and then they had two healthy kids. I hope this story gives you hope, no matter what keep trying, my parents almost gave up, but they didn’t, and if they had, they never would have had us. Good luck, and stay strong.

    Also thank you for this video, I’ve never known the term, and this video made me realize that my siblings and I are rainbow baby’s! ��

  • Thank you for sharing your experience! A few days ago i went to the ER for bleeding while pregnant at 8 weeks and they gave me the news that I had a molar pregnancy as well. That same night I had to go through a D&C. When the doctor used the big words “surgery” and “chemotherapy” my heart dropped. Especially since this was my first pregnancy and being 20 years old, I felt that every piece of information I was giving within those 12 hours of being in the ER was too much to handle and I didn’t have any time to process anything. I’m barely starting my weekly blood work tests and im praying that everything goes well. I can relate when you said that one day you had this picture of the baby changing your life forever and the next day you’re hit with reality and the scary possibility that things might not heal correctly. I’m glad you’re having a beautiful family. Life hasn’t been fair to both of us but this is just making us stronger and you’re living proof that life does get better! ��

  • Thank you for sharing your story.  Last Sunday I miscarried one twin, which alerted the doctors to the other twin which had ruptured my fallopian tube and a cyst.  It is encouraging to hear about your rainbow baby.

  • I had a DNC done a couple of weeks ago because of a molar pregnancy. I had a miscarriage 3 years ago. Your video gave me hope thank you

  • Ive been watching your channel since your first pregnancy. I used to refer to your videos when i was pregnant with my first baby, now 13 months. Im sorry for your loss and Congratulations!!!! on this pregnancy. Sticky baby dust your way.

  • I am in my bed right now after spending the past few days in the ER after this experience. I’m 38/ never been pregnant and as soon as I got the news, they surgically removed it asap. I was 2 months.
    worst experience in my life… this was my story all but I had a c section and had a blood transfusion,also lost my right tube, this just brought me to tears!!!������

  • I had 2016 ectopic pregnancy but before I had already had 2 miscarriages unfortunately I did loose my right tube do to the ectopic pregnancy but we are praying and hoping we can get our rainbow baby I am just very scared to even try again by so much that I been through but I do want to get and try and maybe we have the opportunity to make it happen. it’s a very hard journey but everything is possible with God giving us strength to continue on. Thank you for you story.

  • I had an ectopic & one tubal removal about 7 years ago and I am 34 with no children. I am just now trying to have a baby and wish I would’ve tried sooner. I got my first opk and I am praying it happens soon..thank u so much for videos like this it means the world to me

  • thank you for the video. i had an ectopic pregnancy that ended at 5 weeks. i had a laparoscopy on august 29, 2016. i had bled (i thought it was my first cycle..im still not sure if it wasor not) on August 3-6 like my regular cycle; nothing more, nothing less. i am currently waiting for my second cycle, which according to an app i use should have come on the 28 of september (my periods are irregular at times). today is the 3rd of september so maybe it will come today like it did last cycle. does anyone know if this sounds normal? i took a couple HPT a few days prior to my missing period because i felt weird but both were negative. even took one after my missing period and again negative.

  • I bearly went through an ectopic pregnancy my 1 pregnancy it was very hard for me because I whanted this baby so much but it wasn’t in the right place… But I know my life was at risk. just waiting to have my baby if God blesses me with another. I fell just like you scared to get pregnant and go through this again.����

  • Thank you for sharing your story. I recently went through an etopic pregnancy of tubal twins 09/2016, in which the doctors were shocked bc its so unheard of. I ended up loosing my left tube and ovary, but I was able to keep my right. It is definitely so hard to get through and overcome, but I know trusting and believing in God is the key and my faith faileth not in him. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It has truly blessed me to know that Im not the only one and my husband and I can one day go on and proceed to have beautiful, healthy children. ❤❤

  • Praying you’re doing well Erika. You’re family must be so excited for you guys. We still haven’t told our family yet but they don’t live near us either so it’s easier to keep it a secret. I’m so unbearably sick 9 weeks and 5 days today. I’ve been vomiting since mid yesterday afternoon have hardly kept anything down and spotting again (Sunday morning here). Also have had a bad headache which I don’t normally get during pregnancy. Bring on second trimester this is not fun:( Sounds like you have an awesome doctor allowing you extra scans early on. My first pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks found out at the 12 week scan but my spotting and morning sickness also stopped at 10 weeks. I only had a tiny amount of spotting with my son my second pregnancy. So this is my third pregnancy. It’s nerve racking waiting to get passed 12 weeks also waiting for the scan and blood test to make sure baby is ok and no serious medical issues.

  • I actually just miscarried in April with our first. We were 8 weeks. I just got a positive today! I won’t be getting it confirmed till Thursday but I feel scared. I am trying to stay hopeful and excited but it is a scary thing after you have a miscarriage. I totally agree with you about telling our family! We told them the day we found out last time and they really helped us throughout the miscarriage. Much love to you!!

  • This just happened to me I had to get the injection… thank you so much for this❤����I have a beautiful son prior to this pregnancy I’m just hoping I can still get pregnant

  • I really enjoyed this video, it is very informative,i am so happy for you, I just had a miscarriage too so this gives me up. New subscriber here. And thanks for sharing, one day I will be brave enough to share my story too.

  • I love you’re story, I also had an ectopic pregnancy but in my tube and lost my tube as well back in june 2016, I am now 6 weeks and next week getting an ultrasound. Thank you for the hope! Hopefully this baby is in the right spot❤

  • I am here now because I just experienced an ectopic pregnancy, what I don’t understand about your story is why they would put you through surgery if you weren’t bleeding? They gave me a shot to dissolve the pregnancy and I didn’t have to go through the surgery. I am so sorry for you and all of us women who have had to experience this loss.

  • Thanks for sharing hun. I have one child who was conceived in 2 months but ironically my son after 16 months went through a ectopic last month:( my son is now 3 and feel guilty as he doesn’t have a sibling yet.:( Hope to get my rainbow baby soon. Congrats on yours!

  • I just find out today I’m pregnant 5weeks+2days and your video made me cry! Happy tears tho. I’m going to enjoy this pregnancy too!

  • Thank you for sharing your story! I’m currently going through the same thing, I had surgery in May and I’m still waiting to get my cycle back so we can try again…it’s very comforting to hear that you were able to fall pregnant so fast after, here’s hoping we get our rainbow just as fast as well! Thanks again ❤️

  • I suffered a ectopic pregnancy many years ago and nearly lost my life. It’s not talked about enough and there is not enough about it in public. I had to have a caesarian cut to remove everything. Such a sad time and upsetting time. I’m happy to say now I have two wonderful boys. Thank you for talking about this. X

  • I’m so sorry to hear about what you went through but equally ecstatic that you got your rainbow baby and a happy ending. You are one strong woman and I can’t begin to imagine what you went through emotionally and physically. James is a credit to you both and is gorgeous. I’m glad you feel like you’re able to talk about it now. Xx

  • I’m glad you’re feeling okay. I’m so excited for you! Which prenatals are you taking? Your Dr will have free samples if you don’t have any too. I used to always take samples to save money.

  • My mom had one. Also my friend Megan’s mom had similar problems and they told her she’d never have children and now she has 4 perfectly healthy grown kids.

  • Thank you and you are very brave! When I had my first of two miscarriages no one talked about the possibility of miscarriage. This video WILL help women when they need it most! (I went onto have two healthy pregnancies who are now two healthy children!)

  • Ladies I had missed miscarriage 8 months ago after if about 7 month of TTC.
    4 months ago I started my own research on why I can’t conceive and what I can do to avoid another miscarriage.
    Two months ago I took the final decision to start
    1. Vitex (works direct to paturitiry gland and this release all hormones direct to right position)
    2. Red rasberry leaf tea every morning to strength my uterus due to I felt always too bud after “ovulation ” or might be I did not ovulate at all.
    3. Used for 3 months OPK’s to detect ovulation day.the first two month not ovulation at all.!!! This month, my third (and after started already Vitex and red rasberry leaf tea) I Ovulated on CD 15.
    That morning only we had sex. Also this month before my ovulation day, I secretly gave to my partner 8 times Maca powder in his smoothie.to increase sperm mobility and count.
    4.Also 3 months ago beside OPK, I started BBT every morning.
    The first month I ve noticed that I have low temperature, after researching why it happens, I found that probably I have Hypotheriodism. I ve checked it 8 months ago it was OK..anyway I found out that Brazil nuts and sunflower contains selenium, so I started to consume them everyday.Also I started to use Iodinized salt in my food.
    5. Every day Prenatal vitamins
    Fish oil, Vitamin D and Iron ( because I felt really weak and dizzy this entire month). Those vitamins I bough from health food store because I don’t want any chemicals in my body.
    6. 13 DPO I waited for my period. I woke up and didn’t see any blood. I knew it was early it might would be come later on the day.
    Anyway… It came positive fainth line and progressed to dark line at 18 DPO.
    7. My suggestion is that it’s OK to Hope but as women is important to know what is going on with our bodies. When we only hope the time past and at the end we do not have anymore time. I m close to my 37’s. I needed to do something, it wasn’t alright to fail every month. We are like piece of Land inside us, if our Land is not safe for the seeds then we can’t grow this seeds. Prepare your self ladies, prepare your land.
    I wish you all the best

  • I can’t share any pregnancy experiences as I’m still 19 and not planning to be, but I’m so glad you did this video. I wish there are more people like you who educate about such subjects. I had never heard of an ectopic pregnancy before and my heart goes out to you and all the others who experienced it. James is very luck to have you, and you are very lucky to have him. Lots of love from Malta xx

  • Thank you for sharing your story! My hubby and I have been trying for years. Unfortunately I’ve gone through multiple miscarriages. And yes, I always look to other women who’ve gone through the same experience because it helps me cope and gives me hope! hoping for a rainbow baby soon!

  • thank you for sharing Ysis!
    I know of someone that had to go through this but in the fallopian tube, I don’t know much detail about it but she’s okay and has 2 children now:)
    I’m glad everything went okay for u I’m sure those 3 days of not know what’s going on with your body were hard for you. But it’s all in the past now, and it’s all happy ever after from now on with baby James:)
    pls know that we will always be here for u when u need us. we are like a family u know:D and I’ve always considered you as an elder sister of mine since we look a like and i feel our personalities match. and I was try and talk like u do in a calm and balance tone:)
    lots of love Ysis you brave little cherry!:D