How to launch Child Child custody Pro Se


Organizing Your Child Custody Case Files for the Judge

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Win Child Custody Fast, Easy, Simple New Pre-Trial Motion

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WIN child custody Cheap Motions for Pro Se and Attorneys

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Going into Family Court against a Narcissist in Pro Se

Video taken from the channel: One Mom’s Battle with Tina Swithin


Webinar: How to Represent Yourself in Family Court

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Child Custody Part 2: How to File

Video taken from the channel: Maryland Courts


Family Court IF you’re going to represent yourself. 4 things you need to know.

Video taken from the channel: Merissa V. Grayson, Esq.

The very first thing you need to do is contact your local family court and ask the clerk how you can obtain the papers you will need in order to file for child custody without a lawyer. In some states, these forms can be printed right from your computer. In other states, you will need to physically go to the courthouse to obtain the paperwork you’ll need to file for child custody pro se.

Contact the court clerk. The very first thing you need to do is contact your local family court and ask the clerk how you can obtain the papers you will need in order to file for child custody without a lawyer. In some states, these forms can be printed right from your computer.

In other states, you will need to physically go to the courthouse to obtain the paperwork. If you’re interested in pursuing filing for child custody pro se, you’ll want to take the time to research your state’s custody laws to ensure you have the proper level of understanding (and desire) to proceed. Submit your electronic payment for your pro se legal services, and your printable forms will be emailed to you and available through the My Forms link. Review your child custody papers carefully and sign. To get your child custody case started, you have to file the proper forms.

Filing is turning documents in to the court clerk to present relevant information. Custody X Change is software that makes parenting plans and schedules to file with the court. setting the Child Custody action for an earlier hearing date.

STEP 4 Setting a date for your case to be heard You must have the following documents in your file before setting an earlier court. In order to obtain a court order regarding child support, custody, or visitation, you will need to file a Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship, or SAPCR (“sap sir”). The links. “Custody” or “legal custody” means the rights and responsibilities parents have towards their child.

Rights and responsibilities of legal custody include making decisions about the child’s. File a Petition and other necessary documents with the Family Court requesting a child custody, visitation, and child support order. 4. Serve the other party(ies) with the necessary documents, and provide the court with proof. Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children. If you do NOT want to get a divorce, legal separation, or annulment, you can start a case called a Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children.

This lets the court make custody and visitation orders and other orders.

List of related literature:

Child custody mediation and litigation: Custody, contact and coparenting 12 years af. ter initial dispute resolution.

“Divorce and Family Mediation: Models, Techniques, and Applications” by Jay Folberg, Ann Milne, Peter Salem
from Divorce and Family Mediation: Models, Techniques, and Applications
by Jay Folberg, Ann Milne, Peter Salem
Guilford Publications, 2004

Civil Code section 4607 requires prehearing mediation of child custody and visitation disputes in marital dissolution proceedings conducted pursuant to the Family Law Act.

“Modern Family Law: Cases and Materials” by D. Kelly Weisberg
from Modern Family Law: Cases and Materials
by D. Kelly Weisberg
Wolters Kluwer, 2020

File To place a paper in the official custody of the clerk of court to enter into the files or records of a case.

“Forensic Testimony: Science, Law and Expert Evidence” by C. Michael Bowers
from Forensic Testimony: Science, Law and Expert Evidence
by C. Michael Bowers
Elsevier Science, 2013

Again, provides links to all the state forms relating to child custody at

“Paralegal Practice & Procedure Fourth Edition: A Practical Guide for the Legal Assistant” by Deborah E. Larbalestrier, Linda Spagnola, Esq.
from Paralegal Practice & Procedure Fourth Edition: A Practical Guide for the Legal Assistant
by Deborah E. Larbalestrier, Linda Spagnola, Esq.
Penguin Publishing Group, 2009

Child given into custody of wife should be returned to state to enable husband to visit child as provided by decree on husband’s payment of accrued support money.— Eberhart v. Eberhart, 592.

“The Northwestern Reporter” by Iowa. Supreme Court, Michigan. Supreme Court, Minnesota. Supreme Court, Nebraska. Supreme Court, North Dakota. Supreme Court, Wisconsin. Supreme Court, South Dakota. Supreme Court, Dakota Territory. Supreme Court, West Publishing Company
from The Northwestern Reporter
by Iowa. Supreme Court, Michigan. Supreme Court, et. al.
West Publishing Company, 1922

First, the child’s wishes and the wishes of each parent concerning custody require assessment.

“The Handbook of Child and Adolescent Clinical Psychology: A Contextual Approach” by Alan Carr
from The Handbook of Child and Adolescent Clinical Psychology: A Contextual Approach
by Alan Carr
Routledge, 1999

You may apply for a child custody order from the court, at the address noted above.

“2019 California Penal Code Unabridged” by LawTech Publishing Group
from 2019 California Penal Code Unabridged
by LawTech Publishing Group
LawTech Publishing Group,

Imagine that you, as a mediator, were asked to help two spouses who are seeking a divorce and have arguments over the child custody and access arrangement before going to the family court.

“Social Work Theory and Methods: The Essentials” by Neil Thompson, Paul Stepney
from Social Work Theory and Methods: The Essentials
by Neil Thompson, Paul Stepney
Taylor & Francis, 2017

Agency may file motion requesting permanent custody, RC § 2151.413.

“Ohio Family Law Handbook” by Publisher's Editorial Staff
from Ohio Family Law Handbook
by Publisher’s Editorial Staff
LexisNexis, 2019

Consider the cost and work involved for the ex-husband’s attorney in filing a motion for change of custody, locating the mother, serving her, setting a peremptory hearing, and then struggling with the claim of the SM-mother that the motion cannot be heard under of the SCRA!

“The Military Divorce Handbook: A Practical Guide to Representing Military Personnel and Their Families” by Mark E. Sullivan, American Bar Association. Section of Family Law
from The Military Divorce Handbook: A Practical Guide to Representing Military Personnel and Their Families
by Mark E. Sullivan, American Bar Association. Section of Family Law
American Bar Association, 2006

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  • my ex iscontesting the the supplement Inc what shall I do should I contesting the divorce I also a text with my ex promising me insurance

  • I have been researching and finally you are the only resource that has made any sense. I am a single dad with full custody of my daughter and I could really use any advise from you for my situation. Please, I beg of you.

    The single dad aka the tree in the forest

  • Mhmr caseloads and other s who step over the patient dad continue to end up with women judges that tells him he’s so handsome be a and every worker we have had were women

  • Exactly what she’s saying all the advice that she’s giving that’s what I did for my court case, I got myself very educated I used to go to the courts and sit and watch how everything went down, I did it over and over again I followed this to a T but my case was way before she ever made this video I just knew that it was the right thing to do and it worked… and it works very well but I’m just the type of person that’s able to represent myself and my case went fabulous��/ I recommend representing yourself if it’s not a “crazy wild case” and if you know the person on the opposing side is a little wacky then don’t worry you will win……

  • How can we find out the rules of the court? I filed an IPO on a woman in a pending divorce. I have an older case with a different judge but her lawyer made a motion to keep her divorce judge. The court approved her judge. Her lawyer is vicious and attacks even with untruths. I am defending myself, have documents to share as proof but am worried bc I am on my own. How do I find out procedure?

  • Who are you really representing yourself the flesh and blood man/woman or the legal fiction name they gave you at birth.
    The all capitalized name is not YOU it’s a fiction they gave you to USE in their world of commerce…

  • i filed a restraining order against my husband for domestic abuse he hired a lawyer two days before hearing so I scrambled to get an attorney free from local domestic abuse facility helped me obtain a lawyer as he took all the money. Minutes before we were to have our hearing his lawyer pulled a sneaky move and asked for visitation and My husband would not fight the restraining order. My lawyer told me to take the deal even though I had told her kids have seen this abuse he has been Out of control when he spanks my son and my daughter is afraid of him my lawyers Response was if there’s no evidence there’s nothing you can do at this point take the deal argue in Family Court. The very next day my husband again for the third time since the temporary restraining order now permanent has been issued my husband Uses a third-party person to relay messages to me I called the police and they told me again that he is just trying to abide by the agreement arrangement. The lawyers and him keep changing the terms of our verbal agreement. So I had to send my lawyer a long email stating all this is not what we agreed on and her response is your not making yourself look good when you go to family court. Also since he’s been moved out I also found a loaded gun in my garage and I’m afraid to tell the police about this because when I told police about him contacting the third-party I was told he’s just trying to abide by the agreement and restraining order so my thought is there going to say it’s not his gun do you have any advice for me at this point. The other factor is the agreement we verbally mean in regards to arrangement for the children suddenly change about my lawyers and and his lawyers and he wants more time than we discussed and he wants to be able to pick up the kids whatever he chooses so also i found a loaded gun In my attic in garage I’m sure they’re just going to say she’s just saying that to frame him. Any advice would be of help I’m just beside myself not sleeping and Continuously been victimized by everybody I feel even my lawyer

  • Look past the people to find truth. It is evil using these people to disenfranchise the Fathers, (men) further empower women, and ultimately to take down the Family, which is the same as destroying the foundation of what this Country was. A good analogy is to think of the family like a ship. There has been a mutiny, inspired by both this women’s lib movement, and exploited by the Gov. for both profit, and control. The Captain (Father) has been taken out of Command. What was the “First Mate” (Mother) has tried her best to seize/takeover control of said ship. And after said attempt, and almost complete failure the children have taken over the ship. Why? Because it is the exact opposite of what God’s will is, was, and has been for thousands of years up until our arrogance has tried to turn such once sanctified, and strongly valued moral Christian-based tradition completely upside down in only a few decades. Yet we continue to be blinded by said arrogance as to why our this Nation is in such moral decline. Our ships are now adrift without direction, or moral compass. You cannot have two Captains in a house, any more than on a Ship. And our arrogance dictates that we no longer learn, and haven’t in a VERY long time. We are fast becoming a Godless Nation despite our empty claims/words of loving, and knowing God. “Pretty is as pretty does.” We all had/have a place, and contrary to our idealogical, and convenient wants, (Politically Correctness) we were NOT created equal. But rather carefully designed with our own unique diverse strengths. In order that our families, when serving as God has clearly laid out to function as a team. (Family unit) Time tested tried and true culture thrown out the window. But we MUST be right, and know better than what God laid out? Obviously not. We couldn’t be more wrong. What would our “Elders” know? That wisdom that had been passed down through so many generations was no good. Right? Wrong. We become more, and more spoiled, and arrogant, so we (the moment they become the least bit inconvenient) kick our wise Elders into the “Care Facilities” rather than valuing such precious wisdom. You WILL NOT find this in the vast majority of the Middle East, and the Far East. In fact, even if you tried to explain to them what “a Nursing Home” was/is, they’d have no clue why anyone would do/need such a thing. They respect their elders, and there is no question of doing anything other than honoring them, and in essence LEARNING from such truly valuable wisdom. We are the exact opposite. Truth.

  • I just received your book! I’m going to speak to attorney tmro. I’ve used him before and he’s good. I’ve learned this is about strategy so I plan to slap this book on his desk and see what he says. Thank you for your help!

  • I represented myself and was so thankful. My former spouse got custody, but once i followed the money trail i discovered my former spouse purchased custody. Saved thousands of dollars. Now I’m teaching others how to be pro se and making the process easier.

  • 2:50…Then what in THE HELL is the judge good for if you have to TELL them what the laws and rules are???? thats what they are there for! the system is shot!

  • True Christians will judge the world!
    1 Corinthians 6:2  Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters?

  • We just added new studies and links to help you argue for equal shared parenting. Go here to get the information: Let us know if you have any questions or problems with understanding any of the information. Happy Sunday everyone. You all deserve to not have to spend so much time on court crap and be able to focus your time, energy, and other resources on your children.

  • When notified you send to Secy of HHS a dispute under 45 CFR Part 32.4 and demand to review copies of proof of debt under 45 CFR part 32.4

  • You have to pay to play.  No lawyer means you will lose.  Judges do not like that you represent yourself.  It is corrupt.  When you have no lawyer, there is a lot of talk behind the scenes with the lawyer and judge.  Lies, lies and more lies are always brought up.  Even if they cannot prove it, you say it 100 times, the judge will believe it.

  • You do not Understand that can support and supporting your child are 2 different items under this program. See the court case Blessing versus Freestone Supreme Court in Minnesota

  • I’m now back on front job gone kid gone he plays dirty he gets close with money and him and Kyle Collins has a field day my brain he lerks for the right women to handle me a d tell me I’m crasy and I don’t deserve a child I speaking I’m out now nothing ever worked when we digging a man judge he was very angry and he did for another judge he jumps homes he jump city’s he’s had over 25 addresses over 2 years and right now he’s jumped addresses again within 2 weeks and I’ve never even had an address ever on the man besides the system have in it and he keeps jumping he has me spreaded all over the state of Texas psychiatrist and therapist in one city and he claims my child is in another city and now my vehicle is gone and he knows exactly where the vehicle went he contacted me the data ID disappeared in the debit card and he continues to bring up things that continues to happen to me on those very days even while he has my child now I have nothing and I’m still fighting it cuz I can’t do nothing and I’m not going to lay down for a man that takes my only child

  • It is good that your doing this, if you still are. This is 2018, now. So this is why kids do not get to come home, the family court has control over the funds that they get from the government. In 2001 on family got 40,billion dollars to take care of the cps case’s and they have immunity from Hillary Clinton and Bill, so family will get a bonce if they keep the child in the system, the cps it a bounce, and anyone who is working the cases of family court. Our government gave immunity to family court to do what they will to the cps cases. The one real reason that we represent our selfs is because we are not on the take where the cash bounce come from, we want our kids, and we want all kids to come home, our kids are not the bank for family court. If we do our court ourselfs then the family court has to listen to us. CPS lies all the time in family court, the judge allows them to lie so they can all get there bounces. You all have immunity and this year in 2018 I am sure that the money in take is well over 80 billion now. Just wanted you to know we all know what family court is all about.

  • What if the trial has already started? Is it possible to raise these motions or a variation that would provide the same or similiar outcome?Thank you for any insight you might offer. Blessings

  • 1:13 went thru the exact scenario, only difference is I had an attorney representing me and we researched the jurisdiction for the state I’m in, didn’t matter the judge kept same decision. good luck to the guy fighting it living in a different state… really wasn’t going to comment but it touched a soft spot.

  • My now ex-boyfriend cheated on me multiple times in our relationship. Would I just be putting myself in more pain by sitting around? NO!, I contacted a hacker to help me find out everything he is hiding on his phone, this is the hacker’s email: “[email protected] Gmail. Com” If you need help too then contact him.

  • I’ve tried contacting you guys to buy your book! Plz help. I am about to hire a new attorney who I Know is good, and pushes for parental rights. I would like to present this information in a book instead of going through all your webinars. Plz plz help me to purchase your book!

  • I am a pro-se ex-wife I represented myself in my divorce and I won Permanent Alimony and I want to thank Divorce and your Money ��������

  • I call bullshit,family courts are illegally enriching them selves they are not family courts they are courts of equity corporate courts in reality,look up amen Sirus on YouTube and he will teach you how to eliminate child support and force them to pay back what they stole from you with 6% interest and never ever trust a lawyer they make millions off of fit and loving parents lawyers are LIE ERZ

  • My kids was taking to sc from Texas is no geography restrictions and I’m pro-se what I can do to my rights no be violated minimizing my time with kids

  • I think the biggest reason for reping our self is because of the fact that everyone knows you don’t want to be standing in front of a man acting like a judge and have him/her think your incompadent, which is how the court looks at a person who has their lawyer there making all there decisions. Not to mention the fact that prosecutor, judge,& your lawyer (private or public defender) all are members of the secret, private, members only club known as The American Bar Association. Speaking in legalese, with the contenous use for “fraudulent convaunce of language” I don’t trust lawyer myself

  • What do you recommend for learning a judge on you case in relation to this pandemic and not being able to sit in their courtroom currently.

  • I have a contempt order for rule to show cause of on payment next month on child support,, if i catch up the total amount owed can I motion for dismissal?

  • We have been going through hell for 13 months because my husband isn’t complying with discovery.
    To date, he has filed 16 objectively false statements to the court!
    There are no consequences. He makes out rages claims and then I spend time, effort, and energy with my attorney to provide the evidence.
    We have no kids but we have a fair amount of equity.
    $27,500 so far with no end in sight
    His attorney made fun of my multiple sclerosis.
    If that sounds hard to believe it’s because it’s hard to believe. She submitted a comment marking the ADA!
    She wrote ADA-Sigh
    ADA Sigh?

    There are no consequences for the perjury, discrimination, slander.
    None. Zilch. Zip

    It’s a joke