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5 Signs You’re Raising an Angry Child Overview. There are many factors that can contribute to a child being angry and hostile. For instance, unresolved Difficulty With Relationships. Hitting a sibling or calling someone a name once in a while is normal in young children.

5 Warning Signs You’re Raising A Spoiled Child And How To Turn It Around. 5 warning signs your child is spoiled. If you’re worried that your little one is growing up to be a spoiled brat, watch out for these warning signs so you’d know how to turn things around. “You’re angry because you wanted to play with that toy.

Check out the top warning signs that you’re raising a spoiled child. 1. Your Child Shows Off A LOT. You’re proud of your child and her accomplishments. You should be and she should be too. It’s natural for a child to want to brag.

What you have to watch out for is excessive bragging. 5 Signs You’re Raising Narcissistic Children. 18 October, 2016 When a child stands out, it’s good to recognize their achievements and virtues, but without comparing them with others.

Luckily, most people experience a number of physical, emotional and behavioral cues that they can use to let them know when they are becoming upset. Some physical signs of anger include: clenching your jaws or grinding your teeth. headache. stomachache. Here are the 10 signs you’re heading for a catastrophe when it comes to your kids Those first 5 years are what really counts. As parents we can be slaughtered if we aren’t careful, since those are the years they are the cutest and hardest to resist With. With the help of mental health experts, we’ve rounded up the surefire signs your child is spoiled.

And if you want to improve your relationship with your children, learn the 16 Ways Experts Say Parents Ruin Their Relationships With Their Kids. 8 signs your child is self-absorbed The single best way to avoid raising an entitled child is to require your youngster to do things for others. This begins in early childhood by requiring. 28 Signs You’re Raising a Spirited Child. by Christine Knight.

LOAD MORE. 28 Signs You’re Raising a Spirited Child. by Christine Knight. March 15, 2018. If you have a child who is all systems go from dawn till dusk, whose emotions run high 24/7 and who knows what she wants (and won’t stop until she gets it), it’s likely you have a spirited child. Here are five missed signs of child anxiety: PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Anxiety isn’t just in our minds, it is in our body as well.

Here are just a few examplesYour child won’t poop. They have been constipated for weeks. You’ve been to the doctor and there is no medical origin.

Your child.

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3 “I will send my child to a room alone for 10 minutes after every tantrum.”

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4. has a temper tantrum every time I put her on the potty chair.”

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My child brings out feelings of frustration and anger 0 1 2 3 more.

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These items represent denials of common problems (“Sometimes I put off doing a chore”—False; “My child almost never argues”—True) and attributions of improbable positive adjustment (“My child always does his/her homework on time”— True; “I am almost always on time and remember what I am supposed to do”—True).

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Key #5—Be Aware of Your Child’s Desire to Be Like You Infants and young children are eager to be like Mom and Dad.

“What Babies Say Before They Can Talk: The Nine Signals Infants Use to Express Their Feelings” by Paul Holinger, Kalia Doner
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Children of tantrum age want their mother’s attention and, if they can’t get your smiles, they will take your anger in preference to being ignored.3

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“I will send my child to a room alone for 10 minutes after every tantrum.”

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The trick is to help your child identify his unique signs before he loses his temper.

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Another favourite time for temper tantrums is in the store, especially at the end of the day when the child is tired.

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• Know your child’s triggers—the situations and conditions that typically lead to frustration, anxiety, overstimulation, and anger (List 2.11).

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  • For those school goers who can’t live happily without breaking something or hurting someone:
    I was angry once. But now I’m a complete pacifist. How, you may ask? Well, listen.

    1. DON’T get into fights.
    Even if someone comes to the extent of hurting you, don’t fight.
    Golden rule: laugh it off, whatever it may be.

    2. Make friends.
    This may seem impossible for introverts, but do it.
    If you’re an extrovert, you must have witnessed an introvert’s humourus attempt to make friends with you. All most all extroverts I know have teased that introvert with their friends. But don’t. Talk to him. Make him feel equal to your other friends. Treat him with the same respect you give to your other friends. Lastly, DON’T hurt him, physically or emotionally.
    DON’T look at people as inferior. You and that weird stammering guy with braces are equal. (Not mentioning or trying to hurt anyone.)
    You’ll soon learn to be chill.
    For introverts: You may be scared to talk to people and end up getting into fights with all of them. Don’t.
    Here’s a technique to be popular even though you’re an introvert.
    MAKE FRIENDS WITH ALL INTROVERTS IN YOUR CLASS.
    CREATE A GROUP(which may be hard).
    True fact: introverts who are friends with each other act like extroverts.
    The more friends you Make, the less fights you get into.

    3.
    •If people are teasing you, laugh.

    •If people are pestering you, complain.

    •If people make lame jokes to impress you, laugh anyway.

    •if people are bullying you, verbally fight back or complain.

    •if you can’t stand someone and want to punch him in the face, Walk out of there IMMEDIATELY.

    Lastly, The number one thing I can reccomend:

    DON’T fight with the class,
    Fight for the class.

    DON’T get angry with the class,
    Get angry for the class.

    It works.

  • All the pieces of advice given in this video are truly effective if only parents work on their awareness and consistency. Then you’ll be real models for your children and adults that will envy you because of your well-behaved children �� BTW, doctor, you’re a natural-born actor ☺

  • “tonight wasn’t the same without you.”, “are you ok? you can talk to me.” where are those people in my life? not even my mom has asked me that, and I’m so deep in the shit I can hardly breath.

  • I can tell u for a fact the lieing and so forth isnt always true however u missed a part psychopaths dont get things like ptsd and do to their lack of emotion think in black and white and are able to shut feelings off meaning similar to a computer their also many times as ceo and so forth due to this and sometimes they desire a relationship depending how their raised if isolated for long periods it becomes like a need to communicate they also if having a relationship have certain things they look for and are completely capable of being single for life a sociopath may lie but psychopaths will lie to protect themselves however most. Of the time they lack the ability to care about punishment and so forth so lieing isnt necessary just an fyi. And just because someone is a psychopath doesnt mean they kill ppl they only do that if they believe it serves a purpose nd their triggered u can live a normal life as a psychopath but nobody ever talks about that part

  • I’ve been wanting to get help but I don’t even know what i would say to a mental health professional. I don’t know what’s wrong with me I just want to find out and I want to find ways to help with it.

  • Hi everyone kindly support ICU Family on their Mental Health Patreon page I just started it up https://www.patreon.com/ICU_Family, we have a lot of ideas and goals that I would love you to be part of. We give out gifts for 3x months subscribers and help Mental Health awareness to reach thousands of people and helping a lot of people.

  • Am I the only one who hates the repetitive music? Also the choice of presentation is comedic. It doesn’t go with the subject. Take away the audio and the text, the video does not convey the seriousness of the subject.

  • My father was never afraid to show his anger. Which made it so problematic for all of us while always favoring his daughters and being way more harsh with his sons. Felt like having to walk on egg shells whenever he was home. At least one good thing came out of that problem I grew to hate the cold war run to another war in general way more than the average person and so sorry if anyone gets offended if I already told you so by recalling the past.

  • Great video but it’ll never work for me. I am at a point in life where I can’t do the last two because usually it’s my dad whom I’m angry with (and I still live with him) so I can’t just make any distance with him(mainly because he’s very controlling) and he is very negative so I don’t trust him at all to talk about my thoughts or feelings with him.

  • I understand where you are coming from but I am not going to talk to my nephews like they are slow. I am the type we need to talk them straight forward without losing it.

  • Most of the memories I have vivid in my mind are bad things, and I have a picture of me crying over many things that children don’t cry about often. Ps: I loved the chimmy pillow and all might and deku posters:)

  • If a child is angry I I give him/her
    A job. To protect other kids heart ❤️ To be security no one gets hurt! Help other kids. Change their mindset in an instant. Conscious Discipline Approach.
    What do you think?

  • I’m taking care of a child who is already showing intense anger at 8 months of age. I’m deeply concerned and don’t know how to comfort him and soothe him without also rewarding his angry volatile outburst. He slaps at us and pushes us away with extreme aggression and I’m desperate to find the proper tools to address his frustrations without fostering A sense that his physical aggression is acceptable.

  • peww,i cant be a psychopath or sociopath,i cant hurt animals,theyrr fucking precious and i care about othrr humans
    i got the rest of the signs t

  • Teacher: ok ima to make one of my students life a hell
    Me: chilling with happy face that I am sitting alone
    Teacher: I guess I found one
    Teacher: put me next to boy that was my old bully
    Me first day: okay just gonna ignore this bastard and I am going to live
    Next day
    Me: having panick attack of sitting next to him + my crush is sitting Infront of me

    Teacher: nailed it

  • Ok. If anyone is too afraid to talk to a professional about any of these symptoms, please dont be afraid to text me. 8162673791 I dont wanna deal with no trolls, so if you wanna joke with me, dont. But if you genuinely need help, text me

  • ya know most places say that if u are having mental problems reach out and talk to people expecting people to do it but seriously like hell I ant gonna do that I keep it inside where no one knows

  • Wenn du weist das du in Deutschland aufgewachsen bist: deutschen Ausweis weil man hier geboren ist aber beleidigt wirst weil deine Hautfarbe dunkel ist…

  • Hi can you help me with my angry issues i get so mad easily when at school makes fun at me before quarantine i punched him and broke his nose and got detention pls help me

  • Oh man, I so need your videos! I’ve just realized I fail in every point…����‍♀️time to think before acting like Italian family (as that’s what it looks like here now��) ����

  • Keeping secrets, envy, long distance,jealousy,lies and infidelities are major threats to most marriages and relationships and it is important to be smart not to trust 100% when dealing with our partners. Yes, I know the importance of trusting but that same trust can hurt you so much and don’t forget the saying that once a cheater is always a cheater. I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone. I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and 2 years far back deleted messages from my phone through a programmed link to a cloned app containing all cloned cell information without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in California USA is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all deleted and recent chats on his Whatsapp, Twitter,Facebook,Instagram and Skype. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” via Gmail ([email protected] ) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp: +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later for this favor!

  • Can someone tell me whats wrong? Please. I constanly feel i have to be smart or i have to happy or ppl will hate/dislike me. I make sure everyone is happy instead of myself. And if i cant i worry.

  • 11 year old me: why do I always feel sad. Mom doesn’t spend time with me anymore. Just because I changed a bit, it means I’ve become worse? I think Im depre-
    Parents: literally sends me to a psychologist
    Psychologist: this kid ain’t depressed.

    me now:oh boy wait til you see me now

  • Dear Antoinette
    I was born 1959 so i am an old man.I grew up with my mom breastfeeding me,i miss her much,but even then there was no problem. Yes some people were starring, but my mom was hardcore she starred right back. Once she said: This is my son and i am his mother, you wanna fight??????She meant it
    Yes she was MY MOTHER and i am her proud son. Greets from germany. Even 1960s we had strong wemon like my Mom

  • I think it makes more sense to not make little kids (1-3yrs old) share. Developmentally, they really aren’t ready for it anyways. So many problems and stress could be avoided……

  • ADD / ADHD was made up by Big Pharma. It just don’t exist as a REAL disease. Well, maybe in the minds of some narrow-minded Baby Boomers.

  • This is why I wonder if I have depression sometimes. I’ll explain:
    I sometimes get swings of sadness or anger when I’m just chilling at home and nothings wrong. Or I get really happy for no reason.(they usually aren’t that intense)
    I have had sleeping problems for years
    I have considered self harm but the weird thing is that I’m not even upset or have a reason to, I just think “what if I did this,what would it be like” (I also chew my skin off my fingers and lips and scratch myself really hard when I’m not really that itchy)
    I’ve started to try and stay away from people, or just randomly question why I even have IRL friends(I have online ones and they’re basically family to me.) For some reason I just don’t feel as close to people I know in real life
    I constantly question why I exist or just things in general.
    I never really get upset, I’m usually calm and I almost feel dead at time
    I’m probably just exaggerating and I’m fine but idk.(it sounds worse in text then it is)

  • I am the products of child depression during childhood up to the age of 24 until my father finally stated that he literally disown me. For some reason I feel relieved. But some of symptoms explained were true. I believe time is the best healer apart from people. So for you out side there that might have similar experience, don’t give up. You are not alone. Everything comes for a reason.

  • This is a related video that talks about a child who is always angry. Dr Childress says that a child who is always angry might be due to an expression of pain. I do agree a 100%. Why? Because I’m currently dealing with the same situation as a One-To-One. I work with this student whose anger situation stems from home. Consequently, the child comes to school already feeling angry because of Dad’s absence. Disciplining the child as a solution is not the best thing to do. The best solution you can offer this child, is by trying to understand his home situation, and giving the child that love or attention that’s missing from home. I’m currently applying this knowledge at the Burlington Township Elementary School, and it works a 100%.

  • No one should shame women for breastfeeding their babies. Granted, people are bound to give weird looks for breastfeeding a child that can walk, talk and has a full set of teeth but apart from that breastfeeding in public shouldn’t be such a big deal.
    I’ve noticed that a lot of German parents seem to bring their kids to events that are not really appropriate for their age. At a classical music concert there was this family sitting next to me. In the middle of the concert the mother whipped out a knife (!) And started slicing an apple and the next 10 minutes or so were spent between her and the father trying to get their toddler to eat the apple while the child was clearly not having it throwing pieces of the apple everywhere (reminder: this was at a concert hall).

  • Difference in schools in the UK: They always have to wear their uniform, even if the little boys in their shorts freeze to death, no idea why, and they only get these floppy bags with the School symbol but no proper school bag. And this is from a very expensive private school. In Germany, we pay a lot of attention to the school bags of our children, they are ergonomically fit, take of the weight of the books, are quite expensive and very colorful with lots of designs to choose from. I have never seen a child without proper bag in primary school. And then I go to the UK as an au pair and my super rich children have to use these cheap wobbly bags you can’t even put on your back, it only matters that the school logo is printed on it, and they have dozens of books and long school days, I really don’t understand why they don’t get them proper bags at least for primary school

  • i think i may have depression or anxiety but i’m scared if i tell my parent i want to seek for psychological help, i’m afraid of what their reaction would be because when we talk about mental illness such as depression or anxiety, they will “joke” about it or say they are faking it or need attention. can someone tell me what to do?

  • I always tell myself that once I’m eighteen I’ll get therapy, but i also know at this point therapy won’t work and then go back on it.

  • In addition to my BS I have two yr in mental health and years of self study and experience in volunteering and or paid work. Trying to program others is trying to control your environment cause you have no self control. Fyi ���������������������������������������������� worthless if evidence not present cause abandoned and neglected is not always created, this is why we created DVD! Its real, get help for depression much is malnutrition from child abuse!

  • Omg 9 pairs of shoes. There are lots of possibilities of borrowing children’s clothing and shoes on various websites in Germany, you might want to check that out. Its less expensive than buying new and also good for the environment.:)

  • I wanted to skipped this because it makes me so angry. Children should not be depressed. I take it very personal because it happened to me. I am in my 50s and am just now getting better. My life could have been so much happier and better.

  • You have to know that nothing deserves sadness..you have to devote part of your day to meditating on the happy side of your life..talk about your accomplishments in life even if they are small..there is something that calls for happiness..a loyal friend..a loyal sweetheart..a mother. A father there is excessive happiness in life.. Sadness is a little thing in life.. See how birds live to something that worries them

    https://2u.pw/AWMsc

  • I need help here’s how my anger works today me and my mom were trying to figure out where to eat she said something I didn’t want but I said ok but inside I was getting so mad and annoyed when I get mad it starts like.
    I want to throw things and hit stuff and scream then I just start crying instead of letting anger out it gets to the point where I hit myself in the face or just hitting others idk why I’m 13 years old I get mad over small things one time I died in a game and hit my remote on the tv and put a crack in it then after that I got mad and started hitting myself then broke down in tears rolling around sometimes I wish I could be alone for a few hours or talk to a therapist about it and get away from my siblings and mom and step dad I have a lot of anger idk.

  • I can relate to all the things in this video… I’ve been acting like this since kindergarten plus I have a family who actually does have anxiety and if I bring it up I’ll just get bashed for “faking it” I just don’t understand �� I’ve never been to mental doctor or whatever… I went to a therapist for one day over me “poking” someone with a plastic spork over purple play dough ��

  • Did that animation of the little kid crying with broken stuff around them make you cry? It made me feel things I didn’t know I had in me.

  • Falling is not a huge risk for children. Their bones are quite flexible and wounds heal soo quickly.They dont have much mass on their body so the momentum is pretty low. Even when they fall from high places they dont hit hard to the floor as we think they would.If you are worried that much just have a casque on her little head and she is good to go.:) I heard that a kid survived after falling from a balcony at 4. floor.

  • By reading the comments, I see so many of us have suffered childhood trauma. We deserved to have been born into a loving, caring family but sadly it didn’t happen that way. I want all of you impacted by childhood trauma and suffer with depression like me to know now that the universe loves you. We may not be able to love and receive human love but we can love the nature and animals as well receive genuine love from them. That is loyal, pure love. Take care

  • This video has been successful in accurately explaining my life. I’m depressed but my parents don’t understand mental illness. They think I’m being ungrateful about life. Now they blame me. I’m afraid I’m going crazy day by day.

  • Thank you for your advice. I will have a question how can I discipline my one and half baby without letting him cry?because he gets ill and it ends in hospital with big seizure.

  • The worst thing about no. 5 is that nobody understands.
    When you’re too scared to answer to text messages because you might write something ‘wrong’ and think that they end up hating you, everyone will simply think you don’t like them at all (since you show no visible interest).

    But what they don’t know are your struggles and worries to make these simple interactions. And the more you like someone, the bigger the fear of failing and being hated.

    It feels like every option is wrong. A neverending spiral…

  • One thing that’s always frustrated me is that I could recall being happy up until about age five, but notthereafter. One of my hopes in seeing a therapist was the hope of feeling happy again, as I once had. Still working on it though, at age 66

  • I couldn’t lash out or imma get beat, instead I suppressed it and remembered it recently once I’m trying to be a good parent myself

  • Why should I like the video before I watched it I don’t know if I like it or not thats like giving something to someone and saying be for they eat it do you like it

  • “You’ve started thinking about self-harm or suicide”

    well. I’ve been trying for two years now.
    My family has only just started to try to talk now when my mind is made up. awesome.
    I still want to visit a professional. Just to know if there’s something actually wrong with me or I’m actually crazy as I’ve overheard my family discussing. I just hope my brother can get help. He feels similarly becuase of bullying and I can’t do much.
    I don’t feel that scared about revealing it right now. Maybe becuase I’ve got my mind set. I hope all of the others who feel this way can find a reason to stay. I think that’s important. I’m not good with this, becuase I’m done playing therapist, but I hope you all find something that makes you happy and want to live on. My best wishes to you.

  • I always feel like people around me are being judgemental, even though I know that nobody really cares.
    But I just can’t seem to get rid of this feeling. I am generally a happy person and I enjoy socialising and none
    of these signs are applying to me. I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD as a child, but I didn’t want to continue medication
    because it made me tired. I don’t really know whether or not I should see a doctor, because I don’t feel like these
    thoughts are as serious, but on the other hand I’d like a professional to look into it. Anyone else having similar problems?

  • I resonate with all of the things mentioned in this video and even asked my parents to get me professional help but I had to suck it up because I have an Asian family that doesn’t believe in mental health issues (they’d say that it’s all just in my head) also, my mom just brought me to church lol I even dropped out of school but now that I’m 18, I have somehow learned how to live with it.

  • I have some of these but, I remember this one time I wanted to kill myself so grabbed a hose and I wanted to choke myself but I figured it was wrong. Then my mom knocked on the door and told me why I was taking so long and well I came up an excuse.
    She proceeded to leave and in a low voice I heard her call me an asshole. I then wanted to kill myself even harder but all the times I’ve tried, I just can’t do it for fear of what’s going to happen if I survive. ��������

  • I’m a German dad (two kids, 8&9 by now) and concerning German moms & playgrounds: they don’t know more than you do. They just prefer chatting about organic shite (blueberry juice? Give me a break!) more than evaluating the danger of their kids playing. Do what you feel is right for your children. Don’t be bothered. They don’t know more than you do.

  • That is horrible. And it is not right. People don’t breastfeed their kids in public. Horrible. There are people in Germany, who have moral standards and know how to behave in public. Where do you live???? Horrible. It is not right to tell such horrible stories about all the people in the country.

  • Dear all
    Who ever watching this video and feeling that you are also in depression,do one thing.
    First adopt yourself to mechanical life.i mean to say that work more,eat adequately,sleep at right time,share your problems with some one who understands and give suggestions.never hesitate to consult a doctor if needed.pray to GOD, always keep a HOPE that I CAN get out of it..
    All the best brothers and sisters

  • I relate to alot of these symptoms but can’t think of being that sad in my childhood, or even that happy… it was just kind of a boring blank time for me

  • Yesterday I found your videos again after I had been yelling and things were going horribly wrong. I was able to get myself under control and things calmed down. Started with immediate consequences today after being reminded of their importance in one of yesterday’s videos. He had a complete angry meltdown whenever I followed through. I immediately came back and found this video. He calmed down within about two minutes because I did not accelerate things. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • I’m Nana to a 7 year old girl. Her dad, my son, is divorcing her mother, and I found your channel by looking up custody and alienation issues. He is seeking physical custody a week at a time at each parent’s home, and he works nights. If things turn out as they should, I’ll be staying with her when he’s working. She’s a handful, as her dad was at that age, and I’m watching all your videos to learn how to be the grandmother she needs. I was quite the yeller 30 years ago. Thanks for covering that topic so thoroughly.

  • So, when talking about being so hopeless that nothing excites a person anymore? What is that like? Is it never feeling excitment over things at all? Can it be little sparks of joy followed by feeling emptiness for 3 quarters of the day awake?

  • well my mom wasnt letting me experiment things as a kid ^^ she always freaked out when i slightly leaned over a fence at a higher spot like a wall or tower on a castle we visited

  • Went to brunch with friends and one table had a breastfeeding mother. We all noticed it but it was just kinda acknowledged, not really commented on, you know? But we all agree that a screaming/crying/loud baby is way harder to endure.

  • Love the videos and advice! See if your camera guy can figure out how to reduce the record level because your audio clips (gets fuzzy) when you get too excited ;-D. Constructive criticism only. Noticed this on many of your videos (I’m a fan) Thanks for what you do!

  • This was sooo interesting! I am German, but had both my kids in the UK and raising them here I have never been a mum in Germany. However, I could identify with all parts (apart from the shoes). Your video explains some of the weird looks I get sometimes:-D

  • You are awesome with absolutely great advice that works and helps develop better relationships not only with the kids but our peers and coworkers also! Hahaha!! Thanks so much!

  • sign 1: you’re in Germany
    sign 2: you have children with you
    sign 3: they are growing
    sign 4: you remain in Germany
    sign 5: they are your children

  • In the USA, if your child gets hurt and you could have possibly prevented it, you will lose your children and possibly face prison time

  • Parenting is becoming harder these days with COVID-19 new realities and lockdowns. Thank you Live on Purpose. I am learning a lot from your videos. God bless you

  • 10 Mental Illness signs-

    1: feelings of sadness or depression that last longer than 2 weeks 0:47

    2: extreme mood swings and don’t know why 1:16

    3: your worry and anxiety have gotten out of control 2:12

    4: withdrawing from others or isolating yourself 2:45

    5: delusions and/or hallucinations 3:09

    6: difficulty handling normal life situations 3:49

    7: sleeping too much or too little 4:23

    8: abusing drugs or alcohol 4:54

    9: extreme anger outbursts 5:22

    10: thinking of self harm or suicide 5:59

  • Got Anxiety disorder for sure possibly bipolar cause i could get screamed at and suddenly get really happy and start laughing i have the sleeping problems and were everything seems to be going completely wrong had a mental breakdown and panic attack over it and almost fainted also have the last one 100% lol i suck at life��

  • My daughter is 3 and she has a delay with speech so how this work with her??? I put her on timeout when she hits or throws herself I tell her, “ that’s not ok to do, stop it” and put her on timeout. And she goes crazy she kicks and cry’s until she calms down and then i pick her up?? By this time her crying has overwhelmed me so much and I’m so tired… HELP

  • I’m starting to feel like child psychology is adult psychology too? Meeting another person with anger, be it a child, an adult or any human at all, would not go well.

  • My oldest, now 8 has had explosive anger that I noticed since he was 4. Even with charts I create, posters in his room, talking about feelings, books we read, behavioral therapy, healthy diet, good sleep, exercise, little to no screen time, rewards, consequences, and my improved reactions and response, it’s all only helping a little. �� I really hope and pray it doesn’t get worse into the teenage years.

  • So…. I can relate to a lot of these symptoms.. But I’m like.. 5 days away from period… But I’ve also been experiencing these signs for over 1.5 week. I don’t know what’s going on with me.. Please help ��

  • Thank you so much! I’ve been learning so much from these videos that I started taking notes and writing little mantras I learn from each one to chant when I feel I’m losing my calm. I appreciate these so much ����✨

  • my child has badhabit for somemonths.He becomes angry quickly and also thiefts some small things likes toycaretc.So please help me how to change this habits.

  • Most psychiatrists and such these days are just pill-pushers. They often have connections to pharmacies, and the more pills people take, the more money companies earn. Did ya’ get better? When I was younger I was stuck in a psychiatric hospital for two months, and all they did was take away my freedoms, shove pills with horrid side-effects into me, and repeat the same rehearsed lines each day. Lol.

  • Why am I so emotional watching this?? Orang tua saya tidak mendidik seperti ini, hanya kemarahan dan kekerasan dimasa kecil saya. Dengan melihat video ini saya merasa kuat dan tau cara saya mendidik anak saya dengan cara yang lembut dan kasih sayang. Terimakasih! ✨

  • ALL WRONG. Anger is a defense mechanism to keep from showing the.pain or discontent feelings. Most kids are looking to be loved, but with an angry child, he or she doesn’t know how to accept or express love, so your methods will fain or be short lived.

  • So a learning experience… next time I will find a babysitter for my almost 16 yr old because she can’t be trusted. Sneaking out getting high and drunk and having sex with a 25 yr old. Then she throws a tantrum blaming it all on u for going back to work. Exhausting!!

  • I’m not doing this for attention but I just wanna get help
    My mom:
    •yells at me
    •tells me what to do because I’m a girl
    •want me to have a rich boyfriend
    •wants me to have a great job that makes a lot of money
    •wants me to act as a girl
    •puts pressure on me
    My siblings:
    •hurt me
    •yell at me
    •laugh at me
    •don’t care
    •ignores me
    •calls me names
    My step dad:
    •wants me to get good grades
    •chooses my job
    •wants be to be smart and successful
    •puts pressure on me
    Myself:
    •puts pressure on myself
    •sleep a little
    •always mad at my family or my siblings
    •cries to get myself to sleep
    •eats a bit
    •dosent wanna be fat
    •wants to be smart and successful but sucks
    •wants to focus on drawing or animating but isn’t great
    •calls myself bad
    •laughs at myself
    •acts different
    •dosent know what to do

  • Dear Antoinette
    i am german and please let me tell u this story. When i was about 7 my sport teacher at school decided that we were old enough to climb a rope hanging from the ceiling.It was high, about 7-8 meters.
    So we tried and i fell, broke an arm.
    I was taken care of and went home with an broken arm. So sure my mom was furious, my dad said: You tried will u try again? Mhhmmmm not really. My Buddies at school tapped my shoulder saying i was brave.This made me proud,. I was scared but i tried again and the whole class was cheering. I made it and was the happiest camper ever.We went best friends not because i made it but because they supported me. They did respect my trying. I think it his helped me so much in my self confidence, supporting me grew the whole class together and as my sport teacher looked into my eyes and said that he knew i would do it again i was so proud like never before

  • My mother completely denies my traumatic experiences. When I was in 5th standard, I had scratched the new covers of my books. Yes, that was wrong. However, my father brutally beat me up. He took me to the terrace at 11 pm. It was pitch black. He tied my hands with a rope and locked the door. I was left there in the dark with my hands tied alone and petrified. My neighbours came and freed me. I can never forgive my parents for the way they treated me. I have completely stopped loving them. I have no happy memories of my childhood.

  • I have a 7 year old girl who’s learned much of her poor anger management from me. I’ve done better over the past couple of years, but still far from where I could/should be. My question for you doctor, is what do you recommend her mother and I do when we have a conflict that escalates? They tend to rapidly escalate, and often times the initial trigger is hard to pinpoint with our girl. This morning for example we had another instance of rapid escalation to the point of our girl hitting and shoving her mother. These episodes have become more and more frequent over the past couple years, and they seem to play out the same way over and over again. Conflict, anger, anger escalates, punishments threatened (typically in vain, iPad taken away, bike, toys, etc.), eventual punishment finally achieved, then as I said, the process plays out again the next day or again soon thereafter. Wanting to apply the techniques you mention in the video of staying calm and talking it through, but the difficulty we’re having seems to always be that we can’t even speak to her when she gets in this frame of mind. She’s literally screaming as loud as she can, over and over, so she almost certainly can’t hear anything we say to her/ask her. We’re at our wits end. Also to add, this isn’t a problem at school (back when school was still happening), visiting family or friends, or anywhere else for that matter. Typically only an issue at home, with the rare occurrence shopping or in the event her mother and I are together. The marriage is strained, and has been so for much of her life, which has been hard on her as well. My anger issues, and her mother undermining my authority while “rescuing” our daughter from consequence when she got in trouble both seem to have combined into quite the monster. Any advice you can give after digesting all of this?

  • I have angry 10 year old so nice to everyone but me. He gets mad at me when he don’t some think wrong or if I take his phone of him I try to talk I don’t get angry only if he screeming at me but I do walk off and don’t talk to him so hard when there banging screeming when you take things of them like there phones any tips please

  • so I can’t sleep so good but always feel tired in the day, and when i try to relax i don’t feel good and when i start to relax i feel super dizzy i think i don’t know but it feels like i’m moving around and i get dizzy

  • Hey, i have a friend who is problably 10 or 11 and he gets angry and at home he says bad words alot of times. He problably has a temper or has alot of reasons for being mad, i told the principal and we are going to talk about it tommorow. We will deal with this problem AND WILL BE CALM.
    Thanks,
    Your veiwer

  • I wished I knew about your channel.. I grow up with a culture that our discipline is not much about comforting or showing empathy easily. I grew up with hard love by my parents and I’d show the same way to my kids too but because i think its okay and normal other people will point out and say its not. So now I’m just confused..