Ive been through this process for years and its naturally taught me how to stay strong and focus on the most important things in my life! I wish everyone going through this the very best and I promise that things will get better one day.. (Please share your custody stories with me below.). Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/c/SONAAwareness. #Narcissist #ChildCustody
Most divorce and child support orders are drawn up assuming that both parents will remain in the same jurisdiction. But what happens when one of them moves to a different state, or even a different country? We spoke to Kelli Byers Hooper, a family law attorney in the Atlanta metro area. She says that in many cases, whether or not the move impacts child support depends on each family’s scenario.. To learn more, call her office at 888-558-1353.. Visit her profile on AskTheLawyers.com™: http://bit.ly/2U9vJ1F. 0:34 What are some of the common issues when one person moves to a different state after a divorce? 2:20 How does enforcement change when one parent moves to a new state?. 3:19 Which state laws take precedence if there is a conflict regarding child support? 4:05 If a spouse moves to another state, do they need to get a lawyer in that state? 5:59 What if a spouse moves out of the country? Does that complicate things? 7:08 How does it work if someone is bringing an order from another country to the US? 7:43 What should people know if one spouse is considering moving to a new jurisdiction?. 8:40 What happens if you leave Georgia with a Georgia order? This video is for informational purposes only. In some states, this video may be deemed Attorney Advertising. The choice of lawyer is an important decision that should not be based solely on advertisements.
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You should not be using child support as a way to retaliate against the other parent for being unreasonable. When I go into court with my clients I always tell them like we want to go in there with clean hands.. In Arizona the more parenting time that somebody has the less their child support obligation is. In Arizona child support is determined based on a combination of factors. The biggest factor is the gross income of each party. In Arizona you plug numbers into basically a calculator so you plug in each parents gross monthly income and there’s a formula by which you calculate the gross income. Child support and parenting time are two different things and you can’t condition one upon the other. What that means is you can’t condition you having to pay child support based on the fact that you’re not getting parenting time. They are two independent obligations.. = CTC LIVE = ❓SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION FOR THE NEXT CTC LIVE!. http://bit.ly/CTCLivestreamQuestions. ⏱️ Join Wendy Hernandez every MONDAY at 6:30 p.m. MST for COMMAND THE COURTROOM LIVE!. = FREE DOWNLOADS = �� FREE Parenting Time Guidelines During COVID-19 ��. �� https://commandthecourtroom.com. �� FREE Child’s Best Interest Checklist. ✔️ Know what factors the judge will look at when deciding custody arrangements.. ��https://www.commandthecourtroom.com. = CTC ONLINE COURSES = Are you representing yourself in family court? ⭐ Trial Preparation Boot Camp (2-Hour CRASH COURSE). ✔️ Need to Get Ready for Your Custody Trial? �� https://www.commandthecourtroom.com/store/oratoaK2. ⭐ 21-Day Child Custody Challenge. ✔️ Take Your Case to the Next Level. �� https://www.commandthecourtroom.com/store/PFBtkTJC. = GET INSPIRED = ⭐ Power in the Truth Deck. https://powerinthetruth.com. The deck will remind you of your own personal truth that is buried deep within: even if you are walking the lonely path of heartbreak right now, know that you are worthy. You are loved. You are going to be OK.. = FAMILY LAW ATTORNEY INQUIRIES = ☎️ Contact Wendy Hernandez at 602-230-2333. or http://www.hernandezfirm.com. �� Wendy Hernandez is a family law attorney in Phoenix, AZ, and founder of Command the Courtroom which teaches you how to handle yourself in court and achieve the best outcome when representing yourself in your divorce or child custody case.. = FOLLOW WENDY = FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/commandthecourtroom. WEBSITE: http://www.commandthecourtroom.com. LAW FIRM WEBSITE: http://www.hernandezfirm.com. = LEGAL DISCLAIMERS = Legal Disclaimer:. This video recording is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as the rendering of legal advice. The viewing of this recording does not create an attorney-client. Disclaimer for Command the Courtroom LIVE! YouTube obviously is a public forum and so anything that you say on here is not confidential. We do not have an attorney-client privilege. I’m doing these live streams for educational purposes only. This is not legal advice. You always have to check the rules in your jurisdiction, whether that’s a state, another state, or another country. I’m an Arizona Attorney. I’m only licensed in Arizona. You need to be aware that I’m not providing legal advice. You have to have a relationship with an attorney to have that attorney-client privilege and so that would require you to meet with that person and sign a retainer agreement.. #custodybattle #childcustody
The Three Amigos Present the Definitive (29th Annual) Family Law Update. By Commissioners Keith M. Clemens (retired), James D. Endman (retired) and Judge Robert A. Schnider (retired).. View Entire Video: https://bhba.inreachce.com/Details/Information/cf03eed3-e4f6-40c3-b078-be5a181fda07. Join Beverly Hills Bar Association: https://bhba.org/join/. #BHBA #MCLE #LegalUpdate. County of San Diego Department of Child Support Services v. C.A. (2019). (Child support. Child custody. A grandmother who has obtained sole legal and physical custody of a child is no longer voluntarily supporting that child, is not free to stop parenting and supporting that child, and therefore a parent is not protected from having to pay child support to grandmother by FC § 3951(a), which eliminates a parent’s obligation to pay child support when a relative is voluntarily supporting the parent’s child and there is no compensation agreement between the parties.). Greiner v. Keller (2019). (Child support. A parent who is currently employed but who seeks to improve his or her work skills through education so that that parent can become self-supporting and. not have to rely on public assistance is entitled pursuant to FC § 4062 to seek childcare. costs related to that necessary education even though also currently employed.). S.C. v. G.S. (Santa Clara County Department of Child Support Services) (2015). (Child support. Enforcement. The statutes that suspend court-ordered child support obligations do not apply retroactively. A father who was incarcerated from 1998 to 2005 could not obtain an equitable credit for the $70,000 of arrearages that accrued during that time. Statutes suspending child support orders during incarceration were passed only in 2010 and 2015.). County of Los Angeles Child Support Services Division v. Watson (2019). (Child support. Procedure. Evidence. Where a parent was not served with a complaint for child support until more than 90 days after filing, but there was no evidence to support a finding that the parent did not evade service, it was error for a trial court to sua sponte change the start date for child support to the date of service from the date of filing of the complaint.). Speakers: Commissioner James D. Endman Los Angeles County Superior Court, Retired. Hon. Judge Keith M. Clemens, Los Angeles Superior Court Commissioner, Retired. Hon. Judge Robert A. Schnider, Los Angeles County Superior Court, Retired. All Presenters are with ARC.. CATEGORY: Family Law. FULL PROGRAM & MCLE CREDIT: https://bhba.inreachce.com/Details/Information/cf03eed3-e4f6-40c3-b078-be5a181fda07.
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This video is for fathers who are going through a custody battle with their ex and want more parenting time with their children or are trying to get joint custody. It’s important for fathers to take the time to learn what they can do to enforce their parental rights in a custody case. https://commandthecourtroom.com. ⤵️��✔️Download my FREE ‘Child’s Best Interest Checklist’ at http://www.commandthecourtroom.com. ��Are You Divorcing or Co-Parenting with a Narcissist?. DO NOT MISS this video on how to deal with A NARCISSISTIC CO-PARENT.. https://youtu.be/HIJnTzBImWY. ⏱️Join Wendy Hernandez every MONDAY at 6:30 p.m. MST for COMMAND THE COURTROOM LIVE!. However, unless you take the time to learn the basic custody laws for your state and follow certain steps, no attorney can help you. Most courts use the “best interest of the child” rule to determine custody and time-sharing.. Here are 3 Steps to follow before appearing in custody court.. 1 Identify what you are going to change now that you and the parent are not together. For example, if you have traveled a lot for work when you were married to your spouse. And you have not been able to spend time with the mother or child, you need to present to the judge how you are going to modify your travel schedule so you are there for your children.. As any judge or expert will tell you, when children go through the transition when their parents are splitting up, they need consistency and stability. During your custody trial, you need to convince the judge that you will be able to provide that consistency and stability even though in the past the other parent has been the one who has picked up the lion’s share of the responsibilities.. So if you need to get a letter from your supervisor or a commitment that he or she will come to court to testify that you will have the flexibility then you need to do this. You have to present to the court how you are going to change things in the future.. 2. Since you have never been the primary caretaker or you are a new father you can invest in some parenting classes to show the judge that you want to get the skills you need to give the kids the best care that they need. This may not be necessary if you have been a father for a long time, you may not need parenting classes. If you are a new Dad or have a newborn, this is persuasive evidence to show the court that you are willing to do whatever it takes to be the best father for your children.. 3. Once you show the judge you are going to get the training you need and make adjustments to your life for the best interests of your children, you need to start walking the walk immediately, even before the case starts, or when your marriage is already falling apart and you are contemplating divorce, you need to do what you need to do right away.. Start asking the mother for more time with your children and you need to get on a consistent schedule that is best for them and not what’s best for your schedule or for the other parent’s schedule. You also should document when you ask the other parent for more time. You can use texts or email as evidence in court if you are asking the kids for the weekend or want to take them on vacation and the other parent is turning you down, by all means, save those texts and emails.. Start gathering your proof to show this to the judge. If your custody case goes on for a year, you need to start spending as much time with your children as possible. Start doing it immediately. Ask for more time with the children, start showing up at those parent/teacher conferences, going to the soccer practices, start picking up and dropping off your children to school or start getting involved with the pediatrician.. ��❓SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION FOR THE NEXT CTC LIVE!. http://bit.ly/CTCLivestreamQuestions. ☎️You may Contact Wendy Hernandez at 602-230-2333 or visit. http://www.hernandezfirm.com. ��Wendy Hernandez is a family law attorney in Phoenix, AZ and founder of Command the Courtroom which teaches you how to handle yourself in court and achieve the best outcome when representing yourself in your divorce or child custody case.. FOLLOW Wendy:. FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/commandthecou…. WEBSITE: http://www.commandthecourtroom.com. LAW FIRM WEBSITE: http://www.hernandezfirm.com. *This video recording is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as the rendering of legal advice. The viewing of this recording does not create an attorney-client relationship. An attorney-client relationship is only formed when you have signed an engagement agreement. We cannot guarantee results. Past results do not guarantee future results. Consult with a licensed attorney for information regarding the specifics of your case.. #fathersrights #fathersrightsmovement #childcustody
The custodial parent must comply with the visitation schedule (sometimes called a parenting plan) established by the court. This is true even if the non-custodial parent is not paying. Child support and visitation are two separate issues. However, if a father doesn’t pay, he can get in trouble with the court.
If a father neglects this financial obligation, a court could find him in. Parental rights include things such as the right to visitation, to receive information about your child’s health care, to consult with the other parent regarding the child’s education, and even to possibly receive a portion of your child’s earnings (your previous divorce decree, court order, or state statutes should outline what rights. A child visitation agreement is between two parties with the shared goal of creating a visitation schedule with their child.
The arrangement outlines each parent’s visitation rights, their duties. Child custody issues are never easy and visitation is often a primary concern of individuals going through a divorce. As an initial matter, it’s important to know your state’s child custody laws and find answers to common custody and visitation legal questions.Next, below you will find some of the most frequently asked questions regarding parental visitation rights.
And where a nonlegal parent offers to help support the children in exchange for visitation or custody rights, most courts say no. In some states, second-parent adoption may be available even if you and. The court establishes visitation rights at the time of the divorce. Yet, many non-custodial parents paying child support complain that their former spouse does not honor these. Biological parents have a right to seek child visitation or child custody.
This is true regardless of whether the child’s parents were married when the child was born. Like other child. Keep in mind that a child support order is separate from child custody and visitation, so you cannot refuse to let the other parent see the children just because he or she is not making the child support payments that the court ordered. And you cannot refuse to pay child support just because the other parent is not letting you see your children.
Failure to pay child support is a common reason a parent may deny visitation with the other parent. However, child support and child visitation are two separate matters. The court could sanction a.
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Conversely, a custodial parent may not interfere with the child’s visitation on the grounds that the non-custodial parent has failed to pay child support.
from Fundamentals of American Law by Alan B. Morrison, New York University. School of Law, William J. Brennan Oxford University Press, 1996
Furthermore, the court automatically assigns visitation rights when levying child—support obligations.
Most courts will not relieve a parent of his or her obligation to supply child support solely on the basis that the custodial parent had denied that parent his or her court-ordered visitation rights.
The Court observed: “When an unwed father demonstrates a full commitment to the responsibilities of parenthood by coming forward to participate in the rearing of his child, his interest in personal contact with his child acquires substantial protection under the due process clause.
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Doesn’t this go for a mother aswell? The reason why a mother is able to be a mother is because of what the father did on his part. It takes two to raise a child. Now that a mother is single and now a single parent what can she bring to the table? You just said we both shared the responsibility so now she is alone how can she play a fathers roll or provide what the father had provided? A healthy child must have both a father and a mother in their life. There fast to ask the father what can he do, This should also go for the mother aswell. A father is no less than the mother. A father loves his children just a much as a mother and will do anything for their children.
My court case has just started and I currectly have set visitation 2days out of the week, can I ask for more time? Can she give me time outside of the temporary court order? I’m in Texas.
It’s simple, create equal parenting, eliminate child support under false pretenses and have follow up court dates. I’m for equality not here on biased agenda, nor sexist, just equal.
Take womens right to vote away and fire all female judges and attorneys before they collapse the usa. Only thing this woman should be running is a daycare. Dirty attorney
Unfortunately my ex won’t do that. My ex hasn’t done anything that was ordered. I love your advice my ex hasn’t done anything in the best interests I’m in conjugal abuse and the kids It’s difficult
I agree! If you can’t support your child half the time you shouldn’t have them half the time. The courts truly don’t care! 50/50 custody no child support!
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Please get licensed in MO & KS. We need you, or more like you. Here. In KC as a Metro needs attorneys JUST LIKE YOU, Ma’am.
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Pro Se Litigants like myself, who persevere and less so, prevail, are few and far between, I’ve come to realize. Most give up. Hope. Regardless of gender.
Money equals power equals threats and intimidation. Human Persons of weak will…give in. Give up. THIS. CAN. NOT. BE.
Who does it hurt? Little Ones who know not what’s going on. At all! Only discord, mayhem, interruption and malice. In their very young lives. NONE of that is A GOOD THING®, to quote that felon, Martha Stewart. I trust she’s learnt her lessons, though they are in a different matter entirely. The notion holds true. Or Spike Lee’s “Do the Right Thing.” FOR THEM.
Please also push in your Great State of Arizona, and everywhere else, for what Washington State has: Limited License Legal Technicians. Licensure to litigate, basically. On paper. Not in person, to “speak for,” a Litigant in Court. Merely the “leg work.” Stuff people don’t have the time, money or wherewithal to prosecute.
Is that a threat to the money-making universe of Family Law? You better believe it is. But, if an attorney or firm thereof who stand to gain when a child stands to lose as a result of clearing Court Dockets quicker entails? Please.
Let’s stop fooling around. WITH KIDS LIVES. Full Stop.
I suffered my whole life when my mom lost that custody battle, i love my dad he does nothing wrong, but I can bear life with no dad, but with no mom, i’m stuck, I loved her so much kids should get to testify in the custody battles.
What about it’s not in the agreement that they are following word by word that you only get a certain time and that is strictly what they follow and that is the reason why they won’t let you have more time with the child
I am getting ready to go to court and sought legal advice. I appreciate your advice. I was absent in my children’s lives for 3 years. I own it! There are underlying conditions. But my love has never stopped. I have my life together and pay my child support and tried to contact my children. One phone call and she blocked my contact. All I wanted was to slowly progressive get in contact. I was advised to make a call every day to try. And I am. I love my children. Divorce is tough especially when your children call you by your first name and the step dad by daddy. I went into a deep depression and withdrew contact from the entire world. The only thing that saved me was my eldest daughter and son contacting me and telling me that they love me and to get back their brothers. As of today I am perusing legal action. I haven’t smiled this much since my divorce. My attorney advised me to call every day since she won’t answer my call and try. Alienation is real and it not only affects your children. But it also affects you emotionally as well. Always remember there is a light at the end of a dark tunnel, even if you can’t see the light at the end halfway through.
My children are still very young. 8,6,3 and 1. It’s been two years with minimal contact between my oldest daughters. And my three year old. My son who is one I have never met.
Their mothers have a history of tricks, manipulation and dishonesty as far as concerns my involvement with the children. They are dropped off early or on time and not picked up unless it is on her terms.
Contact between their mothers and I are normally me being very open honest and genuine. Their responses to me are man bashing, consistent trash talking my life my wife and my ambitions. Meanwhile I reserve my resolve, and just dream up ways to solidify parenting time. I feel like ceasing contact and having minimal contact for the last two years is going to work against me. But I also feel like since this is early in my sons lives I’ll be in favor there.
All that I am after is parenting time with less parental contact (me and mom don’t get along well) my children love me and I love them. Which would be easily displayed if they were asked or if we saw one another.
what if for some reason you cant see the children often as you would like? as for me i only get phone calls because i live so far away from them, how can i convince the judge that moving my children to were i live will be benefical? do i write and plan for education? and a plan for visiting the other parent like meeting half ways?
im trying to get full custody but i only get phone calls and i havent seen my children in 1 year?
my child mother died ayear ago n her sister put my sons in her name i was out state at work i left him with his mother n then i came to take him.. his mom died from durgs n she gave to her sister n i lost my house cuz of her n now my so is with her sister she toll lies about me that i never did in my life what should i do
What if i was the primary care taker? She hated taking care of my daughter, she would cry with her alot so I went partime a few days a week and she worked full time.
What if they took off to a different state without permission or consent, I am able to see my kids, she put a restraining order on me so I won’t see my kids but I am able to see my kids, I have no court order that says I can’t see my kids, they took off without consent so I f I go to court can I make them pay transportation because they moved out of state without consent, it’s not my problem they did there action without adknowledgement, violating custody agreement threw penal code without both consent
I get 1 HOUR supervised a week based on false abuse charges. I payed all the bills with my military retirement and was the stay at home parent. The Narc ex wife got restraining order while I was in hospital for depression from the divorce and false abuse charges and while I was in she got a permenant restraing order. Said I was mad at her so I dropped my son on the concrete which is obviosily rediculous (no evidence). I have to pay $1,000 a month in child support and $450 for the supervised visits. It is INSANE. On top of that she tells my 6 year old daughter to be afraid of me when I never laid a hand on any of my kids ever. Never once even spanked them and I have to be supervised. The system is BROKE
What if I live in Australia and my kids lives in New Zealand? How the hell am I going to be able to spend more time when they are a 5 hr plane flight away? I really want to but feel like I’m hitting a brick wall
I understand your point. Although what happen when the ex moved 100 miles away from there home town with the children I must say it’s quite difficult to hold a great relationship being so far away. Thanks
Wendy did ever occur to you the system is corrupt to the core designed to support the judges, court officers, clerks pensions. Ohh I forgot to mention the filthy lawyers.. documentary “divorce corp”
Thanks for sharing your insight. It’s much appreciated. I just left an abusive relationship about 2 months ago and filed for divorce. I foolishly cancelled it after she begged me to and we pursued couples counseling. Nothing has improved and the fighting continues so im ready to refile. My wife is a stay at home mom, and we have a 3 year old (together) and a 9 yr old son (hers prior to us meeting). My goal is to get equal custody over both of them, both physical and legal. My lawyer had said that even though I’m not the biological father of my stepson, that the courts should rule in his best interest and Grant me rights. I’m the only father he has ever had and have been in his life since he was 4. My wife loves to threaten that I’ll never get to see him, and only get visitation for our daughter. She also threatens that I’ll be paying her lawyer fees as well. How likely is any of this? Do I have a chance in getting equal custody over both kids? Will I have to pay her legal fees? I am staying at my parents because I can’t afford paying her bills plus rent of my own.. will I have to prove abuse to get what I feel that I deserve? I just don’t know how bad this is going to get. I’m dealing with someone with a lot of cluster B personality traits here.. I’ve done everything with my kids. When I wasn’t working, I was spending time with themevery evening and every weekend for the past 2 years I’d go straight home and care for the kids while she sat in a different room on her computer and phone while drinking beer. I helped with the homework, ate with them, played, took our son to every sports practice and school event by myself, and tucked them both in at night by myself. Besides caring for our toddler during the day, I feel that ive carried the bulk of the load the past few years. I appreciate any advice here. Do I have a chance? Is it better to settle out of court or let a judge decide our fate? I know the second I claim abuse, she’ll cry it back.. thanks. Also, Im not wealthy, so crazy legal fees are going to be a problem.
I asked my sons mother and she won’t let me see him at all and only time she talk to me is to see who I’m in relationship with and when I make it about my son she cuts it off right then and there. She even told me if I didn’t marry her she would keep him from me and I’m still waiting to see him but now I have a attorney so I can’t wait to be in his life and do things. She don’t even have him doing anything or getting out at all. I offered to help with clothes and meds and she said ” I have 3 kids I been doing it all alone I’m a single married mom” but yet I offer help and she turns my offering down
In many situations such as mine, the child is with the mother all the time because the mother is simply alienating the father from his child, and if you make an effort to see the child, you have to deal with the abuse from that parent. This also goes for some fathers who are alienating the mother as well. I have been alienated since the child’s birth 16 years ago. And it is not getting better. That ATM CARD that gives the mother access to my money is the big problem. I have no leverage
I just got a letter in the mail saying I owe a yearly fee now. Of 25 bucks a year, so in total I owe fees of 100 for 4 years. I’m already paying monthly almost 500 bucks on CS. *Sidenote I’ve never once gotten to meet my son. She wouldn’t even give him my last name. Another sidenote. The CS that I’ve been paying is off what I used to make before I had my accident. I’m now on SSI because I can’t work. I have a severe TBI. The CS is just over half of my monthly income now. My sister has 2 kids with her ex. She’s lucky to see 100 a month from him for my nieces. But here I am stuck paying almost 500 a month for one kid. This is some bullshit.
My baby mom won’t allow my kids to receive gift from me, she wants money only? I feel that wrong I should be able to give my kids Christmas presents instead of giving her money, how should I go about that
So if I have had shared legal custody since my kid was 6 months old, and the mother is unfit based on many factors, what can I do to show the court that I am the better option? I have been taking care of kids since I was a young teen and my 3 year old literally says that he does not want to go to his moms house. I have never once said anything bad about her to my son, but he has been losing his shit since he was just about a year and a half, ever time he has to go with her. To me that spells a clear problem, and even one time he came to my home with very suspicious marks that were all nearly identical and in a patter down his leg. I had this presented to the courts and I had called CYS. I was granted temporary sole custody until the matter was resolved because the judge thought the marks were suspicious too. The issue ended up getting thrown out and she still has shared custody of my son. Something like this would have stripped all my rights away but because she is the mother they basically blew it off. I’m talking about a child that wasn’t even two years old looking like he was smacked with a rod in three spots with lines seperated by only a few inches and all in the same direction. At this point I feel very let down by the courts.
I was the primary care giver as s stay at home dad, and she is neglecting care of the kids when they are with her. What is the best course of action to ensure the safety and custody of the kids
Ive been poorly treated by my childs mother and lost custody over a false claim for ovwr 8 months now. I need help getting him back in my life. I make too much for legal aid and too less for 2000 dollar retainer to keep my attourney. gf.me/u/k92hvj
why dont you talk about women abandoning their family for whomever, the women dont care for children nor can the raise healthy kids like a father can.
Doesn’t this go for a mother aswell? The reason why a mother is able to be a mother is because of what the father did on his part. It takes two to raise a child. Now that a mother is single and now a single parent what can she bring to the table? You just said we both shared the responsibility so now she is alone how can she play a fathers roll or provide what the father had provided? A healthy child must have both a father and a mother in their life. There fast to ask the father what can he do, This should also go for the mother aswell. A father is no less than the mother. A father loves his children just a much as a mother and will do anything for their children.
Thank you for your wisdom ma’am! Sincerely a concerned loving caring daddy / Papa that only wants what’s best for them! Paul Hampton.
My court case has just started and I currectly have set visitation 2days out of the week, can I ask for more time? Can she give me time outside of the temporary court order? I’m in Texas.
It’s simple, create equal parenting, eliminate child support under false pretenses and have follow up court dates. I’m for equality not here on biased agenda, nor sexist, just equal.
Take womens right to vote away and fire all female judges and attorneys before they collapse the usa. Only thing this woman should be running is a daycare. Dirty attorney
Unfortunately my ex won’t do that. My ex hasn’t done anything that was ordered. I love your advice my ex hasn’t done anything in the best interests I’m in conjugal abuse and the kids It’s difficult
I agree! If you can’t support your child half the time you shouldn’t have them half the time. The courts truly don’t care! 50/50 custody no child support!
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Wendy, this is excellent.
Please get licensed in MO & KS. We need you, or more like you. Here. In KC as a Metro needs attorneys JUST LIKE YOU, Ma’am.
Like COMES NOW.
Pro Se Litigants like myself, who persevere and less so, prevail, are few and far between, I’ve come to realize. Most give up. Hope. Regardless of gender.
Money equals power equals threats and intimidation. Human Persons of weak will…give in. Give up. THIS. CAN. NOT. BE.
Who does it hurt? Little Ones who know not what’s going on. At all! Only discord, mayhem, interruption and malice. In their very young lives. NONE of that is A GOOD THING®, to quote that felon, Martha Stewart. I trust she’s learnt her lessons, though they are in a different matter entirely. The notion holds true. Or Spike Lee’s “Do the Right Thing.” FOR THEM.
Please also push in your Great State of Arizona, and everywhere else, for what Washington State has: Limited License Legal Technicians. Licensure to litigate, basically. On paper. Not in person, to “speak for,” a Litigant in Court. Merely the “leg work.” Stuff people don’t have the time, money or wherewithal to prosecute.
Is that a threat to the money-making universe of Family Law? You better believe it is. But, if an attorney or firm thereof who stand to gain when a child stands to lose as a result of clearing Court Dockets quicker entails? Please.
Let’s stop fooling around. WITH KIDS LIVES. Full Stop.
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I suffered my whole life when my mom lost that custody battle, i love my dad he does nothing wrong, but I can bear life with no dad, but with no mom, i’m stuck, I loved her so much kids should get to testify in the custody battles.
What about it’s not in the agreement that they are following word by word that you only get a certain time and that is strictly what they follow and that is the reason why they won’t let you have more time with the child
I am getting ready to go to court and sought legal advice. I appreciate your advice. I was absent in my children’s lives for 3 years. I own it! There are underlying conditions. But my love has never stopped. I have my life together and pay my child support and tried to contact my children. One phone call and she blocked my contact. All I wanted was to slowly progressive get in contact. I was advised to make a call every day to try. And I am. I love my children. Divorce is tough especially when your children call you by your first name and the step dad by daddy. I went into a deep depression and withdrew contact from the entire world. The only thing that saved me was my eldest daughter and son contacting me and telling me that they love me and to get back their brothers. As of today I am perusing legal action. I haven’t smiled this much since my divorce. My attorney advised me to call every day since she won’t answer my call and try. Alienation is real and it not only affects your children. But it also affects you emotionally as well. Always remember there is a light at the end of a dark tunnel, even if you can’t see the light at the end halfway through.
My children are still very young. 8,6,3 and 1. It’s been two years with minimal contact between my oldest daughters. And my three year old. My son who is one I have never met.
Their mothers have a history of tricks, manipulation and dishonesty as far as concerns my involvement with the children. They are dropped off early or on time and not picked up unless it is on her terms.
Contact between their mothers and I are normally me being very open honest and genuine. Their responses to me are man bashing, consistent trash talking my life my wife and my ambitions.
Meanwhile I reserve my resolve, and just dream up ways to solidify parenting time.
I feel like ceasing contact and having minimal contact for the last two years is going to work against me. But I also feel like since this is early in my sons lives I’ll be in favor there.
All that I am after is parenting time with less parental contact (me and mom don’t get along well) my children love me and I love them. Which would be easily displayed if they were asked or if we saw one another.
what if for some reason you cant see the children often as you would like? as for me i only get phone calls because i live so far away from them, how can i convince the judge that moving my children to were i live will be benefical?
do i write and plan for education? and a plan for visiting the other parent like meeting half ways?
im trying to get full custody but i only get phone calls and i havent seen my children in 1 year?
my child mother died ayear ago n her sister put my sons in her name i was out state at work i left him with his mother n then i came to take him.. his mom died from durgs n she gave to her sister n i lost my house cuz of her n now my so is with her sister she toll lies about me that i never did in my life what should i do
What if i was the primary care taker? She hated taking care of my daughter, she would cry with her alot so I went partime a few days a week and she worked full time.
What if they took off to a different state without permission or consent, I am able to see my kids, she put a restraining order on me so I won’t see my kids but I am able to see my kids, I have no court order that says I can’t see my kids, they took off without consent so I f I go to court can I make them pay transportation because they moved out of state without consent, it’s not my problem they did there action without adknowledgement, violating custody agreement threw penal code without both consent
I get 1 HOUR supervised a week based on false abuse charges. I payed all the bills with my military retirement and was the stay at home parent. The Narc ex wife got restraining order while I was in hospital for depression from the divorce and false abuse charges and while I was in she got a permenant restraing order. Said I was mad at her so I dropped my son on the concrete which is obviosily rediculous (no evidence). I have to pay $1,000 a month in child support and $450 for the supervised visits. It is INSANE. On top of that she tells my 6 year old daughter to be afraid of me when I never laid a hand on any of my kids ever. Never once even spanked them and I have to be supervised. The system is BROKE
What if I live in Australia and my kids lives in New Zealand? How the hell am I going to be able to spend more time when they are a 5 hr plane flight away? I really want to but feel like I’m hitting a brick wall
I understand your point.
Although what happen when the ex moved 100 miles away from there home town with the children
I must say it’s quite difficult to hold a great relationship being so far away. Thanks
Wendy did ever occur to you the system is corrupt to the core designed to support the judges, court officers, clerks pensions. Ohh I forgot to mention the filthy lawyers.. documentary “divorce corp”
Thanks for sharing your insight. It’s much appreciated. I just left an abusive relationship about 2 months ago and filed for divorce. I foolishly cancelled it after she begged me to and we pursued couples counseling. Nothing has improved and the fighting continues so im ready to refile. My wife is a stay at home mom, and we have a 3 year old (together) and a 9 yr old son (hers prior to us meeting). My goal is to get equal custody over both of them, both physical and legal. My lawyer had said that even though I’m not the biological father of my stepson, that the courts should rule in his best interest and Grant me rights. I’m the only father he has ever had and have been in his life since he was 4. My wife loves to threaten that I’ll never get to see him, and only get visitation for our daughter. She also threatens that I’ll be paying her lawyer fees as well. How likely is any of this? Do I have a chance in getting equal custody over both kids? Will I have to pay her legal fees? I am staying at my parents because I can’t afford paying her bills plus rent of my own.. will I have to prove abuse to get what I feel that I deserve? I just don’t know how bad this is going to get. I’m dealing with someone with a lot of cluster B personality traits here.. I’ve done everything with my kids. When I wasn’t working, I was spending time with themevery evening and every weekend for the past 2 years I’d go straight home and care for the kids while she sat in a different room on her computer and phone while drinking beer. I helped with the homework, ate with them, played, took our son to every sports practice and school event by myself, and tucked them both in at night by myself. Besides caring for our toddler during the day, I feel that ive carried the bulk of the load the past few years.
I appreciate any advice here. Do I have a chance? Is it better to settle out of court or let a judge decide our fate? I know the second I claim abuse, she’ll cry it back.. thanks. Also, Im not wealthy, so crazy legal fees are going to be a problem.
I asked my sons mother and she won’t let me see him at all and only time she talk to me is to see who I’m in relationship with and when I make it about my son she cuts it off right then and there. She even told me if I didn’t marry her she would keep him from me and I’m still waiting to see him but now I have a attorney so I can’t wait to be in his life and do things. She don’t even have him doing anything or getting out at all. I offered to help with clothes and meds and she said ” I have 3 kids I been doing it all alone I’m a single married mom” but yet I offer help and she turns my offering down
In many situations such as mine, the child is with the mother all the time because the mother is simply alienating the father from his child, and if you make an effort to see the child, you have to deal with the abuse from that parent. This also goes for some fathers who are alienating the mother as well. I have been alienated since the child’s birth 16 years ago. And it is not getting better. That ATM CARD that gives the mother access to my money is the big problem. I have no leverage
I just got a letter in the mail saying I owe a yearly fee now. Of 25 bucks a year, so in total I owe fees of 100 for 4 years.
I’m already paying monthly almost 500 bucks on CS.
*Sidenote
I’ve never once gotten to meet my son. She wouldn’t even give him my last name.
Another sidenote. The CS that I’ve been paying is off what I used to make before I had my accident. I’m now on SSI because I can’t work. I have a severe TBI. The CS is just over half of my monthly income now.
My sister has 2 kids with her ex. She’s lucky to see 100 a month from him for my nieces.
But here I am stuck paying almost 500 a month for one kid.
This is some bullshit.
My baby mom won’t allow my kids to receive gift from me, she wants money only? I feel that wrong I should be able to give my kids Christmas presents instead of giving her money, how should I go about that
So if I have had shared legal custody since my kid was 6 months old, and the mother is unfit based on many factors, what can I do to show the court that I am the better option? I have been taking care of kids since I was a young teen and my 3 year old literally says that he does not want to go to his moms house. I have never once said anything bad about her to my son, but he has been losing his shit since he was just about a year and a half, ever time he has to go with her. To me that spells a clear problem, and even one time he came to my home with very suspicious marks that were all nearly identical and in a patter down his leg. I had this presented to the courts and I had called CYS. I was granted temporary sole custody until the matter was resolved because the judge thought the marks were suspicious too. The issue ended up getting thrown out and she still has shared custody of my son. Something like this would have stripped all my rights away but because she is the mother they basically blew it off. I’m talking about a child that wasn’t even two years old looking like he was smacked with a rod in three spots with lines seperated by only a few inches and all in the same direction. At this point I feel very let down by the courts.
I was the primary care giver as s stay at home dad, and she is neglecting care of the kids when they are with her. What is the best course of action to ensure the safety and custody of the kids
Ive been poorly treated by my childs mother and lost custody over a false claim for ovwr 8 months now. I need help getting him back in my life. I make too much for legal aid and too less for 2000 dollar retainer to keep my attourney. gf.me/u/k92hvj
This video shows there is a bias against fathers with the courts. Guys don’t ever marry a woman. Avoid the headache and keep your money.