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Miscarriage rates are often said to be about one in every five pregnancies. This means that we will all know someone who has experienced a miscarriage in our lives. In trying to be helpful and caring, we often find ourselves saying things that we think would make the person feel better, but in fact, makes them feel worse.

If You Want To Support Someone After A Miscarriage, Don’t Do This. 1. “At least…”. Beginning a sentence with “at least” minimizes the griever’s experience. It suggests a silver lining to a major 2. “You can try again soon.”. 3. “I’m sure…”.

4. “This is really common.”. 5. Anything that. If you know someone who has had a miscarriage and you want to offer words of comfort, here is a list of phrases you should avoid saying. 1. “It wasn’t a real baby.” For.

What Not to Say to Someone Who Had a Miscarriage. 1. Don’t say, “At least…”. Beginning a sentence with “at least” minimizes the griever’s experience. It suggests a silver lining 2. Don’t say, “You can try again soon”. 3. Don’t say, “I’m sure… When you learn that a friend or family member has miscarried, it’s hard to know what to do.

Many, for fear of saying the wrong thing, simply say nothing at all—and I understand that too. You don’t know how or when to bring it up, and you don’t want to make it awkward or stir up fragile emotions (which almost always happens). But, regardless of your unease, it’s better to acknowledge the loss. Four Things You Should NOT Do or Say It can be very tempting to try to ease the parents’ pain or console them with comments such as, “Be grateful for the kids you do have,” or, in the case of miscarriage, “You can try again,” or, “At least you know you can get pregnant.”. So here are a couple of lists – a few things not to say to someone who has had a miscarriage, and some ideas about how you might respond helpfully.

WHAT NOT TO SAY 1. The air between you and the hurting, mourning person becomes heavy and thick and, sometimes, even uncomfortable; sticking to you like the humidity was dialed up to 100. Believe me, I get it.

However, after our first miscarriage this was nonetheless a comforting thought for me. It had taken us 7 months to conceive the first time around and I was starting to worry. After the miscarriage, that fear, at the very least, had dissipated.

I had been pregnant. I would get pregnant again. It was something to hold on to. 8 Things to Say When Someone Has a Miscarriage. I’m So Sorry.

When you hear that your friend or family member has suffered a miscarriage, you need to offer your condolences. Typically, saying “I I’m Listening. I Don’t Know. You’re Not to Blame.

Your Feelings Matter.

List of related literature:

“You didn’t miscarry?”

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by Mary Jo Putney
Zebra Books, 2014

“After we had that warning, I had two more miscarriages.

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by Courtney Milan
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“That was your third miscarriage?”

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“And it might have been but for the fact that I kept miscarrying.”

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by Sherry Thomas
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“I had a miscarriage 2 years ago.”

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“As you might’ve guessed, you miscarried.

“Twist Me: The Complete Trilogy” by Anna Zaires, Dima Zales
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“Did you… have a miscarriage?” he said slowly, his heart pounding.

“Leota's Garden” by Francine Rivers
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“Actually when I lost the pregnancy, I felt, I felt a little bit relieved.

“Pregnant in the Time of Ebola: Women and Their Children in the 2013-2015 West African Epidemic” by David A. Schwartz, Julienne Ngoundoung Anoko, Sharon A. Abramowitz
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Things not to say to a woman who has miscarried:

“Dawnland Voices: An Anthology of Indigenous Writing from New England” by Siobhan Senier
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by Siobhan Senier
Nebraska, 2014

“This miscarriage is like none I have ever seen before,” she said.

“The Wise Woman: A Novel” by Philippa Gregory
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by Philippa Gregory
Atria Books, 2008

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  • I lost my little bean a yr ago and im not over it, it still hurts. I hate it when people say: “Be greatful that you already have a child, there are people that cant have kids”. SO insensitive and cruel.

  • I am so sorry for your loss! And thank you so much for doing this. People should learn how to comfort people in this situation. I am also in this situation right now and I just chose to grieving on YouTube with those who experience the same Pain because there is no one who understand what I am going through but you guys did and thank you so much. May God help us all in this difficult time. For those of you who are a believer I hope this will confort you>>>>>
    1Peter 5:10 And after you have undergone pain for a little time, the God of all grace who has given you a part in his eternal glory through Christ Jesus, will himself give you strength and support, and make you complete in every good thing;

  • And 3 co workers were pregnant with me and due the same time as me, so i had to be excited for them through their pregnancies while dealing with loss…

  • I was told “you should feel relieved, one less mouth to feed” and “you already have 3 that you cant afford” or I just got ignored about it. Worst experience of my life…

  • Yess girl! I lost my first baby at 6 weeks! 6 months later was pregnant with my rainbow and had him February 3rd. All babies matter no matter how long they made it! A beating heart is life. Praying still! Even after we had our rainbows

  • I would say its probably the ignorance of never experiencing a miscarriage. I’m so sorry that happened I experienced 1 too mama. The pain is so hard. And watching my toddler was harder… And even after you have a live birth in the back of your mind us mamas will ALWAYS wonder the what ifs

  • I had a miscarriage in January and it was hard watching my 1 year old and my head running through the thoughts of what would that baby of looked like??? Or the first time they smile at you…its hard. I was 4 weeks 2 days.. I’m currently 8 weeks 2 days and feel very pregnant. And have felt baby move. With baby number 1 i felt him move at 15 weeks exactly. And i also feel ovulation lol. And it took me and my husband over 5 years to get pregnant with our son. It took only a few months with baby number 2 i guess this is baby number 3??? Right i can say that yeah?? And not to mention how physically painful a miscarriage is. It feels just like postpartum recovey. You have contractions and when baby passes it hurts so bad omg so painful!!!

  • had 1baby, lost 1 and waiting for rainbow. I consider myself a mum of two even though i lost 1 bcoz i know the baby is waiting for me at heavens gates. ���� this has been the thing getting me through,..just acknowledging that the baby is a person and ‘it’-what i went through matters…

  • I’m so sorry for your loss. I have infertility and hear so many hurtful questions and comments: “You still have time,” “I know it’ll happen,” and “there’s always adoption.” Yes, we’re looking at adoption, but it’s not like going down to the adoption store. It can be a years long process that doesn’t always work out. It makes me feel like I’m broken, like I can’t do the most basic of human things: procreate.

  • I have 6 years trying to have a baby. ���� and still can’t get pregnant and hate when people ask me when i am have another baby ��