How to become a Good Mother-in-Law and Grandmother

 

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The primary rule for a mother-in-law who wants to get along with a daughter-in-law is “Avoid criticism.” Don’t criticize your daughter-in-law to her face. Don’t be critical of her to your son or even in the company of friends. Don’t act in ways that send critical messages, as in the following situation. Excerpt from How to Be a Good Mother-in-Law and Grandmother Grandparents also help a child’s emotional development by widening the circle in which children feel at home.

The first thing a baby learns if he is well cared for is that his mother and his father are people whom he can trust. Let me start you off with a quick saying, dear readers, to get you in the mood for my story how to be a good mother-in-law: “Close one eye to keep friends. Close both eyes to keep relatives. Close both eyes and your mouth to keep your daughters-in-law.”. How to be a good mother-in-law and grandmother Item Preview remove-circle Share or Embed This Item.

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When my son married many years ago I was, what I considered anyway, a “young” mother-in-law. I was in my 40’s. I felt privileged to not only have my daughter-in-law as part of our family, but I also felt privileged to be part of their new family..

I had always been close to my son, and now I felt wonderful that I also had a closeness with my daughter-in-law. Cathy, who blogs at An Empowered Spirit, said, “My mother-in-law is a friend and a mentor. She never judges or discourages me, and is always supportive of everything I’ve done. She’s a good listener, and calls me whenever something is up.

I think that’s why I’m crazy about her. I miss her it’s been a year since we’ve seen them in Florida. P.S. Make it a special 2nd Sunday of May for your grandmother in law because it is Mother’s Day. Share with her Mother’s Day messages for grandmother in law and Happy Mother’s Day Grandma.

Surprise her with Mother’s Day wishes for grandmother to tell her how special she is. Enter the word mother-in-law into an Internet search engine, and the first site that appears is about mother-in-law jokes. Simply mention the word mother-in-law and expect to hear groans, laughter or bad mother-in-law stories.. Unfortunately, many mothers-in-law have earned the reputation. Consider the story of a bride who wanted to please her new husband.He often mentioned how much he loved.

The best mother-in-law knows when to give advice, and when to hold her tongue. It’s a tricky skill to learn, to be sure, and especially with a new baby on the scene. Still, it’s vital to a. If Timothy’s grandmother, Lois, had not been faithful in passing on her faith to her daughter, Eunice, and her grandson, Timothy, we probably would not have First and Second Timothy in the Bible today.

This is a good generational example of the importance of passing on the faith to future generations.

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Another call had me telling a daughter-inlaw to loosen up and let Grandma do grandparent things even when they seem to spoil the kids—that’s what kids throughout the ages have enjoyed about going to Grandma’s house!

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Therefore, any paternal grandmother who wants to be closely involved must do what may not always come naturally: go out of her way to be a supportive, nurturing mother-in-law!

“Experiencing the Lifespan” by Janet Belsky
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by Janet Belsky
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If you are fortunate enough to have grandparents at hand, do try to organise a regular time each week when they help you, either by taking the toddler to the park or allowing you a little time out with your toddler while they look after the new baby.

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But please avoid the mistakes that some new grandparents make—monopolizing the baby, criticizing the parent’s decisions and actions, and giving unwanted, out-of-date, or opinionated advice.

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Have your son accompany you and prompt him ahead of time to let Grandma go first, hold the door for her, and pull out her chair.

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If you are visiting a mother in her home and the grandmother is dominating the conversation, you might ask her to help with the baby or with other children.

“Counseling the Nursing Mother” by Judith Lauwers, Anna Swisher
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When you are the parents-in-law, be the best there are.

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by Letitia Baldrige, Denise Cavalieri Fike
Scribner, 2009

Ask God to give you special gifts of wisdom, sensitivity, generosity of spirit, and unconditional love in order to be the best mother-in-law or father-in-law possible.

“The Power of Praying® for Your Adult Children” by Stormie Omartian
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Harvest House Publishers, 2014

Allow friends and relatives to visit only if they are bringing you a meal, want to do laundry, go shopping for you, or clean your house!

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Ifyou show kindness to your mother-in-law, who like all women has been bred to hate her daughter-in-law, then you will create an obligation she will never be able to repay.”

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  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m afraid to even mend this because it will only lead to the same outcome again…. V

  • Though I am not a mother yet….but can still understand ta feeling and warmth of a child…..this video made me felt the feeling����❤❤

  • This is o sad! How can a wife treat her own mother in law like that…poor son didnt get a chance to see her and the wife didnt even tell him sooner n now she regrets it….good message for all of us!

  • I came here to see what a normal mother in law is actually like. Not even a perfect one just normal. My mother in law has created a lot of trouble since I married..I hope my daughters will have great mother Inlaws

  • Glad to hear that. Lot of kids needs love and attention. Communicate properly when growing up and kids should know do’s and don’t. You will be fine. If too stressed out. Send them to relatives and see a therapist weekly. That’s another alternative for you.

  • You should never be rude to your parents even when they are a maid they are trying to put a roof over your head and give you food clothes water shoes and all the stuff you need:) never be rude to your parents:(

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  • This reminds me of my daughter, she was nothing bt hell,with her leaving us for another woman she became worse,l couldn’t wait to take her home to stay with my mom,someone told me that,l must loosen up with her,because she thinks its her fault that her dad left,she hides the pain by doing whatsoever she thinks is right,l did loosen up, ignored her mistakes, corrected her,now she’s at home with my mom,l just happened to miss that mess she did,l miss all the stupid things she did,all she did was to reach out to me,in her ways of course

  • U guys have amazing vids but now the vids are very predictable on what’s gonna happen next or in the end.’u guys should change the endings

  • When a mom really loves her child instead of feeling them as burden or feeling embarrassed of their annoying things..he really njoyes each and every moment of their child coz..those activities.when they grew up those will fade away..those are memories.. motherhood comes when she really love…not by others prescription ��

  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m afraid to even mend this because it will only lead to the same outcome again….

  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m afraid to even mend this because it will only lead to the same outcome again….

  • great! i think communication to both son and daughter in law about an upcoming event is best… don’t expect one to know because the other does…. talk with both…

  • I’m watching this because I am new to being a mother-in-law just under a year and now I have another son who is getting married to a single mother who is also pregnant with my first grandchild. I’m struggling trying to be “the best mother-in-law” and not be the “most annoying” mother in law. Thanks for your tips!

  • That’s your mother-in-law clearly going to treat her like the way you’re treating her right now this is unbelievable one day your husband is gonna die and when your husband dies who is the only one that’s going to stay with you who is the only one that’s going to stay with you your mother and

  • Probably Post Natal Depression, which wasn’t recognised, so the mother was permanently tired snd felt empty.
    The little one obviously picked uo on his mother’s exhaudtion and insecurities, and acted in the only way that babies and toddlers do.
    Luckily the stranger/ kind lady in the supermarket came to her assistance, wnd as likely as not, helped her thru it, and from then on Freddie became a contented happy little boy, because mummy was happier too.
    A hug IS a very good healer. I onlt other people would realise that.

  • Me:no I don’t wanna clean I wanna be lazy and sleep all day

    My Asian mum: proceeds to bring out the the biggest metal spoon

    Me: ��������������������������

  • how would the doughter fill if she was kids that are the most annoying children!
    hahahahahahahahha
    (pls dont take seriously just a joke)

  • My mum: go clean
    :me no
    :mum u want some icecream
    :me what do I have to clean I will clean anything is it chocolate icecream or something

  • My mom passed away last year and this will make it two years this year she had breast cancer and heart failure so it hurt me when she passed away and I miss her too much but I know she is watching over me I think about her alot but I know she with God.

  • i like how you posted in the end the names of the director/ actors/ actresses. sometimes i like to follow them on instagram to see what their new upcoming projects are

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  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m afraid to even mend this because it will only lead to the same outcome again…. V

  • You have the best actors, it’s just crazy, it looks sooo real omg, I loooove watching you sooo much��I’ve been here since the starter of 2019

  • Be very, very careful as to how you treat people, it will come back to you whether good or bad, it will come back to you, no matter what the circumstances, and situations are, it is best to treat people good!!!!!!! IN THE HOLY, AND PRECIOUS NAME OF MY PERSONAL LORD, AND SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST AMEN, AND AMEN!!!!!!! MAY THE HOLY TRINITY, AND THE HOLY BIBLE CONTINUE TO BLESS EACH, AND EVERYONE WORLDWIDE AMEN, AND AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!

  • My mom works in the swap meet and since I was 5 My family had to wake up and get ready to go at 5AM. My dad isn’t really nice he will scream at you if things aren’t perfect but I knew what I had to do this.

  • To the 1% who reads this
    Your skin isn’t paper, don’t cut it
    Your face isn’t a mask, don’t cover it
    Your body isn’t a book, dont judge it
    Your life isn’t a movie, don’t end it
    Your heart isn’t a door, don’t lock it
    You’re beautiful��
    Be you…

  • I am so happy for the two of you. Carol, you are so blessed to have a daughter in law that is secure, and open minded. God bless the two of you.

  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m tired of trying and having the same results.

  • That’s great you guys get along. I hate my mother in law. She’s a covert narcasisst. She always cut me down. Very critical, dismissive doesn’t know how to communicate properly. She’s very passive aggressive and controlling. Wants her way shoes me no respect

  • If this was I full movie, I will wait watch it till the end… I will like to see how this poor man’s reaction after the secret reveals

  • I am having 3 like that child 4.5 years old 2 years old and a newborn without any help!!!come on it is not so difficult with one child��for sure she was having depression

  • Hey didn’t that lady I purple look like that woman from that young dancing stars show that got canceled a few years ago???
    You know with those insane competitive mothers

  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m tired of trying and having the same results.

  • Never ignore someone no matter if they tell you they want a crazy amount of money because maybe they want it for a good reason never ignore nobody

  • Sorry but a child doesn’t learn how to communicate if the mom is constantly yelling and screaming at them. The video also didn’t show the mom reading to the child to help him verbalize words. A child is not a grown up but must be shown how to do things. Children adapt to routines so try to have a set schedule for your day to day activities. Yes, all new moms miss having an hour to get ready but try to develop organization skills to cut down wasted time to get ready. For example, lay out your outfits on the night before so you don’t waste time looking for clothes to wear in the morning when you’re in a hurry. You can teach your child about colors when dressing him. Or when you are taking your child out for a walk. Point out the trees, any dogs you happen to see, what kind of sounds dogs make, etc. Yes, it gets frustrating but remember, children learn by example.

  • What do you do when the daughter in law controls everything? She fights with everyone, her cousin, so not to have her as Maid of honour in the wedding and asked me. I gladly felt honoured as she is marrying my son. She months later after I buy my dress gets my son to call me and make up some excuse to have me out of the wedding. Only because she makes up with her cousin and I’m out money on this dress. She has called me every word. Then she’s mad at the wedding because my son’s aunt’s husband said unkind words drunk at the reception. She then didn’t speak to his Aunt or this Dad side of the family for months. She has cut ties with the Aunt and Uncle for two years now. She was mad again at me and with held the baby from seeing me for months with making up before Mother’s Day. We planned a trip together which they asked me to come along as babysitter. She complained about their room and the crib in their cabin, on the cruise and my son came to me upset about how she was complaining when nothing was wrong. The first night after being mad by the pool, she ditches us and then my son leaves to follow her. I’m left by myself. Next day she got mad because I supposedly walked in front of her in the elevator. Why would that be a big deal, if I had known. I told my son to get rid of her because he is so unhappy. Of course, he tells her this and she blew up at me and she said I was not driving back with them to Canada, in her truck. They deserted me on vacation and I had to fly back from Florida to Canada. I had already given them money for hotel’s booked as we were supposed to stay in Disney. She sent me a long text saying I will never see the baby again. My son has disowned me and my side of the family. She deleted everyone off of Facebook after the incident. Back on Father’s Day, she was still mad at her parents and said they couldn’t see the baby. This has been the 3rd argument we have had and every time she makes up, it will be another 4 months until another argument over something silly happens again. I have not spoken to either of them for 5 months now. She also was saying nasty things on fb which my cousin saw, called my brother to say why is she saying mean things and posting it. It’s very hurtful when I’m accused of things I didn’t do, and I have always been the one to apologize first. I’m tired of her game and how she has my son wrapped up in her story. My son and I were close before he met her. I think she is jealous of my relationship with my son prior and is doing everything possible to keep me away. I’m tired of trying and having the same results. J

  • You should add that to the girl Brittney and she should have said my mom worked and she works hard for money and got rich but got sick and went to much and always sit next by her deathbed

  • My 4 years old girl is so talkative… and her attitude annoys me not sometimes but always.. but you know even hard times i love her so much.. i cant even comb my hair but it worthless she always hugs me and kiss me when im angry…

  • Thx Dhar I luv yo vids!!! Also I work as a babysitter on some fridays and clean houses with my mom actually all weeks and some sats and sundays!!! This is inspiring me! Thx

  • My mother in law gossips all the time:( i know she gossips about me behind my back. And when she gets close to me I feel used because there is something she is getting from my husband and I. She has a plan behind her apparently good intentions. It sucks:( I feel bad for my husband.

  • MOMS BE4 HOES lile the ones you use to dig tbh honest those are like less useful shovel and have a higher chance of getting your toes choppy choppy and thats no goody

  • Sadly.. this was my boys. All the way up until I sat them down and made them realize that I go broke to make sure they have a roof over their head, food, clothes, and still I try my best to get them everything they want. By myself. I dont remember the last time I bought or did anything for myself. I felt like they didnt even love or appreciate me and only liked me when I bought them something. But after I sat them down and told and also showed them how they made me feel, they turned into the sweet, caring boys they used to be. So if you have kids that make you feel like this, try sitting them down and telling them how they make you feel and maybe they will also change. They are kids so many times, that’s not something that takes priority in their minds..

  • That’s nice for the daughter in-law to be open to the mother in-law. What about a daughter in-law who is too secretive she does her things secretly and yet she is part and parcel to the family.

  • i hope my grandchild and my child never marry this woman in their life 1LIKE = ONE PRAYER FOR A BIG SLAP TO THE WOMAN 2likes = 2 prayers for the woman gets best life

  • No child should ever, nor never be4 ashamed of their parents going out to make an honest living to feed them, and their households, no on e should be ashamed nor apologize to anyone on this earth for living right at all whatsoever!!!!!!! IN THE HOLY, AND PRECIOUS NAME OF MY PERSONAL LORD, AND SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST AMEN, AND AMEN!!!!!!! MAY THE HOLY TRINITY, AND THE HOLY BIBLE CONTINUE TO BLESS EACH, AND EVERYONE WORLDWIDE AMEN, AND AMEN!!!!!!!