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Top 10 Reasons Nannies Decide to Quit 1. Lack of Communication. Communication is one of the most important aspects of a nanny-parent relationship. A 2. Change of Job Responsibilities.

Nannies are hired to do specific tasks and take care of a particular number of 3. Growing Schedules. The. Some of the reasons as to why a nanny would decide to quit working for you. Dysfunctional family.

Once you get a nanny to work for you, she/he becomes part of the family. Just like any other member of the family, the nanny gets to know of all the happenings in the family. Top Ten Reasons Nannies Quit 10. ISOLATION: This can be a problem for both live in and live out nannies however the nature of the problem can be different.

Occasionally a family hires a nanny and either outright forbids the nanny to leave the home with the child or will only approve on a case by case basis. Top 10 Reasons Nannies Decide to Quit. Fact checked by Elaine Hinzey, RD. How to Tell Your Kids Their Nanny Quit.

By Jill Ceder, LMSW, JD. Why You May Not Want to Use Family as Babysitters. Fact checked by Andrea Rice. Should You Use A Nanny Cam?

By. We hired a nanny to take care of our twin boys when I returned to work after maternity leave. This woman had the perfect job: a salary of $31,200 a year, two-weeks paid time off plus federal.

As a nanny, saying goodbye to a family is one of the most stressful and difficult things to do. Because the nanny-family relationship is both professional and personal, it’s emotionally very hard to give notice. It can even be difficult when the nanny has every right to quit due to mistreatment and/. Employees quit their job for many reasons.

They follow spouses or partners across the country, stay home with children, change careers, find upwardly mobile career promotions, and go back to school. Those reasons are tough to address by an employer because they involve life events in the employee’s world outside of work. Junior runs wild and Mom refuses to allow time outs, loss of privileges, or any other age-appropriate discipline – “Kids will be kids.”. Alcohol abuse, physical abuse, emotional instability any and all of these in a household can cause a nanny to quit. 7.

Nannies ser fram emot att ta en promenad med barnet på en trevlig dag, träffa vänner och njuta av interaktionen. Om du är en familj som ber din barnbarn att stanna hemma hela dagen, antingen av rädsla för att din baby är i bil med någon annan eller annan anledning, ompröva detta beslut. After being in the nanny business for so many years, I have heard the words “My nanny quit” from our new clients countless times.

There are a number of reasons why nannies choose to sever their relationship with their employers, but many boil down to some key areas.

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Expert advice to parents hiring nannies confirms many of these observations.

“The Purchase of Intimacy” by Viviana A. Zelizer
from The Purchase of Intimacy
by Viviana A. Zelizer
Princeton University Press, 2009

She sees her friends juggling family and careers, she sees the time that babies take up, and the sleep they deprive you of, the problems with nannies, the money they cost.

“The Meme Machine” by Susan Blackmore, Susan J. Blackmore
from The Meme Machine
by Susan Blackmore, Susan J. Blackmore
OUP Oxford, 2000

“Now that I’m a boss, I know that if you let people work part time, as their kids get older, they will likely gear back up,” she says.

“Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All” by Sharon Meers, Joanna Strober
from Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All
by Sharon Meers, Joanna Strober
Viva Editions, 2013

We didn’t have our nanny anymore, and Cheryl quit work so she could stay home with the girls.

“Still LoLo: A Spinning Propeller, a Horrific Accident, and a Family's Journey of Hope” by Lauren Scruggs, Scruggs Family, Marcus Brotherton, Bethany Hamilton
from Still LoLo: A Spinning Propeller, a Horrific Accident, and a Family’s Journey of Hope
by Lauren Scruggs, Scruggs Family, et. al.
Tyndale House Publishers, Incorporated, 2012

Barbara learned the fine art of managing babysitters.

“10-10-10: A Life-Transforming Idea” by Suzy Welch
from 10-10-10: A Life-Transforming Idea
by Suzy Welch
Scribner, 2009

“We can’t possibly afford full-time childcare while you’re still trying to get things up and running,” Mike commented one evening, after Kim suggested they hire a temporary nanny.

“Joey: How a Blind Rescue Horse Helped Others Learn to See” by Jennifer Marshall Bleakley
from Joey: How a Blind Rescue Horse Helped Others Learn to See
by Jennifer Marshall Bleakley
Tyndale House Publishers, Incorporated, 2018

I didn’t want a nanny.

“The Millionaire's Wife: An absolutely gripping psychological thriller” by Shalini Boland
from The Millionaire’s Wife: An absolutely gripping psychological thriller
by Shalini Boland
Bookouture, 2018

I hated that other Nanny we had….

“Hollywood, Interrupted: Insanity Chic in Babylon The Case Against Celebrity” by Andrew Breitbart, Mark Ebner, Mark C. Ebner
from Hollywood, Interrupted: Insanity Chic in Babylon The Case Against Celebrity
by Andrew Breitbart, Mark Ebner, Mark C. Ebner
Wiley, 2004

I was too embarrassed to tell her there was no way we could afford to hire a full-time nanny at the moment.

“This Will Only Hurt a Little” by Busy Philipps
from This Will Only Hurt a Little
by Busy Philipps
Gallery Books, 2019

For some reason, no one wants a nanny with a flexible moral code, even when she’s flexing

“The Turn of the Key” by Ruth Ware
from The Turn of the Key
by Ruth Ware
Simon & Schuster, 2019

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  • I like being a nanny. Its easy for me especially when I’m caring for little girls. I always used to go the extra mile because I know one day I’ll need reference, but I’m learning how to NOT anymore. These parents (especially the MOM’s) enjoy taking advantage. Always late and never pay extra. When I add up all the hours off lateness I let them get away with I could kick myself. I’m kind, not stupid.

  • Honestly this list seems like the complaints of some really young people who are still naive enough to think that most jobs will be as easy/fair as college is. And I say that, knowing that college is DAMN hard, but most jobs are even harder-just for different reasons.

  • I worked at Octapharma (a plasma donation center) and in those few months I wound up blacking out twice and each time having a seizure, having to be rushed to the hospital in an ambulance. The first time that I blacked out and had a seizure I had to take a month off of work and in that month, I got paid more than any other month that I actually worked there..

  • I always thought an easier job meant an easier life (keep in mind I’m still a naive teenager), but after hearing reasoning for why some people might not like that, it makes me not want said easy jobs anymore.

  • I like all o the different things mentioned on this list, because they can tell you whether or not your job is woth any of the trouble. As for my dream job, I want to be an event planner, and sell upcycled costumes on the side.

  • I have the issue now where the family is nice and all but my pay is not right for 2 kids and my 13plus years of experience…. At first they made it seem like they didnt have much money, so i worked with them but now im like…hmmm yall buying all this stuff, taking trips all and im not getting paid those days off that you decide to take those trips…like ummm, no. Taking advantage of my kindness is not cool at all. And i haven’t been able to take a trip anywhere this past yr

  • I feel like I want to get slapped to I feel like I will get spray all the time with water when they be naughty will be fun to get braids in my face I like have a shower but I have to go because it’s 10:40

  • i left a career job for #1. the stress caused me to become an alcoholic, and i vomited daily. sorry i miss the money, but not the stress.

  • I started my nanny job when the kids (twins) were 3-4 months old and I LOVED it, but as they get older (they are almost 2) I don’t really like it anymore and kind of dread coming to work. I LOVE their mom to death! They cry ALL the time. They barely listen to anything I say (yeah I know they are 2) but I just miss the easy of cuddling and feeding them, changing their diapers etc. I really don’t have the patience for them anymore and they kind of irritate me sometimes. I just prefer babies more I think it’s what it is and I feel bad.

  • Too much information can lead to paralysis by analysis….so start right where you are..write out your plan…and execute it…Action is the father of Success…just start living your dream…right now…start jump fly…

    Success is not final and failure is not fatal…hf

    thank you Danial for your wisdom: )

  • Im in a bind. I’ve been with this family for almost 3 years. At first I worked for them part time but then I moved to full time. My boss (the mother) definitely takes advantage of me from asking me to move paint cans that have been outside for months to asking me to help organize her closet and clean out the garbage cans. I work 8-6 everyday. When is tatted full time she was consistently 15-20 minutes late everyday and didn’t apologize or pay me for the extra time. I get no sick days or personal days and don’t get paid when they go on vacations. I teach the boys to be independent and they are old enough now but she undermines my teachings and continues to enables them to be lazy and not do things for themselves such as feeding themselves or wiping themselves. ( boys are 4 & 7). I really want to quit but I had said I would stay until the younger one finished pre-K but it’s becoming too much. Any advice?

  • My dream job is to provide for my mother when she gets older, because it has the best salary, seeing my mother happy. (I also want to be an engineer):)

  • People can be so mean, and the comments I’m reading are so disappointing too, like I know it’s just water, but no matter what, it’s not ok to spray kids with water, like sure getting sprayed with water at a party would be fun, but as a punishment, imagine that, basically getting treated like an animal, like getting Trained like a pet, it’s not ok, there’s plenty of ways to show it’s not ok to do bad things but showing their like animals is not ok

  • This song and “Clover Cage On My Mind” are the two songs keeping me sane through these tough times. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together

  • Great video Daniel! Thank you! ����������
    P.S. #9 has been me for too long, till last year and recently coming across you has given me the push I need. But I need to push myself more. ��

  • I’ve been a tyre fitter for about a month now and we had a situation where a wheel fell off a pickup at 100kph nearly killing him and because I’m the new guy they all blamed me when I never worked on this pickup. I’m seriously thinking about quitting because being blamed for nearly taking someone life when you weren’t responsible is a really fucked feeling.

  • My teacher would spray us when it was to hot because one of my friends was about to pass out because it was so hot we were the one who asked her to 0-0

  • I get along with everyone at my work at Walmart & every single person gets along. When I worked at Deseret Industries back in 2012 & 2013 not everyone got along. I got very good pay at Walmart. I am a cashier & have been since I started in 2015. One co worker quit their job b/c of health problems & lots of pain. My dad & sister quit their jobs b/c it gave them too much pain on their back & feet. One newspaper job I worked for about 3 weeks, I quit that job b/c I didn’t wanna work overnight. Another reason to quit a job is if it’s too far to drive. I worked at a bakery in 2014 & it was too far & it took me an hour to drive there, I didn’t quit but I was let go. U can only work at Deseret Industries 1 year b/c they want u to find a better job. I didn’t like working at the DI at first b/c my co workers were mean but later on I liked it better. I love my Walmart job I have right now & i’ve been there 2 yrs now & idk how long I wanna work there. Now that I work there I bought my first car & now i’m gonna move away from home soon.

  • Daniel please I need your advice as an 18 year old cause you are my mentor
    I am looking forward to starting my own business in the future please what activities or what do you think I can do to better my life in any way, is it dropping out of the university? or doing something else please I need your advice Mr Ally I am a boy from Africa and this is my email [email protected] please reply me sir

  • They’ll always be times you’ll feel like quitting, but it’s important to stay inspired during your journey to success. Follow me on Instagram: + Twitter: for daily encouragement!

  • Good list, Rebecca. I do have one reason. I’m not sure where it would be on the list, but a job that asks you to work excessively long or unreasonable hours might be a good reason to quit.

  • This song and “Clover Cage On My Mind” are the two songs keeping me sane through these tough times. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..

  • She said well I hope!!! She’s not Rebecca! Rebecca says fantastically I hope. WHO ARE YOU AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH REBECCA!!?? ��

  • #10 I have great co-workers!
    #9 I am progressing I’ve became communicable
    #8 I am kinda challenged… costumers are crazy sometimes
    #7 I’m called one of the best employees by others
    #6 I am also in school (university)
    #5 YEAH, I want, but I need to earn money firstly, then I want to combine traveling and working
    #4 don’t really have opinion on this
    #3 it’s not failing at all it’s getting better
    #2 I don’t hate my job, I love it (because the great atmosphere and co-workers)
    #1 well, not too ill:D

    So, I do not have to quit this job for next few years

  • There’s no legitimate reason to quit. If you study the lives of certain successful people, it was their constant grind and persistence that made them reach where they are now. Do you have the heart of a lion to get back up when life hits you down? Remember life’s too short to not become your best self. #BecomeYourBestSelf.

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  • This song and “Clover Cage On My Mind” are the only two things keeping me sane through these tough times. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better

  • The number 1 and 2 had me thinking of the worst job i ever had. It was at a restaurant called Taco Time. I started at 14 years old because of a family connection, but stayed for unknown reasons. I worked hard, as other employees, including my bosses stood around, i worked. I cooked, cleaned, and organized. Not long after i turned 15 i was promoted to be the trainer of the store. even at such a young age i still knew how that store was supposed to run, the only issue was that i was very young and the older employees decided that i did not know what i was talking about, and tried it their own way, this lead to the store becoming filthy, and working there tedious. Just after i turned 16 i was giving a mangers responsibilities, without a managers pay, i did finally get my promotion after i yelled at my boss, however i still did not get my raise till he promoted his daughter, she got her raise instantly. by now i had been working very hard, hard enough that my kneecaps no longer move the way they are supposed to, it is still causing me pain. Now i am in a knee brace just to get around, but i still work, as hard as i can. this went on for several years. i was never removed as a trainer so i continued to train the staff, as well as continuing to work. Over the next several years my body continued to break down, not only physically but mentally. My once under control depression spiraled out of control, my anxiety skyrocketed, and my body was giving up. I started blacking out, my knee had even more trouble supporting me, my back was constantly giving out, i had a constant headache, my immune system crashed, causing me to get sick even more often. My hours dropped because i could no longer stand for 8 hours at a time, and yes they did not give us breaks, because of this i was passed up for the assistant manager position 3 times. I became the longest lived employee by the time i was fired, yes fired. At the end of my shift, it was night and it was time to close. I was cleaning the rail (where we make the food) I reached down and picked up the container that held the bags of cheese and lettuce but once i had it in the air my back muscles suddenly gave out and i crashed to floor (btw the cheese and lettuce was in a container because the rail was leaking and flooding floor so we put them in the container to keep from getting soggy). Even with my back screaming at me to stop i finished the night and went home. The next day i woke in some of the worst pain i had ever been in. My back was so messed up i could only inch across the ground and even that was painful. After managing to get in my car and driving to work i crawled my way inside, it was at this point i could no longer move and knew i could not work. I told my manager what happened and he told me that i could return home by returning my keys an forgo my position as a supervisor, or work. I told him i would rather quit then lose the position i had to fight for. Then he just told me he needed “healthy” employees and to turn in my keys. I ended up in the emergency room just a couple hours later. After putting me on very powerful pain relievers and something to help my muscles relax i tried to return to work. I did not even know i was fired. My manager told me i lied to him, telling him 2 different stories, when i only talked to him once. I was not going to make the company pay my emergency room bills, but after that there was no way i was not going to make them pay for it. So now that i know i am unemployed i leave. I get informed by several people that, that was against the law and that i should sue, that it would be an easy win…. but i did not. The owner was a good friend of mine and the family so i decided i would not sue her. Next about a year and a half goes by. I am still crippled and without a job so i go and ask the owner if i could come back to work for a part time job. She tells me that i did not work hard enough……. I WORKED TILL MY BODY LITERALLY GAVE UP! AND SOMEHOW IT WAS NOT HARD ENOUGH! It was past this point i really regretted not suing but it was way to late to do that. I would never wish death on anyone but i do wish that the building would burn down.

  • So many of these reasons are why I quit my job. It was making me sick, I was doing so much work like a manager and being paid less than a lot of the people who were doing less work than me, my co-workers were saying things about me that weren’t true, I was sleep deprived and depressed and wasn’t really eating well because of lack of sleep and food. I was also promised for 2 months that I would be promoted but they just gave it to someone less qualified than me instead and it really pissed me off. I also just started hating it because I was working more than I was doing anything else and I was tired of it. My sleep deprivation was also causing me to fall asleep at the wheel while driving home so that was also putting my life in danger and the company had not cared about that one bit. Despite my father telling me over and over that I should keep the job until I had a new one, I am glad now that I left that crap shoot job.

  • Thanks a lot Ally ur videos are really changing my life in a way I think God is using you to reach souls that have given up in this life may he enrich you with a lot of wisdom as you continue reaching more and more points especially in this video every point has touched so I gonna improve in those areas thank you so much

  • How is spraying water in a child’s face bad like sure it can get in your eyes but that happens everyday to you in the shower so like I see no problem there

  • Here’s another: If you are assigned to wash dishes along with another co-worker, but for some reason that co-worker gets to leave earlier than you, & therefore you’re left doing all of them. Never work in the food & beverage industry (unless you really want it.)

  • I’m lucky my parents never did anything physically to punish me, they did yell at me when I would be an idiot but they didn’t hurt e physically and every time they yelled at me they would come to me after they called down and talk to me and apologize and ask if I was okay. I would still get minecraft taken away though

  • “Mother sprays water bottle at child”? How do u spray a water bottle?

    I’m not tryna be rude it was just a mistake I was pointing out

  • This song and “Clover Cage On My Mind” are the two songs keeping me sane through these tough times. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together……

  • It’s so damn stupid. Look I know it’s water, but I mean c’mon it’s annoying. Just say that you’re gonna ground them and that’ll work like that.

  • Great advice! I quit my Nanny job a couple months after you posted this video. I had not seen it before. You just confirmed that as painful as it was, I quit for the right reasons. Thanks for that.

  • I’m at that point. I have been a nanny for 12 years, and I am in love with the family I am with, but I am so frustrated �� I have been having migraines… This just hit home. I’m in school to be a nurse now, and I am trying to look for something else, but I feel so guilty for even looking

  • Well this video highlights a lot of the reasons why a lot of people are are so unhappy with their jobs to the point of meeting to escape reality. Literally I can totally relate for sure and Rebecca is right but unfortunately sometimes you have to stick it out before you can get into a better situation work wise

  • This wasn’t her think. I love her original songs. So full of good vibes and energy. This it’s just a try to be like everyone else.

  • I used to think that I would quit because of a lack of capital. But in reality I was quitting because I just wasn’t that interested in it. Or maybe I feared the opinions of others.

  • Lmfao ����. Back in the day we got told one time not to ask for a damn thing and if we did we got smacked in front of everyone. These kids today don’t know what is to be disciplined.

  • Number 5 is a major one. NEVER put a job before yourself. You can put your blood sweat and tears into a job and They’ll still replace you in a heartbeat and not think twice about it. Number 1 was why I had to quit my job. While doin Number 5, I had health issues but they wouldn’t let me take time off to take care of myself.

  • Damn. I remember listening to this song with my now wife when we were junkies and going to pick up dope. Life is so much better now, but this song kind of makes me sad

  • Don’t hurt animals I’ll say it again humans are animals
    Also don abuse animals plz don’t
    Also I would love to be sprayed by a water bottle it’s like playing with
    Water guns

  • I am not utilized to my fullest potential and I am undervalued and not challenged. I get along great with coworkers which is great. There is no growth so I am stagnated. But at my age it is hard to find anything laterally let alone promotional. I plan to retire in 5 years. So I just deal with it because it could always be worse. I love automation and would love to be doing that exclusively. That is my skillset but nobody is impressed with that. I used to work in a department where they needed this from me and I was challenged to the full. However they would not promote me. It is what it is. I am grateful to have a job so I can not complain.

  • Tbh the kids were acting up and not listening. And the lady that said it was rude to kids?? They were being rude for not behaving!?!I would choose getting sprayed anyday than getting smacked.

  • dude, being sprayed seemes bad to you? ever heard about belt beatings? i would be so grateful if i got sprayed rather than hit, getting sprayed feels so good.

  • I would serously get sprayed by water and I’m like a good girl and my mom doesnt trust me so she sprays on me and I’m like ay can you stop pls������

  • My dream job is to be a pilot but I used to get travel sickness all the time even when. I took the pills. Over the years it happens only very rarely, but I can’t travel but plane as I always throw up and sometimes black out.

  • Nelly Furtado would not be without Timbaland and the irony of that is some of Timbo’s best bangers come from Nelly Furtado tracks. Wild

  • I don’t really have a job yet, but this was cool to know.
    My dream job is a storyboard artist/concept artist/voice actor on a cartoon or something.

  • I walked out on my job in 2014. I worked for the NHS in the uk. After ten years of bullying, I couldn’t take it any more. I now suffer from depression and anxiety. I can’t any legal action against them despite the hospital admitting to everything that I accused them of. I do have faith that the bullies and people like them will have to answer to god one day.

  • This is great! I’ve had to mostly stop talking to fam! Fam members are often times the most jealous ppl! Some parents are jealous of their children! I don’t talk my dreams to many ppl at all!!!

  • Jesus, almost all of these apply to me and my job… Guess it’s time to quit.

    But you also forgot, they’re cutting your hours again making it hard for you to pay bills. (Now, I don’t pay all the bills in my house, but I do pay for my own insurance, cable, and my part of the phone bill. I also have student bills and therapy bills, and a cat to take care off. All those things add up eventually and it don’t help that they’re cutting my hours again. I can’t live on just under $400 a month while also trying to save up for a car.)

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  • Some people were literally putting dogs and cats on the same level as children, CHILDREN. HUMAN BEINGS who deserve respect and kindness especially from those who are supposed to take care of them and help them through life.
    “hahaha! Humiliating children! Omg it’s like cats! I should get one of those for my children and leave them with the memory of me treating them like animals when they grow up haha! Don’t teach them how to behave! Just spray them in the face with water like we do with cats and dogs hahaha! I mean it’s not abuse since it isn’t hitting them right hahaha!”

  • plzzzzzzz make a part 2!!!!!!!! and give me 1 999,999,999,999,999,999 likes and finally thats the biggest number i lnow and biggest comment i made

  • I recently quit my job because I was being falsely accused and I was about to get fired. My motto is “quit before you get fired because it looks better on the resume.” Being falsely accused gives a good reason to quit..all the ones you mentioned are not good reasons to quit. Thank you for your thoughts!

  • I don’t have tiktok and didn’t even know that some people came here from tiktok but I came here from Lucas Rafael(football vines #3 it’s the last song he used

  • Y’all gotta say sorry to Ms. Furtado cause u hated so bad the Loose era back in the day telling her that she ruined her career selling herself to the music industry when she made a hip-hop album and now y’all loving this 14 years later like nothing? smh like r u serious? ��‍♂️

  • I never wanna quit, l wanna keep working at it, but right people need to be persistant if they’re working with you so that you dont loose faith…….

  • So true. I’m 23 and I refuse to let this happen too me.

    Most of my coworkers are already dead inside. Walking corpses filled with buried dreams.