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May 29, 2017 Celebrating Memorial Day but we see that parents need to be consistent with the kids so that they know what they need to do and how the rules work.. “dif” WHAT IS dif!?!? Do It For. To many times people live without the goals or purpose in mind. We get into a routine and don’t stop to find the reason that we are living life. One of the reasons that I do “it” for is for my family. I hope that you join us on our adventures.. Want to submit an intro to the vlog? Upload the video to your YouTube channel and email the link to [email protected] Thanks for checking out the video! Be sure to give a “thumbs up” if you like it and SUBSCRIBE if you want to watch this ordinary family do extraordinary things!!. Subscribe: https://youtube.com/channel/UC0LXeK4YH-ApWYIhvIoMSRw?sub_confirmation=1. Follow us: Twitter: https://twitter.com/diftubetv. Instagram: https://instagram.com/diftubetv. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/difFamilyVlog. Music by Chillhop: http://youtube.com/chillhopdotcom. Aso Caught In The Rain: https://soundcloud.com/aricogle. thanks for the support!:D
This is the sixth video in the Parenting Support: Calming Tantrums series.. Have you considered that the way you and your child respond to each other when your child is throwing a tantrum is actually a form of communication? How does this understanding support you to change the way you’re communicating with your child? Why is it important to stand your ground (be consistent) when you are changing your response pattern to your child’s tantrums? Self & Living has merged with its sister store, www.eqafe.com check it out for more! If you have any specific requests for videos please post a comment on this thread or on the EQAFE channel. You can also post a comment on the EQAFE Facebook page or send a private message: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Eqafe/359136057446238. Or you can tweet your request to us @eqafe. Or email us directly on [email protected] Subscribe to this channel to get updates on new videos as they are released!
Consistency in Parenting 5 Tips. Check out our other videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXCK_YZy8q3Zx4ZprJOZRjQ/videos. Consistency: how many parents sigh or roll their eyes when they hear that word? That’s because consistency is tough, and most parents don’t feel like they are nearly consistent enough.. No one is consistent 100% of the time. But aiming for consistency the majority of the time is not unreasonable or impossible. Here are some top tips on how to be more consistent as a parent that should help.. Why Be Consistent? What’s the big deal about consistency anyway? The point of all this consistency talk is simply this: if kids know the consequences of a behavior, and there’s no area of doubt, then they’re probably more likely to modify their behavior. Consistency puts action behind your words; it shows your kids that you do mean what you say. It gives your words power, and prevents you from having to take action every single time (often a different action every single time, which gets exhausting). So it pays to deliver! The Role of Planning. Planning ahead is important for consistency. Determine what your expectations for your kids are, from the broad (doing well in school) to the specific (behaving in the grocery store). Armed with your knowledge of your kids’ idiosyncrasies you know what sets them off and you know the “problem areas” come up with a plan of action based on their behavior and the behavior you expect. Then calmly implement your plan…consistently.. Involve the Other Parent. Whether you are in a traditional marriage or not, if Mom and Dad are both in the home, it’s important for them to be on the same page regarding discipline and expectations. So a good idea is to sit down with the other parent and discuss your plans of action. Having both parents on board with the plan of action, expectations, and consequences just adds to the consistency.. Involve the Kids. Really? Yes, involving the kids is a healthy idea, sources say. Let them have a voice in the consequences, and make sure they understand the expectations. It’s not really fair to spring the consequences and expectations on them unexpectedly; it makes more sense for kids to follow rules if they know the rules (and the consequences of breaking them) ahead of time!. Consistency Is Not the Same as Inflexibility. There’s really no need to be rigid and inflexible for fear of appearing inconsistent. Sometimes, flexibility is required, and that should not undermine your consistency if you go about it the right way. For example, explain the change to your child if it’s an exception to the usual rule, let them know why and that this is not going to be a habit. Or maybe one of the consequences does need to be adjusted; talk it over as a family and agree to make the change together.. This is not being inconsistent; it’s being flexible and willing to make changes where necessary, which is likely as good a model for your children as being consistent! -- Link for this video: https://youtu.be/EQ5P7Z4FvQc. -- CONNECT WITH US: https://www.facebook.com/allabouttoys.info/. https://twitter.com/AllAboutToys24. https://www.tumblr.com/blog/allabouttoysinfo. -- Don’t forget to check out our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXCK_YZy8q3Zx4ZprJOZRjQ. and subscribe to our channel and get informed when we add new content.. This presentation contains images that were used under a Creative Commons License. Click here to see the full list of images and attributions: https://app.contentsamurai.com/cc/195452
We all know that being consistent with our parenting is key to having well behaved kids. In this video, I talk about one of my favorite tools to be consistent. The idea is to respond like a broker record. This idea prevents kids from defiant behavior and teaches them we mean what we say.. Visit my website at www.positiveparenting.com. A mom contacted me last week for help: “Hi! I have a 3.5 year old that is very challenging. He makes everything complicated from getting in the car to walking in the parking lot. Time out doesn’t work with him. He refuses. I’ve taken away toys but that doesn’t seem to work either. He gets upset in the moment of me taking it away but goes right back to doing whatever he’s not supposed to be doing. He recently started spitting when he doesn’t get his way or scream very loud and out of control when someone tries to correct him or tell him not to do something. I don’t know what else to do.”. Me: Sounds so frustrating! I can definitely help you with those sorts of issues. My Teleclass with Coaching is the best way to go. You listen to the recorded class and then each week we talk and I can give you specifics suggestions. http://positiveparenting.com/positive-parenting-teleclass/. Would you like me to put you on my email list and send you more information? Mom: Yes that would be great. I don’t know if I can afford that program right now but I did purchase your power struggle program and watched it today. https://www.udemy.com/no-i-wont-you-cant-make-me/?couponCode=YOUTUBE10. Me: Great! Let me know how it goes! ONE WEEK LATER. Me: How are things going with your son? Do you have any questions? Debbie. Mom: “Thanks for checking. I have been using some of the power struggle techniques and that has definitely made a difference. I will continue to use what I have learned from your videos. Being able to watch and see examples helped me tremendously… I’ve read a few parenting books but they did nothing like your power struggle video.”. Yay! Great Success Story! And for just $10, you and the parents you work with can have these tools too! https://www.udemy.com/no-i-wont-you-cant-make-me/?couponCode=YOUTUBE10. Please share this success story with any parents that may need help with their kids. Thank you!
Today we explore the secret to building self discipline which shows you how to master self control and maintain success habits that lead to a great future.. Music: “Straight” from Bensound.com. Thanks to the rest of the TopThink team who worked on this video, including Tristan Reed (writing) and Nilesh Upadhyay (animation).
Disciplining a misbehaving child is perhaps the most difficult struggle every parent faces. It can be so hard to say “no” sometimes! However, with some *self* discipline and consistency, encouraging good behavior can be much easier than many parents imagine is possible.. On this week’s “Sunday with Sarah,” I’m here to share my secrets for successful discipline which I learned over the course of many years as an early childhood teacher and parent. Give them a try and let me know in the comments below what changes you notice! Wishing you a day full of play,. Sarah. http://www.bellalunatoys.com
The number one thing you will notice in your child as you start to be more consistent is “push back.” Push back is your child’s way of saying, “Wait a minute, I don’t like what’s going on here!” Push back comes in a lot of different forms. It can appear as. Be respectful of your child. If you show your child respect even when disciplining your child your child is more likely to respect you, other family members, and.
Mighty Mommy has 5 simple strategies that will help you incorporate positive discipline into your parenting routine and make that disobedient behavior a thing of the past: Name the Bad Behavior. Stop Nagging. Use Warmth and Understanding. Don’t Threaten Isolation. Catch Them Doing Good.
In the end, there is no “secret” to consistency—it’s just the willingness of a parent to take the time to stick to the rules they’ve laid out for their child. The benefits of consistent parenting are that your child will internalize your rules and values over time and learn to do things with simple reminders rather than conflict. Discipline that seems arbitrary to a child is because rules and expectations are not clearly defined, established in advance and reinforced daily. Solution: Create a few clear family rules.
Make sure that your simple and concrete rules (for bedtime, morning routines, etc.) are realistic, and that your expectations are realistic and age-appropriate. Many children are better behaved in school because of the consistency and rules. REWRITE YOUR GOALS EVERY DAY. To maximize your self-discipline every day, it is necessary that you keep the bigger picture in mind.
Only by remembering why you do what you do will you take the. Pick your battles. Sit down and work out what qualities you want to see in your children when they are grown up.
These qualities are the ones that are important for your family. If you need to choose battles, these qualities are the ones you should be trying to instil. Here are some ideas that will help you start to improve your consistency as a parent: 1) Choose one thing first. One of the no-fail rules to follow when you’re trying out new parenting techniques is to choose just one behavior to start with.
Try and sit down and create a plan for disciplining the children in order to keep it consistent. If you cant bear to sit down and have this conversation then do it over email. The most important thing is that a plan is created so that both parents can follow it and ensure consistency.
Communicate.
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Discipline Effective discipline strategies should involve a comprehensive approach that does not emphasize punishment, but instead promotes the development of self-control in a child (Backlin, Scheindlin, Ip et al., 2007).
Good discipline requires him to clean the room, and then identifies ways that the child can practice responsibility and stewardship over the coming week (for instance; by taking on additional chores without being reminded) while the child is grounded.
The second technique, punishment, must be implemented judiciously, and parents should always remember that reinforcement results in more enduring behavior change.
Continue stressing the principle of “positives before negatives” (rewards before punishments) when designing a behavior change strategy to use with their child.
Instead of focusing on trying to control what the parent who lives in another house or even in another state does or doesn’t do, each parent is best advised to develop the most efficient discipline plan that teaches responsible behaviors, encourages positive attitudes, and provides emotional strength.
As parents, we must constantly be reminded that the purpose of discipline is to correct the wrong behavior and to help a child develop self-discipline.
Consistency is so important, in fact, that it is generally more effective for parents to implement a consequence for a half hour and follow through with it than it is for them to take something away for a month and go back on their word after a couple weeks.
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Great advice. Thanks for sharing this! If you’re interested in goal setting and habit building, please check out a product called GoalsOnTrack at https://www.goalsontrack.com. It’s designed for helping high achievers to set and track goals by organizing everything you need to do inside a comprehensive goal planning system.
I like the content and the educational message you are sending to your audience,but I would advise you to provide a summary of all points previously mentioned as a form of revision of everything you have already said. It makes the video more organised and easy to learn from. Other than that awesome video
Thank you for sharing this, Sarah. It’s such a relief to know that we are indeed helping our children when we are firm in the way you described… because sometimes it’s so challenging and the urge to ‘give in’ gets strong! Your videos are wonderful and you are just lovely. Also our family adores Bella Luna x
Hope all is well. I noticed there was no Sunday with Sarah video this week. Your videos are such an inspiration for our family and provide so much wonderful and heart felt information. Thank you for all you do.
everyone watching this video, remember this all your life…. motivation will get you started… discipline will keep you going and repetition will give you the results…
I love your channel and advice. My 5 year old grandchild is consistently unkind to her soon to be stepdad and says terrible things about him to friends and teachers and even his own daughter. We all have been very patient and tell her pedagogical stories about the rewards of kindness and good deeds, but she is extremely willful and it is wearing on everyone, especially the stepdad. Any ideas on how to bring some peace to this situation? Thank you for any suggestions you may have!
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Just started working from home about a month ago. First two weeks was killing it, hitting overtime. Last week I def slacked and barely hit 35 hours, I need to get myself back motivated for this new week, if the paycheck wasn’t enough motivation
Summery To develop self discipline We have to identify our weaknesses We have to devolop easy habits We have to treat ourselves with rewards for doing productive activities We have to identify things and places which give strength to our addictions We have to make adjustments in our lifestyle which are personalized for use We should have to set time limits for addictive behaviours
Nice video but do the black peoples have to be the ones without discipline? There wasn’t any black doctors in your illustrations. It’s a small detail but has big implications on people’s perceptions of black people.
Thank you for this video! I’d love to know more about responding to a child after the discipline. If they are upset with saying no or the boundary that has been set, how to respond to them in that time.
1. find your weakness learn to control them how to lessen 2. Create easy habits 3. use rewards 4. personal standards(not a goal) limits you accept for yourself (something to do everyday) want 3000 but settle for 1500 5. look ahead -avoid situations that allow you to misstep plan ahead to avoid bad habits 6. Set alarms time youself (moderation) -physically acknowledge the limits 7. Make adjustmentsbuild routine designed for yourself if you have more energy at night then workout at night
I have to say I used NO! when it came to hitting. If not close enough to stop the action, sometimes (especially if used very rarely!) a loud NO! can surprise a child and stop them long enough for you to get across the room and where the action is happening.
There’s no secret. It’s literally making the sacrifice and putting in the work. If you can’t manage it, aim lower and build it up from there. This video is worse than watching TV because at least when watching it you know that you’re relaxing. Watching this is tempting yourself into feeling like you’re making a change when really you’re just watching a youtube video.
Loved it!!! I’m always staying up till 3 a.m in the morning and feeling so tired �� at work!!! Thank you for this awesome and useful video!!! ����������
my weakness is that I overeat moderation may look like eating food the size of my fist and to fast some days in the week, at least four days out of seven for this week.
My reward is to watch 5 episodes of Legend of Korra on Saturday! StandardTo at least do half an hour of a rigorous workout 5 days a week GoalTo do an hour workout four days in a week
look aheadI like to convince my mom to buy junk food and cook me junk food to look ahead I can nap when I’m hungry or watch a movie
Great advice. Thanks for sharing this!
If you’re interested in goal setting and habit building, please check out a product called GoalsOnTrack at https://www.goalsontrack.com. It’s designed for helping high achievers to set and track goals by organizing everything you need to do inside a comprehensive goal planning system.
Im suffering substance addiction, i have everything, i have all potential i need to succeed… its so frustrating, i wish it never happened….
I like the content and the educational message you are sending to your audience,but I would advise you to provide a summary of all points previously mentioned as a form of revision of everything you have already said. It makes the video more organised and easy to learn from. Other than that awesome video
1. Find your weaknesses
-Moderation
2. Create easy habit
3. Use rewards
4. Personal standard
Realistically
5. Look ahead
Resist the temptation
6. Set alarms
7. Make adjustments
Thank you for sharing this, Sarah. It’s such a relief to know that we are indeed helping our children when we are firm in the way you described… because sometimes it’s so challenging and the urge to ‘give in’ gets strong! Your videos are wonderful and you are just lovely. Also our family adores Bella Luna x
Hope all is well. I noticed there was no Sunday with Sarah video this week. Your videos are such an inspiration for our family and provide so much wonderful and heart felt information. Thank you for all you do.
everyone watching this video, remember this all your life…. motivation will get you started… discipline will keep you going and repetition will give you the results…
I love your channel and advice. My 5 year old grandchild is consistently unkind to her soon to be stepdad and says terrible things about him to friends and teachers and even his own daughter. We all have been very patient and tell her pedagogical stories about the rewards of kindness and good deeds, but she is extremely willful and it is wearing on everyone, especially the stepdad. Any ideas on how to bring some peace to this situation?
Thank you for any suggestions you may have!
Create The Mindset To Change Your Life 7 Week Affirmations
Your customers will receive new affirmations to melt away the stress and negativity life throws at them. This will change their vibration and mindset to allow them to manifest the perfect life. https://www.digistore24.com/redir/328411/JuliaPilipchuk/
Just started working from home about a month ago. First two weeks was killing it, hitting overtime. Last week I def slacked and barely hit 35 hours, I need to get myself back motivated for this new week, if the paycheck wasn’t enough motivation
11:45 and I’m procrastinating writing an essay and debating quitting my nursing course. Trying to change my life but failing miserably.
1.Find your weaknesses
2.Create easy habits
3.Use rewards
4.Personal standards
5.Look ahead
6.Set alarms
7.Make adjustments
Self-disepline
Summery
To develop self discipline
We have to identify our weaknesses
We have to devolop easy habits
We have to treat ourselves with rewards for doing productive activities
We have to identify things and places which give strength to our addictions
We have to make adjustments in our lifestyle which are personalized for use
We should have to set time limits for addictive behaviours
Nice video but do the black peoples have to be the ones without discipline? There wasn’t any black doctors in your illustrations. It’s a small detail but has big implications on people’s perceptions of black people.
Thank you for this video! I’d love to know more about responding to a child after the discipline. If they are upset with saying no or the boundary that has been set, how to respond to them in that time.
1. find your weakness learn to control them how to lessen
2. Create easy habits
3. use rewards
4. personal standards(not a goal) limits you accept for yourself (something to do everyday) want 3000 but settle for 1500
5. look ahead -avoid situations that allow you to misstep plan ahead to avoid bad habits
6. Set alarms time youself (moderation) -physically acknowledge the limits
7. Make adjustmentsbuild routine designed for yourself if you have more energy at night then workout at night
I have to say I used NO! when it came to hitting. If not close enough to stop the action, sometimes (especially if used very rarely!) a loud NO! can surprise a child and stop them long enough for you to get across the room and where the action is happening.
There’s no secret. It’s literally making the sacrifice and putting in the work. If you can’t manage it, aim lower and build it up from there. This video is worse than watching TV because at least when watching it you know that you’re relaxing. Watching this is tempting yourself into feeling like you’re making a change when really you’re just watching a youtube video.
Loved it!!! I’m always staying up till 3 a.m in the morning and feeling so tired �� at work!!!
Thank you for this awesome and useful video!!! ����������
lost me at; the slide about standards. Why is the guy in a hoody darker and everyone else white? The message on that rubbed me totally wrong.
my weakness is that I overeat
moderation may look like eating food the size of my fist and to fast some days in the week, at least four days out of seven for this week.
My reward is to watch 5 episodes of Legend of Korra on Saturday!
StandardTo at least do half an hour of a rigorous workout 5 days a week
GoalTo do an hour workout four days in a week
look aheadI like to convince my mom to buy junk food and cook me junk food to look ahead I can nap when I’m hungry or watch a movie