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The one-year anniversary of any loss is painful, but for a pregnancy loss, there are no real societal guidelines one can follow. Is it appropriate to send a card to a couple who have suffered a miscarriage or stillbirth? It depends on the couple and how well you know them, but don’t assume that they’ve moved on. Writing a message in a miscarriage sympathy card is actually fairly simple. You do not have to write a message that specifically addresses the miscarriage.

Some common sympathy card messages that you can use are: “Our deepest sympathies during your time of loss. I hope you are encouraged to send a miscarriage sympathy card. Please do send a card! It’s really not as difficult as it may have seemed at first. Baby Loss Gifts & Cards.

Gifts and care packages can be a great way to express your sympathy and support. Grief affects the body is many ways. Women often need not only emotional support but physical healing after a miscarriage, stillbirth or.

A simple white card with a picture of tiny baby shoes covered in ribbons and flowers, surrounded by pink and white pearls resting on a silky pink background. A lovely quote stands beside the pretty picture. A humble card for anyone to give to parents or family members who have lost a baby girl by miscarriage.

On the anniversary of the loss of a baby through miscarriage, stillborn, or infant death, remember and offer words of support with this sensitive card. Yellow background with footprints for either boy or girl or gender unknown. Product Id: 1351120. Miscarriage gifts can be anything from a card to flowers, or even a sentimental gift of remembrance.

Know that it doesn’t have to be something big; here, it’s definitely the thought that counts. If there is a friend or a relative in your family who has lost a stillborn baby then send them sympathy messages to console them in these difficult times. Share with them sympathy messages for loss of child which perfectly express your feelings into words. Write them messages for consolation for loss or baby or miscarriage with the collection shared in the post.

Express your condolences with Hallmark sympathy cards. Our wide selection includes cards for loss of parents, spouses, pets, children and other loved ones. Miscarriage (3) There are 3 cards are available within the Any Man filter. or the anniversary of their passing. Create your own unique greeting on a Miscarriage card from Zazzle.

Choose from thousands of customizable templates or create your own from scratch! Anniversary Cards Greenery Sending Hugs Encouragement Sympathy Card. $3.45. 20% Off with code HELLOSAVINGS ends today. Personally, receiving a card would have been very meaningful.

Miscarriage is a very isolating and lonely experience so someone reaching out would be so sweet. I think the act of the card says “I see you, I see you pain, and I love you” and will communicate more than what you actually write in it.

List of related literature:

Parents may find it helpful to be sent a card on the anniversary of their baby’s death.

“Neonatal Intensive Care Nursing” by Glenys Boxwell (Connolly)
from Neonatal Intensive Care Nursing
by Glenys Boxwell (Connolly)
Taylor & Francis, 2010

On the anniversary of my miscarriage, I mailed the test.

“The Bend in Redwood Road” by Danielle Stewart
from The Bend in Redwood Road
by Danielle Stewart
Danielle Stewart, 2019

Shortly after Hope’s birth, we sent out a card to everyone we knew, telling them about Hope’s condition and explaining that her life would be very short.

“Holding On to Hope: A Pathway through Suffering to the Heart of God” by Nancy Guthrie
from Holding On to Hope: A Pathway through Suffering to the Heart of God
by Nancy Guthrie
Tyndale House Publishers, Incorporated, 2015

It is also common to feel a surge of grief on related anniversaries—the estimated due date for the baby you lost, the anniversary of the discovery of the pregnancy, as well as the anniversary of the loss itself.

“The Essential Homebirth Guide: For Families Planning or Considering Birthing at Home” by Jane E. Drichta, Jodilyn Owen, Christianne Northrup
from The Essential Homebirth Guide: For Families Planning or Considering Birthing at Home
by Jane E. Drichta, Jodilyn Owen, Christianne Northrup
Gallery Books, 2013

• Everyone who sent a telegram, condolence card, Mass card, condolence letter, or flowers.

“Letitia Baldrige's New Manners for New Times: A Complete Guide to Etiquette” by Letitia Baldrige, Denise Cavalieri Fike
from Letitia Baldrige’s New Manners for New Times: A Complete Guide to Etiquette
by Letitia Baldrige, Denise Cavalieri Fike
Scribner, 2009

These “anniversary reactions” are normal responses to the grief of anniversaries relevant to your baby’s life and death.

“Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby” by Deborah L. Davis
from Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby
by Deborah L. Davis
Fulcrum Pub., 1996

You have a great idea to send cards this year and include a short, handwritten note to those people who may be unaware of your husband’s passing.

“Happily Even After: A Guide to Getting Through (and Beyond) the Grief of Widowhood” by Carole Fleet
from Happily Even After: A Guide to Getting Through (and Beyond) the Grief of Widowhood
by Carole Fleet
Viva Editions, 2012

I understand, even more so now, why people keep this private—talking about a miscarriage can be quite emotional and uncomfortable for everyone involved.

“Nothing Changes Until You Do” by Mike Robbins
from Nothing Changes Until You Do
by Mike Robbins
Hay House, 2014

Last night I sent Twichell word that I knew Patrick had only a day or two to live, and he must not forget to provide a memorial wreath and pin a card to it with my name and Clara’s and Jean’s signed to it, worded, “In loving remembrance of Patrick McAleer, faithful and valued friend of our family for thirty-six years.”

“Mark Twain's Autobiography” by Twain, Mark
from Mark Twain’s Autobiography
by Twain, Mark
Aegitas, 2015

After loss, we add new anniversaries, such as the day our loved one died.

“You Can Heal Your Heart” by Louise Hay, David Kessler
from You Can Heal Your Heart
by Louise Hay, David Kessler
Hay House, 2014

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  • I know this is an old video. But i cried watching this. ��
    I was diagnosed of PCOS 5 years ago. Still fighting infertility and I’m about to start metformin.

  • Your story is so much like mine. I wish I had been able to watch this video back when I went through my missed miscarriage. I was waiting for my miscarriage to happen all through the holidays in 2018, and finally miscarried on New Years Day 2019. I’m so sorry for your loss. I still feel the loss of my baby some days. It’s so hard. �� Also wanted to say for other ladies who are waiting to miscarry that it took 4 weeks to the day from when the baby stopped growing, to when I miscarried. Hugs to all of you mamas

  • I know the pain. My last baby was due on my brothers birthday August 16th and the one before that was a November baby. So sorry for your loss and hopefully one day we’ll be blessed to be moms

  • So sorry for your loss ❤️. For me, talking with others who have been through the same thing helped me so much and to feel less alone ❤️

  • I just went through the exact same experience! Listening to you felt like you were telling my story. I wish I had seen this video while I was going through it, it would have definitely made the whole experience less frightening and lonely. Us women.. we are warriors Becca! We live through these ugly situations and we pick ourselves up and move on.. Like you said.. I wish I didn’t have to go through this but the silver lining is I am definitely a better woman because of it. ❤️

  • Im so sorry for your loss. You will get your beautiful rainbow soon. I don’t know why these things happen, but I do know that God has many wonderful things in store. �� Hugs to you.

  • Sis I am so glad you are back and learned from the experience!!! You looked so broken. I have been praying for you. I miscarried 11 years ago and God healed me like 6 years ago so I can relate to the loss. This adds to your testimony. We don’t know each other but I feel like you are definitely my sister.

  • Wow! The part about human rights/life really touched my SOUL! This will be my new way of explaining to people the problem with abortions as a lot of people genuinely feel like they’re actually fighting FOR human rights as advocates for abortion. “What is good will be bad, and what is bad will be good”.in addition, the way you broke down the facts about how miraculous it is for a person to even be born really inspired me to value my own life more! Thank you for breaking it down like that. Lastly, may God bless you and your family for the unimaginable pain you had to suffer through in order for you to be able to pinch our hearts with this life changing Word! ❤️❤️❤️

  • Thank you so much for sharing this video and your testimony. I feel like I can relate to some of the things you said, especially when you talked about pride. I’m definitely going to pray that God remove the spirit of Pride from me and to be more humble, compassionate, and on fire for the Lord. I thank God for you. God bless you today and always.

    Tamikia:-)

  • I really feel ur pain and emotions this video has touched me so much 3 years ago on the 22 April i had a 2nd miscarriage @ 6 weeks I felt very angry with myself that I let myself down. It’s never nobody’s fault these things happen. When u see the 2 lines on a test its a baby to me no matter what weeks u are u can still grieve. I cried at ur balloon release because the Ed sheeran song was in there I can still not listen to it now it’s just remind me of what could of Been. Thinking of u all today much love Sarah xxx

  • I am crying along with you. I am praying for your sweet family. My husband and I are in similar circumstances as your family. I pray your hurting will be healed by God and your rainbow baby will come soon. Love to you! ❤️

  • I just went through a missed miscarriage as well at 9 weeks and was looking for more answers on the medication to induce things. I so appreciate how open you were. Your video helped me so much and made me feel not so alone. Thank you so much, I hope you guys are all doing well ❤️❤️❤️

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just found out tonight in the ER at 11.5weeks that they couldn’t find my baby, just a sac. I have to wait till I can get into the OB to confirm, but I’m bleeding and cramping and my HCG levels have dropped A LOT. We had just seen our baby at 8 weeks with a HB, so the bleeding was shocking to me. I really needed to hear the raw details because like you said it’s so hard to find the information. I’m hoping so much that this will all pass tonight, but I’m so afraid it won’t. I’m so sorry for your loss, I appreciate your story so much.

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy, and hearing others stories is helping me feel not so alone. There are so many of us! I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for your words.

  • I had a miscarriage on Tuesday and had horrible doctors and I’m still in pain I hope the pain goes away soon. I also had a missed miscarriage I’m sorry for your loss

  • I had a miscarriage earlier this year and my due date would have been October 24th. It’s been hard lately approaching that day. Thinking about where I would be right now. How I would probably be adding the finishing touches to the nursery, making sure my hospital bag is ready to go, and anxiously waiting for our little one to arrive. The hardest part for me is thinking how I would have brought my baby to Thanksgiving and Christmas this year and how excited we would be to celebrate his/hers first holidays.
    All I can do now is wait around for our rainbow ��

  • Currently 7-8 weeks pregnant but just had my second ultrasound because on my first one we didn’t hear the heartbeat. This current ultrasound we also didn’t hear the heartbeat again.. so now I’m home waiting for my blood test results as well as my 3rd ultrasound that’s scheduled for next week. I have a feeling I will have a miscarriage just because of what the doctors said, what I’ve read online and what my body is telling me. I’m so incredibly sad right now literally stuck in limbo waiting for results not knowing if the baby inside me is alive or not. Thank you for sharing your story, it really helps me understand what is to come and how to mentally prepare myself for it.

  • I definitely understand your pain. I went into a preterm labor at 5months with our baby boy and my Due date was Oct 6. I cry my eyes out every other night and I’m still trying to wake up from this horrible nightmare.

  • My due day was suppose to be 10/31/17. I feel your heartache and I’m sending prayers of comfort and strength. I’m praying that God blesses you with your rainbow baby soon!
    God bless you sweetheart ������

  • Thank you for sharing this. You’re such a beautiful soul and i’m so happy that you’re going to be putting out more videos!:D And like you said, we don’t know God’s timing, but it is perfect. The wait can be beautiful.

  • Thank you for this video. I just had a miscarriage and it’s been hard for my husband and I. But God has given us peace and comfort. We still have hope through God

  • Thank you for sharing. It good to just know there another person out there that had the same experience as me. I also found out @11 weeks and they told me from my ultra sound that the baby is @ 8weeks when it stopped growing. ☹️ I opted for medication to accelerate the wait. I bleed for 6 weeks after I got the green light to try again. After 5 month we are now pregnant with first child. We are very happy, very scared but hopeful. Good luck with your Journey ��

  • Nicole, this video was lovely and thank you for sharing such an intimate moment for you and your family. It must be so hard to deal with loss, I am fortunate that I have not had to deal with this, but my thoughts are with you and your sister x 

    Your loss of pancake is very much as valid as any other loss and don’t ever let anyone take that away. Your baby was loved from the moment that embryo split cells and that makes you entitled to feel how you want! Celebrate that little life, you lost your baby, its wonderful to remember the impact that little life had on yours!

  • You are a blessing! I don’t have any children but God loving you and moving you in your life is inspiring and can still speak to others in any area of life. Thank you for sharing and your honesty��

  • Im so sorry. I rebuke all evil spirits in the name of Jesus Christ. All spirits of miscarriage. I prayed God gives you the strength and peace. God bless you.

  • I’m so sorry for your loss. <3 Thank you for sharing this experience. I just had a chemical pregnancy at 7 weeks and we are very sad and shocked.... this was our first pregnancy.

  • I have had 2 chemicals pregnancy, and some people don’t call them loses some do, deep down I don’t know what to think, I just was it was a very early lose

  • Absolutely heartbreaking, and yet how beautiful you & your sister have each other. I’m so sorry for you both, and for your little ones who you did not get to hold. I’m sure they are looking down with joy knowing how much their momma’s treasure & remember them. �� sending all my love you and Stevie today. Xoxo

  • I think it was very judgmental for you to say that what people were praying for was getting on your nerves because their prayers were superficial. God allows his children to pray to him about their needs. You never know how fresh a persons journey is to Christ. Many may not yet be on the level you are on so dont be so quick to discount how they pray. As children of God we are to guide those in humility and not harsh judgement. But I’m also grateful you were able to grow closer to God during your loss. God bless you and your family.

  • I am so sorry this seems like such a rude question, but what did you do with it in the end? All the tissue?Did the hospital give you something for it?Did you throw out normally? I am so sorry

  • Beautiful tribute Nicole. I lost my baby at 6 weeks too due to an ectopic pregnancy and the hardest thing was there was a heartbeat but needed the emergency surgery to save my life.��

  • I lost my baby at six weeks two days ago and at first I was okay. I had low estrogen levels and my cervix begin to open.When I began to relive when he or she finally came out, U broke down dramatically. I’m preparing my tribute this Saturday. Losing a child is by far the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. This was truly a beautiful tribute, have a blessed life.

  • This vlog made me cry so much! I lost my little embryo at 9 weeks and it was hard! It took 5 years to get pregnant through ivf only to lose it! I now have a 7 year old and a 7 month old and i dont know what i would do without my 2 ivf mircles!!

  • Becca: Thank you for sharing. I just had a miscarriage end of May. It was so sad. This Covid isolation is hard and add a taboo loss doubles the isolation.
    I’m grateful you shared your unique experience.

  • So sorry for your lost. I think this bible verse will bring more clarity on why things happen and we don’t understand.
    “For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow. But worldly sorrow, which lacks repentance, results in spiritual death.”

    2 Corinthians 7:10 NLT

  • Thank you for posting this. We just had a miscarriage at 12 weeks a few days ago. It was our first pregnancy and is and was devastating. Hearing your story and others has helped immensely.

  • I was due October 12, 2017 he died April 24th when his umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck two times. I’m sorry for your loss.

  • It hurts I’m a father and I didn’t realise how sad I would be usually I’m a tough guy and nobody ever can read any emotions in my face but I cried on my own today and I feel a bit alone because I have to act like I’m ok and I haven’t got anyone to talk to I hope u are fine now and I hope it gets easier like me I have a daughter who’s just over 2 now

  • I had a miscarriage 25 yrs ago. If was Dec 1 at 7pm I started bleeding I thought it was maybe because I am a nunrse and I was working it was going to be my child my 5th child. I had gone to the doctor and told him because I still had the baby in me and I thought I was just spotting had an ultrasound and I got the results actually the receptionist told me there was no fetal tones and she did not understand so I told her that my baby didn’t make it so I waited and I started miscarrying about a week later and I started hemorrhaging at home I went to the hospital and I was hemorrhaging and I found out that I have two uteruses so I actually had two babies inside but I lost both when it was five months that was the one I delivered at home it was the size of my hand and it was a boy next morning I had to have a D&C and the three months was a fullblighted ovum I was awake I chose to be being awake for the D&C the bright side a month later I was pregnant and had another baby boy so he was my5th child…

  • Thank you for sharing your video, I myself have had two miscarriages and two ectopic pregnancies.But I am now going through it all again my daughter and my son-in-law they went for their baby scan this morning and there was no heartbeat, only last night we were all excited talking about the baby and she sent me photos of how big her tummy was comparing it to her tummy when she was pregnant with her first pregnancy my granddaughter. It hurts me more now than when I had lost a baby because it’s my daughter who going through it now, there is nothing anyone could say or do when something tragic like this happens also some people don’t think about the father in this case it’s their baby too.Mine happened over twenty eight years ago and it still hurt upon this day but worse because it’s my daughter and son-in-law. I am thanking you so much for your and husbands baby sad and heartbreaking memories that has helped me as a mother to help my daughter and son-in-law. God bless and stay safe x.

  • My first due day was in August. February will be my second. I bet all our angels are having so much fun with each other! What a life to never know evil and only know Jesus and heaven! So many prayers going up for you guys! Your rainbow is coming!

  • This is difficult for me to watch for a variety of reasons, & we can disagree about some things, but I absolutely hear God’s grace & love in your voice. That’s what matters, not an opportunity to pick apart your story. I’m so glad your ears opened & your eyes opened to the vulnerability of other people around you. Your story is not about my views or opinion or even correction. Your story is inspirational. Thank you for boldly sharing.

  • Becca, I’ve watched you since you were posting wedding planning videos. It’s breaking my heart to hear this story but thank you for sharing. I’m sure that God will use it to help many women. Many prayers to you and your husband ❤️❤️

  • Hi Mommy Nami, I had my miscarriage Last year mag 1 year old na Sana baby ko sa July ☹️ Same as you napaka Hirap pero kinakaya. Ingat Po palagi pati new baby mo ��

  • Thank you for sharing I believe God is drawing me closer to him and humbling me as well and he is taking me through my journey not only for myself but to help others trust in God and God alone I know he is able to do abundantly above all that we can ask

  • Thank you so much for sharing your testimony of God’s power even in the midst of such a tragic time in your life! Having suffered a stillbirth and then a neonatal loss, I can also attest to such a faithful, merciful and loving God despite such tribulation�� keep sharing your testimony! It is such a blessing!

  • I just miscarried in 9/28/17 with my first pregnancy and first miscarriage. It is hard for sure but we have to have hope and faith that our �� ���� are coming ������

  • I learned the same exact things you did after my miscarriage. I had just gotten married and wasn’t even trying when I got pregnant and had married the man of my dreams…I was proud! I also had a dream before my miscarriage but just shoved it aside. This happened almost 3 years ago and I am still trying for another but I’ve learned to WAIT! I’ve never had to wait in my life, for anything! I got everything when I wanted until now. I still cry and wonder what I could have done to prevent it but I know it was out of my hands and God’s will. Right now, I’m living, praising and believing God while I wait! Thank you for this video ����

  • You are a very strong woman, been watching you for a while. I can’t imagine The pit of sadness that having a miscarriage must bring. I’m 14 weeks pregnant with my first child after thinking i was infertiel for 10 years. I’ve been thinking about you’re video for a few days. I just can make sense of God giving you a child, letting it pass…just to let you learn these 5 lessons.
    I m a believer and in a hard season in my relationship with God very open with God about it, does this mean that HE might let my child pass just to teach me the lessons He this taught you?
    I know your massage is meant to encourage, but a part it somehow hurts my heart for you..you said that you had a bit of pride and sin a wasn’t close enough so God let this happen to you? Id rather believe that we live in a broken world and sometimes the baby’s genetic makeup just wasn’t complet enough. Yes God can use this soul pain en let us grow.

  • Thanks for sharing this. Confirms what God’s been telling me about miscarriages, stillbirths, abortions, kidnappings, etc.

    Exodus 23:20‭-‬26 NLT

    “See, I am sending an angel before you to protect you on your journey and lead you safely to the place I have prepared for you. Pay close attention to him, and obey his instructions. Do not rebel against him, for he is my representative, and he will not forgive your rebellion.

    But if you are careful to obey him, following all my instructions, then I will be an enemy to your enemies, and I will oppose those who oppose you. For my angel will go before you and bring you into the land of the Amorites, Hittites, Perizzites, Canaanites, Hivites, and Jebusites, so you may live there. And I will destroy them completely.

    You must not worship the gods of these nations or serve them in any way or imitate their evil practices. Instead, you must utterly destroy them and smash their sacred pillars.

    “You must serve only the Lord your God. If you do, I will bless you with food and water, and I will protect you from illness. There will be no miscarriages or infertility in your land, and I will give you long, full lives…”

  • So encouraging! Thank you so much, Alyssa����❤❤ and yes abortion is heartbreaking. Having programmes for women who are struggling is something I’ve had on my mind… to provide help for women contemplating abortion, so that life can be preserved, for mommy and baby, to GOD’S glory������

  • Currently going thru my first miscarriage and I want to thank you for posting this video! It truly has helped me get thru this awful experience.

  • Imagine finding out you’re pregnant making a nursery and decorating and just overall preparing for a baby then you go into the hospital and walk out of those doors without your child I could never I don’t think I have the mental or physical strength to deal with that type of pain
    Paying for you����

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story. I stumbled upon this video because I am literally in the same position as you. Miscarrying now at 11.5 weeks, baby passed around 9 weeks. My first baby is also a toddler and we’re trying to have our second. The pain is real. Thank you for helping me feel less alone in all of this. ��

  • Amenn, God is soo good, He can turn around any and every Situation for our good ��❤️ We always need to trust God’s plans for Her knows what is best for us ❤️

  • Your great so sorry just came across this video my daughter experience her miscarriage this weekend due to pprom her water broke at17 weeks she made it to where they can help her baby but they didn’t her baby came out with an heart beat and moving they did nothing to help my granddaughter being that most hospital don’t help babies who are born at before 21 weeks my granddaughter had a fighting chance we are so devastated we are now on the way to get the help my daughter needs I had a dream the night before that my granddaughter wasn’t going to make it I hate my dreams my daughter also has stage 3 cervical cancer we did not know about until she became pregnant we are looking for answers my daughter baby fought for 3 hours we can’t stop crying thanks for your video my daughter not doing well I pray God keep her alive I can’t loose a daughter and a granddaughter please keep us in prayer

  • So sorry for your loss, Becca. Thank you so much for creating such a moving an informative story for other women out there going through the same thing. ❤️

  • I am so sorry. I am going through something very similar. I found out at my 20 week scan that my baby’s heart stopped at 12 weeks 4 days. I had a D&C yesterday. Such a sad, strange experience. I am so sorry this happened to you.

  • Hi Kelsie, My heart goes out to you. There is nothing impossible in the hands of God. Trust me. I too had a miscarriage and even lost a baby who was 7 days old. God has a purpose for everything to happen in our lives. He sees you in and out. Will bless you surely when its time. Keep trusting him who does everything for our good.

  • Hallelujah sis I completely agree! I went through a miscarriage in July 2019 that miracle was too perfect for this side of heaven but passed in September of 2019 but God had a purpose I learned some of these things as well. Praying for you ��

  • Worship God in and out of season. Thanks for such an encouraging testimony. God is who he says he is and he was with you when you were broken hearted just as he promised. Glory to God. Glory to Jesus. Amen!

  • I loved this video, I starts to tear up and then started crying when I saw your brother birth date, I was born 21-12-95 born a month apart

  • Prayers for a healthy baby very soon. It’s so hard for me to see videos like this from other mommas. I miscarried my first at the end of May. This Christmas will be hard. Our baby was due around the end of December. (Never even got a due date for our baby)

  • What a awesome testimony so glad to hear that God gave you strength through it all you are truly a inspiration Thank you for sharing������

  • Awww I prayed for your little light and she will continue to shine through you. I’m blessed by your courage and enthusiasm for things of God! Bless you Mommy ����

  • I got one Daughter she’s a miracle from God I believe but i had c section not good one but i try have Second baby all ive end up is lots of Misscarriages i need Seek him do you want it again Oh another thing my daughter has Autism one time she had walk with her dad she got Kock over from the a car �� But she only had a few scratches and lots some her teeth in the Accident but she was ok but i fround like i knewn gonna happen i had that feeling but when she at the hospital she said one word God and was shock and i knewn God saved that day ��❤️��

  • I know how you feel. I had a miscarriage in 2007 at only 7 weeks. I remember the feelings I felt at the moment I knew it was happening so clearly. My husband and I hadn’t been together for long at the time so we pretty much kept it to ourselves. Now 7 1/2 years on I feel I don’t have a right to ever bring it up in conversation. I still wonder what that baby might have turned out like.

  • Yeah I’ve heard that “miscarriage” happens more than People know. The Act Of Love happens so there must be a Blessing for God. I wish Don Jr. Trump was knowing Enough to then get me Pregnant. This is a Marriage God Needs!

  • Im so sorry for your lost momma.. Ive had a miscarriage and a stillborn son in 2017 and I know the feeling of being hurt. But God also humbled me and giving me a chance to realize that a child can change your whole life. Am I really ready? But god keep telling me I will give you life abundantly in double portion and Im still trying to conceive after my stillborn and its going on 3 years. My son was the love of my life and I miss him very much but God putting me in a position to care for other kids and I’m honored.. So don’t give up and know that god has the last say so and u will be blessed again. God bless you ����

  • This video BLESSED BLESSED BLESSED me!
    May the God of Hannah open your womb and make you with child in His perfect timing. I stand with you and your family, in Jesus name! Thank you ❤️

  • Beautiful video darling.. Due dates & thinking about what could’ve been is hard.. Sending you both so much love & warm hugs �� xxx

  • I’m literally in tears, I am having a D&C tomorrow at 10AM and when u said u had a feeling u would never meet the baby it stopped me in my tracks because I said the EXACT SAME THING after I found out and I didn’t know why. I had my son Jax 3 years ago no problem but for some reason I just had a bad feeling from the beginning. Hearing u say that just gave me more comfort than anyone else has so far. Thank u

  • Thank you for sharing your testimony. God is so intentional and perfect! Just before watching your video that randomly popped up, I had just gotten off the phone with my best friend who was sharing her news with me, she had a miscarriage earlier this week and i had to encourage her with everything you shared. Thank you for your vulnerability and I know my God is doing amazing things in your life.

  • Done watching, na witness ko po ma’am nami ung bigat po ng loob mo nung mga time na un, follower nyo po ako matagal na, nung nalaman nyo po na buntis po kayo sa second baby nyo feeling ko po nun napakasaya nyo po kasi pinag pe’pray nyo po talaga un, after 6 years finally preggy kana po ulit. then nalungkot din po ako nung nababasa ko po mga post nyo po about kay baby seven.. ��, pero thankful parin po kasi nakikita ko na po ulit na happy na po kayo lalo na nung dumating si baby reine, God bless po ma’am nami and sa family nyo po. ��

  • Thank you for making this video. Just went through the same experience as you a couple days ago. Sharing your story is helping through this tough time.

  • Thank you for sharing. I went through such a similar process. Still going through, tbh. It’s so hard for me to not have people to share it with. I feel like a burden on others happiness, so I haven’t opened up. It’s working for me, but I’m so glad speaking out is working for you.

  • Paka tatag ka sis.
    Iiyak mo lang, nakakabawas rin ng sakit sa dibdib.
    Siguro sad rin ung baby mo sa heaven kung nakikita ka nyang umiiyak…

  • Amen! Fertility is a gift, children are a gift. Praying for continued peace, strength, and healing for you and all of us who have gone through this type of loss. Praying for an end to abortion!

  • I agree children are a miracle. The journey to life is so fragile, a miscarriage can happen and even when the baby is full term they can be still born. Even after that they could succumb to SidsSo just to make it this far is a miracle.

    My baby was unplanned and Im doing it alone but he’s brought a lot of joy. He’s so happy and seems so confident. Also he isnt difficult to care for.. I couldnt imagine not meeting him.

  • I went thru the same thing and put four pills up my vag at home. But I missed the appointment after that, and never went back for a checkup. Now I’m worried my body didn’t release everything! This was two years ago.

  • I’m so heartbroken, I saw and heard my baby’s heartbeat at 6 weeks and then again at 8 weeks. Both times the tiny heart was beating so strong. We went for a 10 week ultrasound and there was no longer a heartbeat. My baby was measuring 8 weeks 4 days. I feel so broken. I don’t understand why this happened. Really wished this wasn’t as common as it is. ��

  • Exactly the same thing about me I dreamt someone told me my baby dead and he will told me what to do I was so mad and I turned my back on him I can heard him said I told you ur baby dead you don’t want to listen to me since then I blame myself not for saving my son I ask God why I did wrong to deserves that punition I say I didn’t pray you the way I supposed Sometimes I felt like My faith in God is gone because he have power he didn’t save my son My first baby that happened last month the Dr can really told me what happen I have fibroid they said they don’t think is the fibroid because I was far long for the fibroid to cause it the day other day I went to see on other Dr he told me the same thing and he told I did have a infection he said he may think that cause it the first Dr told they know when the bb dead maybe I have the infection after he dead thx for sharing to believe in God no matter what life have in the store for me because his the one who control my life plz pray for me and I pray for you sorry for ur loss I am very happy God give you strength to lift other women like me thx again May God continue to bless you and ur family

  • My pregnancy symptoms got really bad at 5 weeks…. I didn’t feel too well from 4 when we found out but by 5 weeks it got really really bad and I ended up getting diagnosed with a missed miscarriage at 7 weeks and miscarried at 8 weeks

  • Keep your faith and positive thinking. We are having similar struggles. I have cried and been happy with you. Wishing you always the best. I’ll be trying again. I ask that you keep me in your prayer as I will do the same. Keep your head up. I know God will bless you soon! ��.. also, I have tried holistic healing and essential oils. I most definitely have seen improvements! It’s worth a try! ��

  • So happy to see you with joy in your heart! So glad that God has restored you and that you are sharing your journey with us. God bless you and your family. ��

  • Thank you for sharing your story! I recently went through a missed miscarriage with baby # 3 at 9 weeks. Hearing your story reminds me that I’m not alone. Praying for you and your family!

  • I went through this. I knew something was wrong because I had bleeding before but my partner kept trying to reassure me telling me it will be fine.
    We both just burst into tears when we found out there was no heartbeat on the ultrasound.
    It hurt so much because we had seen the heartbeat on the screen at 6 weeks then lost the baby at 9 weeks.
    It was a painful process after this, I had the medication to try and speed things up then had to have a D&C. This was only last week so I’m still trying to recover.

    This was my first baby so now I’m terrified I won’t be able to have another.
    I’m so heartbroken.

  • Thanks for this video. It was therapeutic to hear about someone persevering through difficulty. It’s awesome you are advocating for the unborn. Save The Babies.

  • My mom was trying for a 4th baby and she had 3 miscarriages trying for that 4th baby, but she still didn’t stop believing in God for that 4th one and she tried one more time, and she got pregnant again and when she went to the ultra Check the doctors said they couldn’t find the heartbeat, but she still didn’t lose hope but kept believing in Jesus! And she went back and now today she’s 6 months pregnant with a beautiful baby boy. Glory to God. God bless you sister

  • I’m coming back to this video four months later because when I was going through my miscarriage March 9 you posted this couple days after I had to get my (DNC March 13).. I was 14 weeks and ended up having an experience close to yours with the rude tech. worker.. my body not expelling the baby..
    Sobbing uncontrollably in disbelief literally coming from the depths of my soul in a weird fog and then I ended up wanting to take the pills but then ended up having to do a DNC..I was in disbelief. Had to keep baby in for almost another 5 days then I got the DNC which later results told me it was a partial molar pregnancy and I wouldn’t have made it past five months I never had a miscarriage before and my tech was heartless it was odd to me but honestly your story really helped me through that time (the couple days I laid in bed to heal).. your story and how it went was
    Very similar to mine
    but I’ll tell you one thing it gave me great comfort and even four months later running into this again thank you for making it..Currently in my two week waiting period now for my rainbow baby�� ����Thank you again
    ��Kate xo

  • I’ve just started miscarrying at 11 weeks and this video has been so helpful. I now know what to expect. It’s scary but at least I’m prepared. Thank you for sharing this xx

  • So sorry for you loss.Hopefully you will be blessed again.
    The ultrasound they do from the belly is more accurate 12 weeks and up.Thats why to be sure they do the internal one with pregnancies under 12 weeks.

  • Thank you!! You really give home. Had the same experience but needed surgery. And yes we do feel very different now. But my husband and I love each other dearly!

  • I’m so sorry for your loss. Thanks so much for making this video. I also had a mother’s intuition that something wasn’t right with my pregnancy. I never had a dream about this baby.. which is weird because I always had dreams about my other babies in the first trimester. And I just kept having a feeling that my baby had genetic defects or something. I had two miscarriages before my first baby, but they were much earlier on. This time is much harder. I’m a little over 12 weeks today and still no signs of miscarriage except a little bit of cramping and lower back pain. But I would’ve have thought anything of it if we didn’t have an ultrasound last week!

  • “I know a Lady that
    Carred 7 Banies until she was 5 months. And she lost them, She now has a Boy 4 years old, and she’s now going to have another Boy next month August.
    God will bless you with another one,
    Take Care of yourself,

  • I’m so glad I found your video this exact thing is happening to me I was 11 weeks baby passed at 8.5weeks found out last weekend and passed everything the same day

  • Midwives are seriously the best ��. I also had a bad experience with my ultrasound tech. She was super rude as well. From the moment I was walking in I didn’t get a good vibe from her.
    I hope you get your rainbow baby soon. I had two babies after two miscarriages and have hope for our number 3 after this missed miscarriage. It’s hard when the timing was perfect just like you said. But it’s all for a reason.

  • Your story sounds exactly like mine. I am 11 weeks exactly today. Went for my 1st ultrasound and had the same experiece, the tech didn’t show me the baby, didnt play the heart beart and turned off the machine and told me to go ahead, clean up and wait for the doctor to come in. Tears immediately because I just KNEW. She said baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. She gave me all the same options that you got except I only have a week to wait for nature to take it’s course, since baby passed away 3 weeks ago. I’m not sure what I am going to do yet, but I am leaning toward the medication.
    This is so hard.:( This video was comforting to me, to know Im not alone. Thank you for sharing. Im sure it wasn’t easy♡

  • For anyone reading this comment who has gone through a miscarriage or is currently suffering one, there is an excellent podcast called Life After Miscarriage where women come on and share their whole stories. Just a tip for any of my fellow loss mommas <3

  • I really want to see Unplanned. Yesterday I stumbled upon a YouTube interview with the lady who made the movie. I love a good documentary and it seems really interesting.

  • This was so good! I feel the exact same way in regards to the ending of abortion. My hearts prayer, and cry, is to see the walls of Planned Parenthood come complete oblivion. May God bless you, and your family richly.

  • Becca-It was very brave of you to share your story of the miscarriage that u had it could help a lot of women out who have gone through it to know that they aren’t alone.

  • I agree with you #4 we(christians) need to be more honest with ourselves and others about our weaknesses because these are the things that manifest the power of God to bring us to a Christ like character. Thank you for sharing. God bless you. As we continue to share our struggles and victories against sin and sin nature, it is the love of Christ that will cormfort us and those who suffer alike from sin. Then the body of Christ will begin to grow in �� Love. God bless you Alysea.

  • I’m so sorry. Reaching our daughters due date was horrible. Especially cause we weren’t pregnant again. Loss is hard enough to deal with, without putting infertility on top of it.You are not alone! ❤️

  • I was 8 weeks pregnant.. I married in jan gt pregnant in june… I was rly happy nd expecting ma 1st baby… whr today I started bleeding �� I bursted lyk hell I didn’t knw wt to do… I made an appointment whch was 2 days later with d midwife… I was waiting to hear ma baby’s heartbeat bt I couldn’t �� me nd ma hubby alone in USA dono wt to do nxt.. nw We’re consulting with Indian nd American doc ��

  • I am so so sorry for your loss. I’ve had two of these before many years ago and it’s traumatizing to say the least. I can say it def helps to talk to other women who are going through the same journey because you know they get it. I feel like it’s the best support ever! I wish I would have known back when this happened to me. I am currently trying to get pregnant for almost a year now! Wishing you the best of luck. Take your time healing.. your human! Sending so much love your way��

  • I’m sorry for your loss. I have had 4 early miscarriages then the 5th pregnancy was the charm and resulted im my beautiful baby girl. Stay positive it will happen for you. The good thing is that you were able to get pregnant. Stay hopeful and keep trying until u get your rainbow baby. Sending you baby dust. Also have sex you are more fertile after a loss or a birth.

  • Thank you for sharing your experience! You are Brave! I’m going through this right this very moment and it’s comforting (in a weird way) to hear other women’s experience with miscarriages and hearing all gory details helps me not feel so scared. Glad I came across your video & I will be subscribing to your channel ��

  • I admire you so much for sharing such a difficult time in your life. Thank you for sharing. I’m sure this has helped many other woman who have lived what you did. ���� I’m sorry for your loss

  • Iyak ako nang iyak mommy Nami. Nawala rin kahapon baby ng tito ko, 1st baby nila and matagal na nila hangad ang baby na yun, 10 yrs na sila trying ng wife nya. �� Mag 7 months pa lang, kaya durog na durog kami. Ang sakit kahit di pa namin nakita pero kasi mahal na agad namin kasi lahat namin inantay magkaroon sila baby. Kaya di ko maimagine ang sakit bilang magulang mismo ng unborn child. ��

  • Why I stopped listening to Hillsong music. Please read:
    https://bruceherwig.wordpress.com/2015/06/14/why-i-stopped-singing-hillsong/

  • Oh how gorgeous, I love this. It’s a hard topic to talk about but so important. My mum miscarried 2 of my siblings and I still wonder what they may have been like or if I’d be here had the first baby made it! Sending you and your family lots of love x

  • i was a follower since then. and the day na pinost abt dito it breaks my heart too ��..that’s why nung nalaman kong preggy ulit sya last year i felt happy tooo, here comes reine ❤️

  • I had the same thing happen to me the lady doing my ultrasound seemed to be very rude and I was asking questions during that time because this was my first pregnancy and miscarriage and she wouldn’t answer any of my questions and even while I was walking out they asked me if I wanted maternity clothes not thinking about what had just happened

  • I had a miscarriage at 18 weeks it was the worst day of my life I cried so much and because of COVID my husband couldn’t enter the hospital at all and had to wait outside. He was a baby boy.

  • Follower muna ako nong time na yon Ms namieh…keep on praying Lang Hindi talaga mawawala Ang pain..happy na c bb ngayon kasama ni lord!

  • My first baby passed at 6weeks and then I miscarried at 9, didn’t know until I was bleeding and rushed to er to find no heartbeat. The hospital and techs were cold and unfeeling but my nurse prayed over me and really expressed her feelings.

    Now I’m pregnant again at 4 weeks and just fervently praying and hoping I get my rainbow baby. I am so sorry you had to go through this, the pain still hits me to this day a little over a year later.

    We are 1in4 and we are strong❤

  • So thankful for you opening up. I lost my baby around the same time with a missed miscarriage. We were due Sept 4th 2020.
    We had just seen the baby via ultrasound at 11 weeks and 3 days and everything was normal and healthy. Then at 13 weeks we found out at my normal appointment there was no heartbeat and the baby passed away sometime the week before.
    I waited until 15 weeks and my body still wouldn’t process the miscarriage so I had to have a D&C.
    A few weeks later my sister found out at 26 weeks she had a missed miscarriage as well. It’s been an awful year for our family.

    I’m so thankful your healthcare provider was caring. My obgyn was the most awful person I’ve ever met. Dr. Ciliberti literally complained about having to find time to do my D&C in front of me, muttering under his breath “this f***ing day”. I ended up walking out. That’s why I tried to wait for my body to do it on its own. But I ended up having to go to the ER and have my D&C.

    No one who hasn’t experienced it will ever understand the pain of dealing with a miscarriage. Worst pain and sadness I’ve ever experienced.

  • I’m so sorry for you. I just recently miscarriaged for the second time at 8 weeks pregnant. It’s very surreal and hard to even express.

  • Love! Great video! I belong to a podcast called Coffee with Doctors and we just discussed this topic. We would love for you to check it out. You’re right… it does feel better to hear stories to know you’re not alone.

  • May The Lord shine His face
    upon you, may He Keep you in His righteousness and peace! May The Lord continue to lead you in His LIFE ❤️ May Jesus Continue to grow in you! Much Love to you my sister in Christ ����

  • I am so sorry about the long painful birthing of your angel baby. It seems like the Gyn should have given you more detailed information about a miscarriage. I know what it is like to think you are having a miscarriage. Around 7 weeks I stepped out of the shower and I was bleeding heavier than a period. I had my first babies when I was 25 and 29. I had this surprise (full brothers) at age 45. My oldest was in his second year of College and youngest at the time was in his second year of High School. I honestly was in shock and not happy at first. I found out at 5 weeks I was pregnant. I went and had a Vaginal Ultrasound which they didn’t even have back in 1982 and 1986. I was in shock when I saw this 6 week embryo with a beating heart outside the chest cavity. I went to the ER assuming I was having a miscarriage. I never had one. They were so rude and it was the Christmas Eve Day. They said they would force my bladder to fill with water from a catheter and I said no. I would go home and see what happened. I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day not knowing if I was going to miscarry. Two days after I found out I hadn’t. I did give birth to him 18 years ago. He has ADHD and mild Aspergers syndrome. Not age related. It just happened. He just got his High School Diploma. I guess I am rambling but I do feel sorry that you were treated like that. My bleed was from a clot on the Placenta. I bleed until 11 weeks of pregnancy. I have 2 Grandsons ages 3 and 1 1/2 and my DIL is pregnant 10 weeks. So scary during COVID. I am hoping for pink this time around but will gladly take blue. I am 63 years old.

  • Thank you Becca…u have made me feel a lot better. I had a missed miscarriage a week ago and have been questioning myself a lot about it. I had similar as yours in my 11th week the baby growth was 8 weeks and 5 days. I had natural process of miscarriage and my paramedics and midwives and all my nurses nurtured me. My best support was my husband who stayed awake all night to sooth and confort me❤.

  • Becca, I found you because I was terribly sick during my first trimester and felt so connected to you after watching your videos about feeling the same. I happened to watch this video right before my first sonogram. I knew I “shouldn’t” but something was just telling me I needed to. If I wouldn’t have, I would have been completely unprepared for the news that my baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks. I am so grateful that you shared your story. Thank you.

  • Thank you for posting this. I found out yesterday I will be going through the same process. My baby also does not have a heart beat at 11 weeks. Thank you. It is hard and I appreciate it.

  • I have had 6 miscarriages 1 was a missed miscarriage. For me, the D&Cs were my choice versus doing it naturally after going through both. Some of my earlier miscarriages were like a severe period but the first one I did naturally was like yours and I woke up with insane contractions and the bleeding was crazy so I stepped into the shower to rinse off and it slipped out like you described and it was about the size of my fist. And then everything slowed down mjorly after that. But it was awful and I would much rather just be over it physically right away so I can focus on getting through it emotionally. I agree 1000% about it making me more grateful. I’m soooo thankful every day for my 2 babies here on earth and the 1 I’m currently carrying and hope to be giving birth to in December. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • 12weeks preg. I just went to my first visit yesterday. The doctor indicated she couldn’t find the heartbeat or the baby. She said she can see something but couldn’t tell what it was. Mind it was done vaginally. So next they will be doing a regular ultrasound. Doing some LAB work tomorrow. I have a bad feeling it’s a miscarriage, and this breaks my heart. Thank you for your video. Your right Google is pretty vague on this topic.

  • My body is going through changes right now. I’ve experienced 3 missed miscarriages due to fibroids. All miscarriages were in the first trimester.. ����I’ve had a myometomy and had 8 fibroids removed and a cyst burst as well but I’m healed from that. Fast forward to today and Now I’ve received a positive pregnancy test but I was bleeding �� blood clots and bright red blood just last week. I also had cramps ( not severe ) in my lower belly and back but not so bad I couldn’t manage.( I don’t know if I’ve lost my baby or not )��The bleeding has stopped but my appetite and libido has picked up. My head is just messed up from everything I’ve been through ��. I didn’t go to emergency room because I’ve been through this before and unfortunately the hospital staff is just not empathetic enough and it’s like ok on to the next patient. but the only difference where I have hope is this time I was more well and able to get around while I was bleeding. I’m just taking it easy and giving myself more time before I take another pregnancy test����… I hope whoever reads this to know you’re not alone. We can get through this together. I’m sorry I’m so long winded. Be well beautiful ladies

  • This video speaks to me soooooo much. I had a 19-week loss and 37-week stillbirth and still no living children. If it wasn’t for God and my faith, I don’t know how I would’ve maintained my sanity and joy. Everything you spoke on is so true. My experiences brought me so much closer to God, and I’m still trusting him no matter what. He has a purpose in all things, even when we don’t understand. Keep being a light and encouraging others. ♥️♥️

  • You have a really great perspective on a hard situation.:/ I can’t imagine the heartbreak, I’m so sorry. Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m in the first trimester, so it’s really good to know some of these details. I first found your channel from your “Preparing for the RD exam” video, but it’s been nice to follow you through some of these life events. Thanks!

  • Dear Becca, I just had a very early miscarriage. I went to the emergency gynecologist. The first time there was a lady dr. and she was great. The second time there was a male dr. who would have had to interpret the blood test result. He only said one word: negative and waited for me to walk out the door. He did not give me one single word of encouragement or advice. I spent the rest of the day crying bc. even though I was pretty sure the pregnancy was lost, bc with the bleeding all the symptoms went away. I even stopped taking the vitamins, bc I just felt there was no point, but I thought I will get some advice and maybe there was a glimmer of hope in me left. It is so sad that there are doctors who are so insensitive and don’t realize the emotional rollercoaster women go through from a positive test to a miscarriage. Thank you for sharing your experience, I understand how you feel.

  • You are just amazing. I have never experienced miscarriage cause I have never been pregnant (just 21 years old), but this really got me thinking. You are one of the reasons why I started believe in God, and it is because of the things you have shared, so thank you ❤️. Have you ever seen the movie Haven is for real, if not I think you should do it.
    Much love from Sweden ��

  • Thank you for making this video. I just had my 4th miscarriage at 11 weeks 3 days with a IVF embryo that was PGS tested as normal. I’m still working with doctors to figure out what went wrong. I heard a healthy heartbeat and saw movement about 48 hours later my world flipped upside down.

  • Sis I know your pain because I went through the same in 2016, I lost my baby when I was 5months pregnant  IN JUNE 2016, 3 months after that I was expecting again, I had the most fearfull pregnancy ever but I remained at the feet of Jesus. Funny enough 2017 I gave birth to my son also in June.. It was the most difficult time of my life but I was never that close to God than the time I went through that trauma. God is amazing and HE IS THE AUTHOR OF OUR LIFES. My son will be 3 years in June 2020 and I cannot stop thanking enough for entrusting me to be his momma…

  • Just now I’m miscarriage for 12 weeks it’s to ��paint like I’m laborer for baby and there’s a lot of blood coming out and what you shown for the big out it.its look like the same sizes…I’m still on the bed because I don’t have strange wright now.but hopefully I Will be OK… Bad so ��sad because I ��lost it… I hoping I Will be ��pregnant again and not losing again ��I hopes so'””by God almighty Willing only…&Sending ��love ��love loved..it’s to difficult when you’re 40plus already to get pregnant it’s difficult probably that’s why it’s… ������

  • Beautiful tribute Nicole. Jeez, I thought I was going to make it through without any tears but as soon as the music started I lost it. My mom had 2 miscarriages when I was still very young and I didn’t know about them until I was probably 7 or 8. Just a little girl, I remember crying and crying in my room for my Mom thinking about her losing little babies and why she never told me. It broke my little heart to think.. “she must be so sad..”, but I never saw her sad. I just didn’t understand it all. We’ve been struggling with secondary infertility, trying so hard to have another baby. Our son will be 7 in June. Sometimes when I feel really low and upset about it, I think about my Mom or friends of mine that have had losses and I think maybe the universe isn’t letting me have a pregnancy yet because it’s saving me from a loss. That its just not the right time yet..

  • Thank you Becca for sharing your stories. When I found out I was pregnant I listened to your podcast The Bristows Made a Baby and it got me so excited. Today when I found out I miscarried this video helped me get through it. So sorry for your loss, your story lives on.

  • The way my doctor and his office staff handled my feared miscarriage caused me to write a letter to the hospital he works at. He educated me and made a game plan. That isn’t common though unfortunately. It’s true that they can’t do anything to save the baby but they can be kind.

  • Thank you for sharing this. I have PCOS and have had a couple miscarriages since getting married. I have them very early on in the pregnancy. I don’t even get my hopes up anymore just in case. But hearing stories from other moms helps me so much. It’s so taboo to talk about it with people and it’s off-putting for so many people. So thank you for having this conversation with us! Sending love and prayers your way!

  • Mine could have been last May 2016 and on December 2017.Your video touched my heart that I cried right now.Only people who suffered the same can actually emphatized.The emotional and physical pain is hard.We are happy to see friends and family getting pregnant but we know deep inside there is struggle.But God has plans.Better than we could imagine.To remember the angels that weve lost, we actually gave names to them..I know in God’s perfect time we will have our rainbow babies..Thoughts amd prayers to you and you family.

  • I had a mc at 8 weeks and then I had my son who is 4 in June. When he was 16 months I had 3 chemical pregnancies in a row and then I had a mc at 7 weeks. Then I had a stillbirth at 29 weeks. Another late mc at 18.5 weeks and now after 7 months of trying again I have been told I am miscarrying again and I am nearly 12 weeks. I think I have become desensitised to losing babies. And all this in 2.5 years. I feel for any woman that has to go through this. We truly are the strongest gender x

  • This is my first time visiting your channel.. I miscarried on December 19�� I loved what you said about ’and if not He is still good’! Thank you for the encouragement!!

  • I’m blessed to be 37w with #3. I was extremely paranoid during the first trimester (I was with all my pregnancies). I went in to my 10w apt with dread but we heard the heartbeat on the doppler. Same thing at my 12w and 20w scan, but we left relieved. Still pretty anxious even now despite having weekly scans. My last baby was delivered at 32w on the verge on stillbirth which automatically made this pregnancy high risk. Thank God they detected her heart failure bc my fundal height was 3w behind (they wouldn’t have scanned me otherwise). If I don’t feel this baby move for an hour, I’ll poke and prod until I do. I had a very early miscarriage (5w) before we conceived our first. Very relieved I haven’t experienced any others especially later on.

  • I’m so sorry. Due dates are so hard. My sister in law was pregnant at the same time I was. I miscarried and she delivers a beautiful baby girl. I still look at my niece and wonder what if and it’s been almost 8 years now. Since then my sister in law has had several miscarriages. It’s just heart breaking. I know no matter how dark it may be now someday the light will come. ��

  • This was so sweet. I’ve lost two pregnancies and three babies this year. One of the due dates was my birthday and I don’t think I’ll ever celebrate without a layer of grief on top of it.

  • grabe sobrang nkaka relate ako 1 yr ago nakunan dn ako june 18. wlng heart beat yung baby ko. sobrang sakit na until now ang sakit sakit padin ��

  • Sending you positive vibes Becca. I have been through several and I felt every emotion you experienced. Praying that future babies are in your future.

  • I just had a miscarriage today two days before my 30th birthday it hurts bc I had to explain it to my 5 year old who was so excited but to God be the glory everything is going to be ok and I will have a beautiful healthy baby in God’s perfect timing. This video wasn’t by mistake it was meant for me to see.��❤️

  • Sending lots of love your way. I had a miscarriage in April and my due date was Christmas Day. I’m terrified about how this first Christmas after our loss will go, praying that it doesn’t ruin the holiday for me forever, especially since I am lucky enough to have 2 sweet sons here on earth with me. Anyway, prayers, love, and hope for you to get your miracle soon ❤️

  • I’m sorry for your loss. You’re really brave for sharing this story. My first pregnancy, I experienced almost exactly the same what you did except I didn’t have to take medication. (Spotting, Bleeding, pain, contractions, blood clothes and finally big chunk of tissue) It’s totally suck what I have been through but like many women said miscarriage is common but people just don’t talk about it.
    Now I’m (thinking ✌️✌️ waiting for confirmation) 5 week pregnant again, I’m so exited, hopeful and scared at the same time. Pray for healthy pregnancy and beautiful and healthy baby every day.
    But if it happens again I’ll never give up.

  • this makes me cry too.�� 4 months ago pa lang nung nawala baby ko. still very fresh and too painful sakin.. first baby sana..���� may time na ayoko makakita ng buntis at baby kasi it makes me cry. at naiinggit ako..������

  • So happy to see your smile and sharing with us what God has blessed you through this process you had to face. Sending lots of love and blessings ������

  • Thank you for this video. I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy. It really does just make it harder when health care workers act like that. The limbo has literally been the worst. Wishing you nothing but the best of luck on your journey ❤

  • I’m so sorry! I genuinely hope you’re feeling better now. It’s crazy how the body may not realize what’s really going on for weeks. I had a miscarriage earlier this year and it took a month before my body registred. Our first appointment was at 7 weeks-ish. The baby was too small for that age but the doctor asked us to come back in two weeks, just in case our dates were off. I knew they were not so I didn’t have my hopes up. Those two weeks of waiting were some of the longest in my life. And the news we got was bad, of course. I ended up miscarrying on my own but they still decided to perform a D&C to prevent infection.

  • Completely lost me since you fail to realize how abortion has helped so many women. Particularly women who have been raped or health issues…

  • Oh my gosh than you so much for sharing this and all of your pregnancy experiences. First let me say, I’m so sorry for your loss. You are absolutely right that hearing other people’s stories is incredibly helpful. I essentially just went through the same thing missed miscarriage, intense nausea and worse illness after finding out about it. I scoured the internet for other stories of missed miscarriages because I wanted to let it resolve naturally and I just couldn’t understand why I was still so sick. I ended up getting a D&C simply because I couldn’t handle being sick anymore. This was my first pregnancy and without any other stories to compare my experience to I just felt like something was wrong with me. The baby had actually stopped growing about 5-6 weeks before I got the D&C. Anyhoo, hearing your story makes me feel a lot more normal, so thank you!

  • That’s was amazing I started watching your video just yesterday and I was fasting and after watching your video on fasting I got to understand there is more I can do and after this video too I realize certain things just to change me to be better. Thank You and God bless you

  • Sitting here in tears. Massive hugs to you and your sister. I lost 2 sets of twins early on, the first were a missed miscarriage and I had an operation then the next month I got pregnant again and miscarried one naturally and the other was in my tube and I had ectopic surgery. Then 2 months later I had my rainbow baby.. I know how you feel, sad about the babies but I wouldn’t have had my son.. It is so hard. Xxx

  • I had the same feeling with my losses this year. The first was an MMC at 13 weeks, after baby passed at 8 weeks, and the second was a blighted ovum. I just knew I would never meet them ��

  • It’s so inspiring how it’s like you came back so boldly from such a dark time! The fact your energy is so bright, big and happy! My God. He is so good ������

  • Omg. I love you, your joy literally brings me joy! I’m so glad that you learned so much through this unfortunate experience. Praise God for the way He turns things around.

  • I’m so sorry. I’ve had 2 missed miscarriages where the baby stopped growing at 7 weeks and I didn’t find out till around 12 weeks. I do now have a 2 week old perfect rainbow baby! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon! ��

  • ❤ such a good video. Thank you for sharing honestly and openly. Watch us overcome by the power of Jesus’ blood and the word of our testimony! Hallelujah! Praise the Lord because He IS good! amen. Thank you sis. Love you!

  • Thank you for sharing your story dear. God bless you and keep you. I want to encourage you to read the book “Gangster Prayer” by Autumn Miles. It is a small. It is a book that will bless you. God is faithful.

  • I feel your pain I just went throw a miscarriage not to long ago idk what to do or think my mind just went blank I get so emotional once I see baby clothes is the worse I was 8 weeks and 6 days

  • “If not, HE is still good” �� Thank you for sharing your story,..i’m crying while watching your video…I just had a miscarriage last two weeks ago and undergo D&C,.same as yours, no fetal heart rate…I feel numb when the doctor said that our baby has no heart beat..all I can I say in my mind “Let thy will be done”,.but it’s really hurt deep inside within…We’re praying for a child since we got married last 2018..we felt that our joy snatched from us..��…why in this time of pandemic?..but I told to my husband,.even it’s hard,.we should pray more,.we should trust more our God for He know what’s the best for us…With your testimony,.I pray that I can be also a living testimony to others who go through this kind of situation. God bless you and your family.❤

  • Thank you for sharing this. I am currently miscarrying. I just found out the day before Mother’s Day at my 12 week appointment that my baby no longer had a heartbeat. I am scheduled for a D&C tomorrow. Just like you said, hearing other women’s stories really does help.