How to Avoid Conflicts with Your Parents. We all get emotional at times and it seems like the whole world including our parents is against us. However, there are certain phrases we say that don’t do any good and instead set parents off and only make things worse. Find out what phrases you’d better avoid and what to replace them with to be heard and have good relationships with your parents.. Nothing is better at making the pain of sadness or anger go away than the exact opposite of hate. Tell your parents “I need you to tell me you love me” and you’ll feel much happier and stronger.. TIMESTAMPS. “I’m so bored.” 0:58. “School sucks.” 1:41. “You can’t tell me what to do.” 2:35. “I never get what I want.” 3:10. “No one cares about me in this family.” 4:06. “Why can’t I just be like everyone else?” 4:40. “I don’t need your advice.” 5:13. “It’s all your fault.” 5:42. “You’re a monster.” 6:06. “I can do perfectly fine without you.” 6:30. “I hate this house, and I’m gonna run away.”. “I don’t see any meaning in my life.” 6:58. “I wish you were dead.” 7:27. “I’m gonna kill myself.” 8:29. “I hate you.” 9:08. Music: The 126ers Winds of Spring. https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music. SUMMARY. -Instead of just complaining to your parents that you’re bored out of your mind, tell them “I need your help because I don’t know what to occupy myself with.”. -“School was tough today” is a good way to open a dialogue that will hopefully lead to some helpful solutions.. -What you can try to tell them is “I’m upset that I can’t make my own choices and always have to listen to you.”. -Say something like “I really want it, but it’s hard for me to make you understand how much I need it”. An open dialogue is much more effective than arguing.. -Let your parents know you need some love and support right now. “I need you because I feel really sad” is a great alternative in this case.. -“It’s hard to stand out because I need support and approval from my friends” is a good way to remind your parents of their school years and the struggle to be popular.. -Don’t miss out on your chance to get advice from people who care about you most of all, especially when it’s free! It’s okay to tell them “I’m out of control and I need your help.”. -Pointing the finger at your parents for something they didn’t do is basically your way of saying “I feel guilty”.. -Your subconscious mind is actually crying out for your parents to “Tell me you love me.”. -The reality is that your family is your rock to lean on in hard times, and it’s okay to admit it and still be totally cool. So just tell them “I need you so much I feel helpless without you”.. -Even if you think so, what you’re really saying is “I’m afraid of leaving this house”. Let your parents know you feel insecure out in the world without their protection.. -Try to get over the rough patch together. “Please help me in finding meaning in life” is a good call for action and problem-solving.. -You need support, and you can get it by simply saying “I really need to hear something nice to cheer me up”.. -Something like “I don’t want to hurt myself, but I’m having dark thoughts” is a good way to open up a dialogue. Plus, there are always 24/7 suicide hotlines that you can reach out to.. -Tell your parents “I need you to tell me you love me” and you’ll feel much happier and stronger.. Subscribe to Bright Side: https://goo.gl/rQTJZz. -- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/. 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC. -- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation, where the gaslighter or abuser leads you to question your own reality. Many examples of gaslighting in relationships include lying to you, isolating you, or making you doubt or question yourself. The hidden psychological abuse can upend your mental health making you feel depressed, anxious, and isolated. Do you relate to these experiences? If so, you might be a victim of gaslighting.. If you feel that you may be unintentionally gaslighting someone, you can share your experiences below so we can all work together, to help one another heal.. Credits. Writer: Laura Santospirito. Script Editor: Denise Ding & Kelly Soong. VO: Amanda Silvera. Animator: Laura. YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong. Citation: · “Gaslighting.” GoodTherapy.org Therapy Blog, 13 June 2018, www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychpedia/gaslighting.. · “NAMI.” Home, www.nami.org/Blogs/NAMI-Blog/July-2016/Why-Self-Esteem-Is-Important-for-Mental-Health.. Did you enjoy this animation? Would you like to see more?
How to spot a liar? What can be more intriguing than a true detective story in your real life? Here are 5 things that can show you that your interlocutor is insincere with you. As a bonus, we’ll show you an amazing 99% working method to distinguish between the lies and the truth.. TIMESTAMPS. Liars avoid mentioning themselves 1:09. A liar’s speech attitude is negative 2:03. A liar’s explanations are as simple as possible 2:38. A liar uses confusing wording 3:19. Liars use too many details in a simple story 4:12. BONUS 5:40. #spotliar #revealtruth. SUMMARY. Scientifically speaking, when we know we’re telling lies we can’t but feel nervous. That leads to faster heart beating and pupil dilation. All you need is to ask the question you want to be answered and watch the interlocutor strictly in the eyes when he answers. You’ll see everything you want. By the way, not only the pupils can give away the lies, but the inability to watch back.. Also, a liar thinks that details make the story true to life which is wrong. We do not memorize our automatic, habitual actions. There is a hint for this point: if you are not sure about the person, ask him or her to tell the whole story from the very beginning. If you are talking to a liar, he will be trapped in all his imaginary excessive details. Just try it and share the experience in the comment section below, it will be interesting! Subscribe to Bright Side: https://goo.gl/rQTJZz. -- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/. 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC. -- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
About 20 percent of all teens experience depression before they reach adulthood. Between 10 to 15 percent suffer from symptoms at any one time. Only 30 percent of depressed teens are being treated. Symptoms of teenage depression can include, but not limited to: prolonged low mood or sadness, being easily irritable, feelings of helplessness, increased social isolation, loss of interest for things previously enjoyed. The signs of depression can resemble that of clinical depression. If you suspect that you may be experiencing signs of depression, it is recommended that you seek a professional.. We’re also partnered with BetterHelp, where you could get online counseling at an affordable rate. You must be 18+:. http://betterhelp.com/Psych2Go. http://betterhelp.com/Psych2Go. Help line:. #psych2go #teendepression #mentalhealthmonth. Suggested Video(s):. 5 Types of Depression. https://youtu.be/PbJB02Zlh4w. 5 Signs of Hidden Depression. https://youtu.be/SaznCPVAiJc. Further readings:. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/teen-depression/symptoms-causes/syc-20350985. https://centerfordiscovery.com/blog/todays-teens-depressed-ever/. DSM criteria for clinical depression:. https://www.psycom.net/depression-definition-dsm-5-diagnostic-criteria/
Do you think your parents might be toxic? Toxic parents can be hard to spot especially when you’ve been with them for so long and you can not recognize what’s healthy parenting and what’s not. In this video, we dive into signs that your parents may be manipulating you. Watch out for these signs: . 1. They compare you to your other siblings, relatives, or friends.. 2. They raise you to be codependent.. 3. They constantly guilt trip you.. etc. If you grew up with a toxic parent, know that it’s not your fault, and your future is not a product of your past, but the actions you are taking right now in the present.. Feeling stressed because of your manipulative parents? Smash the stressed away with this BIG ENTER Keyboard Pillow Button.. Get it here: https://psych2go.shop/collections/stress/products/big-enter-keyboard-pillow-and-smash-button-gift. #toxicparents #manipulativeparents #psych2go. Credits:. Script Writer: Catherine Huang. Script Editor: Steven Wu. VO: Jenny Lea. Animator & Thumbnail Designer: Ben Carswell. Thumbnail Editor: Kyle G.. YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong. Sources:. 15 Signs That You Have Controlling Parents and How to Deal with Them. (2018). Life Advancer. Retrieved January 10, 2019.. Chavez, H. (2018). 13 Signs Of A Toxic Parent That Many People Don’t Realize. Lifehack. Retrieved January 10, 2019.. Martin, S. (2018, November 19). 15 Signs You Have Toxic Parents. Psych Central. Retrieved January 10, 2019.. Ni, P. (2016, February 28). 10 Signs of a Narcissistic Parent. Psychology Today. Retrieved January 10, 2019.. What Is Family Manipulation and How to Recognize Its Warning Signs. (2018). Learning Mind. Retrieved January 10, 2019.
Growing up in a toxic and dysfunctional family can do a lot of psychological damage to a person, and toxic families breed lasting stress, anxiety, conflict, and fear among its members. So, how do you tell if your family is toxic? If so, do you know how to deal with toxic family members? Here are 7 Signs Your Family is Dysfunctional.. Related videos:. 6 Side Effects of Toxic families. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mj4Re6YeuRQ. 5 Types of Children from Toxic Families. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZH-1YTCvHA. 8 Common Characteristics of a Dysfunctional Family. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkVOBhJbMj8. 5 Ways To Recover From Toxic Families. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIpYmJzFRZQ. 5 Types of Dysfunctional Family Dynamics. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T79scG7axiM. Credits. Writer: Chloe Avenasa. Script Editor: Denise Ding & Kelly Soong. VO: Amanda Silvera. Animation: Nayeli. YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong. References: Pescitelli, D. (1996). An analysis of Carl Rogers’ theory of personality. Retrieved September, 20, 2009.. Grosz, M. P., Dufner, M., Beck, M. D., &Denissen, J. J. (2015). Who is Open to a Narcissistic Romantic Partner? The Roles of Sensation-Seeking, Trait Anxiety, and Similarity. Journal of Research in Personality, 58, 84-95.. Vecchio, R. P. (2007). Power, politics, and influence.. University of Chicago Press Journals. (2007 October 7). Negativity is Contagious, Study Finds. Science Daily. Retrieved November 15, 2019 from sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071004/135757.htm
Many parents feel guilty about committing the “sins” that afflict nearly all mothers and fathers. But feeling guilty has consequences related to the emotional health of parents and children’s general wellbeing. Guilt may lead parents to develop unhealthy discipline habits, like giving in to children when it’s not in their best interest or overcompensating for the choices they make. 6 Common Reasons Parents Feel Guilty Yelling at the child:. As parent, it is natural to feel most guilty after losing your temper or yelling at your child. Not spending quality time:
You worry that you are unable to give your best to your child and that he might feel Not being able to go on. A guilty parent may feel guilty about not seeing his or her child every day, about putting the child through a divorce, a new marriage or a new sibling, about moving the child from a place they are familiar with, or many other reasons. A guilty parent may be afraid of losing the child he or she may be afraid the child won’t want to come visit anymore or that the child won’t like the parent or think the parent is.
When a guilty parent pushes a child toward perfection, children may feel the need to appear okay while denying their struggles and feelings. The Good News about Guilt There is a. Understanding some of the reasons parents feel this way may help you set your guilt aside and take some productive steps to feel better.
Read on for more information and tips. But first, you may be interested in watching this video. In it, parents of kids with learning and thinking differences talk about their own feelings of guilt and shame. A parent may feel guilty and will try to reconcile, but it often yields poor results.
Unsurprisingly, many parents do not realize their folly since the deed was unintentional or perhaps they are too busy to learn to be an active parent. Some parents are not prepared for a worst-case scenario, while a segment does not care enough. As important as it is to see our parents regularly, you shouldn’t ever feel guilty for not spending every spare second or holiday you have with them. And still, we feel bad: In that same poll, 79 percent of moms who’d stopped nursing said they felt guilty about it. “After a few weeks of crying more than my infant, I finally switched to formula. But now I’m consumed with guilt,” says one mom. “Everywhere I look, even on formula packages, breastfeeding is touted as best.”.
“If a parent’s mood swings made you feel like you were always walking on eggshells and you were always nervous or scared of what would happen when they were around (even if nothing ‘bad. Whatever the reason, if you’re missing your workouts because you’re feeling guilty, read on to shake off the guilt and get fit—because as it turns out, your workouts are actually good for your kids, too! Why Moms and Dads Should Feel Good about Working Out.
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Some parents may express guilt because they did not follow their instincts and pursue second opinions.
These factors all contribute to the tendency for parents to indulge their children’s wishes more often, to feel guilty more often, and to do what they can to ensure that their children want for nothing.
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Yeah, Ive definitely experienced this one that their the ones who are not being supportive with me esp. with my FATHER thats why me and my Father is not that close and I just stay away but focus on my goals. #But it wont hold me back bec0z I will still follow my Visions and Goals even if with or without them… I am just be positive and look more some of the best opportunities for me that is suitable for my unique talents and passion even though they will still not believe me…
#Thats why I am deciding to leave my parents home and go to our province and decided once for all that maybe I have some gr8 opportunities waiting for me there… And I think thats the best thing you will do if they are still stopping in the things that you want, LEAVE THEM AND FOLLOW YOUR VISION AND GOALS… #BECOZ ITS UR LIFE, YOUR OWN LIFE! NOT THEIR LIFE!
my dad: *is toxic, calls me crazy for having opposing opinions and makes me feel bad for being who i am and what i do* also my dad: why are you afraid of me?? why won’t you talk to me??
I’m guilty of using I’m gonna leave this home and live by myself.
It’s not a bad thing to do in near future but saying it with anger in the middle of a conversation just hurts my mother’s feelings and is a very bad way to end the discussion.
I have been growing up in an abusive household for over 10 years now. we don’t make much money, either. im pretty sure ive developed ODD (search it up) because of my emotionally abusive mother
In this quarantine, we have nothing to do, we’re just playing our phones, video game, and others. But my parents took my ps4, ps4 is something that makes me happy in this fucking quarantine and they fucking took it from me. Well I don’t want to diagnose myself that I have depression, but they took something that makes me happy and always ignore me entire this quarantine, they just like don’t even care about myself:”(
My dad hates me do u konw how I can get to my moms but my dad hates my mom so someone pls tell me how I get to my moms to live with her forever pls tell me if u konw
1. I feel invisible 2.hear my mom brag about siblings 3. Have tried to ask for help, even after a breakdown,nothing 5.Try to have alone time, forced not to 6 and 7. mom and dad fight and cause my anxiety attack,as well as always anxious when I get close to the end of a school day, knowing I will have to go home
My mom doesn’t trust me and she always snoops in on my things. When I’m not around and she’s alone she looks through my phone because she makes the passwords. I want to change it but my mom would get mad and she would just take away my phone.
I’m 23 my father hit me yesterday and I really don’t know what to do, I wish I could leave for ever and never see them again, my parents used to fight all the time since I was a kid and they’d use me and my sisters as a way of pressure against each other, My father left us for a year and we lived with mom and then my mother left and then they separated me from my sisters, Growing up I lived in fear always fighting and screaming, I graduated college a few months ago and yesterday was my first day of work when I came home my father was yelling and hit me for being “disrespectful” and he made me quit my job.
WOW, i get gaslighted to gaslight… then… WTF… i… wow… fucking hell…
Okay, some one lied, and i drew the line… But they never stopped lying… so… i got confused some times… but now i realize i got gaslighted… and i only wanted to draw the line further and further… so i gaslighted them in the end…
my mom hates me, she swears/yells at me all day, everyday. She says im a dissapointement and worthless. I have no friends, im all alone, i just wish i had a loving family.
This was my relationship. The worst thing is we have small babies and I had to move the other side of the world and give up everything. Now I’m moving to a caravan park, with no friends and family a million miles away. And I don’t even know how much I’ll see my children. Not to mention she physically assaulted me twice today. It’s horrible ��
Parents who behave like this must be simply ripped apart and thrown into some remote island inhabited by wild animals and snakes where they’ll eat the flesh of these “parents” inch by inch and dismember them royally����������
Out of these things I have only said one thing to my parents ” I’m so bored” I couldn’t even imagine saying most of the things on this list to my parents.
I feel like I’m in a toxic relationship with my father. Sure he got me away from my abusive grandmother but we never talk, when I’m around him I feel uncomfortable and scared. Honestly he feels like a stranger to me. My other grandparents are also so pressuring, Grandfather is obsessed with me doing everything, chores, fixing things etc. And my Grandmother is always in my business. I don’t trust her because she tells everything to my father. If you made t this far congratulations.
I’m realizing I’m having an interesting feeling (not in a good way) it happened ever since I spoke out my depression from that day I always felt worse and I was depressed in a different way unlike before.
But tbh I don’t like to self diagnose so it’s just my mind☺��
They put in my head the idea that I am a victim. Everytime I call for help, every time I explain them my situation, tell that I have depression, they say im fine and just a victim. They say im fine. F I N E.
Kind of hard to move out of your toxic environment when the parent you live with makes sure you don’t get a job at the places you apply at just so they can keep complaining about you not having a job
all 10 Signs applies to me plus physical abuse, plus I had a relationship and tried everything to make it work, but for her its never enough. I feel like my future is dark, no confidence, have learning disabilities, have little to no friends, but thankful the handful of people who have helped me. hope these miseries will end in future.
I dont know If I’m depressed, but I mostly got the signs. I cry a lot like about nothing, cant sleep just staring all night into the darkness. But the problem is I wish I could talk to friends or my parents. But I cant, because I got no friends and I keep shouting to my parents. They keep saying “it’s all gonna be okey” but they dont understand me. I dont wanna shout and fight with them, I mean I love them but I’m doing everything wrong and no one even cares about me anymore just wanna give up����
Every thing in this video is my mom she never cares what I show her only if it’s things that make her happy and I try to tell her and she never wants to hear it
I was gaslighted for the first time a two weeks ago. It was by someone who was also gaslighted. They knew how it felt, so they were the last person I thought would gaslighted me. I was lied to and when I confronted them about it, they did it. They tried to justify why they did it by saying they “didn’t want to talk”. They didn’t want to talk be they were caught in the lie. We would have had that talk if they didn’t lie. I was confused and ended being the one to apologize even though I didn’t do anything wrong. It was the first time I had been gaslighted and it was awful.
Im so stuped last time i said i have no purpose and my mom got mad and kinda sad, I was confussed why they are like that Know i understand, it will make them feel a bad guardian or parent I regret everything i said
Families do more harm still today’s then strangers. Learn confidence, communication its best shield. But of all forgive yourself, and move forward always.
The sad truth is (an the mental health profession probably will not admit this) is that some emotional and psychological damage can be permanent and irreversible.
My reactions: 1. They do that all the time…(sometimes compares my sisters too). 2. They don’t even let me change appearance… 3. They ignore me alot… 4. They want me to do things I don’t want too… 5. My mom ignores me when I want to say something… 6. It’s true…with me though 7. It happens to me… 8. Sometimes I feel like I am a sad excuse of life 9. I get into another room for space,but they disturb me alot 10. I learned how to do gacha life editing but they don’t appreciate it…
I can’t wait to leave my family, they messed up my mentality badly and have even caused a pre-depression in me. This video listed almost everything that either both my parents do or what my dad does. I have never felt happy or loved by almost anyone. I have only felt loved by 5 people in my entire life.
Lol, I am well aware that my parents are toxic, I just have to deal with it until I’m old enough to make money and move out, I’m still hoping I can at least make some money out of my youtube channel. ;-; Anyways they do everything for me, I don’t even have chores and when I try to help when I’m not playing games, they’re like “Oh I don’t need help” then like hours later, “Why don’t you help us, you’re so lazy and too addicted to games” like no, I’m not gonna fall for their tricks I am well aware and I work really hard just to move out.
The worst part of a toxic family, is when you are the one watching an sibling get treated toxicly. When you love your parents, and they give you no reason not to love them, but they begin to spoil you, and hate and mistreat a sibling, and the sibling fights back. Suddenly, you cannot talk either into being respectful of the other, due to perceived slights, and you feel guilty for accepting love and praise, and watching the other suffer.
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I’m actually like….emotionally effed up rn that my parent does almost ALL of this…wtf wtf wondering why I’m depressed half the time I’m 19 and it still happens omg
I’m always overlooking and questioning everything between me and my significant other Lies Using Making others dislike me Never apologies Only nice when I’m needed
Many become “sick” when gas lighted to point they have to seek mental health care. Those in abusive relationships that are highly controlling can even convince you to submit to procedures such as ECT or electroshock. Following this procedure as it inflicts traumatic brain injury in their outcomes, patients become docile, apathetic, have memory loss for marital issues that led to admission, more compliant and controllable. Given their neurocognitive issues gas lighting becomes more intense experience for them and reality checks more difficult. Please see videos under you tube heading of ectjustice so you can inform yourselves and others of this greatly increased practice taking place at leading facilities. When you learn the truth of this I hope you will warn others on public social to what you have learned.
My family always yell at me and says I need to act normal I get so stressed from school because my dad threatens to hit me and my family says they will be more dissapointed everytime I finally tell them how I feel they always blame it on the phone and they take it away and then they say they don’t trust me and dismiss my feelings sometimes I think I’m the cause when there is no food and why they yell
Things parents do I hate: Compare us Say they don’t care about our friends We open up and they put us down No privacy ‘because they pay for everything’ We don’t do anything around the house (I think this is just me but) I get terrified every time they enter the room Telling us depression is just hormones Dig through our stuff (Like they said in the video) they keep showing us off like a trophy child then yell at us for not being social enough
Idk what type my friend have cause her depression started at 4 yrs old and she’s been suffering so much and her father would always say something about her and her friends too and she would always cry
Like 2 weeks ago I cut off the person who was gaslighting me. i was in my sisters room and she said they was gaslighting me and i had no idea what that was and now this is in my recommended ��
They are all fucking literally killing me slowly. Draining my life force and making me lose myself completely. I’m a fucking adult and mom held hostage by these almost adult children and 12 year partner. FML.
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I had depression since I was 3 and im 12 I’ve had 8 different therapist none helped so I take pills still doesn’t help I have no friends i always lock myself in my room i cut my ancle so no one knows I’ve never had a toy since I was 2 and I have epilepsy I had my first seizure when I was 2 weeks under 1 year old it was on Christmas I had the grand mall type and I couldn’t breathe for 3 minutes and I had brain surgery in 2019 so I stop having seizures it worked but it made my depression worse and my brother always abuse me my dad is a alcoholic addict and I just wanna die
Those cringe fakers(Y’know what community it is, I use it, I don’t wanna fight that whole community. Since I’m in it): Y E S I C A N M A K E I T R E A L I S T I C!
Is it possible to gaslight yourself? Because otherwise, I don’t know how to explain why I relate to so many of these despite NEVER having received this treatment from another person.
Hello there, I seem your watching this because your depressed or someone you know is:(…
These are some things to do before you die that might make your feel better!
1 Get Mcdonalds ❤️ 2 Have a nice bubbly bath, make sure to not bring devices because of dangerous terms �� 3 Watch music videos in 10d (it sounds like a concert) �� 4 Go hiking in the mountains �� 5 Get a massage (relax yourself, relieve dress) �� 6 Get a white chocolate frappachino from Starbucks if you like sugar xox �� 7 Make a fort in your room ❤️ 8 Go for a picnic in the park on a sunny day �� 9 save up 100,000 cash in adopt me (roblox, if you play) �� 10 Say hello to everyone you see (if you don’t have severe anxiety) ��
You don’t need to do them all i just want you to have a good life, make sure not to bully other people because you don’t know how they are feeling ❤️��������
I hate my dad, what he does is whenever hes annoyed he’ll get me into his room at 9 pm and yells at me and sometimes hits me while I have to say that I’m an idiot and I always side with my mum because it’s easy. Whenever I have money and he gets annoyed (about once every 3 days) he takes my money. for example he got pissed yesterday because ms.marvel was the main character of marvel’s avengers on steam
My issue with gas lighting is that. The reaction to false allegation and deflection of a guilty party is the same thing it also allows a crazy person to logical fallacy there way into winning an argument
I hate my AUNT and MY GRANDMA my GRANDPA IS THE BEST BUT HE DIED YEARS AGO. MY AUNT AND MY GRANDMA IS GOOD AT THE FRONT BUT WHEN THEY TURN AROUND THEY WILL GONNA SAY BAD THINGS TO YOU EVEN YOU DO GOOD THINGS TO THEM THEY WILL GONNA COMPLAIN WHEN THEY TURN AROUND, I HATE THEM
Uhm. My parents know I’m depressed due to me being sexually assaulted twice and still dont take it seriously. My mum even uses it in arguements. Is that toxic? Or is it like they say and I’m just being dramatic
My dad ALWAYS compares me to others. When i was in cheer/volleyball in High School, he tried to get me to do basketball bc that’s what my god sister did. Now hes trying to get me to go to college in texas because my cousin goes there. He also blows up on me and abuses me when he finds out i lied to him. But i always have to lie to him. He doesn’t accept that i am bisexual. He says he doesn’t want a gay daughter. And he doesn’t agree with me smoking weed which is medicinal for me. Yet he wants me to tell him that i’m straight and i hate weed just to please him, when really hes damaging my mental health because i feel like i shouldnt have the things i want because it’s “not right”.
People in Northern VA are gaslighters and haters abusers followers they fuck with your head and they are crazy here! I hate it here my life was hell on earth when I had to deal with people like them! THEY are gang stalking me too and they are soooooooooooo evil!
Bright side: a liar useless confusing wording Me: remembering that time I farted at my friends house and pretend like it is not me keep in mind my sister was there My sis when we’re home: I know you farted at your friends house Me: was it really that obvious? Her: yes you literally try to blame it on me Me: knowing if it’s obvious the next time I come to my friends house it’s going to be pretty weird
only feeling free when they’re gone or asleep is a good indication. Try and enjoy those moments of mental clearness and don’t be afraid to tell family members that you don’t want to talk.
guys: just because you relate to these things does not mean you automatically have depression, if you’re really needing to know go to a doctor!
But!!!
They say don’t argue, when THEY start it!
If we don’t reply, they say oh you got no answers, but if we reply, we get DON’T ARGUE!!!
Always stuck in this situation…
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Yeah, Ive definitely experienced this one that their the ones who are not being supportive with me esp. with my FATHER thats why me and my Father is not that close and I just stay away but focus on my goals.
#But it wont hold me back bec0z I will still follow my Visions and Goals even if with or without them…
I am just be positive and look more some of the best opportunities for me that is suitable for my unique talents and passion even though they will still not believe me…
#Thats why I am deciding to leave my parents home and go to our province and decided once for all that maybe I have some gr8 opportunities waiting for me there… And I think thats the best thing you will do if they are still stopping in the things that you want, LEAVE THEM AND FOLLOW YOUR VISION AND GOALS…
#BECOZ ITS UR LIFE, YOUR OWN LIFE! NOT THEIR LIFE!
my dad: *is toxic, calls me crazy for having opposing opinions and makes me feel bad for being who i am and what i do* also my dad: why are you afraid of me?? why won’t you talk to me??
I’m guilty of using I’m gonna leave this home and live by myself.
It’s not a bad thing to do in near future but saying it with anger in the middle of a conversation just hurts my mother’s feelings and is a very bad way to end the discussion.
I’m so sad.
I have been growing up in an abusive household for over 10 years now. we don’t make much money, either. im pretty sure ive developed ODD (search it up) because of my emotionally abusive mother
Why would they do that? I had a gaslighter in my life just recently, and I didn’t even notice that but my friend did. I’m so happy I’m safe now
In this quarantine, we have nothing to do, we’re just playing our phones, video game, and others.
But my parents took my ps4, ps4 is something that makes me happy in this fucking quarantine and they fucking took it from me.
Well I don’t want to diagnose myself that I have depression, but they took something that makes me happy and always ignore me entire this quarantine, they just like don’t even care about myself:”(
My dad hates me do u konw how I can get to my moms but my dad hates my mom so someone pls tell me how I get to my moms to live with her forever pls tell me if u konw
I love my parents and i am always scared to lose them……��������…….If i get any wish then i would say that make my parents live forever
1. I feel invisible 2.hear my mom brag about siblings 3. Have tried to ask for help, even after a breakdown,nothing 5.Try to have alone time, forced not to 6 and 7. mom and dad fight and cause my anxiety attack,as well as always anxious when I get close to the end of a school day, knowing I will have to go home
My mom doesn’t trust me and she always snoops in on my things. When I’m not around and she’s alone she looks through my phone because she makes the passwords. I want to change it but my mom would get mad and she would just take away my phone.
I’m 23 my father hit me yesterday and I really don’t know what to do, I wish I could leave for ever and never see them again, my parents used to fight all the time since I was a kid and they’d use me and my sisters as a way of pressure against each other, My father left us for a year and we lived with mom and then my mother left and then they separated me from my sisters, Growing up I lived in fear always fighting and screaming, I graduated college a few months ago and yesterday was my first day of work when I came home my father was yelling and hit me for being “disrespectful” and he made me quit my job.
Wow. WOWOWOWOW I am not gaslighting any one. WTF
WOW, i get gaslighted to gaslight… then… WTF… i… wow… fucking hell…
Okay, some one lied, and i drew the line… But they never stopped lying… so… i got confused some times… but now i realize i got gaslighted… and i only wanted to draw the line further and further… so i gaslighted them in the end…
Fucked up shit,
my mom hates me, she swears/yells at me all day, everyday. She says im a dissapointement and worthless. I have no friends, im all alone, i just wish i had a loving family.
This was my relationship. The worst thing is we have small babies and I had to move the other side of the world and give up everything. Now I’m moving to a caravan park, with no friends and family a million miles away. And I don’t even know how much I’ll see my children. Not to mention she physically assaulted me twice today. It’s horrible ��
How about living with a toxic family
I mean patents, brothers, sistersand feeling the damage clearly and you can not run away from them.Parents who behave like this must be simply ripped apart and thrown into some remote island inhabited by wild animals and snakes where they’ll eat the flesh of these “parents” inch by inch and dismember them royally����������
Out of these things I have only said one thing to my parents
” I’m so bored”
I couldn’t even imagine saying most of the things on this list to my parents.
Sometimes, I don’t feel like inviting my intelligent friend to my parents…because sometimes, I just feel like she is more proud at them more than me-
I feel like I’m in a toxic relationship with my father.
Sure he got me away from my abusive grandmother but we never talk, when I’m around him I feel uncomfortable and scared.
Honestly he feels like a stranger to me.
My other grandparents are also so pressuring, Grandfather is obsessed with me doing everything, chores, fixing things etc.
And my Grandmother is always in my business. I don’t trust her because she tells everything to my father.
If you made t this far congratulations.
I’m realizing I’m having an interesting feeling (not in a good way) it happened ever since I spoke out my depression from that day I always felt worse and I was depressed in a different way unlike before.
But tbh I don’t like to self diagnose so it’s just my mind☺��
They put in my head the idea that I am a victim. Everytime I call for help, every time I explain them my situation, tell that I have depression, they say im fine and just a victim. They say im fine. F I N E.
Kind of hard to move out of your toxic environment when the parent you live with makes sure you don’t get a job at the places you apply at just so they can keep complaining about you not having a job
all 10 Signs applies to me plus physical abuse, plus I had a relationship and tried everything to make it work, but for her its never enough. I feel like my future is dark, no confidence, have learning disabilities, have little to no friends, but thankful the handful of people who have helped me. hope these miseries will end in future.
I dont know If I’m depressed, but I mostly got the signs. I cry a lot like about nothing, cant sleep just staring all night into the darkness. But the problem is I wish I could talk to friends or my parents. But I cant, because I got no friends and I keep shouting to my parents. They keep saying “it’s all gonna be okey” but they dont understand me. I dont wanna shout and fight with them, I mean I love them but I’m doing everything wrong and no one even cares about me anymore just wanna give up����
Every thing in this video is my mom she never cares what I show her only if it’s things that make her happy and I try to tell her and she never wants to hear it
I had this in the past but when my dad got with my step mum it got much much better, as for my actual mum…. yea shes still really toxic
I was gaslighted for the first time a two weeks ago. It was by someone who was also gaslighted. They knew how it felt, so they were the last person I thought would gaslighted me. I was lied to and when I confronted them about it, they did it. They tried to justify why they did it by saying they “didn’t want to talk”. They didn’t want to talk be they were caught in the lie. We would have had that talk if they didn’t lie. I was confused and ended being the one to apologize even though I didn’t do anything wrong. It was the first time I had been gaslighted and it was awful.
Actually this channel is the only channel i can relate to but sadly parents think this is normal because they are Mexican and had it “way worse”
Everyone: watching this for actually important reasons like jewelry thieves
Me: watching so I will know if my brother ate the last cookie
So, guys, have you ever had to lie about something big?
Wanna stop your child from lying? Click here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVhJF8ble40&t=6s
Im so stuped last time i said i have no purpose and my mom got mad and kinda sad,
I was confussed why they are like that
Know i understand, it will make them feel a bad guardian or parent
I regret everything i said
Families do more harm still today’s then strangers. Learn confidence, communication its best shield. But of all forgive yourself, and move forward always.
The sad truth is (an the mental health profession probably will not admit this) is that some emotional and psychological damage can be permanent and irreversible.
My reactions:
1. They do that all the time…(sometimes compares my sisters too).
2. They don’t even let me change appearance…
3. They ignore me alot…
4. They want me to do things I don’t want too…
5. My mom ignores me when I want to say something…
6. It’s true…with me though
7. It happens to me…
8. Sometimes I feel like I am a sad excuse of life
9. I get into another room for space,but they disturb me alot
10. I learned how to do gacha life editing but they don’t appreciate it…
I can’t wait to leave my family, they messed up my mentality badly and have even caused a pre-depression in me. This video listed almost everything that either both my parents do or what my dad does. I have never felt happy or loved by almost anyone. I have only felt loved by 5 people in my entire life.
Lol, I am well aware that my parents are toxic, I just have to deal with it until I’m old enough to make money and move out, I’m still hoping I can at least make some money out of my youtube channel. ;-; Anyways they do everything for me, I don’t even have chores and when I try to help when I’m not playing games, they’re like “Oh I don’t need help” then like hours later, “Why don’t you help us, you’re so lazy and too addicted to games” like no, I’m not gonna fall for their tricks I am well aware and I work really hard just to move out.
The worst part of a toxic family, is when you are the one watching an sibling get treated toxicly. When you love your parents, and they give you no reason not to love them, but they begin to spoil you, and hate and mistreat a sibling, and the sibling fights back. Suddenly, you cannot talk either into being respectful of the other, due to perceived slights, and you feel guilty for accepting love and praise, and watching the other suffer.
Potato fact: potato is 80 percent water. What might the remaining 20 percent be?
I’m actually like….emotionally effed up rn that my parent does almost ALL of this…wtf wtf wondering why I’m depressed half the time I’m 19 and it still happens omg
I’m always overlooking and questioning everything between me and my significant other
Lies
Using
Making others dislike me
Never apologies
Only nice when I’m needed
Many become “sick” when gas lighted to point they have to seek mental health care. Those in abusive relationships that are highly controlling can even convince you to submit to procedures such as ECT or electroshock. Following this procedure as it inflicts traumatic brain injury in their outcomes, patients become docile, apathetic, have memory loss for marital issues that led to admission, more compliant and controllable. Given their neurocognitive issues gas lighting becomes more intense experience for them and reality checks more difficult. Please see videos under you tube heading of ectjustice so you can inform yourselves and others of this greatly increased practice taking place at leading facilities. When you learn the truth of this I hope you will warn others on public social to what you have learned.
My family always yell at me and says I need to act normal I get so stressed from school because my dad threatens to hit me and my family says they will be more dissapointed everytime I finally tell them how I feel they always blame it on the phone and they take it away and then they say they don’t trust me and dismiss my feelings sometimes I think I’m the cause when there is no food and why they yell
Things parents do I hate:
Compare us
Say they don’t care about our friends
We open up and they put us down
No privacy ‘because they pay for everything’
We don’t do anything around the house
(I think this is just me but) I get terrified every time they enter the room
Telling us depression is just hormones
Dig through our stuff
(Like they said in the video) they keep showing us off like a trophy child then yell at us for not being social enough
Idk what type my friend have cause her depression started at 4 yrs old and she’s been suffering so much and her father would always say something about her and her friends too and she would always cry
Like 2 weeks ago I cut off the person who was gaslighting me. i was in my sisters room and she said they was gaslighting me and i had no idea what that was and now this is in my recommended ��
They are all fucking literally killing me slowly. Draining my life force and making me lose myself completely. I’m a fucking adult and mom held hostage by these almost adult children and 12 year partner. FML.
I can relate to 1 3 6 8 and 10
They once threatened to lock all of our electronics in a box and send them away just because of out bad attitudes
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I had depression since I was 3 and im 12 I’ve had 8 different therapist none helped so I take pills still doesn’t help I have no friends i always lock myself in my room i cut my ancle so no one knows I’ve never had a toy since I was 2 and I have epilepsy I had my first seizure when I was 2 weeks under 1 year old it was on Christmas I had the grand mall type and I couldn’t breathe for 3 minutes and I had brain surgery in 2019 so I stop having seizures it worked but it made my depression worse and my brother always abuse me my dad is a alcoholic addict and I just wanna die
Those cringe fakers(Y’know what community it is, I use it, I don’t wanna fight that whole community. Since I’m in it): Y E S I C A N M A K E I T R E A L I S T I C!
Is it possible to gaslight yourself? Because otherwise, I don’t know how to explain why I relate to so many of these despite NEVER having received this treatment from another person.
ive realized that im being gaslighted by my own mother. so dat sux. especially when she tells the family im the only one that loves her.:/
Please someone talk to me. My family doesn’t care. I have no friends. And I can’t talk to a therapist because my parents won’t let me. I need help.
Hello there, I seem your watching this because your depressed or someone you know is:(…
These are some things to do before you die that might make your feel better!
1 Get Mcdonalds ❤️
2 Have a nice bubbly bath, make sure to not bring devices because of dangerous terms ��
3 Watch music videos in 10d (it sounds like a concert) ��
4 Go hiking in the mountains ��
5 Get a massage (relax yourself, relieve dress) ��
6 Get a white chocolate frappachino from Starbucks if you like sugar xox ��
7 Make a fort in your room ❤️
8 Go for a picnic in the park on a sunny day ��
9 save up 100,000 cash in adopt me (roblox, if you play) ��
10 Say hello to everyone you see (if you don’t have severe anxiety) ��
You don’t need to do them all i just want you to have a good life, make sure not to bully other people because you don’t know how they are feeling ❤️��������
I hate my dad, what he does is whenever hes annoyed he’ll get me into his room at 9 pm and yells at me and sometimes hits me while I have to say that I’m an idiot and I always side with my mum because it’s easy. Whenever I have money and he gets annoyed (about once every 3 days) he takes my money. for example he got pissed yesterday because ms.marvel was the main character of marvel’s avengers on steam
My issue with gas lighting is that.
The reaction to false allegation and
deflection of a guilty party is the same thing
it also allows a crazy person to logical fallacy there way into winning an argument
My mom won’t back the freak off she thinks that she can control me. Huh worst mistake she ever made. I might as well go back to my dad’s house
I hate my AUNT and MY GRANDMA my GRANDPA IS THE BEST BUT HE DIED YEARS AGO. MY AUNT AND MY GRANDMA IS GOOD AT THE FRONT BUT WHEN THEY TURN AROUND THEY WILL GONNA SAY BAD THINGS TO YOU EVEN YOU DO GOOD THINGS TO THEM THEY WILL GONNA COMPLAIN WHEN THEY TURN AROUND, I HATE THEM
Uhm. My parents know I’m depressed due to me being sexually assaulted twice and still dont take it seriously. My mum even uses it in arguements. Is that toxic? Or is it like they say and I’m just being dramatic
My dad ALWAYS compares me to others. When i was in cheer/volleyball in High School, he tried to get me to do basketball bc that’s what my god sister did. Now hes trying to get me to go to college in texas because my cousin goes there. He also blows up on me and abuses me when he finds out i lied to him. But i always have to lie to him. He doesn’t accept that i am bisexual. He says he doesn’t want a gay daughter. And he doesn’t agree with me smoking weed which is medicinal for me. Yet he wants me to tell him that i’m straight and i hate weed just to please him, when really hes damaging my mental health because i feel like i shouldnt have the things i want because it’s “not right”.
People in Northern VA are gaslighters and haters abusers followers they fuck with your head and they are crazy here! I hate it here my life was hell on earth when I had to deal with people like them! THEY are gang stalking me too and they are soooooooooooo evil!
everysingle one of these is my fucking parents I wanna kill myself alredy I can’t take it anymore my parents and other people are ruining my life
Bright side: a liar useless confusing wording
Me: remembering that time I farted at my friends house and pretend like it is not me keep in mind my sister was there
My sis when we’re home: I know you farted at your friends house
Me: was it really that obvious?
Her: yes you literally try to blame it on me
Me: knowing if it’s obvious the next time I come to my friends house it’s going to be pretty weird
only feeling free when they’re gone or asleep is a good indication. Try and enjoy those moments of mental clearness and don’t be afraid to tell family members that you don’t want to talk.