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There are several potential benefits of having a D&C after a miscarriage. Shortens the Physical Process A D&C is a single, scheduled event, whereas a natural miscarriage can be drawn out over days and even weeks. The D&C procedure involves dilating your cervix and using a special tool to remove the contents of the uterus, and it helps prevent infection and complications after miscarriage. Here’s what you.

This article helps you understand more on D&C procedures. Pros: 1. Remove abnormal cells: Dilation and Curettage procedure is used to treat any abnormal cells resulting to cure. 2. Cleanse uterus: D&C to cleanse the uterus after a miscarriage or abortion.

It also stops heavy bleeding thus you don’t. Natural Miscarriage vs. D&C. From time to time a transferred embryo will implant but fail to lead to a viable pregnancy.

Generally only 10-20% of pregnancies confirmed by either blood test or ultrasound are statistically likely to end in miscarriage. This is likely a very emotional time for both you and your intended. Complications after D&C after a missed miscarriage. (12 weeks) I found that my baby has stopped growing after week 9. I just had my D&C operation done yesterday. It went well( I had the same op 7 months ago and knew what to expect) but just before I was about to be discharged I felt very unwell and collapsed. The Pros And Cons.

Exactly two weeks ago I had my second D&C. I found out at 8.5 weeks I was experiencing a missed miscarriage. I had no idea as my body was still experiencing all the pregnancy symptoms but the baby had stopped growing.

Pros and Cons of D&C vs waiting it ou. August 16, 2020 | by YaraK. At my 10.

I have been through each type, natural, medicated induced, and D&C. Having the D&C was the best and easiest for me. It was less painful; I bled less, and I didn’t have to wait for weeks to have a complete m/c. If I have another missed m/c, I would have a D&C in a heartbeat.

No regrets and no cons for me. What are the pros and cons of D&C vs. natural miscarriage? I’m 41 years old, if it matters. Thanks.

09/28/2011 15:34 Subject: D&C or natural miscarriage? Anonymous: I had two D&C’s. Once I knew the fetus was not viable (I think 9 weeks the first time and 12 weeks the second), I just wanted to end the. I had 2 miscarriages and didn’t get the procedure either time.

This is what happened to me. The first time I miscarried everything went naturally and without any problems or complications and was relatively quick, I was 4 weeks along when it happe. I can’t really advise on the pros/cons.

I personally chose a D&C as I didn’t want to wait for the process to happen. I also got the news at 8 weeks that the baby stopped growing at 6.5 weeks. It could take up to a couple weeks for the natural process to occur and I personally couldn’t handle that.

List of related literature:

It may cause miscarriage, usually in the second trimester, and is the cause of 15–20% of pregnancy losses as well as premature labour.

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They are also more likely to undergo cesarean delivery, to experience pregnancy-related complications (such as hypertension, pre-eclampsia/eclampsia, abruption, and antepartum bleeding) and to have cardiomyopathy or pulmonary hypertension.

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Inevitable Moderate Mild to severe No Yes Bed rest if no pain, bleeding, or infection If rupture of membranes, pain, bleeding, or infection is present, then prompt termination of pregnancy is accomplished, usually by dilation and curettage.

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● In cases of first-trimester miscarriage, one should determine whether the loss was at a very early stage (biochemical evidence of pregnancy only), anembryonic (blighted ovum), embryonic (6–8 wk), or fetal (>8 wk).

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However, prenatal repair significantly increased the risk for various fetal and maternal complications,8,186 including spontaneous membrane rupture, partial or complete uterine dehiscence, and preterm birth with increased risk for respiratory distress syndrome (Table 63.4).

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In short, the majority of parents in the pregnancy after a loss will need extra support and carefully coordinated care from their obstetric team.

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Another recent study reports an increased risk of lowered fertility, uncompleted pregnancy (ectopic pregnancy, possible miscarriage), complications in the next pregnancy (including placental complications), and health problems in the next infant.

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Risk factors for placental abruption include hypertensive states, sudden decompression of the uterus, preterm pre-labour rupture of the membranes, previous history of placental abruption, trauma, smoking and abuse of cocaine.

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The pregnancy may remain viable (threatened miscarriage) despite the bleeding or it may be a feature of nonviability (missed abortion or blighted ovum).

“Oxford American Handbook of Obstetrics and Gynecology” by Errol R. Norwitz, S. Arulkumaran, I. Symonds, A. Fowlie
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Missed • (intrauterine fetal demise at <20 weeks’ GA): retained nonviable pregnancy in which the embryo or fetus lacks heartbeat but symptoms of miscarriage have not developed.

“The Johns Hopkins Manual of Gynecology and Obstetrics” by The Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine Department of Gynecology and Obstetrics, K. Joseph Hurt, Matthew W. Guile, Jessica L. Bienstock, Harold E. Fox, Edward E. Wallach
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  • I just went through my second miscarriage. I wanted my boyfriend to be with me but he couldn’t come in for any of my appointments because of Covid-19. I originally went in because I was passing clots in the way to pick up my new car. I couldn’t talk about it or cry because my boyfriend’s brother was in the car with us. Later that night my baby came out and the pregnancy was over. Since then I haven’t been able to sleep well at night.

    During my first miscarriage, I had a dreams about my baby. I dreamt the doctors and nurses were taking my baby from me. This was the night before my miscarriage. After my miscarriage, I dreamt about her one more time. She was sitting in the backseat of my car talking to me. ❤️

  • This makes me sooo happy �� thank you for sharing your story. This is literally happening with me right now. I’m so glad to know that i am not the only one. Thank you again for sharing ��

  • Seeing your video gives me hope �� I just had a miscarriage this Saturday I was 9weeks pregnant �� these past days been killing me.. I want to start trying again but the doctor said wait until 3 months but I dont think I can wait that long ��

  • Maine only 20 days ki PAGNENCE me mtp ki tablet lekar bacha gira diya but mujhe blending only 2 day hi huyi and normal Piriyad me blending 4_5 tk hoti h mujhe darr h ki kahi baby ka koi ansh to nhi rah GYA na…. Mam plz help

  • How did u know u was pregnant when u didn’t have a period again??? I got pregnant with my first baby a couple months ago and miscarried at 8 weeks it’s been a lil over a month since I miscarried and have not started my period

  • I just recently had a miscarriage on exactly 5 weeks �� I was so devastated, I don’t know if I want to try again, I just don’t think I could go through it again.

  • Mam mai 45 day hue the pregnent hue or unwated kit kha ke khatam kr liye h or 13 day tak blooding hui or phir band ho gai or 5. 6 day bad phir se utana hi blooding ho raha to iska kya mstlab h mam ple ans dijye

  • I know it’s been a while since you posted this, but I felt so similar when I had a loss late in the first trimester after finally concieving via IVF. I was burnt out, too, and withdrawn, detached, and angry… I also survived by being matter-of-fact at first. I’m almost a year out at this point and feel way better. I’m glad I took time off from ttc to process. I’m still pretty terrified at the idea of being pregnant, but I’m looking forward to trying again. I’m so very sorry this happened to you, and I hope your healthy rainbow happens soon ♡

  • hi mera 18th June ko miscarriage hogaya.. mera weight bahut jyada hai agli pregnancy se pehle me apna weight loss karana chahti hu par mujhe Kuch samajh nahi aaraha kya karu plz me…. weight loss k liye kya karu aur kab se start karu plz help

  • Prayed for you & your husband, sweet Kelsie. (Went thru a miscarriage myself!) It helps me to always remember “Nothing is too difficult for the Lord!” (Luke 1:37) who loves us ALL, extremely! Look to Jesus, He answers prayer really!! <3

  • Hi there! I just stumbled upon your video and it breaks my heart to hear your story and really feel your pain, you see I just went through the exact same thing. About 3 weeks ago I found out that our baby had died. I was also 10 weeks and 3 days along. My whole world fell apart. My fiancé and I have been TTC for more than 2,5 years now and this was our third miscarriage after lots of testings, examinations, fertility treatments and finally IVF. I understand completely that you decided to do a D & C. Unfortunately I was never given that choice. Instead I was recommended to do a so called “medical abortion” of the fetus. I basically got a few vaginal pills to take at home. I did so and god what a nightmare that was… I went through real hell with extreme pain and very heavy blood loss and in the end much of the fetus didn’t even come out. So this last Friday I ended up having a D & C after all. Altogether I went around three weeks with the remains of our dead baby inside me. Why I didn’t get to have a D & C in the first place beets me. Anyway, I just want to send you a hug and say that I certainly hope things will work out for the both of us. We just have to keep believing that one day, in not too long, we’ll have the babies we so much long for. I’m sure you and your husband will bee the best of parents, by the way. Best of wishes from Sofie in Sweden. ❤️

  • mera 6 month k baby hi aur muje abhi 1 month k phir se pragnance hi to maine dawai kha li huu to normaly kitne din tk bleeding hogi

  • I wish I could give you a hug and pray over you! All I’ve been doing was fighting back tears and praying for you through this entire video❤️❤️

  • Congrats! The line was actually super dark. The line on the left is the test line and the one on the right is the control line. The test line(positive) was darker than the control line because your HCG levels were really high.

  • Hi, I don’t know if you’ll ever read this but I just found this video, and honestly I had to pause it and just cry. I too, lost my second pregnancy at 9 weeks, and my words tocmy doctor when I found out we’re “I want it out”. People always say “I know how you feel” when they have no clue, but in this case, I truly know exactly how you feel. I wish more people like you made videos for other women going through similar experiences and were as honest as you so we would know it’s okay to feel like this��

  • I felt the exact same way. They were taking so long in the doctors office and I just wanted to hurry up and leave. Didn’t wanna see the fetus come out. Didn’t wanna be awake for anything so I opted for the d&c.. felt kind of sick about having my dead baby in me for a week and a half. There were no signs

  • Mam Mera 2 bar MISSCRAGE hua h.dnc ke bad se mujhe pet ke niche hisse me dard hota rahata h kya karu.koi badi pareshani to nahi hogi yahi Dr h

  • Hey beautiful it’s ok to mourn its your baby and now he or she is in paradise. I lost 3 my sister is having her dnc this morning. Take care and stay positive also healthy eating helps with infertility… look up medical medium he will change your life.

  • Hey! I’m not sure if you remember me, (we went to Phoenix together for a bit, i left) I had my son with me. I’m so happy for you, that you get experience something so beautiful. And please try to remember that DIOS APRIETA PERO NO AHORCA! That little boy is a blessing and I understand what your feeling but I just want to say that keep your head up even in the hardest moments because once you hold your little one you’ll feel all your stresses disappear. I wish you a healthy and easy pregnancy. ❤❤Much love for you all. ❤❤

    ( yay same month as my first born! He’s on may 12th. My miracle premie baby boy turning 4!.. hehe I’m just so happy for you! Like I can’t explain it lol )

  • I had a Miscarriage at 5weeks I found this out yesterday. I’m very sad about it and hoping I can get pregnant again after it’s over. If I do I’ll be sharing my update hope all the best for mommies trying to get pregnant again ❤️ so today is May 14th and I just found out I’m pregnant again

  • hi. just saw your comment in somewhere(how to grow with). I’m here to click the like and redwhite button for your video and channel. Appreciated if you could do the same for me. No hurt feel if you don’t wish to do that. cheer. happy new year ^_^

  • Your reaction was definitely normal. Don’t worry about that at all. I had my d & c today and I was the same way. I wanted it to be over asap. When she offered a picture at my ultrasound, I immediately declined and thought about that test of the day if I should have taken it. Time just stopped and didn’t want anything to do with it. So it’s totally normal. It’s so hard and I’m walking through the same pain with you right now. I’m so sorry.

  • i’m glad you decided to get it out right away, i had a miscarriage at 14 weeks but the baby died at 10 weeks, i woke up with my water breaking and i had blood gushing out non stop, i went to the emergency room, i was able to pass the fetus out on my own but they did a d&c to get the placenta out

  • I found out I was pregnant in July ended up having a miscarriage in August had my first proper period in September and found out I’m pregnant again in October

  • It is totally normal to feel the way you are. I just had my second loss and I opted for a d&c and wanted it done as soon as possible. Dealing with losing your babies is a very hard thing to do. I ended up passing it at home 2 days before and it was much harder than the first time. I am so so sorry you are dealing with this. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!

  • Mam 2 month me miscarriage huwa hai maine dubara cheque karwayi toh phirr se positive dikhaya hai toh maine doctor se altrasound karwaya toh sab normal hai thoda thoda Harmon rehneki wajese positive dikhata hai aisa kaha doctor ne aagle bache ko koi problem nai hoginaa please reply me muje bahoth darr lag raha hai pls reply me

  • I am so sorry… I have 2 miscarriages too one when I was 8 weeks and 1 when I was 18 weeks, each of them where really painful so I know what you’re going through. But now I have a 5 year old daughter what I actually have is an incompetent cervix and needed a cerclage, I know soon you’ll have a little blessing and that day you’ll never forget, the good thing that comes with this is that you get to enjoy your kids and really love them. I’m actually 9 weeks pregnant now and really scare but I just leave everything in the hands of God I hope soon you’ll get a baby. Good luck and again I’m really sorry.

  • I know exactly how you feel… I found out I was pregnant on the 1 year mark that my nieces that I raised since birth (4.5 years) moved half way across the country. It killed me to lose them, but I thought the Lord blessed me with such a great gift! I got my first ultrasound on my birthday 9/26, at Maternal Fetal Medicine and was 7w4d pregnant, we saw the heartbeat but it was slow at 103bpm. The docs said dont worry about it that’s still within normal limits, and the fact the baby was exactly a week smaller meant nothing either. The told me to come back 2 weeks later. I saw my gyn 3 days later (9/29) and he gave me another ultrasound…he said the heart rate was around 100 and that he wasnt ordering anymore tests for a baby he didnt think would be here in 2 weeks. He said to come back in 2 weeks. On 10/9 I went in for my ultrasound alone. I got good at reading ultrasounds after 2 high risk pregnancies. When I laid back on that cold ultrasound table and she squirted that warm jelly on my tummy i was filled with such excitement to see my little dino again… but the second she touched my stomach with the ultrasound… my heart broke! I prayed that maybe it was a bad angle… that the heartbeat was there… it was just because they did an external ultrasound… if they did the internal it would be there. When she got to the ovaries I knew the ultrasound was over. I screamed out, “I dont see a heartbeat. Is everything ok? I dont see a heartbeat.” The tech removed the ultrasound from me looked at me and said, “I’m so sorry. There is no heartbeat.” And left the room. I had to go to work right after… I tossed myself into my work. It kept my mind off the fact I felt like a walking talking coffin. When I went home tho… nothing occupied my thoughts. I have my D&E surgery on Thursday afternoon. I have informed them I want my child, I dont want tests to be done on the baby and the funeral home will pick it up after its retrieved. That’s all that is keeping me sane. Putting my baby to rest. Having her buried with my husbands grandmother, the only woman he loved… before me. My husband says we can try again… but I dont want to roll the dice and end up with the same hand I have now. Also for anyone who has lost a child… the worst thing you can say is “The Lord has a plan” or “The Lord will help you through this”. This does nothing but put a wedge in the relationship between and Mother and God. The more people say it the deeper the wedge. I love my God and always will… but just like a child that received discipline after doing something wrong… I need alone time and after I have come to terms…I will be back by his side enjoying his company. But right now… it’s too real and the cut is still raw. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • Girl! You just gave me a lot more hope!������ i just lost my baby 2 days ago, i was 5 weeks & 3 days i aready had my due date�� atleast i was able to get 1 ultrasound of my baby peanut ��, ive been crying a lot im super sad nothing will ever bring me my baby back���� but we want to start trying again in 3 months for our rainbow baby������

  • Gosh I relate to you on EVERYTHING in this video. I had my D&C on March 18th and ugh it’s such an awful feeling. Im sending you love and prayers!

  • I’ll be praying for you too God bless you with a beautiful child I’m so sorry I am almost 39 years old and I have not conceived I pray to God and he will bless you with a beautiful child and story really touched my heart may God bless you

  • TTC journey is hard. Ive had 2 missed miscarriage never a ❤ beat. Currently 7 week have ultrasound on Thursday and Im super super nervous praying for something positive ��

  • I’m so sorry for your lost. this video brought back a lot of memories and it broke my heart. I had my d&c dec 21 at 9 weeks (heart stopped at 8 weeks) and it is one of the hardest things that i ever went through. I also felt numb and very detached from the whole thing. I gave myself one day to cry and be emotional the day before the procedure, but since then it’s still hard. TTC is a lot more difficult than i originally thought. good luck to you and your journey.

  • How long were you trying the first time? I have some theory that bc it took us 6 years its gonna take that long again… im just praying this happens to me… god please…

  • Sorry for your loss, Thanks for sharing u are so brave!!! Just put your heart and desires in the Lord! Just keep believing in his plan! Im going thru the same experience ��

  • Thank you so much for sharing this.I had a miscarriage / D&C a week ago. It is definitely very sad are young and healthy baby will come for sure….Eat well, enjoy your life, good thing your body knows how to get pregnant..give it sometime at try again girl…God bless you infinitely.

  • Ah, I’m sorry for your loss and bravery to actually film this and share with the world, I know exactly how you feel i had a twin miscarriage at 10weeks, we saw the heartbeat at 6weeks they were perfectly fine and right size, but it was missed miscarriage and my body was not letting it go so i had to had a D&C, we did send test to lab and it came back as nothing wrong no chromosomes abnormality no cardiac error just an unfortunate situation. but mentally I’m still nubbed aswell i think about it every time i see baby’s everytime my partner cuddles me, there is nothing women do to cause this it happens to vaste majority of women and it sucks, I hope it will workout next time.
    All the best xx

  • I just found out i was having twins. I was sooooo excited. Then i had a miscarriage. I put all my faith in God and hope I get a chance to make another baby.

  • This gives me hope to I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks with my second child just before Christmas I’m now in the two week wait just a month later as I thankfully ovulated a month after the miscarriage fingers crossed for me and ever other mother or mother to be xxxxx

  • So sorry for your loss, your story is exactly like my daughter’s. She found out today that her baby had no heartbeat. This is her 2nd miscarriage. In both pregnancies her babies stopped growing at 6 weeks. And we just heard the baby’s heartbreaking last week. This last pregnancy she was 8 weeks and 1 day. I’m taking her in the morning for a d&c. She is devastated, so my heart goes out to you and I pray that one day God will bless you and my daughter with many healthy babies. And thank you for sharing your story.

  • The exact same thing happened to me I had 2 mc 1st 6 weeks then 2nd a mmc at 11 weeks. I know exactly how u felt! It’s horrible. I’ve just found out I’m pregnant again and I’m absolutely petrified I’m going to mc again. Good luck for the future!

  • I was so happy when I found out I was pregnant but at 6 weeks no heartbeat, at 8 weeks still nothing the sac n baby are growing but no heartbeat. My doctor says either its a miscarriage or the weeks have been miscalculated. M so disheartened. My doctor says to wait for another week before getting into it. ������

  • Oh my god I don’t believe This Exact Same thing happened to me yesterday �� i miscarried baby for the second time yesterday, I had my 1 st miscarriage in July when I was 6 week 4 days pregnant.this time it was in10th week ���� I went for my 10th week appointment. I went in thinking it’s a quick routine appointment, For this appointment my husband was with me as he couldn’t make it to the last appointment n couldn’t hear the heartbeat so this time he was in the room with me, holding my hand,waiting for the sound of baby’s heartbeat, but doctor couldn’t find baby’s heartbeat, baby was fine 2 weeks ago when we did the last ultrasound but yesterday she couldn’t find it,we also did pelvic ultrasound in radiology department just to b sure as we just couldn’t believe that baby is just gone. It confirmed our fear. The doctor gave us 3 options & I too choose D&C as I didn’t want to carry dead baby inside me for long. I just wanted it to b over soon. Luckily got today’s appointment for the procedure and I got it done. My life went from being pregnant/ having a baby to no baby in less than 24 hrs, I am still in shock,still couldn’t believe that my baby is gone ��

  • I know how it is to have a miscarriage I would’ve been like 12 1/2 weeks but the doctor push my due date back a week so I was about 11 1/2 weeks I had my miscarriage I had my miscarriage on October 27th 2016 I was 20 years old then I was so scared, everything pasted on it’s own the baby wasn’t the Size that it would and should have been at 11 1/2 to 12 1/2 weeks along the baby was maybe a inch or a inch and a half long, then baby was in my underwear
    I recently got married in April 29th and I would love to have another baby

  • This really gives me a lot of hope. I am going through a miscarriage right now. I was only 4 weeks today, and it started today. After ttc for 17 cycles I already felt so much love for this child while I only knew a few days. It’s so devastating. I have a little bit more hope now that things will go better in the near future.

  • The same thing is happening to me. I am 20 had my first pregnancy and lost my baby at 9 weeks. It’s been almost a month that i found out that I lost my baby, and I’m so lazy, sleepy and I’ve been craving so much chocolate and different types of food. I’m scared to take a pregnancy test and have it say positive and maybe miss carry again. I wish you the best in your pregnancy!!! I’m hoping that my next pregnancy goes well. My first baby is still in the back of my head, i always think about my little baby, and wonder if maybe I had a miscarriage because of something I did. But so many people tell me not to blame my self that god only knows why he took my little angel. Wish you the best with your baby boy!!!! ❤️❤️

  • I just found your videos and came across this video. I had a second miscarriage and D&C early this spring. I usually don’t comment on things but I just want you know that everything you felt at the time was normal. I felt the same way about “just getting it over with”. I wish I found this earlier. It brings me comfort knowing that I was not the only person who described this experience so similarly. I wish you joy and light and the best. I will definitely be following your videos while we are TTC.

  • Sorry you went through this. I also went in at 10wks 4 days and no heartbeat. I wasn’t expecting that at all. My husband I were so hurt. My baby only measured 7 weeks and 2 days.

  • Mam maine medicine se 6 weeks ka abortion kiya tha aur thoda reh gaya tha maine saaf kiya tba per meri bleeding nahi ruk rahi hain help me mam

  • I’m so sorry no one deserves this im in shock!you should never give up!keep on trying!but I’m actually still crying!����������������������������������������������

  • mera 3 month ka beby kharab ho gaya tha to maine abarshan kewaya hai lekin 7 din ho gaya abhi bleeding bhi ho rahi hai aur pet aur kamr me dard bhi ho raha hai mai Kya karu

  • So very sorry, I hope everything has gotten better with time!
    Me and my wife also experienced a 10 week and our second miscarriage was at 12 weeks.
    We also had to deal with D&C.
    Good news we had 3 daughters who are now 24, 23, and 18.
    I pray for you and your future children.

  • omg�� strong love..there is a saying.. everything happens for a reason we may not know why but all will work out..we’re also TTC..all the best ����

  • I was trying to get pregnant for 3 years and finally was pregnant and than had a miscarriage at 6 weeks.. I hope hope and pray to god I get pregnant soon. ❤️

  • This really hit home for me. I was 12 weeks along when I started bleeding and it was shocking and horrifying to say the least. They took me in right away for an ultrasound, the baby had stopped developing at 9 weeks, shortly after my first ultrasound appointment. Like you, my pregnancy symptoms had rapidly declined (prior to beginning to bleed). My doctor strongly encouraged a D&C for the health of my body/future pregnancies. Unfortunately, they did not offer me any medications during the D&C and it was incredibly traumatic to say the least. I’m okay now but I feel for you on another level. Wishing you all the best in your journey. You are so strong

  • Sadly we went through the same thing at 12 weeks around the same time as yall. I am so sorry for your loss. I also am a Christian and faith part has been a struggle as well. I keep pushing forward but it is hard.

  • I had a D&C about 2 weeks ago. It was my first pregnancy after years of infertility. My experience was so much like yours. But for me i was 8 weeks when I found out, I went into my appointment alone, and I wanted it out right away too. I was sad and angry and didn’t understand why it happened. It has been very hard for me as well. I’m so afraid that it’s going to take long to get pregnant again. I’m thinking of you. Hope we both get what we want soon. ���� oh and yeah I have PCOS too. ��

  • Congratulations on your pregnancy. Just for future reference or for other people, the first line on the test is the “positive line” and the other line is the “control line”
    Your positive line was DARK, which is a good sign. The control line was faint, the reason for this is because the HCG level is so high that it pulls the color from the control line.

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  • I just had a d and c Friday morning. The baby stopped growing at 8 weeks and I thought I was 15 weeks. So hard to go through. And my first pregnancy was ectopic so now I just have bad hospital experiences with pregnancy. I’m at the point right now that I want to take a break.

  • This hits home. I just miscarried at almost 12 weeks a few weeks ago. And had a D&C. I’m having a hard time as well. You need to grieve first then work on getting healthy. It’s hard. Hang in there. I’m not giving up neither should you.

  • Awww mamas I’m so sorry I just lost my baby 11wks but my baby was only measured 9 wks 3 days I also had the d&c done I just wanted it done and over with

  • I don’t know where you’ve been as far as infertility. However, I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks in November of last year and just before that, I was laid off from my job. We felt empty and hopeless for quite awhile. I ended up taking a very part time (15 hours a week) job at minimum wage because it was all I could fine. Two weeks before my due date, I interviewed for a bank teller. My 90 day probationary period at the bank is up on Saturday. I’m working on trying to get healthier too. I’m about 20 pounds overweight. My husband changed jobs because he was treated like a POS where he worked, and we moved to a new place and have the potential to buy our first home. There’s nothing I’ve ever wanted more than to have a child, but for right now, even 8 months later, we’re just trying to prioritize us and make us the best that we can be. I’m sorry you had to suffer this pain again. You’re a strong woman. I don’t think I could do what you do. But I follow your page often and I’m hopeful for your rainbow baby whenever y’all are ready ❤️

  • So sorry for your loss. I just had my first d&c yesterday. This however was my third miscarriage. It was a silent miscarriage and there were no signs anything went wrong. My baby should have been 11 weeks but measured at 9. I can’t accept that it passed away at 9 weeks because my pregnancy symptoms were strongest between weeks 9 and 10 and I believe in my heart that it was due to delayed growth or that it shrank in size by the time the ultrasound was done at 11 weeks… This has been incredibly difficult for me especially since I didn’t want to have a D&C and tried for four days to induce labour through cytotec (at the hospital) to meet my baby and say goodbye then send it for further testing because it’s my third consecutive miscarriage (I have no children yet). My body felt all the cramps but was not letting go of the baby and they had to do a D&C. I never got to see my baby… the procedure tore everything to bits…so I never got to say goodbyebut a sample was shipped off for testing. I don’t know what I want anymore. I feel crushed. I feel empty. All I can do is watch videos like yours to stop feeling so alone.

  • your videos have helped me so much. im so sorry for your loss. my miscarriage was in November so i know your pain. please dont give up. youre so strong.

  • I just had my first miscarriage and the baby passed at 8 weeks and 4 days and I thought I was 10 weeks 4 days pregnant. Husband went with me and I just hated myself bc it was our first baby and it just didn’t work out. Im very sorry, it honestly does suck. I feel numb too. ��

  • Last night i found out that I got positive line in my pregnancy test.. i had miscarriage 2,5 months ago and now pregnant without having any period. Glad I am not the only one..

  • Just when to the same experience yesterday I’m devastated my self looking for same experience to some how find my own healing I know it’s been 3 years since this happen to you but I want to thank you because I’m thankful I’m not alone and as you me many other woman’s are feeling like this after a miscarriage I send you a hug and I hope your life is happy now

  • Congratulations �� on your rainbow baby I’m going through a miscarriage right now and this story makes me so happy did u start conceiving right after? I miscarried at 7 weeks this was my second pregnancy I have a healthy beautiful baby girl ����

  • I have been trying for three years to get pregnant and have had several miscarriages. All my past the pass on their own but this time I was supposed to be 12 weeks and I found out the baby possibly died at 9 weeks. So the best option for me was to do the D&C. I just had it on Thursday today is Friday. I’m cramping a lot and bleeding a lot to where I’m getting scared. The doctor said as long as I’m not filling two pads in and hr that I should be okay. Wondering about how much bleeding and cramping did u have. I’m also on a medicine call methergine to try to reduce the bleeding.

  • I think your feelings are normal because everyone feels different I wanted to keep my baby in as long as I could and soak all the time I had with him but I completely understand wanting everything to be over

  • I had the same thing but I refuse to do the D&C cause there was no bleeding I feel like i want my baby to stay in until my body lose it by it self I was feel like maybe he will be a live a gain ������ now I am 10 weeks with no heartbeat and don’t know what should i do:(

  • How you’re explaining your miscarriage is exactly how I felt after mine. My husband was away for training and I couldn’t even tell him we conceived and lost the baby until I was completely done bleeding. It was so hard, and my reaction was exactly like yours, just to keep pushing and act like everything was okay.

    Congratulations girl! You deserve this baby!

  • I just came across your video and I wanted to say I’m very sorry honey. I just had a miscarriage on May 29th 2017 at 8 weeks pregnant. I had an ultrasound on the 24th and everything was perfect… I started to bleed and cramp on the 29th and it was all over within a few hours. As lucky as I was to have passed everything naturally, I saw my baby come out in my hand and it was traumatizing to say the least. I hope and pray everyday that I will be able to have another baby as soon as my body allows me to. I just want to tell you that you are very brave and inspiring to share your story online and I’m very sorry for your loss. Best of luck to you in the future and happy, healthy little ones!

  • I also had a miscarriage with our supposed 1st baby last september 2016,i’m now 29 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby girl so don’t lose hope…

  • Im 11 weeks just found out today my baby passed a week ago. I go tomorrow for D&C. I have carried a baby for a week for nothing. A cruel joke my body played on me. Can’t stop crying and feel depression kicking in. I thank you for this video and letting me know I’m not the only one going though this. �� thank you ����.

  • Congrats on the new bundle of joy.. I had a miscarriage a month ago I was suppose to be ten weeks the ultrasound showed up as five weeks and 2 days that when the pregnancy ended still no period I think am pregnant again I’ll test tomorrow I am a mom already I have 2 handsome son’s there 2&3 years old but micarring is a loss at any stage my kids were happy for me at 1st then they just knew no more baby that’s what my oldest told me and gave me a hug being a mom is a blessing am glad you get to experience the whole experience ��

  • I miscarried at 7 weeks and it was the worse pain I experienced in my life! Did you experience pain? Here’s my story

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story, my story is literally the same as yours first pregnancy I miscarried at 7 weeks then 2 weeks later I find out I’m pregnant again! Just waiting to see how many weeks I am, Congratulations I’m so happy you’re having a healthy pregnancy & hope for an amazing delivery! ��

  • Congratulations Kim. ❤️ Being pregnant is such a blessing. We lost our baby at 6 weeks, but found out at 7 at our first ultrasound. I was finally 9 weeks when I miscarried.. It was super early, but I already built what felt like a strong relationship with my baby. I only hope to get pregnant again soon. You are so blessed & beautiful! ��

  • Kelsie, I’ve been following your channel for a long time. I know this is an older video, but I recently found out I had a miscarriage and I feel the same exact way. Tomorrow I will have surgery. Watching this helped me today. I’m so thankful you have posted your journey and have shared your feelings. I adore you and your family. You really have helped me.

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  • I am so sorry. I think it’s totally normal to want the d&c when you know the baby has passed. Everyone and every pregnancy is different. So sorry for your pregnancy loss.

  • I can’t wait to see pictures of you’re little family ❤️❤️❤️ wish you a beautiful healthy rest of your pregnancy ❤️ you’re Rainbow baby is going to be beautiful ����