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To prevent your kids from developing relationships with bullies, talk to them about the characteristics of a frenemy. Here is a list of contrasting characteristics to discuss with your child. Together, talk about the differences between good friends and frenemies.

If you or your child think they might have a frenemy or friends who have been overstepping the mark, the charity advises youngsters to talk to the person about how their behaviour makes them feel. A spokesman added: “Their response will tell you a lot. How to rebuild your child’s self-esteem after bullying It’s no wonder.

Despite the fact that frenemy issues abound in and out of schoolyards, knowing how to manage the very real—and very detrimental—effects they can have on a child’s emotional and social health can be an arduous undertaking for parents. Here’s my list of the top ten ways to spot your frenemy! 1. Facebook Pictures (Your reaction) Thank you!

7 Tips to See if Your Child is Picked on in School 7 Ways to Cope when You Can’t Get along with Someone 7 Tips on Having a Good Day 10 Ways to Find Your. From frenemy to friendly. Some people in your family might also be true friends, but some others might be more of the frenemy variety.

You can choose your friends, but you can’t choose your frenemies. But if the frenemy being mean to your child, your child needs to call her on it and then walk away if necessary. For example, if the frenemy makes a mean comment to your child, your child can say. Then helping your kin get closer to your parents, take a step back and act very warm and loving with your brothers and sisters.

When the frenemy is a father. It’s a sad reality of life that in some rare cases, a frenemy can be a parent. Most of the times it happens to same-gender children. Take responsibility for your actions and tell them that you’re sorry.

This will help you both move on. You could say, “I know that I hurt your feelings, and I’m really sorry about that. I hope you can forgive me,” or “I know you’re mad that I dated your ex, and I totally understand that. “Some competition is natural, but if you find that your friend seems to be competing with you frequently, particularly in a way that feels bad to you, they may be a frenemy,” says psychologist Dr.

They love making cutting remarks, usually in the presence of others. Sarcasm is unsettling. If you challenge their sarcasm, the frenemy may say, “I was just kidding!”.

But it doesn’t feel like kidding. Sure, a true friend may occasionally tease you, but they respect your feelings.

List of related literature:

Study up on the best ways to deal with the child’s difficult behavior in public.

“The Highly Sensitive Parent: Be Brilliant in Your Role, Even When the World Overwhelms You” by Elaine Aron
from The Highly Sensitive Parent: Be Brilliant in Your Role, Even When the World Overwhelms You
by Elaine Aron
Citadel Press, 2020

You should not be avoiding them because you haven’t taken the time to teach your child how to behave in these settings.

“Jo Frost's Toddler Rules: Your 5-Step Guide to Shaping Proper Behavior” by Jo Frost
from Jo Frost’s Toddler Rules: Your 5-Step Guide to Shaping Proper Behavior
by Jo Frost
Random House Publishing Group, 2014

Continue to remind your child how to discern her interests and her own friendships.

“Beyond the Birds and the Bees: Raising Sexually Whole and Holy Kids” by Greg Popcak, Lisa Popcak
from Beyond the Birds and the Bees: Raising Sexually Whole and Holy Kids
by Greg Popcak, Lisa Popcak
Ascension Press, 2014

As much as possible, try to place particularly disruptive children who are friends in separate groups.

“I Can Problem Solve: Intermediate elementary grades” by Myrna B. Shure
from I Can Problem Solve: Intermediate elementary grades
by Myrna B. Shure
Research Press, 2000

Have the child consider the best setting in which to initiate the conversation with the target child; for instance, in class, at recess, in the hallway, in a group with other children or when she is by herself, and so forth.

“Building Social Relationships: A Systematic Approach to Teaching Social Interaction Skills to Children and Adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorders and Other Social Difficulties” by Scott Bellini
from Building Social Relationships: A Systematic Approach to Teaching Social Interaction Skills to Children and Adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorders and Other Social Difficulties
by Scott Bellini
Autism Asperger Publishing Company, 2006

Little kids are easy; you just say, “We’re going to go do some activities together about how you learn best!” or “We are going to do some work together today!” and they frequently skip right along next to you.

“The School Psychologist's Survival Guide” by Rebecca Branstetter
from The School Psychologist’s Survival Guide
by Rebecca Branstetter
Wiley, 2012

At the lunch table, look around as you eat, watching how the other kids interact.

“The Survival Guide for Kids with Autism Spectrum Disorders (And Their Parents)” by Elizabeth Verdick, Elizabeth Reeve, M.D.
from The Survival Guide for Kids with Autism Spectrum Disorders (And Their Parents)
by Elizabeth Verdick, Elizabeth Reeve, M.D.
Free Spirit Publishing, Incorporated, 2015

Expose your child to a variety of settings (the supermarket, a department store, the museum, the park).

“What To Expect The 1st Year [rev Edition]” by Heidi Murkoff, Sharon Mazel
from What To Expect The 1st Year [rev Edition]
by Heidi Murkoff, Sharon Mazel
Simon & Schuster UK, 2010

Tell your child not to be afraid to introduce herself to other children and that it’s okay to be friends with older kids, adults, and members of the opposite sex.

“365 Manners Kids Should Know: Games, Activities, and Other Fun Ways to Help Children Learn Etiquette” by Sheryl Eberly
from 365 Manners Kids Should Know: Games, Activities, and Other Fun Ways to Help Children Learn Etiquette
by Sheryl Eberly
Potter/Ten Speed/Harmony/Rodale, 2007

If you want your child to know you mean business, crouch down (staying just a bit above your child’s eye level) and give your message with a deep voice and a serious face.

“The Happiest Toddler on the Block: How to Eliminate Tantrums and Raise a Patient, Respectful and Cooperative Oneto Four-Year-Old: Revised Edition” by Harvey Karp, M.D.
from The Happiest Toddler on the Block: How to Eliminate Tantrums and Raise a Patient, Respectful and Cooperative Oneto Four-Year-Old: Revised Edition
by Harvey Karp, M.D.
Random House Publishing Group, 2008

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  • Thank you so much for this message. In a world where I have felt so lost for so long. Your channel has been a a bacon for me. A guiding light. Combined with my wife I am now on the right patch. YAH sent me. Great and wonderful and spiritual woman. A YAH Fearing Woman. HalleluYAH!

  • The best part for has to be the Singing part… #Come to Jeeesus, come to Jeesus��������
    Had to reply it over and over Again….������
    YAH bless…❤��

  • YAH’s cosmology is FLAT & STATIONARY EARTH. We have been lied to by satan’s minions… part of the “Great Deception” but we are living in the time of ALL TRUTH ( YAHUSHA is TRUTH, LIFE, THE WAY) being Revealed (Revelation). We need to keep exposing any and all lies of the anti-christ spirit. It’s all on YAH’s Great & Perfect Timing. HalleluYAH!!! Peace, Shalom, Shalom

  • Thank You so Much!!! What a blessing when TRUTH is explained in light of your own personal testimony. In my spirit I agree with you.

  • I am a super Empath, so these narcissistic entitled Peter pans are always attracted to me. I chew them and then spit them out. Never give a man a $1 ladies not even 1 cents. Run dusty run. I let them see my good life they think they are going to slither their way in, then I drop like yesterday’s news. Their is another pandemic that no one is talking about Narcoronavirus.

  • This one got you a new subbie!!!!!!!! I definitely just ghosted a dude for this he soooo in love with me all this and that but acts like a child ewww he definitely was a lazy lover

  • This message is RIGHT ON!!! I’ve experienced everything both Watchman & Deborah has said in this video. But no matter how people have treated me I will not change who I am. I’m definitely a friend.

  • everything is great I’m so full of peace God is wonderful I’ve been following the Lord every day I pray I have a great relationship with God I praise him all day long tomorrow I’m going to pick up my car I’ve been looking and being patient my credit finally went through I was praying and God answered it what kinda of video are you going to do next

  • Time is running out
    Bare witness!!!!
    2019 hurricane https://youtu.be/_C0-3ALagw

    God said prove all things, I am that women from Revelations 12:17
    Be apart of my offspring!!
    Be reborn through Jesus Christ our Lord!!!!

    My Testimony
    https://youtu.be/VcwwbMgLDZA

    GOD SAID
    IF YOU LOVE ME KEEP MY COMMANDMENTS
    JOHN 14:15

    ^NEW TESTAMENT VERSE, FOR THE STUBBORN

    GOD SAID

    HE THAT SAITH I KNOW HIM AND KEEPETH NOT HIS COMMANDMENTS IS A LIAR AND THE TRUTH IS NOT IN HIM.

    ^NEW TESTAMENT VERSE, FOR THE STUBBORN

    GOD SAID

    BLESSED ARE THEY THAT DO HIS COMMANDMENTS, THAT THEY MAY HAVE RIGHT TO THE TREE OF LIFE, AND MAY ENTER IN THROUGH THE GATES INTO THE CITY
    REVELATIONS 22:14

    ^NEW TESTAMENT VERSE, FOR THE STUBBORN

    Answers!
    DO YOU KNOW HIM?
    DO YOU LOVE HIM?
    WILL YOU BE MAKING IT, INTO HIS GATES?

    SO WHENEVER SOMEONE COMES AND TELLS ME, YOU DONT HAVE TO FOLLOW COMMANDMENTS.
    EVEN THOUGH I TOLD YOU, HE CAME AND TOLD ME YOU DO!!!

    ALL I HEAR, IS THIS PERSON IS A LIAR, THIS PERSON DOES NOT LOVE GOD. THE TRUTH IS NOT IN THIS PERSON!!!
    THIS PERSON WILL NOT BE MAKING IT, THROUGH HIS GATES!!!!!!!

    MUST BE BAPTISED CAN BE DONE IN OWN TUB, ASK IT BE DONE, UNDER GODS EYES, CHILDREN ALSO ONES OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG!

    TEACH CHILDREN WAY OF THE LORD
    1.Don’t lie,
    2.Don’t steal,
    3.DONT KILL,
    4.NO ADULTERY,
    5.NO SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE,
    6. RESPECT MOTHER AND FATHER,
    7.REMEMBER SABBATH KEEP IT HOLY(CHURCH OR READ BIBLE FOR CHURCH, no buying or selling)
    8. No idols or graven images,( no crosses, angels, Bibles, touched during prayer, GOD IS ALIVE AND UP THERE)
    9. DONT SAY Gods name in vain,( if your not talking to Him or of HIM, don’t say His name in vain, just from hitting your toe…)
    10. Don’t covet your neighbor
    A. don’t be jealous of anyone’s things, house wife kids… (Keeps bitterness, Satan out of your heart)
    B. Forgive all who have hurt you (removes bitterness from heart
    C. love thy neighbor, love one another,
    Prove it n pray for everyone to be saved

    Repent immediately after any broken

    Eat clean! not unclean, sanctify body temple!
    ( Leviticus 11:44-45)Time is running out
    Bare witness!!!!
    2019 hurricane https://youtu.be/_C0-3ALagw

    God said prove all things, I am that women from Revelations 12:17
    Be apart of my offspring!!
    Be reborn through Jesus Christ our Lord!!!!

    My Testimony
    https://youtu.be/VcwwbMgLDZA

    GOD SAID
    IF YOU LOVE ME KEEP MY COMMANDMENTS
    JOHN 14:15

    ^NEW TESTAMENT VERSE, FOR THE STUBBORN

    GOD SAID

    HE THAT SAITH I KNOW HIM AND KEEPETH NOT HIS COMMANDMENTS IS A LIAR AND THE TRUTH IS NOT IN HIM.

    ^NEW TESTAMENT VERSE, FOR THE STUBBORN

    GOD SAID

    BLESSED ARE THEY THAT DO HIS COMMANDMENTS, THAT THEY MAY HAVE RIGHT TO THE TREE OF LIFE, AND MAY ENTER IN THROUGH THE GATES INTO THE CITY
    REVELATIONS 22:14

    ^NEW TESTAMENT VERSE, FOR THE STUBBORN

    Answers!
    DO YOU KNOW HIM?
    DO YOU LOVE HIM?
    WILL YOU BE MAKING IT, INTO HIS GATES?

    SO WHENEVER SOMEONE COMES AND TELLS ME, YOU DONT HAVE TO FOLLOW COMMANDMENTS.
    EVEN THOUGH I TOLD YOU, HE CAME AND TOLD ME YOU DO!!!

    ALL I HEAR, IS THIS PERSON IS A LIAR, THIS PERSON DOES NOT LOVE GOD. THE TRUTH IS NOT IN THIS PERSON!!!
    THIS PERSON WILL NOT BE MAKING IT, THROUGH HIS GATES!!!!!!!

    MUST BE BAPTISED CAN BE DONE IN OWN TUB, ASK IT BE DONE, UNDER GODS EYES, CHILDREN ALSO ONES OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG!

    TEACH CHILDREN WAY OF THE LORD
    1.Don’t lie,
    2.Don’t steal,
    3.DONT KILL,
    4.NO ADULTERY,
    5.NO SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE,
    6. RESPECT MOTHER AND FATHER,
    7.REMEMBER SABBATH KEEP IT HOLY(CHURCH OR READ BIBLE FOR CHURCH)
    8. No idols or graven images,( no crosses, angels, Bibles, touched during prayer, GOD IS ALIVE AND UP THERE)
    9. DONT SAY Gods name in vain,( if your not talking to Him or of HIM, don’t say His name in vain, just from hitting your toe…)
    10. Don’t covet your neighbor
    A. don’t be jealous of anyone’s things, house wife kids… (Keeps bitterness, Satan out of your heart)
    B. Forgive all who have hurt you (removes bitterness from heart
    C. love thy neighbor, love one another,
    Prove it n pray for everyone to be saved

    Repent immediately after any broken

    Eat clean! not unclean, sanctify body temple!
    ( Leviticus 11:44-45)

  • I have only had two real friends in 53 years. Somehow when getting an open mind to who I am an the desire of our Father the most high I found I have no friends. The two who were past now I walk alone an yes I watch longer before putting someone in my bossom as friend.

  • This is so good and even I repented because I may not have been a good friend not sure if I haven’t I try yet folks still walk away especially in this walk. Nonetheless, I am sure I have passed some folks off, but everyday more since this walk I try hard to show love towards other yet never receive the same back.

  • My name is Elnora Elaine Merriweather I’m 52 turning 53 in 60. People call me Elaine. If you get as a friend you got a friend until death. There is a friend that stick closer than a brother. Pray about me and my name.

  • Thank you both as one for being open enough to allow TMH to guide you into sharing the lessons of Yah through your everyday experiences.
    We have to try to apply TMH’s wisdom in ALL things.
    Righteousness comes first regardless of who or what it is.
    As you said, it is what it is!….
    No one can be a true friend to anyone without a genuine heart towards Yah and His righteousness.
    We all enjoy spending time with others but it’s important to share our time with others of like mind or those seeking it.
    As Philippians 2 advises. we are to be like minded, having the same love, being united in spirit and purpose. (Sure I’ve read a more powerful version)
    Praise The Father for His provision of your sharing your growth in your walk for us others that also have nowhere to fellowship.
    From many miles away you are my assembling together and my spiritual family. I give thanks for you.
    Yah is drawing us together from the four corners of the earth as is written.
    Never been a friend person from I was young and realised I had to be wary of even the handful I allowed to be close including family, parents and partner. As you reasoned. Lot to realise.
    As Yahshua said, whoever does the will of my Father are my family.
    Seek ye first the kingdom and righteousness.
    Time is so precious……….
    Thank you for your honesty and genuineness in sharing your downs as well as ups in growing as that’s what genuine growth goes through.
    Test, questioning, reasoning, choice, lessons comes to mind.
    Needed this reminding reasoning at this particular moment.
    Grateful for Yah’s provision, guidance,, mercy, love and perfect timing.
    May TMH continue to bless and keep you and your family and may I get to share many more moments of like mindedness and unity in spirit with you all.
    Shalom and blessings

  • Guys do this too. My mate said to me yesterday, ‘i’m so glad i’ve found the right girl and i’m in a relationship that’s long term’. then he goes to me ‘so, what number girl are you on now 25??… ha ha, god, i’d be like you… jumping from one girl to the other.. if i wasn’t with my gf Lisa!’ He made out like it was a joke..but it hurt and i felt like i was bad for not being in a long term r’ship like he was..
    I have had similar from him before, for e.g i can’t afford an apartment at the min and he has his own huge place and sometimes says to me ‘God, it’s sooo nice having your own space nothing compares to that..i know you live with your parents still..i’m soo glad i have moved on’.
    It makes me feel down and sad. I think he is a frenemy. I’m way better looking than him, so maybe he is just jealous:)

  • Yes i have a faithful friend and i am thankful. Yah has given me 3 faithful friends. Will tell me about myself, tell me to repent, pray for me & go out their way to assist if i ever need them. They dont sugar coat anything for me and will tell me to get right with Yah. I have been blessed to have them for many years. One was with me before i came in truth & 2 i got after, 6 years they have been with me.

  • Powerful teaching! The two of you are teaching me……even me…..how to save my own soul. Your teachings, starting with whited our 3 years ago are guiding me.!!!!
    I’m so sorry for my people who have and continue to treat you badly. Many white people continue to have a slavemaster mentality. You owe no white person anything. WE OWE YOU

  • Watchman: @ 1:39 you mentioned Prv 18:24 and the translation you and Sis Deborah were baffled at is not in the original KJV. “Friendly” is not an Old English word as it has been inserted 3x supernaturally via what some call the mandela effect or quantum pollution. Please pray and research about it and me as there are many new words and verse changes that we all need to know about.
    A few Examples: Mufflers,Trains, Shuttles, Engines, Launch, Network, Zamzummins, experiment and more are all new words.

  • I am not sure if any are aware that, Matt 26:45 Where it states “sleep now take you rest” was not originally there and was actually supernaturally inserted. Have you heard of quantum pollution aka the Mandela Effect? It is real and changing many things including the Bible. I did not believe it was possible but the verse Amos 8:11 is a prophecy of this. My objective is not to take away from this lesson only to share vital info for the times we are in. Look up the channel EYA as there are many more changes. Shalom family

  • We even have to be careful with people in this walk. I couldn’t finish watching the footage of the brother hugging Amber, too much weakness for me to stomach. Yes black Christianity teaches such foolishness.

  • The only thing I can say is I see the fruit of the spirit on this channel! Keep teaching truth, if people can’t see or understand the TMH YAH is not giving them the spirit to see. Maybe they need to pray for understanding from the Ruach HaKodesh rather than JUDGE the truth!

  • Considering that the nations know who we are as a people and training us to forgive the wicked is them actually believe it’s a pass from YAH’S wrath because we forgive them.

    Maybe that is why they ask us for forgiveness and not anyone else.

  • I feel like I was meant to see this. Going thru this right now. I have said, is there any genuine people around Lord? I needed this today, God Bless.

  • I never been the type of person that believed in not carefully choosing my friends wisely.and the type to follow the crowd especially when it don’t set right in my spirit as to what they’re doing and saying to often no matter if they’re friends or family members.not saying that I haven’t experienced being decieved by many as well still.saying this to say I totally agree with you both on this topic and the important of it.thanks, shalom

  • Even a wolf looks good in sheep’s clothing!!!

    I remember when I used to sell cars. This one day a pastor that was on our local channel bought his car from another female salesperson before I started working there.

    He came up to me in his fancy suit, gold from his neck to his cuff links and his shoes was top of the line and slick talk that sounds like a thug throwing game. He invited me to his church, I kindly turned down the offer and walked away.

    Can’t say to much for the other female but for me I saw the big eyes, big ears and big teeth and knew that he was not a sheep!!

    HALLELUYAH

    And that was in 2003!!!

  • Wow I really needed this lesson this morning. It’s all truth, no matter if it’s family, friends, spouse, or a stranger this message is for all. At the end of the day they all lead back this truth. Yahuah never lie. reality and truth make me happy. Thank you. Bless up…

  • The man child are usually aggressive and have no self control so please ladies be careful.
    Getting with a man child can literally end your life for petty stuff. A man is still a man, usually bigger and stronger than most women so be CAREFUL!

  • shalom fam.. friendship a funny word especially these days. Coming into the truth redirect’s your mind in such a Hugh impact that you wonder what you was doing with your life all your life and wishing you knew earlier….. and this is my verdict, i’m solo not that I want to be but it has to be, but only 4 the one’s Yahuah send in my life, which I can recognized but very small in quantity. This is my protection from myself because I forgive too easily, I call it the chosen people syndrome which is a blessing or a curse. Now I learning how to control it. SOLO as for now, its also very hard to find people like myself, the mind set is not the same= no point. We must also ask AM I A GOOD FRIEND…. friendship is like true love to truly obtain it we me MUST follow all commandment, laws and statue’s. that’s friendship..

  • Girl!!!! You hit it right in the head with these!!! I had to cut off my frenemies. It took me too long to realize they weren’t really my friends to begin with.

  • I agree with everything you’re saying. I accept the truth of who I am but my possibility of fellowship seems to be limited to be with professing and serious Christians. I don’t know of any people comparable with the both of you that are available to me for the in-person hearing of the Word or for fellowship. I can’t just limit myself to videos, even though I found what I believe to be my awakening to truth from watching persons such as you and Steven Darby of Destined Ministries. I send and forward such videos to people I know and most people don’t give 2 cents about them. Agreeing with what you’re saying is why I cannot condemn all of Christian Ministries or interracial marriages of professing Christians. I most probably am about to rejoin a Christian church that does have good teaching but not fully the truth that I know and that does have caucasian members unless the Holy Spirit leads me elsewhere.

  • I don’t have any friend my family I help them all but the one that are still alive have deserted me and they have really used me I can’t help from few that are left in my family so call friends have did me the same used me I feel as though I have been deserted by YAH as Weil I’am s widow and all alone,but I have my dog she’s my friend a is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Thank you.

  • You must be sure that you only associate in any way whatsoever with those who are as likeminded as possible or honest and good-willed about their differences, and those persons must be prayerfully proven. That includes blood family members. Backstabbing, manipulation, deception, thievery and worse is the increasing and prevailing moral standard. Friendships are established most often today for conspiracy to do pure low down and dirty evil, just like the bible says. YOU can count both yourselves extremely blessed that you have one another as husband and wife for friends.

  • I’m think I’m that overeager friendly person. And I am also guilty of leaving assemblies for a while because I disagree with something they are doing without telling them. I’m trying to find the balance. I am used to riding alone and I know loneliness all too well. But I have been hurt a lot too. It’s hard trying to find folk you can trust.

  • Unfortunately this problem exist even more now because the millennial generation of men(1981-1996) are the largest generation of men raised by single mothers.

  • You’re so on point! It’s sad that people are fake:( I recently made a video on jealous friends. Please check it out and let’s keep connected ❤️

  • I got 2 frenemies. It sucks because one of them I always considered my best friend since we were 5. We are currently 23. And the other one I know since we were 10. My “best friend” is now my brothers gf so you figure that’d make us closer right? But that’s not the case. We have had our ups and downs and not even once has she ever apologized to me. I’m the one always doing so even when I’m not in the wrong. God has been teaching me how to spot who really are my genuine friends. And to be honest not one of them is it. they’ve told me in my face that they’ve always envied me. Majority of their time they go out behind my back without inviting me although they know I just went through a painful divorce. I regret ever letting them in my thoughts and emotions. I personally can’t deal with any of their negativity anymore which is why I decided to cut them off. Now I’m completely friendless but I know that’s what’s the most beneficial to me. Hopefully God blesses me with genuine friends in the future.

  • I ran into a lot of friend-enemies in my college at Philly.

    Some things I did there, I’m not proud of

    However, some of the things I saw, I couldn’t believe.

    Friends that seemed cool, all of a sudden stopped talking to one another.

    Some of the doing sneaking things.

    Plagiarism. etc.

  • Judging by these comments the drought of worthy men is more severe than I thought��
    God, surely these can’t be the only GoOd mEn we have to choose from!?!?

  • person with whom one is friendly, despite a fundamental dislike or rivalry” or “a person who combines the characteristics of a friend and an enemy”.

  • This video brought up a lot of painful memories for me, but I’m happy, because I learned my lesson before it was too late. It wasn’t that I was necessarily attracted to these types of men, they were just the only types of men I was attracting myself at the time. Being young, I didn’t really know much of anything, least of all femininity, because my mother was very masculine. Thanks for another great video, Chloe!

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  • I have a frenemie, but not quite as explained in the video. She can be mean, but also nice at the same time. That’s how my friend is. My only friend. I literally don’t have any other. Yea, I used to have (a lack) school friends, but I don’t visit their houses or something like that. And at the end of the year, we don’t talk anymore. My frenemie is someone I actually visit, and have been friends for a pretty long time.

  • 1:39:35 In the eth Cepher Abridged, it has the same translation as the the KJV. I am shocked…need my Hallelujah Scriptures already!

  • I had a person in my friend group who acted honest to everyone. However one day (last day of term) she asked my best friend if they could hang out in the holidays. My friend said “no” because her dad was coming over (at that time she hasn’t seen her dad in half a year). My frienemy was saying “but we can still hang out and you HAVE to hangout with friends over the holidays”. I butted in and said “don’t you understand and respect that fact that she wants to spend time with her dad because she hasn’t seen him in ages. Us friends will see eachother in school nearly every-day”. The frinemy was like “I’m not talking to you am I? “. Next term she came back to are group and was like “hey girls so how was everyones holiday” so from then on me and my best friend knew that she had to leave.

  • I had one, it was really weird cuz she was pretending that we’d be together all of our lives with the rest of my actual friends. She stuck around for maybe 6 months till we realized the stuff she’d say behind our backs. She tried to out me!

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  • I have friends
    Also I act a lot like how the frenemy acts in the beginning, but I have all good intentions and just like being friendly

  • I have a frenemy and I knew that I didn’t like her from the start so she got into my little group of friends and for Halloween I ended up not doing the 3 little pigs with my 2 real friends
    The she stole my putty and I got on to her about it
    And then she pulled the last straw
    She made up a lie that I told her about a secret project I was in and then she told the rest of the ppl in secret project that I said this
    And now I’m not allowed to hang out with her be in any chats with her and I couldn’t be happier

    Also she feeds of drama

  • Thank goodness I don’t have to make that distinction, since I’ve been friendless in my early teens by design, I’m an adult now still fine w/o one.

  • Aaah frenemies… They’re so common nowadays, backstabbing you and pulling you down through others, while keeping that smile.

    Identify and be be cautious with everyone out there, trust will nvr be earned overnight.

  • What happened to the old infographics?… I mean before this bullsh*t and before serial killers and stuff… This channel used to be interesting!

  • does a frenemie manipulate you? does a frenemie play with your head? does a frenemie play mind games with you? because my former best friend was like that. I just found out ��

  • Even though I have grown, this video still makes me cringe. I. Was. That. “Mommy Friend AND Mommy Girlfriend”. Coddling. Helping to fill out applications.
    I knew I was going to cringe when I watched this.

  • the fifth one is easy to do nowadays because of social medias. this is the exact same reason i prefer having fan accounts over personal ones like i’m already seeing your fake ass everyday no need to see you on my phone too ��������

  • that first one brought me back to my 14th birthday where i invited my “friends” and then they didn’t show up, it’s infuriating because my mom took the time effort and money to prepare food for these five friends for them not to show up, one showed up and told me what the others did, i’m happy that she did even though i cried on her that day. turns out they ditched my birthday to hang out on the mall by themselves

    the second. they do be complimenting me that im smart with the intention of copying off of my homework

  • Girl you just described my brother like you know him personally. I keep wondering when his “girlfriend” (of 10 years, mind you) is going to wake up and realise that he is only draining her time and her youth.

  • Intro is fire and you’re so pretty. i can’t do a #3… loyaltyyyy. If we are close and you’re friends with someone who i don’t fuck with, you gotta GO.

  • Girl #1 is the story of my life
    #3 I dealt with in high school
    #4 competing when you don’t even know it’s a competition��
    #7 people be jealous and you not even nowhere near where you want to be a person can have wayyyyy more than you and still be jealous ���� All FACTS!!!!!!!!

  • My crazy story is they don’t check on me how I check me I love to get gassed I have friends make fun of how I look how I talk and me singing or dancing

  • OMG! I’m cracking up on some of these. But, It’s happened to me. WOW!!! Everything I do this “person” always has done it “before or better” and make sure I know about it.

  • Narcissism does get thrown around a lot but you’ll b very surprised how many we have created by not knowing how to spot them n having children with them allowing them to influence them causeing at least one of them to pick up the traits n stop properly developing. So know what it is if they truly check most of the boxes 10x over. RUN

  • What did you use to make your intro?! And you had me at point #1!! Happened to me for YEARS. cut them all off ✌��and #6!!!! WOOOO CHILEEE. i have many talents and singing is one of them but running track has been my #1. My frenemy said “nah dont try to pursue singing. Stick to track” ✂️✌��

  • Girl can this get any louderrrrr������ Geezzzz!!! Yesss I like gassing my friends too. All these things you said are things that I have experienced and still experiencing!! It is time to LET THEM GOOOOO!!!! �������� Thanks you for sharing this!!������������

  • I’ve definitely had my fair share of fake friends and now I can literally tell what’s up from the vibe i get from them. Always trust them instincts!

  • Where does the “be the best version of yourself” crap comes from all the time?? Is this a new fad? In real life you can’t be the “best version” all the time, because life is full of crisises, challenges and problems…or to be more precisely: there is no “best version” whatsoever. The only version every human being has, is the true self and there is no need to find the “best version” of it.

  • You are too much and too dam smart I feel like you are Describing me and my narcissist ex-husband I’m so impressed with you and your channel you are so amazing I’m gonna be getting counselling and I’m going to be healing the little girl in me so I don’t date a narcissist ever again in my life thank you for the work that you do��

  • I met a guy like this when I was 18 and we where at a vocational school. He seem fun and chill at first but once we where done with the course and it was time to find jobs I realized that he didn’t want anything out of life. He would rather play video games all day rather than find a job meanwhile I already had a job and was saving for college. This guy never took me on a date or done anything for me but as soon as I started making money he wanted me to buy games for him! Imagine that. I am just glad I was smart enough to never do so and I jumped head first out of that relationship. A lot of young guys now a days are like that.

  • Wow Chloe�� had someone gave me these gems I wouldn’t have forfeited my twenties and early thirties and dreams of having a large family. Grateful for you. Thank you. Never again.

  • OMG! Been in a relationship with a man for 15 years! He never remember my birthday, thus now I don’t even gets happy when it’s coming near to my birthday, because I don’t celebrate it!

  • Im sorry but the actor in @ 01:40 keeps smiling like he a catch, not knowing that he will be the face of what Chloe_ is having us avoid….����‍♀️

  • I think everyone has had their run in with fake friends sadly but still many ppl are not properly put on game! You just made someone reevaluate they friend group lol. loved the video!

  • shalom my brother and sister i will always take heed and learn from you because you are a true daughter and son of TMH Yah thank you for decernment and wisdom

  • I’m an empath but there are empaths with boundaries. There’s nothing wrong with being one. Being an empath doesn’t mean people pleaser. Just means you can feel other people’s energy. If anything this can give us an advantage of sniffing out these Peter Pan or narcissistic men.

  • Chloe GIRL you LITERALLY speak NOTHING ���� BUT ���� FACT�������� in every single video������ I show all of your videos to my 18 year old daughter. I wish I had a you when I was growing up��

  • This perfectly describes my ex and myself as I fell for him. I wish I saw this video 10 years ago, but I’m glad that I got delivered. ��

  • So my Karmic is a man child, AND a narcissist. Got it! Chloe got me dodging bullets left, and right. Do you know how grateful I am for this woman ��. I’m about to hit this man child with a Busta Rhymes “Flip Mode” ����. 2020 is a battlefield, and I will NOT lose ��…

  • GIRL YOU ARE AMAZING! It’s so remarkable how on point this is.. & I’m speaking from a Family Standpoint. I have seen these men in my family… Which is why I create as many BOUNDARIES I CAN!!

  • Could it be that you need me,
    to keep you out, to run you faster?
    Promise me you’ll let me be
    The one, the worst of all your enemies
    Pretending you’re a friend to me
    Say that we’ll be nemeses.

  • Yes, The term NPD is definitely used loosely. However, The Peter Pan syndrome describes the typical Covert Narc from the rooter to the tooter!

  • Before the study of NPD became more widespread back in the 70’s the Peter Pan syndrome was the only explanation available to women for understanding the mindset of entitled, immature and lazy men.

  • Thankfully it was only 4 years! Left my ex and I feel disgusted that I even fell into his manchild trap. Then again I fit that motherly empath figure and fell for his sorry stories of his ex’s that no one really loved him.

  • What should we do if we consider someone friend but is totally living in sin and know it? Not wanting to repent! And also being told the truth of how we should be living!! Should we still consider them a friend or part ways??

  • This was my ex so much that I sent to my friends to guess who I was speaking of and unanimously they named him… I feel like you was watching his life… you also read me min 6-8…smh

  • Ear hustler here ��there is a Cold War going on between men and woman society has engineered this current culture climate between men and women. I encourage you to stay positive in these times. Practice a Biblical spiritual discipline, and not take things too seriously. If you were meant to have a significant other in a functional way you would have one once you get to a certain age you have to except that you may have to be by yourself and there’s nothing wrong with that there’s other things that you can do to have a productive life. I want encourage women to not be in their feelings and find things that give them joy and peace God bless.

  • Thank you for being honest of men being too coddled,especially the brothas.
    How many times do black women cater to their sons or walk on eggshells so the son doesnt go live with his dad (if he is in the pic). Some women literally are trying to keep their sons.

    2. How many times do step fathers feel frustrated bc the son is being lazy or disrespectful,but mom stops in to save him.

    3. How many times do women try to save their sons reputations on the news despite a surveillance camera showing other wise.

    *All this while women dont coddle or spoil their daughters or believe them when bad things happen to them (like alot of black men). Its sad bc women dont know where these things come from. Well I do!

  • Do you have a good instinct when it comes to making friends? Were your instincts for detecting frenemies always good or did you learn from (bad) experience?

  • What you all need to know is people are influenced by mind control with nano technology. So some things people do or say is not always their true self.

  • Wow!!
    You just described 2 of my brothers. After a nasty divorce, my mother started coddling her sons and having rage for my older sister to the point of physically and emotionally abusing my poor sister, she even almost broke my sisters finger off her hand one day while beating her. My sister married to escape the abuse. My brothers are over 28s and have emotional issues, the ones you described here. My brothers are very misogynistic and one doesn’t even know how to speak like a grown ass man. he will shamesly talk about women in horrible ways and get enraged whenever he can’t get his ways. the other one is the same and because of them she hides the knives at home because in her own words ” they are too hot headed and may end up hurting each other or her or me out of anger” they openly disrespect her and have zero respect and she kisses their a$$.

    I think she kinda realized she raised monsters and now she’s trying to get them married to escape them lol.

    I hope no women ends up with them because i fear ithey may not get out safely.

  • hey how’s it going it’s been a little bit I hope everything is going alright me everything is great still strong in faith and God you look good your brother in Christ God is good

  • I totally took friend out of my vocab reason being is im my short 33 years I learned you only have 2 kinds of people that help and people that’s a threat no philos just as I grow I learned its true

  • When this type of person mentions that they are seeking someone to build with run! They are seeking a partner with all the tools and resources so that they can attach themselves to what you’ve built. Once you realize you have been ripped off it takes all that energy you put into building to scrape that leech off. It may require an exterminator in the form of litigation. ������

  • Chole_ you got me shaking…you just described my ex to a T. He always made me feel old and nagging tho I’m only 23. This is crazy.

  • The truth about Peter Pan is that he kills the boys who showed signs of aging or growing up just like these boys out here killing males who are growing up as the “hood” itself is really Neverland.

  • If yah is not in a friendship, spouse, family or even strangers, there will be no success. This is what we have been living all this time. I thank yah so so much for showing me the truth, without him I would still be in the dark with my own wisdom and understanging= failure.

  • I don’t think I’m going to marry a man who comes from a single parent household. It seems most of these men don’t know how to be men and think 50/50 is acceptable. Since I started dating high value men I’ve had men tell me they want a housewife and don’t mind paying all the bills. This is a new world for me, like wow. 2 years ago I didn’t think men like this existed but really it was the men I was attracting. My ex was a Peter Pan, I remember asking him when was he going to grow up, he could never be serious.