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6 Little Behavior Problems You Shouldn’t Ignore Interrupting When You’re Talking. Why you shouldn’t ignore it: Your child may be incredibly excited to tell you Playing Too Rough. Why you shouldn’t ignore it: You know that you have to step in when your child punches a playmate, Pretending Not. RELATED: 6 Little Behavior Problems You Shouldn’t Ignore If your child’s behavior interferes with his everyday functioning—say, he’s so bothered by noise that he hates recess or won’t.

4 Little Behavior Problems You Shouldn’t Ignore. Health For All Kids. September 8, 2017 · Here are six misbehaviors you may be tempted to overlook and how to put an end to them pronto. Related Videos.

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Collins Hodges Duration: 2:21. 7 Types of Child Behavior You Shouldn’t Ignore Duration: 3:09. Whether you’re raising an energetic child or you’re dealing with a strong-willed one, there are certain child behavior problems that are common at one point or another.

The way you respond to these behavior problems play a major role in how likely your child. Unrealistic expectations contribute to the perception of behavioral problems. For example, parents who expect a 2-year-old child to pick up toys without help may mistakenly feel there is a behavioral problem. Parents may misinterpret other normal, age-related behaviors of a 2-year-old child, such as the refusal to follow an adult’s request or. Emotional, behavioral, and relationship problems can develop in very young children, especially those living in high-risk families or communities.

These early problems interfere with the normative activities of young children and their families and predict long-lasting problems across multiple domains. A growing evidence base demonstrates the efficacy of specific family. It’s awfully tough to face it when you know you did something you shouldn’t have.” 4. Acknowledgment. Your child may fall back on denial, which can take the form of lying to avoid punishment and the fear and remorse that go with it. Now is the time to help your child address her feelings about the behavior problems and the consequences she is.

When you ignore your child, you do not neglect him or stand by while he misbehaves. Instead, you take all your attention away from your child and his behavior. Ignoring usually helps stop behaviors that your child is using to get your attention. This includes behaviors like throwing tantrums, whining, and interrupting.

If you continually notice similar behavior that is concerning to you, your co-parent and others in your child’s life, it is probably time to reach out for help. Enlist the help of a professional Some behavior issues will only persist for short periods of time, but in some cases, the behavior is bad enough or has persisted long enough that.

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Some children with severe and multiple disabilities engage in behaviors that interfere with learning, positive interactions, or the safety of the student or peers (e.g., self-stimulation, selfinjurious behavior, noncompliance behaviors, pica, or aggression).

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In conjunction with PA for positive child behavior, active ignoring is used to reduce negative attention-seeking behaviors such as yelling, sassing, whining, and playing roughly with toys.

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If the parent indicates that not listening is not a problem behavior for this child, have the parent identify three problem behaviors and choose one of them for this exercise.

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As a result, even though PCIT teaches behavioral management strategies to address child problem behavior, maltreating parents may have particular difficulty in applying them when faced with child misbehavior (e.g., ignoring attentionseeking behaviors, remaining calm and neutral during time-out).

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They found that teacherand/or parent-reported behavioral measures of hyperactivity and restlessness in a young child (age 3), difficulty in management of the child at age 3, and early onset of problem behaviors at age 5 predicted later antisocial outcomes.

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The steps in this process were (a) parent is occupied, (b) child engages in problem behavior, (c) parent provides negative or positive attention, and (d) child terminates or reduces problem behavior.

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In the second, parent­directed stage, parents are taught specific techniques for giving effective commands, labeled (or specific) praise, selective attention (ignoring), and time­out for more serious problems (e.g., hitting, tantrums).

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For ignoring to be effective, parents should (1) understand the process, (2) record the undesired behavior before using ignoring to determine whether a problem exists and to compare results after ignoring is begun, (3) determine whether parental attention acts as a reinforcer, and (4) be aware of “response burst.”

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Most young children have moments of heightened distress, tantrums, and aggression, but most of them learn, with the help of parents, teachers, siblings, and friends, effective ways to solve the problems and minimize the distress, tantrums, and aggression.

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  • Good suggestion.. But it’s not a win-win situation in marriage for a woman who’s also a mother of his child.
    If he earns her back it’s awesome ��
    If he doesn’t then her kids will lose their father. And when kids lose, mother feels like she’s lost the entire world..

  • I’m severely ADHD and I impulsively hug puppies… Sometimes I feel bad, like I’m intruding on their space, so I learned to resist the urge, to not overwhelm them with my affection… It is difficult sometimes..

  • My daughter said to me today as I was listening and watching music videos with her today of some Kpop and she said “mommy, are you one of those type of people that feels chills with music?” (Which later I found out was fake lol wtaf)
    And I said,”oh my god you feel that too with music?” She said yea and hugged me and I felt so connected because I felt ive taught her good phenomenal 7s 80s n 90s music, pop culture, fashion and music is especially important to me and she knows that but its so weird later she said, “I’m listening to rhis kpop my whole life” and I said yea sure lol and she got major attitude which quite frankly I’m soooo over. And she said I’m serious and I said what! After everything I’ve taught you about music????? Tf. I said you don’t have to like it but at least respect it. And she just stared and mind you 5 minutes before I was in a shower and my hair was coming out in strings. I’m so devastated so I go to her she doesn’t look at me but says” Itll be ok.” Then after 15 more minutes of stress hair coming out she pulls the fucking bullshit about the music and liie I sajd we are dancers in this family and we love music and art but she sort of maliciously and creepily looks at me and says I was actually joking. Fuck you kid I need a break. Shes doing stupid shit like thus thinking shes good at it and clever lol. I’m a very street-smart person and I know a sicko and this has got to be a nightmare. Its more than that. That was just today. I havr recently gotten fit and really hot trendy fun clothes are my thing and she’s jealous? Ovee her mom?idk I want my kid back but I was afraid of this. I had 3 parents say she was problematic.

  • there are different articles on wether or not to eat before and after breakfast. basically we need more studies. some did 3 groups but this study was only with men and with a high carbohydrate breakfast, so it needs to be replicated in women and with a low carbo breakfast. there’s so many variables

  • Sociopathy shows more in younger years but you cant see it when there older am a sociopath and am carm now I am fine gust lack empathy you would see more aggression in younger years such as I used to kill animal’s and the worst thing I did was around 6 were I ran as my auntie with a fork and stabbed her in the side and a different time I slashed her face with a broken broom stick when I was 7 I used to bully hurt people and commit crimes mostly vandalism or destruction of property but as I got older I started doing other things I now mostly manipulate and I enjoy learning technology and hacking but am thinking about becoming a journalist or a psychologist. no one will know who I am no one it’s to late but if they looked at the signs early on they could have done something but I dont think it’s good to try and get rid of this i like being this way not all people are gonna be normal and basic like you and that’s ok also I’ve done good things I worked in a charity shop for a couple weeks it was for other reasons like getting my mum to think I was good and changing

  • “What can parents do”
    Well If I’m here for the reason that others are here for than I’m pretty sure we got in the situation because of our parents… Maybe that’s just my anger though but what I would want my parents to do is step back and shut up. I’m also 19 and not a child. That might be important info.

  • My dad has ASPD. He used to shoot his neighbours with special guns filled with wood, tie explosives to dogs and lots of horrible things. Whenever he talked about he was laughing and seemingly proud of it. He was beating me until I was 5 and when I started going to school he stopped but kept on hurting me physically just enough to not give me bruises in visible places. He’d also throw things, yell, kick the dog, slam things and break things too. When I was crying he was just going harder. Growing up he stopped beating me noticing I was growing smarter and able to tell someone about it so he simply started being abusive verbally (arguments every day with my mother at the dinning table, finding anything wrong or slightly badly made as an excuse to scream and be rude). It’s been months that my mom and I ran away with my sister and my mother announced that she quit him. He’s been showing up at my sister’s job and forcing her to go take a coffee with him and eventually I got arrested due to a fight with my mother so the only choices I had was “go live with your dad or go in another family”. They called my dad but I got back to live with my mother. Now he knows where we live and he often shows up to give us gifts to get us back. He also asked me lots of times to go back to him and lied about having a new girlfriend and financial support. He actually wants to use me to not pay the child support to my mom. His whole life revolves around him and he likes being a coward to others. He loses his job because of his character and I’m glad that this will soon be over. Please do not get involved with ASPD people because you find them “different” and “interesting”.

  • Antisocial personality disorder is not always a bad or good thing, I think there are world social norms that need to be challenged

  • Another thing your wife or gf partner what ever the one who u love is happy to have you as a man I die to have someone like you God bless you…..

  • You’re definitely right, i come here to watch things almost the timed i have issues with him, but I aint sure he does same
    I love him so much and get so afraid of saying Some things to him. I thought its the respect I have for him, I didn’t know im just being afraid of my own pretty self��

  • I find it quote interesting that you are very expository against the problems that the child exemplifies. However, perhaps you, in term,s of rejection and expertise toward the Childs behavior. including curfew or relaxing limits.. However you must b e firm that th8is is unacceptable behavior or that this behavior needs consequent

  • Once a kid turns 18 and has either graduated or dropped out of public school there is less oversight of them by the teachers and or special education, now no one can make them see a psychiatrist or continue taking medication unless there is a valid reason to be hospitalized or re hospitalized.

  • Thank you for this vedio and how you express this subject about me being a value person I have this issue and is sad to know I was never value I was blind to see this �� sucks cus I love him alottt!!!!

  • What the fuck is up with that fucking smacking noise her mouth keeps making? I got through 28 seconds of this video. Learn to talk without smacking your tongue against every surface of your mouth before every god damn syllable.

  • Dr. Klein is formally educated, compassionate and wise in how to gain acceptance and defines borders. I need her for my child. How you a make an appointment.

  • I’m a 13 year old and I like uh am not very kind to my pets, I sort of like being mean to people who mess with me and I uh, stab boxes? Everyone is saying she’s wrong can someone help me? I want to know if something is wrong or if this is kind of common

  • De value me he wouldnt dare the biggest threat is he would have to take care of himself with out me be this tinker bell nope this Peter pan all mine

  • Im always shy and quiet,i used to have a cat that was 18 years old..i talked to him and i felt like he was understanding me…now he died 1 year ago and im alone since i have no friends and my parents are always busy

  • Im a 34 year old psychopath, but i manage to stop being a lyer and now im way brutally honest where i just say what in my mind regardless if i end up hurting someone’s feelings. I lack empathy, I can’t be in a relationship because I can’t stand being nice or a gentleman unless im lucky enough to meet a psychopath chick like me. Yes i am shallow af when come to having a relationship. I feel fake if i try to be nice and i feel better if just be myself which is being obnoxious, make mean jokes and be full of myself. Is that call being a narcissist? Oh man im screwed cause i always felt left out from society but then again i always wish that one day i wake up and every humans disappear except for me and all the shopping mall are still open. Man that would be nice….

  • I have NPD, Schizoaffective Disorder and Anxiety. 90% of this was the abuse I suffered as a child, and my parents neglecting me as well. They did not raise me right

  • If I have all this Symptoms and I talk to my self in my head and sing then get sad and depressed but I don’t hear voices but my mind is thinking and thinking do i have this but I don’t steal

  • Yes, Brian, I loved it, thanks, and I really needed it to hear this right now. And yes, I can feel how much you love sharing with us. Thanks, you are amazing! ♥️

  • I sent him a heart-to-heart letter in April. He never acknowledged it, has never spoken of it. I’m not even sure he ever read it. The reason I wrote him a letter, is because he “can’t handle” / “gets stressed out” / “feels overwhelmed” when I try to bring up relationship issues face-to-face. He’s a truck driver so only comes home 1-2 days a week. So I do understand somewhat that he can’t think about relationship issues while driving…but at night, before bed, or early prior to getting in the truck, he should be able to talk.
    I bought cards that are supposed to be conversation starters for couples, and have brought them with me a few times out camping, while driving the 2+ hours to go see his kids with him, etc. He “can’t handle”, etc. even trying to answer simple questions, like “What did you wish you could do, but have never done yet?”
    I have granted him a lot of leeway because I believe that his ex, who he was with for almost 20 years, was extremely emotionally physically and financially abusive to him. So I have tried to give him time, space and made available several resources for him to recover.
    They’ve been apart since early 2015. He and I have been together for almost 2 years.
    So, less than a month after that h2h letter, he tells me he wants to get his ‘own place,’ so he has a ‘home base.’ At the time, I figured that meant he was just as interested in breaking up with me as I was in breaking up with him. He then tells me about this property he is looking at, and wants me to come and see it with him. It’s super-cheap, only $20k (no buildings or house). So, while we are talking about it on the phone, I comment something like making sure he can afford it. He responds, almost scoffingly, “You’re going to have to buy it. I can’t afford it. My credit’s shot.”
    So, yeah. I guess that was his 53rd strike.
    The property is 2.5 hours away from my home, where he has been living. He would not only have to buy it, he would have to develop it, put sewer, electricity, etc. It makes me wonder if he is also expecting me to buy him a house, too! So HE can live there “on his own.”
    He used to contribute financially, but suddenly stopped after about 6 months. The last time he gave me money for ‘helping out’ (as opposed to contributing financially to his current household) was in December 2019.
    He does help out with little things, but he also tends to (1) take my things without asking and (2) break them without financially compensating me. It’s little things, like a shop broom, and my TV remote (he did finally buy me a new one after more than a year)…it’s just the fact that he breaks my sh_ then expects ME to buy MYSELF a new one. Or, he says, “Let go to Home Depot” to do little fixes around the house, then I have to pay for everything he picks out.
    He is generally nice to me, complimentary, finds me attractive (even after gaining weight from the pandemic / stress of a new job / our relationship!), but I just am totally turned off by him. I no longer feel like texting him, talking to him, listening to him talk to me, or being intimate. That’s one aspect that is still pretty good, but I’m never in the mood; I only give in because he eventually wears me down. It’s enjoyable from a physical aspect, but there is just no emotional connection on my end anymore.
    I’m ready to be done. Just looking for confirmation or something, or maybe just needed to vent about it.

  • It was always me who said sorry even if it was his fault. He had so much control on my emotions. I was all into him and he took that granted. But 6 days ago I thought why always I am the one saying sorry after he treated me badly. So I just stopped talking to him thinking he would say sorry at least after one day at least. But it’s been 6 days he has not contacted me anymore. So I have realised a lot of things now. We were together for 4 years. Now even if he returns I’ll kick him out. I deserve better. I can’t do that to me anymore.

  • I don’t understand this woman, is she on about socially awkward people or narsisist? I would be alarmed if I stood on an insect. She’s upside down. Or probably need more one to one experience ����

    Edit: ADHD I understand now! I’m not but I can’t comment on it as I don’t know anyone with it. I get the sense I’m autistic! But I don’t know, I just know people find me unusual, distant and have emotional outbursts but I try to be alone because I know I’m misunderstood, I’ve been told.I go too deep, and hate silly talk and like to talk to one person at a time. I remember what people say one and one. I get baffled when I talk deeply with people and they can’t remember. Maybe I feel a little bitter and retract from the world. Opening my mouth is like breaking down a wall for others to attack. I am honest in my own feelings, and it’s nothing to do with the person but I speak it and they take it as an offence.

    But then again is a diagnosis a box?
    We all have different layers, maybe we all have our disorders? Maybe the majority who are successful have a disorder and we don’t? Who can say what’s normal or not?

  • IT’S HAPPENED TO ME. NOW..I WAS. RELATIONSHIP LONG TIME. PARTNER WITH MY BOYFRIEND…IDIDINT KNOW. THE WOMAN. HE INTRODUCE. ME IN MY FLAT. IS HERE. GIRLFRIEND…IMAGINE. 10 YEARS. RELATIONSHIP…HE. I COOKED FOR HIM I TAKE CARE FOR HIM SO MUCH. WHEN. HE SICK. I TAKE CARE HIM…I EGNORE MY JOB. I’M GOING HOME…WHILE I’M WORKING. I THINKING. HIM…HE EGNORE ME..

  • Bullshit. There are MANY adults that have all the signs of an antisocial personality disorder but who are described by their parents and other adults that interacted with them when they were children as “good kids”.

  • My X loved to Devalue me to make himself feel better. My low self esteem = his ability to control the narrative somehow. I took a lot of Abuse from him…my Dad was the Worse!:(

  • Thanks for the Video clip! Apologies for the intrusion, I would love your opinion. Have you ever tried Wansaac Ponuke Scheme (just google it)? It is a good one off product for learning intimate questions to improve life with a a negative life partner without the headache. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my m8 after many years got great success with it.

  • There both accually caused by abuse or neglect conduct disorder is caused by childhood trauma even more often than it causes ADHD they say that ADHD isn’t caused by trauma I don’t care what that research says it’s bs trauma can sometimes cause any disorder to happen and at least 80percent of all conduct disorder suffers have been victims of some sort of childhood trauma and you may see them as bad people or pychopaths but I see the as suffering and in so much emotional pain that they can no longer feel because they been hurt way to many times I see a life time of hurt and pain

  • i just don’t understand how a man can not care for his girl period! tears and all, a man still wouldn’t care he’d just go about his day..

  • Kudos for the Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you tried Vanmily Menichael Breakthrough (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome exclusive guide for finding out more about your partner to improve your relationship without the headache. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate finally got cool success with it.

  • Stop it just stop it you old bitch. You don’t know anything about this diagnosis and most don’t. Why? It’s because everyone with it is DIFFERENT. Do you not know they are human too? Not all are dangerous to society. A ton of them are what you would call them “necessary evil” even though I don’t see us as evil at all. They are good and polite people. I can say my statistical analysis shows 7/10 people I meet compliment my charisma. I am not manipulative with every single fuck I exchange even two words with. I only do it when I know it will help many people in the process.

    Guilt? Ok, no. I have been to jail a couple times. I still commit these small minor crimes to this day like stealing.
    Remorse? Hardly. The people I purposefully and joyfully cause harm to DESERVED it. I am not bully. I didn’t torture animals but I did as a seven year old often got off by pissing on the family cat I mean fully whippin out my weapon and spray that mother fucking cornered cat. Yes it was hilarious to me and still is but I don’t think I did anything wrong. It was no different from a prank. I never tortured animals. Now insects and frogs/toads is a different story. I did a lot of weird/harmful things with them like making a catapult over the summer when I was 11-13 and now in my early 20s I still dislike frogs and when I’m doing yardwork and stumble upon a stupid toad I scoop it up with my shovel and launch it as far as I can over the fence and I’ll never be able to verbally describe how much more hilarious that is vs catapult. One of my jobs at a country club I was told by my boss that the damn canadian geese are a problem and it was spring so they were laying eggs like maniacs. So since I worked landscape and maintenance I had the pleasure to stomp, bash, run over, or use all sorts of tools to eradicate them all. But I saved plenty of the tortoises so that’s nice!
    Regret? Very much.
    Empathy? Not ever. Idk what it feels like.
    Compassion? I feel compassion. Family means nothing, but I don’t want my mom or siblings to get hurt. There you go I don’t feel like typing more. I am not a bad man. I make a great friend and I am surprisingly craving affection more than lust.

  • I think she’s misrepresented how ASPD actually is by far. (I’m diognosed) she’s made it seem like there aren’t genuine self aware cluster Bs that are trying to co exist with such disorders. Its daily maintenance and knowing your own prior tendancies mine being hurting things physically and emotionally straining it isn’t something you can rule as instant violator as there’s much more to a single person than singular thought… (Mixed pd ASPD PPD BPD) DIOGNOSIS

  • Proud members of the anti -social social club ThiS Lady probably don’t have kids and is more than likely barren with no hope of human reproduction so she calls us “mean” and our behavior “unacceptable” I for one will continue to ignore these broken people too fearful of a life they have no control over so they point fingers out of their dsm and hand out really bad drugs that keep you addicted and make you sicker and sicker so you keep hating yourself continuing to believe you’re a problem cuz you don’t like people and want to be alone. more people should want to be alone and get close to themselves and face there life on their own terms. BURN THE DSM

  • The difference between men and women, boys and girls? When I think about it? I remember boys pulling my hair on the playground �� Since they are conditioned to not allow emotions to come out! They stuff it down, and they ignore our efforts to have a intimate bond, because they were hurt, and are stuck in the fears from their past, or they’re narcissistic and just care about themselves! If they make you feel like you’re nobody without your validation??? They’ve trapped us into their delusional mentality. If he doesn’t fight for me? His loss… Period. Sad.

  • This girl understand people like me who have all this. Don’t get me wrong some do enjoy hurting others but most do only get enjoyment out of hurting others if it’s a revenge thing at least for me. Like if I was to be an asshole to someone for no reason I’d feel really bad, but if someone was an asshole to me or did something really mean I enjoy making their life a living hell as bad as that sounds.

  • My husband treats me like a s*it. He insults me, he doesn’t give me money and I’m living in another country, he doesn’t care about my feelings and my health. Last time I had a bacteria and he said we could not pay for a hospital or medical attention, he told me just try to don’t die. He doesn’t respect me because I don’t work and I’m in my country waiting for the migration process. He ignore me. Last time I called him and he was putting more attention on the TV than on me. He hidden our photos from the living room and from everywhere. I’m in Mexico, he in US, sometimes I think he took off all my things from bringing girls to the house and don’t send me money for wasting with them. I don’t have voice or opinion. If I say something he says that he didn’t ask me for a opinion. He makes me feel invisible. He allows me only send him messages for maximum 3 minutes. He answers the phone when he wants… Or maybe when he is not “busy”. He hit me and compared me with other women when I was in US with him. He made my noise blood and he said he didn’t do anything but everything was my fault. Everything is my fault. Please, tell me it’s not my fault.

  • What does it mean when a guy says “this is your issue, not mine” what are they really conveying by that and why am I getting hurt when it comes to something very emotional traumatic wound that feels like it’s cutting even deeper when he says that. How do I convey to th person it’s a thing I have and but you don’t emotional respond correctly when I’m asking you for a request I don’t know how to convey that it feel hurtful and lacks emotion in that time and feels oh well this is your sh!t go handle it on your own kind of feelings I get from it.

  • When I say to my boyfriend that i don’t feel like your treating me the way I deserve and there’s certain aspects that really upset me he continues on to do it and then turns around and says “you can’t try and change me”

  • It’s my 13th birthday today and I’m feeling really antisocial lately. Whenever my parents say happy birthday I don’t smile at all. I don’t know why. I just stay in my room hoping they would just give me gifts. That’s all I want. I want nothing else. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

  • Wow. I was being treated badly. I pleaded with my husband to change his ways. He didn’t change. I ended up leaving my husband, as hard as it was. Sadly he didn’t fight for me. Not at all. He watched me pack my things. He watched the removal truck arrive and take my furniture. He did nothing. That was 5 months ago. He has still done not one thing to win me back. As sad as it is, I know I did the right thing. I hope to one day find someone that truly values me… ❤️

  • At 4:39 she say when you no longer have “ADHD”? Why do some people think it just goes away and you don’t have it well into adulthood? I’m 38 and still suffer from it if not on proper medication. My mother is 69 and still suffers from it. Is this doctor stating that if you are in treatment you don’t show symptoms of ADHD? Or that you just outgrow the disorder itself?

  • “Was nicht in uns selber ist, das regt uns nicht auf“ Herman Hesse. Translated as “That which is not a part of us, does not bother us” So the opposite is also true, meaning exactly what you said. Excellent advice, we all need to revisit this thought every time we get bothered by something someone else is doing. Children or otherwise…

  • If he calls the ambulance…
    Good that you said it’s no good for you because it is the only reason one wants to change. Then one will care about others, hopefully.

  • Jaja when youre 20 and you are a philosophy student “oh so cute and smart girl”
    When you re 46 have a degree a Master and manage a school ”
    Oh youre stressed hysterical and Boring”

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  • my bf is very obsessed with social media and his image. i caught him liking a girls pics and then followed her. he has been refusing for weeks to remove her. not to mention she has an only fans and posts pretty provacative stuff. but of course asking him to remove a random girl is me asking for too much.

  • Girls, if he doesn’t see your true value, then walk away. Never settle for less because you deserve the best. Never lower your standards just to meet theirs. Believe me sis, you’ll only hurt yourself soon. I’ve been there, done that. It just only means they do not respect you enough. So girls, respect yourself and never settle for that kind of man. Never chase them. The right man will never run. ��

  • Oh Lord, especially because of the increase in household isolation, we all need this now and much more. Keep it coming. Thank you for sharing the knowledge to be better parents.

  • If sociopath took Ritalin, Provigil or any ADHD drugs they might feel guilt and shame and not know it until the third to fifth time taking ADHD medication

  • Growing up an only child with one parent in a neighborhood where the youngest person other than me is 50 really helps me with social skills

  • SORRY TO SAY BUT LOADS OF NON SENSE!!

    I GO TO BED WITHOUT DINNER AND AS A RESULT I HAVE BEEN LOSING WEIGHT AND FELLING AS ENERGETIC AS NEVER BEFORE!!!

  • I’m trying to lose a little weight and i don’t eat much and don’t feel full. Instead i drink lots of water. Should i stop doing that?

  • i have adhd, depression and anixety i’ve even though trauma i think i’m on the low scale of aspd. i always told my parents i swear i’m a sociopath but they say “yea ok u ain’t no sociopath” and i get really mad

  • Diagnosed with ASPD and ADHD here..I had a rough time that brought me at that point, and nobody to have with me. My actual behavior is dictated by past trauma.

  • Actually I talk to my pediatrician about going to bed on an empty stomach and he said that it’s actually better to go to bed on an empty stomach then it is to go on a full stomach because you have a higher chance on a full stomach using the bathroom in between breaks of sleeping nice try

  • Its also you not knowing what your talking about,first off al ASPD isnt all about being agressive and fighting and being seriously hospitalized, people with ASPD(i got ASPD)rarely go to a mental hospital cus they dont want help cus they dont think they need it
    Secondly you dont grow out of ADHD,and you dont need conduct disorder before 15,you just need signs of it,and people with ASPD can have cognitive empathy thats intact

    And its true,not everyone is a expert in this,your definatly not one of them idiot

    Lastly we dont care about your bullshit consequences

  • Being over a year two birthdays admittedly first one was not long after meeting…. nothing acknowledged when second one came to pass. Not looking for anything, materialistic a simple word was all. Got Crickets ��, nothing.

  • She’s using her MK ultra on all of us watching, look at the intensity in the eye contact. She’s speaking slowly and using her body language like that of the Sea Witch in The Little Mermaid. It’s Ursula! THOSE POOR UNFORTUNATE SOULS!!!

  • You have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about. Your folders, behind you, have about 2hrs reading contained within the bindings.

    I can see what you’re trying to do ; winding people up won’t get you anywhere though.

    ASPD is a wide spectrum of disorders and I don’t find your patronising face very useful for any point on that particular scale.

  • Our mind protects our hearts by making excuses. But once your heart starts breaking, the mind begins to come out of the fog. Then the mind uses logic..then the heart catches up. And they both say..its all good. ♡ f em.

    Dodged a bullet �� ��

  • I was diagnosed by one therapist, who was also a nurse practitioner, that based on what I told her, no friends, no feelings, no regrets (lately), and difficult interpersonal relationships, and harming animals, that I likely have anti-social personality disorder..

    But I just don’t know, a few roommates thought I had more autistic/ Asperger behaviors and symptoms, plus I do cry. I get upset about things, I have emotions. My mother has stage IV cancer which she was diagnosed with about 2 months ago, and I cried at the hospital, I cried on the way there. I cried a few days ago when I hugged my Dad, and so did he. I don’t seem to “manipulate” people, I have a charming personality, but that’s just a facade since I don’t want to be some weird quiet guy with people I work with. I try to get to know people, and sure I can’t always relate, but I honestly think this is related to Autism. I also have a very hard time communicating, socializing and picking up on social cues, I have no idea how to talk to most people so I’ll often ask questions or sometimes I do talk about myself too muchwithout realizing how bored the other person is.

    I tried to explain this in a mental hospital months ago, but they didn’t see it that way. They said they didn’t see any Autism behaviors, or symptoms, even though I was telling them I was depressed, anxious, and severely damaged from some things that happened when I was a child. I have trouble with the opposite sex, I drive the speed limit, I’ve gotten in one wreck in my life and it was after being in a bad place mentally, and lack of sleep. I pay my bills on time (I have two credit card lines), no one helps me out with them and I don’t demand money from anyone. I also don’t blame my parents (this goes back and forth sometimes) for how I came out as an adult. I was however diagnosed with ADD when I was a kid so who knows. Maybe someone with ASPD can let me know if I sound like I have a personality disorder or not. I do tend to avoid people, its just a trust thing. I also don’t really know how to interact properly with people or how to make friends properly. I’m 31.

  • Hey after 30 years of marriage giving him the benefit of the doubts, praying many prayers and really giving it my all. I saw these words

    REJECTION CAN BE
    GODS PROTECTION

    I Love him but God loves me more.
    I now know what is not love and I also learned to Love myself.
    Thank you Jesus for giving us Peace, Comfort because it does sting but we need your strength to move fotward. In Jesus name. Amen
    Thanks for helping us and speaking being straight forward.

  • Thank you so very much..I m going though the same things.. but I have tried to leave him, he just holds me back.. and then again the same thing..

  • She was disregarding my mental health,its driving me insane. Maybe her father in Mexico can take her for a while and yes she’s purposely disturbing!!!! I knew i wasn’t going crazy. She’d do it every time is get comfortable. Brat. Sorry but this isn’t my kid. Shes strange.

  • I am borderline, I have sympathy. But I have the other part of me that is 100% a sociopath. I would love to talk to someone. But I disagree about its all bad. I think this “side” makes me better. Or people better to certain extents

  • I’m so sad I am young I had it at 4th grade I started and still have it I can’t learn I can’t I can’t do anything and I’m so sad always and I don’t know why and I’m aggressive I am mean for no reason but I don’t like it i love animals �� I don’t bother it but sometimes I lplay tough and it sucks because I love my dog �� I lie too but not meaning in a bad way I want it to go away �� i just want friends and family to love me and be smart so I don’t need so much help but I can’t do it �� I keep getting bullied and every time I get bullied I just want to hit them and stuff but is that normal �� how do I get rid of this adhd ��

  • I am married to him for 3 years and he doesn’t express how much he loves me and it irritates me coz sometimes that is the only thing that you want to hear from your partner….i feel like like he is ignoring me or we aren’t meant to be….lack of communication is getting into my nerve and it’s more difficult coz you love him but you don’t get as much love as you expect…so i thing i am gonna leave everything right here and get a divorce so that i can grow on my own…..beacause everyday it’s like a nightmare in a toxic relationship and the worse part is when you dont even have a friendto share your problems and you have to share it online on a comment…i hope nobody goes through this and god gives them courage to love themselves more than anything……

  • Oh wow I had 3 people tell me daughter is a shit starter. I truly didn’t believe them but yea now I see it. I even said at the time, I said I know your game. She looked at me calmly. Lol like well,she knows my bull! But she also said dont try to be my friend. Screw this i can’t do this. I have ptsd,I love her unconditionally but is there a nice elite school that doesn’t abuse that would take her for a while? I’m scared for my health. Abd life quite frankly!! I have told her.im on to ya, no more explanation thats it that I love her but refuse to be abused again.

  • I have ADHD and anti personality disorder alot of what you said is true but then again sum of it is wrong and believe I have It bad

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  • Can someone please guide me..what should I do? My lover loves me( he says that) and we have a good understanding but he doesn’t take care of me that much,he cannot take my pain like if I share my painful story or something about my daily life he doesn’t give importance to it like he rake very easily it seems he doesn’t care that much..then there are some days he have given me pain through misbehaving me I cried and felt sad but he did not care that much just said a small sorry like my question is if someone truly loves he cannot accept your crying but he doesn’t care even he fallen asleep at night let me cry alone though he knew I was crying

  • my heart is heavy right now iam disable and i cant do much for myself i been with my boyfriend for 10 years he left me alone yesterday and went to the coast with his sisters i cant cook or get in the bed by myself i stayed up 16 hours crying and pleading for him for someone to come and help me i dont no what to do cause i love him so much God please help me.

  • So am just watching this video at 3.52 over and over and over…. Thanks to this guy… i never felt so confident in my life ever…. u r a life saver…. u r the best… thank you sooooo much…

  • THIS is an an amazing video. Everything he said was like he was talking directly to me, to wake me up. The saddest part is I’m wide awake, but have STILL allowed him to disrespect me in the worst ways. I’m on day 6 of no contact which I initiated. He knows what he has to do to have a chance with me again…I’m going through a lot & my heart hurts, but what hurts worse is knowing I’ve allowed someone to treat me with no respect & pushed my boundaries that no one else would have been allowed to do. I have extremely low self respect & self esteem because I allowed this & wasted so much time. I have lost myself in this relationship & I decided that I have to find me again. Thank you for this video!

  • Ok so I wonder if anyone can help me with this one. I’ve been married to the same man for 20 years. It’s actually our anniversary coming up this month.
    I don’t think he sees my value but aside from that I’m wondering what people think of this.
    I’ve always been a person to question everything. I love understanding this world that I was born into better. You could probably call me a conspiracy theorist I guess but I never feel like that’s a fair title.
    My husband is the exact opposite. He just wants to live life and not talk about anything too deep and is absolutely triggered by anything that he would consider conspiratorial. We have 3 kids together. Because he gets so triggered and has even been emotionally abusive in the past over these things, I literally feel like I can’t bring up ANY subject that interests me. He won’t entertain any of my thoughts or opinions on anything. And he just pulls the conspiracy card every time to get out of having to be a decent human being. At least that’s what it seems like to me. He says that he loves me no matter what I believe or think but I sense that he really only can show me that love when I’m pretending to be someone I’m not.

    I’m strongly considering calling it quits. I’ve been more than patient and anyone who knows me well knows that is true.
    I don’t even talk to my own children about things for fear of upsetting or offending him. I guess you could say I have very effectively been silenced.

  • I’m getting married to a man that has a son with this exact disorder, however I have 2 babies and another on the way. His son has almost if not all the symptoms listed, he tends to be quite violent with both his peers and the babies, he once kicked the 2 year old and pushed a girl because she didn’t “do what he told her” now he’s the one getting bullied but I also heard he’s getting in trouble because he’s fighting back cursing. I fear for the babies and I fear that he’s quietly veiled a vengeful grudge towards us and I fear in the future if he doesn’t get the right type of help he will do something irrational. His fathers in denial and everyone that’s close to him agrees he’s in denial about his son. When I finally gave my fiancé an ultimatum for him to get his son some professional help the psychiatrist he sees every month prescribed the boy adderall which I feel is just brushing off the true situation. I know they don’t like the word “sociopath” but it’s better than being in denial prescribing a child something that probably won’t even help him. My question is…. is it normal to prescribe a child with this disorder adderall for ADHD? Will it even help? I just think ADHD stems from this disorder as do many things but it’s not right to just grab one of the branches (ADHD) and run with it. This child has been having numerous conduct disorders, he knows waay too much for his age, ONLY getting excited when he talks about death and violence, and now I’m about to marry into that involving my babies to this madness. Please help I don’t know what to do.

  • My bofriend is getting cold after our fight, he still sending me messages but unlike before that i feel he cares about me, now theres no sweetness like he want me feel bad for hurting his feelings during our fight��‍♀️ but i ask him if he want to break up with me he said he havent made up his mind yet��‍♀️ i dont know what is he thinking, i dont know whats his purpose why hes doing this to me��

  • Parents need to avoid dissmissive and any form of insecure attachment. We blame this on kids but do not look at parental abusive bahavior towards kids and use meaningless and vacuous DSM terminology.

  • Yeah donʻt agree with a lot and lately been seeing stuff on here thats contradictory to other scientific proof things. Unsubscribed thanks for making it easy ����

  • I am having trouble with a 50 year old man in town who is determined to pick a fight with me I live in a small town in Nebraska and one day I was in one of the stores there and I noticed  a man walking in  a little later he had a funny look in his eye as he looked at me I soon got out of the store and walked to another store and as I was walking in his girl friend said something  about the rain and he looked at me and said “yeah it makes me want to slap the shit out of someone” the following year I saw him staring at me and went into a ally to avoid him he pulled his van into the alley got out and said in a confrontational way “is there something I can help you with”?
    I did not say anything later I found out his name was William Joe Quinn a registered sex offender drug pusher and pimp 
    this person has been in and out of prison all his life he also tried to start a fight with my friend when he was in a bar a while ago.
    Recently I was riding my bike down his street and he yelled out something I went back to see who had said it and it was him he later ran out of his house to the the street where I was I just stood there he told me that he didnt like me and that
     I was wrong for his small town(im from Philadelphia) and he was angry because 3 years ago he was belligerent but made no attempt to take a swing at me but threatened me that if I went down his street again he would do something about it I notified the authorities.Question is,is this a typical sociopath? and how do you deal with anti social personality disorders like this?

  • Keeping secrets, envy, long distance,jealousy,lies and infidelities are major threats to most marriages and relationships and it is important to be smart not to trust 100% when dealing with our partners. Yes, I know the importance of trusting but that same trust can hurt you so much and don’t forget the saying that once a cheater is always a cheater. I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone. I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and 2 years far back deleted messages from my phone through a programmed link to a cloned app containing all cloned cell information without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in California USA is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all deleted and recent chats on his Whatsapp, Twitter,Facebook,Instagram and Skype. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” via Gmail ([email protected] ) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp: +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later for this favor!

  • The way you say it isn’t always right iv done alot and sum I didn’t want to bit the erge sometimes takes over but I wouldn’t torture no animals that’s weird

  • Can u make a video why husband never ever give you any money,he is very nice, look after child,but dont know why just dont give me money, do u think he need a doctor? Have u got any book to help me, i need to help! please!

  • Man. No matter what it was..small or big. HE WOULD NOT APOLOGIZE FOR ANYTHING. I finally said EFF THIS AND LEFT HIM AND HE HAD THE AUDACITY TO DEMAND AN EXPLANATION WHEN HE POPPED UP AT MY JOB..i didn’t even tell him where I work! I said i owe u nothing. Its sad he couldn’t fathom me leaving him without explanation. A total feminine b**..its so weird. He is absolutely abusive and wants to know why I left. My last bit of power: ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER. LOOK AT THE ACTION. COME NEAR ME AGAIN U GO TO JAIL AND UR JOB WILL SEE HOW CRAZY U ARE. HE HAD THE SMALLEST PENIS I EVER SAW. I JUST couldn’t understand. Who u dealing with that makes u think ur desirable? Omg.. a complete LOSER. LIVED WITH HIS MOM AND HE IS 42! NO EDUCATION…. TURNED OUT he was also a deadbeat. Man. I was embarrassed more than anything that ANYONE saw me with him. I said do better and never looked back. Married and happily might i add.

  • He already hv one woman always hurt me just play my emotions play my heart he said he love me when he gv me so many excuses my all life he distorted

  • Ladies, men are truly lost without us. The only reason why they work out, practice proper hygiene or have good manners is because of us! Please remember that when you lose yourself trying to impress him or be the man in the relationship! And don’t let his blindness to your greatness affect your self-esteem.

  • You’re saying i need to compartmentalize scenes of experiences of me or other people to put into comsideration of actions in effect with consequences… so hard, like a clit. I’ll do it.
    Intergenerational trauma
    Complex traumatic stress disorder
    Possibly developmental trauma disorder because i was 3 and dropped a couple times by what mom admitted to the other week. Bless her soul lol

  • When I was younger I would torture ants and spiders and or insects, as I got a bit older maybe around 7, I stabbed the family fish and it later died I was found out and I covered it up by saying I was washing the aquarium with a toothbrush and the vibration might have hurt it. As I got older I realized that I shouldn’t be doing these things because they are wrong and people might become scared of me. what does that make me?

  • My brother has an ASPD diagnosis, he’s almost 30 now, catching up to me.
    But I just wanted to throw in something positive and say.. I’ve always loved him and I still do.
    It’s a disorder, I see it like any other. It’s how he is and how he’s going to be so I’m ready to accept that, always.

  • Them:the best choices are made on an empty stomach
    Me on an empty stomach:*decides to have food*

    …….this all makes sense now��������

  • I’m in a situation and need help because I’ve been with a man for over 7 months now and for the past 3-4 months now he’s just been replying really late like an hour or two late with nearly ever text he sends and he makes excuses not to see me half the time but I know they’re true, I have started talking to this person and I really like them as a friend and I want to get to know him but my man has only just started paying attention to me again and replying constantly and wanting to see me but he’s only started giving me attention for like 2 days straight now and I’m stuck in the middle. Because I know my man loves me but he doesn’t call me or anything and I tried to call him when he was talking to me and giving me attention and he was just really quiet on the call and it felt like i was forcing him to call me. I don’t know what to do:(

  • 100% wrong lady I have it this 100% and what your saying is the extreme version. Get your facts right, your info is wrong and to the extreme lady

  • I watched several videos but i couldn’t stop myself from missing him whenever i complain he promised to make time for me but after few days he again started ignoring he has plenty of time but he have no time for me this hurts me alot deep inside ��������