Strategies for Speaking for your Child About Dying

 

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Some specific tips for talking to kids about death and grief: Tip #1: Assess Understanding. Assess your child’s understanding of the topic at hand; either what specifically happened to their loved one and Tip #2: Be honest and straightforward. Tip # 3: Don’t use euphemism!

Tip #4: Validate their. If a parent tells a child whose sibling has died that the sibling is sleeping, the child may expect the sibling to wake up. If the parent says.

Try to help your child understand death before it touches her life significantly, says Ashleigh Schopen, a Certified Child Life Specialist who provides support for the siblings of intensivecare. Talking to your child about a tragedy can help him or her understand what’s happened, feel safe and begin to cope. Silence might make the event seem more threatening to your child. If possible, choose a time when your child is likely to want to talk, such as before dinner. 8 Tips for talking to your child with special needs about death.

The following strategies should be kept in mind when talking about death with a special needs child: 1. Prepare Your Child. Tell the child that a loved one is dying so it does not come as a shock. Of course death isn’t always foreseeable. Tips for Talking to Your Kids About Privilege and Racism in the Wake of George Floyd’s Death this link is to an external site that may or may not meet accessibility guidelines.

As adults, we often want to protect them from the stigma and shame that can accompany such a death. Here are some tips for talking with children and teens about a suicide death and ways to support them in their grief. Tell the truth How do I tell my child or teen?

It’s a question we hear a lot. Start with a short, simple explanation of what happened in language children can understand. Death is a fascinating subject to many children, as shown, for example, when they come across a dead animal or plant. Their observations and questions show a.

According to Arquette, when talking with your kids about what happened, use the words “ death ” and “dying” rather than phrases such as “went to sleep,” or “went away,” or “went to heaven.” Make sure your child understands that dying means that the pet’s body has stopped working, and the pet will not come back. Leave out the word “sick”. If your child is under the age of 10, Kaiser advises not to inform him/her that your loved one who passed away was not feeling well. “One of the things that happens with younger children is that they have a tendency to think that if one person dies, more people will be dying,” she explains.

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It will only communicate to children that you are uncomfortable talking about death and it will prevent your child from bringing important feelings to you in the future.

“Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child” by John Mordechai Gottman, John Gottman, Joan Declaire, Daniel Goleman
from Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child
by John Mordechai Gottman, John Gottman, et. al.
Simon & Schuster, 1998

Let their questions be your guide and keep in mind children’s need for reassurance that death is a natural end of life and a quiet, peaceful existence.

“Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby” by Deborah L. Davis
from Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby
by Deborah L. Davis
Fulcrum Pub., 1996

Easing the Child’s Anxiety Ask family caregivers about the child’s understanding of death and previous experiences with death.

“Broadribb's Introductory Pediatric Nursing” by Nancy T. Hatfield
from Broadribb’s Introductory Pediatric Nursing
by Nancy T. Hatfield
Lippincott Williams & Wilkins, 2007

Encourage parents to express their concerns about how to talk about death and loss with their child.

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from Canadian Clinical Nursing Skills and Techniques E-Book
by Anne Griffin Perry, Patricia A. Potter, et. al.
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2019

• Clarify misconceptions and let the child know he or she did not cause the illness or impending death; allow the child to express his or her feelings and accept whatever emotions are expressed by the child; provide warmth and support during the discussion; and speak with a calm and reassuring voice.

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from Wong’s Nursing Care of Infants and Children E-Book
by Marilyn J. Hockenberry, David Wilson
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2018

It is essential to explain to the child what the body will look like, and the fact that the deceased will not talk, move, or breathe.

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from Fundamentals of Nursing E-Book: Active Learning for Collaborative Practice
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First of all, recognize your own fear and discomfort in talking with children about death, spend time listening to them and giving them the opportunity to explore their curiosity.

“A Clinical Guide to the Treatment of the Human Stress Response” by George S. Everly, Jr., Jeffrey M. Lating
from A Clinical Guide to the Treatment of the Human Stress Response
by George S. Everly, Jr., Jeffrey M. Lating
Springer New York, 2012

Ask family caregivers about the child’s understanding of death and previous experiences with death.

“Broadribb's Introductory Pediatric Nursing” by Nancy T. Hatfield
from Broadribb’s Introductory Pediatric Nursing
by Nancy T. Hatfield
Lippincott Williams & Wilkins, 2003

With my own children, it has been important to talk about death as a transition that represents an end to the physical we know, but not an end to the essence of the being that we love.

“Preparing to Die: Practical Advice and Spiritual Wisdom from the Tibetan Buddhist Tradition” by Andrew Holecek
from Preparing to Die: Practical Advice and Spiritual Wisdom from the Tibetan Buddhist Tradition
by Andrew Holecek
Shambhala, 2013

Answer the child’s questions honestly, but also be sensitive to the family’s cultural or religious beliefs about death.

“Home, School, and Community Collaboration: Culturally Responsive Family Engagement” by Kathy B. Grant, Julie A. Ray
from Home, School, and Community Collaboration: Culturally Responsive Family Engagement
by Kathy B. Grant, Julie A. Ray
SAGE Publications, 2015

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  • Respect on this take JGOD ❤️, these boys put in hours day in day out to pump out this kind of content and so do you. Hurts to see their grind discredited, especially being on the same grind myself

  • People don’t understand this type of skill takes years to perfect and hours of grinding to get a gameplay worth posting. Every person who posts call of duty videos is only showcasing the highlight of their time playing and sometimes combining multiple matches to make a video entertaining. Let’s say even if Swagg or K3 could reverse boost in warzone(they don’t) you still can’t be a trash player and expect to drop 30-40 kills, it just doesn’t work like that because you are a bad player so you will make bad decisions and your game sense isn’t nearly as solid as theirs

  • dont know how it happened. button had a second litter of one. it wriggled out her hutch blind two days old lovely i went to close the curtains i found next morning i cried and sobbed real grief for days. for the kitten rabbit. buttonhoney who may have thought i done it on purpose and my stupidity. its upsetting me now

  • Chelsea this video is amazing! Totally agree about the honesty part! I wish when I was a child my family dealt with this better. Them shielding me away from my great grandma’s death, not allowing me to go to the funeral made me confused and scared for years.

  • Dude, i see him playing against scump in cold war. He had no chance!! He’s good but not so good as the most of the peoples think he is. But against really good cod Player, i mean really good Player, the most of the time he has no chance. Thats fact…

  • May also hear “Bhagvad Gita: Treatise of Self-help” in rhythmic verses sans inane interpolations and theological spins https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bfnnt6okIhM&t=740s

  • What if your almost 13 and your still fearing death, can you please make a video about that, I’ve had endless fear of dieing for about a year. I’m pretty sure I have depression and I know for a fact i have anxiety

  • I personally don’t care if people reverse boost for nukes/entertainment I think it’s entertaining but the catch is they trick people into using thier class setups to “easily nuke” no hate to JGOD. Keep it up ��

  • Perfect timing. My 5 year old is expressing his fear of death. Good common sense tips which I’m actually using so I’m glad I’m using my gut to explain death to him ����❤️

  • Skill+ Fiber Internet+top end equipment (monitor/headset/6K+PC) I know swagg plays in a PS Pro but most streamers are on top of the line PCs. That’s were I get tiltedfaster load timesbetter graphics make a huge difference if you are a skilled player. Just watch Merc’s stream for an hour in close quarters his rig loads the environment twice as fast as most of the people he is againstyou can tell by the opponents lack of reaction to movement. They also complain about ping higher than 60I cant even get WZ lobbies with ping lower than 90. That’s the stuff that really gets me tilted when I loose close gunfights.

  • People just don’t understand if a 5 kd player is playing against a 1.5 kd player he’s gonna make them look like a bot cuz of the skill difference. People just assume they’re trash. Because they’re trash themselves and don’t see skill like that ever because of sbmm

  • I reached lvl 155 just on weekends when there was a double xp event. I mean I play on console with mouse and keyboard so in conclusion not good:D

  • Another terrific video, JGOD. You the literal GOAT.

    I do have a quick question. He’s an incredibly skilled player, but his recoil control is super sus. I’m talking about Biffle. Do you think he’s using a Cronus max or some cheat software? I know he plays on controller but every time I watch his videos his recoil is non existent. Swagg and Nickmercs have some recoil when they play so that’s why I’m wondering. Thanks for all your hard work bro beans.

  • Of course heaven is real. When you die you don’t see black for more than 30 seconds then golden heaven. God loves you.

    R.I.P. means rest in piece.

  • I’m level 155 with 0 wins.. being that level means squat. It’s not skill based it time in game based. Most player will be getting to 155 now cause there’s only 14 days left before season 6.

    I’m not saying jgod is FoS it’s just not really proving anything saying it’s level based,

  • I think the thing is, that activision sponsored gamers get on average, easier lobbies. Ive checked the stats of their opponents regularly, and i see 0.80 kds. I rarely see high kds. But there are some though. On average, the guys I run across are 1.6kd +. Rarely seeing any negative kds. I think activision has something to do with it, since these people talk highly on the micro transactions and such, so that it makes others buy it. Genius @jgod

  • I don’t know about others but after this video I’m subbing. I catch your content sometimes but I’ll be checking back more frequently now. Thorough my dude! Thanks JGod!

  • Jgod just lost my respect sounds like your a d rider for your scribes. You know he reverse boostes. Sbmm also goes off your mp ratio. Sign off you just lost credit. Garbage content creator

  • My wife is a social worker who talks to kids about death on a daily basis. 99% of this is perfect. I would be careful with the cremation explanation, because if the kid hasn’t fully understood that the person is no longer “in” their body, burning can sound really scary.

    Everything else was perfect. Thanks for making a video about this important topic!

  • Hey, thank you so much for your videos! I love to watch them, even though I unfortunately don’t have a lot of kids in my life (yet). Please keep going making videos! Also: Love the haircut:D

  • Jgod i have a question you are saying that swagg and other top players are not playing multiplayer but how do they get obsidian weapons swagg has obsidian on kilo141 and nick on bruen mk9 do they get obsidian in wz not possible i am confused ��‍♂️

  • I believe death is not real. We die then come right back. Reincarnation is what it’s called. Why are young kids scared of something like death, Its because deep down we know it’s like starting over and it sucks. Lol People try to paint this picture of Heaven and Hell to scare you into doing Right in life. It’s not true. Oh and fyi. There are over 30,000 planets with life on them in the Milky Way alone. We know that most look just like us. Some have bigger eyes smaller ears so on and so forth. Weird I know.

  • Firstly I really enjoy all your content jgod and recently you had a vid of reverse boosting! So is swagger playing trio quads? Because the list of players he kills there a quad with same clan!! I also checked random players in that list for there KD. Out of the six random players I checked, none where above 1.3 kd. 3 players where 0.6, 0.6 0.8 kd!!! You went to so much trouble getting so much info on the players he killed but never checked any of the kdr. Also I’m 155 and 1 kdr. I’m astonished you are actually going by player rank to determine how good the players he is facing!

  • Level 155 doesn’t even mean anything thing to me anymore it’s just that you play a lot. I got destroyed by the biggest noob that is level 155 and only had 2 kills and didn’t even know how to armor up.

  • I am of the opinion that kids are more okay with this kind of stuff than adults are. I had to tell my daughter about death at a young age because we had a death in the family. She had some questions, we answered them calmly, she was sad for a moment then she was okay again. And now I think she is more okay with the idea of death than I will ever be. This was a great vid, hon! Thank you!!

  • I really love how non egotistical you display in your videos. It is very unique compared to 90% of YouTubers. Thank you for your hard work and valuable content. Youtube should give you a raise!

  • jGod explains it perfectly already i dont get why so many comments still saying reverse boost and stuff like that lmao just either you didnt play 8+ hours a day( which you are bound to have bots lobbies) or you are just one of those bots( which you dont accept it LOL)…

  • Hey jgod how are you bro? I did that same thing of looking up players with some dude that got the duo record of 79 the other day and found out that for sure they were reverse boosting glad that we both did the same method before this video came out. I thought it was just my paranoia. Except i actually looked up their k/d ratios and they were between 0.5-1.5 and theirs is 5.0 k/d.

  • Everyone sweeping these YouTubers bot lobbies under the rug to defend em is pretty funny ngl �� oh? sorry I guess I’m just a hater.

  • HusKerrs being doing Reverse kd thing my current kd is 1.36 and HusKerrs has like 4.01 there is no way we can be in same lobby but today he killed me like 3 in 3 different lobby

  • Seems like a lot of people out there refuse to believe there are pros out there that play this game 8-10 hours a day as a job and they’re just naturally better than you because of that. It’s a game guys, just go out and have fun, even in the sweaty lobbies.

  • They are just jealous they cant make atleast 10 kills lol. It’s all gonna comes down to skill, latency and server you are playin (ex. You can get 5 wins in Oceania while you get 1 or none in Asia no offense, just try it)

  • Didn’t once mention if he was using cross play or not. Ps4 players are generally bad thats why pros play on ps4 turn off cross play and your going to get easier lobbys and less hacker’s.

  • Something I think a lot of people don’t account for when they see bot players in these lobbies, those players are in your game too they just don’t survive long enough for you to see them often the reason pros see more of them is simply the pros can roll decent players up quick and push more people. The more they fight a match the more likely they are to find the bad players think about it, how many players do you see a game total before the mid/end circles when only the better players are alive

  • Sometimes I watch great players play and many people doubt their skill and automatically accuse them of cheating. Yet many of these guys, grind it out 8-10 hours and beam people constantly. Think of it as sports, you play more you tend to get a bit better each time. Repetition

  • I’m 12 and I just watched the apocalypse move 2012 and I thought what would I do on that situation I just keep on thinking that I’m gonna die if there’s a situation I can’t control

  • I have also made the experience that the difficulty of the lobbies depends very much on the time of day.
    When I play between 9-11 am the lobbies are significantly easier than at 3 pm.
    In addition, the lobbies on europe servers are a lot more sweaty than NA’s

  • I’m just a Dad who plays off his kids Xbox account. I love war zone. These videos are so detailed and informative. I love watching them. They’ve helped me out a lot.

  • I understand you you reverse boost In multiplayer. But how would you do it in warzone if your whole team has high Kd? Also swag usually hosts.

  • Great effort. Sadly 90+% of the players are goldfish, they’ll forget the RB when the new game is released. You should reupload this vid monthly, just to be sure ��

  • Who cares about reverse boosting. If a dudes good he’s good. Swagg is top their. Those complaining are the same ones probably calling hack on nickmercs or Huskers or icemanissac!

  • Hey Maggie. Thanks so much for all your content. It’s wonderful and there’s so much very helpful advice for parents.Unfortunately I’m still struggling to explain the concept of death to my just-turned-six year old, who asks about it every month or so (usually when a movie triggers it…and boy do those movies like to trigger it!! We try to avoid them, but they seem to be everywhere). As non-religious parents, we started by using the advice found on most ‘expert’ websites i.e that everything that lives dies and explained the cycle of life, and that the body stops working. But our then four year old daughter became very withdrawn for several days, was visibly distressed and wanting to know what ‘but what happens to “you” (in relation to herself thoughts, feelings etc the ‘soul’ I guess?). In the end too afraid of/not knowing how to explain the notion of ”there is no you…you won’t think, or feel anymore” which I feel pretty certain would have rekindled the visibly anxious state she was previously in, we went down the heaven route, which almost immediately snapped her out of her state. In the two years since then however she relatively frequently asks about what heaven is; can you make phone calls from there to people? is there a toilet etc…So what gave immediate comfort has now led to some anxiety (although it’s probably important to note she’s a very active child, enjoys school, and is generally happy so we’re not talking about a kid who this is getting to so much it’s preventing her from doing anything ). But I still feel pretty certain, two years on, that if we just say “it’s the end” she’ll go into a real anxiety state again, worry about never seeing people again if they die etc. However…. I’m not comfortable in staying with the heaven route because of the religious baggage that comes with it most notably religion’s notion of hell and ‘sins sending us there’. So, I’m at a loss as to what to do. At the moment the notion of heaven seems, excuse the expression, the lesser of two evils (the second being ‘The End’). I’ve just bought Goodbye Mog as recommended on ‘Psychology Today’, but our kid is real smart and inquisitive, and sensitive, and she’s sure to ask me where Mog goes when he flies off into the sunset. And now I have no idea how to answer. Do I tell her it’s the end, or has he gone on to a beautiful place?! Any suggestions would be HUGELY appreciated. And I’m sure there will be other parents on here experiencing similar things who would appreciate your expert advice. Thanks so much in advance!:) And for all your content!

  • Thanks from the bottom of my heart! Praying this works! Waiting on two children to get home to tell them their pup has passed that they loved dearly! Ages 12& 10! Thanks for sharing look forward to more of your advice! May you keep giving blessings