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The 4 Biggest Discipline Mistakes Parents Make Paying Attention to Bad Behavior. Whining, screaming, and obnoxious behaviors can be difficult to ignore. But attending Giving in to Make Bad Behavior Stop. Another big parenting mistake is focusing on the short-term only. Although giving Not.

Avoiding some of the most common discipline mistakes can improve your child’s behavior once and for all. Paying Attention to Bad Behavior. Avoid the common discipline mistakes almost every parent makes. Rob Van Petten/Photodisc/Getty Images.

Whining, screaming, and obnoxious behaviors can be difficult to ignore. Common Mistakes Yell at or belittle your child Discipline while angry Be inconsistent, enforcing only at times Deliver a long, detailed explanation Focus only on what was wrong rather than how to correct the behavior Think of discipline as punishing poor behavior Break the rules you hold your kids. by Dr.

Jane Nelsen Many of the following mistakes are made in the name of love. Too often we think we are helping our children when the long-term results of what we do may be discouraging. Other mistakes are made because we just don’t know what else to do. Thankfully, one of the foundation principles of Positive Discipline is that “Mistakes are Wonderful Opportunities to. Here are some common parenting mistakes in discipline, and some possible solutions: Back Down: If you set rules with your child, make sure that you stick with them.

For instance, if you tell your daughter or son that “bedtime is bedtime,” you must stick with that rule. How to Deal With Bullies: A Guide for Parents Mean kids aren’t just a middle-school problem. The trouble has trickled to the youngest grades. 10 Biggest Discipline Mistakes. If you need to discipline a child, do it in a way that honors their true nature Turn cooperation into a game for a Fun-loving Type 1 child.

Speak gently and reassure a Sensitive Type 2 child. Give that Determined Type 3 child a motivating challenge. Make discipline a private experience for a More Serious Type 4 child. Warren Buffett: This is the No.

1 mistake parents make when teaching kids about money I raised 2 successful CEOs and a doctor—here’s one of the biggest mistakes I see parents making VIDEO 2:00 02:00. What mistakes do parents make? Not giving quality time or expecting children to help. Not doing things as a family, recharging their batteries, or with their partner. Here are seven of the most common mistakes that loving parents make: Over-praising and using positive reinforcement: using phrases such as ‘good boy’ and ‘good girl’ and praising everything children do well to reinforce their good behaviour is a very common trait.

Unfortunately, using such ‘evaluative praise’ and descriptively.

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The most obvious of these would be discipline routines that parents create to dissuade children from ‘acting out’, throwing temper tantrums, and to help them learn the basic rules of the household.

“Encyclopedia of Infant and Early Childhood Development” by Janette B. Benson
from Encyclopedia of Infant and Early Childhood Development
by Janette B. Benson
Elsevier Science, 2020

The five essential elements of Mindful Discipline—unconditional love, space, mentorship, healthy boundaries, and mis­takes—are most naturally provided when we as parents are in a relaxed, grounded, and centered place.

“Mindful Discipline: A Loving Approach to Setting Limits and Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child” by Shauna Shapiro, Chris White, Christine Carter, Dean Ornish
from Mindful Discipline: A Loving Approach to Setting Limits and Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child
by Shauna Shapiro, Chris White, et. al.
New Harbinger Publications, 2014

These three, although simple and easy to carry out, go far in helping parents avoid those counterproductive negatives like “no,” “don’t,” “can’t,” and “stop.”

“Raising Children Who Think for Themselves” by Elisa Medhus M.D.
from Raising Children Who Think for Themselves
by Elisa Medhus M.D.
Atria Books/Beyond Words, 2011

As many of the problem behaviors occurred when he did not get his way or when there was an unexpected change in routine, helping to make daily routines (e.g., visual schedules, Social Stories) as well as discipline practices consistent across home settings was important to both parents.

“Handbook of Parent-Child Interaction Therapy for Children on the Autism Spectrum” by Cheryl Bodiford McNeil, Lauren Borduin Quetsch, Cynthia M. Anderson
from Handbook of Parent-Child Interaction Therapy for Children on the Autism Spectrum
by Cheryl Bodiford McNeil, Lauren Borduin Quetsch, Cynthia M. Anderson
Springer International Publishing, 2019

Researchers also assure us that most parents don’t use a single discipline style across the board; they tend to respond differently to different kinds of misbehavior.2 But perhaps the more interesting question is how parents come to decide what constitutes “misbehavior” in the first place.

“Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason” by Alfie Kohn
from Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
by Alfie Kohn
Atria Books, 2006

(3) Assertive discipline: Parents can use non-coercive and effective discipline practices to promote child pro-sociality and alter problem behaviors.

“Preventing Crime and Violence” by Brent Teasdale, Mindy S. Bradley
from Preventing Crime and Violence
by Brent Teasdale, Mindy S. Bradley
Springer International Publishing, 2016

But even in those first days, it’s important that a parent start building discipline—which includes order, routine, and consistency—into a child’s life.

“Making Children Mind without Losing Yours” by Dr. Kevin Leman
from Making Children Mind without Losing Yours
by Dr. Kevin Leman
Baker Publishing Group, 2017

First, more talk is devoted to eliminating unwanted behaviors than to pro­moting positive values and skills; second, step-by-step plans are pro­vided for parents to implement; and third, copious use is made of punishments (“consequences”) and/or rewards (“positive reinforce­ments”).

“Punished by Rewards: Twenty-fifth Anniversary Edition: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes” by Alfie Kohn
from Punished by Rewards: Twenty-fifth Anniversary Edition: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A’s, Praise, and Other Bribes
by Alfie Kohn
HMH Books, 1999

Parents of dispersers-to-be may find themselves worried about their adolescents’ ability to accomplish a range of seemingly simple adult tasks: waking up on time, cleaning up after themselves, managing money.

“Wildhood: The Astounding Connections between Human and Animal Adolescents” by Barbara Natterson-Horowitz, Kathryn Bowers
from Wildhood: The Astounding Connections between Human and Animal Adolescents
by Barbara Natterson-Horowitz, Kathryn Bowers
Scribner, 2020

THE TWO BIGGEST DISCIPLINE mistakes that parents and other caretakers make in dealing with young children are (1) too much talking and (2) too much emotion.

“1-2-3 Magic: 3-Step Discipline for Calm, Effective, and Happy Parenting” by Thomas Phelan
from 1-2-3 Magic: 3-Step Discipline for Calm, Effective, and Happy Parenting
by Thomas Phelan
Sourcebooks, 2016

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  • Well when I was a kid, my parents were a nightmare. Smoking, bad habits and behaviour made me uncomfortable I thought in my head I will hit them in the face. My parents died while I was 4 and now in 2020 I’m 29 so I was free when they died, but I had to hang out with a nanny until I was 18. Computers existed when I was 18, but that nanny wouldn’t let me and I had to attend a school that was pen-and-paper only, even a college that required pen and paper. I’m so happy I’m on my own now and my parents are long gone.

    And that proves I am a fake Project Zorgo account.

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  • Me(before vid): My parents don’t make mistakes! Let’s see what other parents do.
    Me(After vid): My parents are doing almost everything wrong.

  • When I tell my mother something
    ….. Mom I think that you don’t love me, you just love my lil bro… You give him whatever he asks and you always tell my mistake or embarrassing moments in front of everyone

    She says cuz your brotheris smaller he needs more attention and love than yours you get it when you were small

    Me: so you mean grown ups don’t need attention and love, or they don’t feel anything when you tell their embarrassing moments in front of everyone

    Mom: ok do what ever you want, ( starts crying ) she thinks I am evil

    Me: that s the reason everyone why I don’t like to share everything withy mom

  • Parents are always thinking they are right and it just bugs me…everytime I try talking to my mom, she’s either watching TV or saying she is busy when she isn’t even doing anything…I’m the youngest in my family and I feel like that’s what affects mine and my moms relationship.Everytime my older siblings wanna talk or do something she listens.I just feel it’s unfair.When I pass my test my mom says, “good, but I expected full marks”.That’s when I get upset.I have been wanting something for 3 years and later on my sister wanted the same.A day later my mom got it for my sister even though I have been wanting it for 3 years!My mum says I never admit I’m wrong but actually it’s her…

  • I cried watching this because this hit the spot. Asian parents will never understand. Edit: It is their ignorance and refusal to understand.

  • Hmmm… My mom (Asian tiger mom) forced me to play the violin when I was a kid, I hated it.

    However, I realized learning music and music theory has a lot of benefits. It allowed me to recognize patterns and gave me a high cognitive ability to excel in my studies.

    I currently run my own 8 figure business, and I dont think i could have done it without my mom’s nagging.

    Theres a reason why there are a lot of Asian kids excelling in US. I dont agree with every single point made in this video.

  • The sad thing is that even if I show this to my mom she would either brush it off or call me “disrespectful”, “ungrateful” or both.

  • My mum says she’s always correct,even to other family members,and I think this isn’t right,but if I tell her,she’s gonna beat me and shout,so I stay out…what should I do?

  • I have above average classes in every subject and every time I tell someone that I need to go to normal because it’s getting to hard and difficult for me to keep up and im sacraficing way too much just to keep up a B and A. My mom says “Your doing fine your just being a crybaby and not trying enough” but that’s the thing I’m trying way to hard then I should if I was really on the level to keep up and understand it that fast I wouldn’t have to skip lunch,I wouldn’t have to get 2-4 hours of sleep on my desk.

    Quarintine has given me a bit of time but online classes are due so close and on the same due dates

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  • This has made me regret and feel bad about the mistakes I encountered in my parenting styles. Thanks for this amazing information ��.Been so touched

  • So we were talking about what i want to take in the future i said “Computer science” Cuz that is my interest but my parents said that it was “boring” and said “Why not be a pilot or a doctor its more interesting”
    Like just support me you said you are gonna support me to my interest

  • I don’t feel comfortable asking for something because I feel like I would get shouted at and they make me feel guilty because we don’t have ally of money (we do have enough we aren’t poor but it’s strict) and my friends ask why I don’t bring money or simple things to school and I don’t feel comfortable telling them that I’m scared to ask my parents

  • A lack of attention? Dude i dont even wanna be noticed, yet they just wont let me just rest without them telling me this and that ;-;

  • Not all the time parents know the best but they know what you need when i needed space they never gave it to me because they say i can’t communicate and i am being rude to my grandparents when i didn’t say them hi

  • I really love my parents. They actually don’t force me into anything but I still want them to see this.
    I don’t like when they compare me with someone.

  • If I do any single MISTAKE my parents tells me that they will send me hostel IS THIS CORRECT SENDING THEIR CHILDREN FOR ONE MISTAKE!!!???

  • I never let my daughter win when we played games. If she wanted to win, she would have to earn it. Meanest games of Go Fish in Florida. Flip side is that I never gloated when I won and always congratulated her when she won. The girl took three years to beat me in Chess, but when she did she was rightfully proud of herself and was a gracious winner. She earned it.

  • My mom always gets angry on me because I’m always angry at my brother. What they don’t know is I’m slowly adopting their attitude towards me

  • Tip: Move in with a bunch of friends when you finish high school, you can get away from parents and the more friends you have the less you need to pay for rent

  • There must be some skeptics out there who could dismiss some toxic parenting effects as something else, but pay no attention to them.

  • Naku epudu 19. Intlo presser ki chachipovali anipistundi. Sir.. Asalu control chesko lekapothunna.. Edo janmalo chesukunna paapam anta… Gundeni rai chesukoni.. Batukuthunna.. ����

  • Mom I think I have fever
    Me gives her medicine and say her to do rest

    Memom I am having headache
    Mom you always have headache or any problem
    Scolds me and say go to room

  • They need to acknowledge that they are wrong sometimes. My parents believe I and my brother don’t get to bed in time because “you guys don’t put enough effort”. When I’m literally doing the best I could. They don’t understand our standards are different and they can easily put more effort than we can. Another problem is they give us too little time. They simply give us 15 minutes to finish HW and shower and get ready and throw away the trash and etc. and we can’t finish it. The biggest thing is they don’t care what so ever. Even if we give reasons, which they always say it as “excuses”, they don’t care. And in fact, they will use “evidence” to back up their false claim. Like my brother took a long time to get to bed because of any reason then he got kicked out of his room. She later claims “you’re not trying” when it’s obvious. That’s the most frustrating thing of all, they assume. They think their standards are the reality.

  • Lol my parents gave me an “advice” about what they thought, what really surprised me was that theyre thinking i’ll abandon them and forget them when i have my own family later just bcs i dont talk much with them and tbh i alrdy feel really uncomfortable with them then they said those to me just makes me feel like ugh.. why would i do something so immoral? Dont they trust me at all? Like they never even give me advices about life, their only advice is about my mistakes or my possibly upcoming mistakes, seriously

  • I just hope more people who plans to have kids learn from this video so they can raise them with a lot of love while also teaching them some important life lessons in a safe place.

  • My parents just don’t allow me to do anything on my own. When they restrict me to do something and I ask them why, they say that I have no compulsion to tell you but you’ll have to listen to me. This makes me more angry and depressed. They think that we are the elders and we are always right..

  • In the future, we need a license become a parent. we need to check their psycho, financial, education and emotion. we dont want they produce the damaged Generation like we have today.

  • So many people don’t really know why they have children in the first place. Most people are not fit to be parents at all. Having none is a great option.

  • What my dad does all the time is making things up and judging only from what he sees which means I’m getting bullied when he’s not around and says what happens just by that when he doesnt even know how emotionally painful it was to go through. He always gets too bottom of things and (this didnt actually happen just an example) I couldn’t do something because it was raining but than goes too far asking why was it raining. He doesnt even care to know about diversity. When I dont like some food, he yells and asks if everyone else likes it, why dont you? Like what the heck.Even goes far to ask me if I’m even human. And all those emotional issues I have, he always tells me it’s my fault I’m not fixing it.Why is he complaining to me it was god who made me like this. I even went to the therapist and tried to fix it telling it’s my parents fault. Now how am I even gonna fix myself if he doesnt even allow me to go to psychiatrist the second time, his behavior, all bullies at school and cyberbullies, siblings who won’t leave me alone and will irritate me to death and other people like this. When I mention this to him, he yells to me that there is something wrong with this whole world and I’m the only healthy one? He always yells this why I dont have friends because of one emotional issue I have that doesnt even have any sort of impact on between my friends and me. I beared it all barely for 10 years until I’ve had enough!!! He always does all those habits which he tells me to not do. Like if I’m his son, I’m supposed to be like him since children are an example of their parents, wouldnt it make sense? He would listen to nobody’s advice on my psychological effects because of him and wouldnt listen to the truth and all these suppressed emotions have not only mentally,emotionally but are also affecting my physical lifestyle. When I try to control them, my legs start to hurt, my heart starts beating harder and faster that even my brain starts to beat like the heart. My insides all vibrate and there are chances of fainting as my entire body starts to sleep.

  • My parents are the worst ever they never ask for my feelings and always have their own way.J love playing soccer and I am really good at it but instead of telling me to to be better they always oh no soccer will do you no good the best thing is good grades at school look at me I got good god grades I and I am respected or Oh came late we’ll no food for you there so mean I always wish I will have different parents but no matter what they do I will be the greatest soccer player ever. Like If your parents are the same

  • The only bad thing my mother does. Is comparing me to other kids
    She keeps saying. Im not comparing, I just want to tell you how you can improve yourself. When it’s very obvious she is.

  • parents think that we’re machines that do whatever they command us to do, but that simply ain’t true. we are humans with a brain, and we control ourselves and control our life. we can choose to do any hobby, and if they tell you to do something else, dont follow them. if you wanna become an astronaut, do it. mcdonalds worker, sure. dont let them control you. if anyone else out there is going through the same thing as i am, follow this advice

  • me: mom i passed on the test! smiling
    mom: out of?
    me: 50
    mom: what did you get?
    me: 33! smile
    mom: from what do you pass?
    me: 25
    mom: you’re so ignorant i wish you’d get 45
    me: what…
    mom: i want you out of my ROOM NOW WHY CANT YOU DO BETTER?!
    me: cries
    mom: HOW ON EARTH DID I RAISE YOU?!
    me: but i tried my hardest
    mom: YOU DIDNT
    me: THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GOT 1 OUT OF 100 MOM
    we never talked again

  • Just for extra information ALL the parents are strict I wish they would admit that they are doing mistakes and I really hope that my parents would stop being so tough at me or others because from inside that humiliates every kid who has strict parents I just want people to know that it’s abusive for parents abuse their kids

  • I remember one time when i was about 3, i peed myself at my grandma’s house. She forced me to wear a diaper and act like a baby in front of my grandpa and i was scarred

  • My two brothers are off at college and i swear half my conversations are about “I miss jimmy and stephen so much” or “You look/act/what you just did was just like jimmy/stephen!” so when i was 8 i was behind in school and stephen got in college at 16 so i thought i had to too then i got very depressed and started having suicidal thoughts
    I also get so nervous whenever i have to ask for anything from her that i plan it out for days and for my dad it took me a year just to get the courage to ask for a puppy

  • Me:*once went on a swimming competition*
    Me:*Gets a new best time but placed 4 but still being proud of myself and told my mom I got 4 place and a new best time*
    Mom: You could’ve got 3rd place y’know?
    Me in my mind:Oh yeah why did I even bother telling you?

  • 99% of comments: i will show this to my parents/i wish my mom saw this (or something similar)
    Me: cue epic montage of parents calling BS

  • Avoid being controlling and avoid not controlling your kids? Wow! How about dammed if you do and dammed if you don’t. Who was the big brain that created this video?

  • Hey, I realized a long time ago my parents weren’t raised perfectly back through the generations. So, stop blaming your parents and change what you need to change to become an independent happy successful adult. Get help if need be.

  • My parents tells me i’m not mature enough for not knowing what is my weigh size, foot size, and i’m rude. But guess what i’m an only child and live at my bossy grandmother and both of my parents are comparing me to my friends and decided not to go outside of house not unless i have class to attend to. I don’t even care anymore on what would happen to me if i continue to live solo pretending i’m literally alone.

  • this isn’t always down to the parents doing, just being in an environment with any person doing any of these to you will make you a certain way

  • cartga cheparu maemtilokuda nanu chala.badapetevaru amduke maa amma nana nakistamoudadu ala napillalu badapadakudadani machiga chusukumtonanu

  • As I parent, if I do not instill discipline in my children, then they will be taught discipline from others. Wisdom comes only by learning from mistakes (either ones own mistakes or the mistakes of others).

  • I raised 4 kids as a single parent 85% of the time, and anded up raising them with lack of disaplent. Now today all my kids are adults and i am closer to them then most other parents are to their parents that were stricked.

  • Mind your own business
    And stop judging parents. Pathetic all knowing hypocrite s beware! Now Your a
    Trained professional
    In children. Your weird