Your Spouse’s Role inside your Job Success

 

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You’re also likely to be inspired by your spouse’s conscientiousness and apply that ethic to your job, a trait your employer is likely to reward. Though people look for many different traits in a spouse, knowing the effects that a spouse can have on your work life may make it all the more important for a very career-oriented man or woman to look for a mate with a conscientious and supportive. You’re also likely to be inspired by your spouse’s conscientiousness and apply that ethic to your job, a trait your employer is likely to reward. You’re also likely to be inspired by your spouse’s conscientiousness and apply that ethic to your job, a trait your employer is likely to reward.

Though people look for many different traits in a spouse, knowing the effects that a spouse can have on your work life may make it all the more important for a very career-oriented man or woman to look for a mate with a conscientious and supportive. Their findings show that having a spouse who scored high for conscientiousness as a personality trait leads to greater career success for both people. In fact, in three-quarters of the couples, both partners worked outside the home. A conscientious mate seems to spur one’s professional success in three identifiable ways. You’re also likely to be inspired by your spouse’s conscientiousness and apply that ethic to your job, a trait your employer is likely to reward.

Though people look for many different traits in a spouse, knowing the effects that a spouse can have on your work life may make it all the more important for a very career-oriented man or woman to look for a mate with a conscientious and supportive. Their findings show that having a spouse who scored high for conscientiousness as a personality trait leads to greater career success for both people. In fact, in three-quarters of the couples, both partners worked outside the home.

A conscientious mate seems to spur one’s professional success in three identifiable ways. Having a partner who takes the lead on household responsibilities frees you to devote more time to your work. Their findings show that having a spouse who scored high for conscientiousness as a personality trait leads to greater career success for both people.

In fact, in three-quarters of the couples, both partners worked outside the home. A conscientious mate seems to spur one’s professional success in three identifiable ways. You’re also likely to be inspired by your spouse’s conscientiousness and apply that ethic to your job, a trait your employer is likely to reward. Though people look for many different traits in a spouse, knowing the effects that a spouse can have on your work life may make it all the more important for a very career-oriented man or woman to look for a mate with a conscientious.

Aside from the obvious monetary benefits to either of you making a good salary, your spouse’s experience as a leader or seasoned professional is beneficial to you–as a job seeker, a professional-in-development, an entrepreneur, etc.

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She may be expected to keep up the home, prepare meals, supervise the children, be active in school or community programs, be a social and sexual companion to her spouse, and be a productive worker, capable of doing everything, while working with everyone, and always arriving on time with a smile on her face.

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Whether in a business partnership, a marriage, in the workplace, through community activities, or elsewhere, we find ourselves needing to understand, work through and resolve, and act upon areas of differing interests and opportunities.

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Together with the husband, my work helps them to understand how each might respond to particular behaviours in the relationship and plan how it might be better to relate to each other.

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The most important roles that I have in life are that of husband and father.

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I found that my role was to be there to support my wife and to be patient when things were not being done the way I liked or expected.

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Through the sharing of roles, the wife is not only validated in her work role but more fulfilled in her marriage and her parenting role.

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Knowing how to support and help them and how to provide them with information in the form they prefer can make for a smooth boss-subordinate relationship.

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Worrying about his/her job interferes with my spouse’s ability to get things done around the house.

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A. He will think that its business as usual My last three jobs, where I almost never got home before 11 p.m., trained him well for these contingencies.

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Our job is to treat our spouse with kindness and encouragement and to constantly show affirmation.

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  • thank you for sharing. this talk really encourages me because I was not quiet confident about my job changes experiences. I was somehow got the idea that working with no constancy is not good for your career development.

  • I jt started to watch this show jt recently, and I found myself watching all the previous posts, I particularly like this guy Zulu, he’s so talented and informed.. He inspires me in every show.

  • I mainly came here for hair tips. Not like the tips of hair. I see how that could be confusing. I meant hair advice. That’s all, you guys. That’s it.

  • Yes sir u can eat that with ur hand dude I eat most of my meals with my hands since I’m indian and that’s how we usually eat it’s not that bad as long as u wash ur hands and ur hands are clean

  • Hey I love the show a great deal. However, as I am not a Swahili speaker some words escape me. Could the show please have on screen subtitles as YouTube subs really just don’t do it. International audiences like I would really appreciate it.

  • Sometimes the previous identity gives us too much stress and expectations because we carry that with use. We think we need to know everything and do everything; however, being overseas and traveling are the best personal development I’d ever had. It broadens your horizons completely and change the way you see about the world.

  • Incredible talk! Thank you Laura the Speaker for this motivating speech. And thanks TED for sharing countless inspiring melodies to people all around the world.

  • 1 Women who chase men and need to ‘convince a man to marry them’ ��
    2 Women who sacrifice their career for a man ��
    You did everything to accomodate your husband don’t you see that ����

  • What are the skills that you consistently use in everything you end up doing??

    Think of your work as an artist’s portfolio. Tracks growth. Adding to your work, building skills.

    Ditch the title, embrace the opportunities.

    How to land the job: Make meaningful connections.

    *Word of mouth!!!!*

    Plug in with people not devices. Ask questions.

  • Respect!
    In your making of wedding films I couldn’t help but appreciate how well you both work together specially when you are even life partners.. now i understand. Thank

  • 2:20 2:20 2:20 2:20 2:20 2:20 2:20 2:20
    OMG IM FUCKING LAUGHING!!! IVE WATCHED THIS LIKE 10X
    him”: “THIS IS AMAZING, BUT THEN IM LOOKING FOR THOSE 4 THINGS THAT I’M SUPER CRITICAL ABOUT.. ANDDDD IF IM NOT CAREF-“
    her: blank stare turns into confrontation “4 THINGS? HOLD ON..”
    him: “okay, whatever talk to the hand
    haha her smile after… she just keeps listening to him ramble. Idk why I found this cute lol.

  • Thank you! This is so beautiful. Like how you explaine the placements is like getting the tools to read your own life story. This is a very beautiful insite that you are giving out. I love vedic (jyotish) astrology!

  • I love u dhar man but you when u do the same message please don’t do new vids because I saw the one you did the same thing with all the notebook and things xx

  • Loving the insight into how you guys function. Very helpful:) Quick question, is White In Revery full time work for the both of you or do you both have other jobs outside of this?

  • Me and my spouse both have darakarakas as vargottama in the D9!! My darakaraka mars is debilitated in cancer. His darakaraka moon is in aries. Me and my spouse’s atma and amatya karaka are both the same, jupiter and sun respectively. I don’t know if all these are good or bad.

  • My dk is moon in 9th house aries in ashwin Nakashatra with ketu, please tell me how would be my spouse profession? And where she is from?

  • This is my actual mom like seriously and my dad has his company and think she dosent do anything and dosent support him they fight and scream dhar you are a Goodman

  • 7th house lord is Mars, and Darkarka is also Mars in 11th house of Pisces. I am taurus ascendant with saturn and venus in 7th house.

  • He is saying the truth, I thought i was being truthful only to be always being reminded every time we fight.thanks lesson learned ����

  • thanks for hitting the like button guys:D and here is the link http://astrologykrs.com for the books, reports and consultation. I have new Nakshatra consultations available now.

  • I need a separate video on how to find darakaraka,I am south indian tamil,haven’t heard of it so not able to understand. Could you post one

  • My darakaraka venus in 5th house in birth chart, 10th house in navamasa,and,
    is in 1st house of my spouse chart, and my amatykarka moon is in saggitarius in 7th house in my spouse chart…
    .can you please guide me.

  • You should make this into a series and cover some tips on how you guys shoot on day of and how your workflow works in post under the same roof.  You guys rock.

  • Great content. Earned a subscribe.

    Big struggle with my wife and I is I want to buy all the gear and she just wants to work with what we have. Sometimes she’s been right: I’ve bought shit we didn’t really need. Sometimes I’ve been right: I’ve bought stuff that she realized after using it how much we needed it.

    You know the struggle?

  • Great video! you guys rock!I found out the hard way how to be critical of my wife while filming. She definitely doesn’t like the criticism. I would say we have very similar personality types as you two.

  • Hi char mann
    I am using my brother’s phone but thanks a lot for ur appreciation thanks alot I wish every men could understand us thanks a lot

  • I have a sun darakaraka in the first house of aries in aswini. My 4th house is cancer and my moon is in the 6th house of virgo. My venus is in pisces in revati and conjunct mercury both in the 12th house, my Jupiter is also in aries like my sun about 10 degrees apart from eachother except my jupiter is in bharani. My atmakaraka is mars and my atamayakaraka (I hope I spelled that right and I’m sorry if I didn’t) is saturn, both in aries as well and in bharani. I kinda get a bad feeling, I hope it’s just me being pessimistic and not actually true. My sun is also my DK in D9, only it’s in taurus in the 7th house. If anyone knows what that means, please share your wisdom with me, I’ll be entirely thankful ☺️

  • Love listening to Aaron!! He Really does add a lot of insight and fun to the videos!! I enjoy both of you talking together! <3 Love you guys!

  • Great tips! Thank you for taking the time to talk about this…. sometimes it’s hard to find a good balance between work and the relationship, especially with kids. My husband and I are currently going through it, and hearing this really helps.

  • Hi, guys. I just watched Marcus and Kristin’s wedding. I have seen a lot of wedding videos, and I have got to say their wedding video is now one of my all-time favorites. May I know where you guys are from? Amazing job on capturing the beautiful moments and the editing was superb.

  • I remember what you said on one of your videos 12th lord in the 10 house… I have Moon as my darakarka and moon is in Scorpio in the 12th house. The 12th lord is in the 10th house Mars in virgo conjuct with Saturn. My Mars have the influence of the moon.. so my husband is a Surgeon? Im a Sag Asc btw.

  • Thanks for this! I’m thinking about possibly starting an online fitness coaching business and my bf was interested in possibly doing it with me. I’d love to see more tips on starting an online business:)

  • Taurus ascendant. 7th box is empty. 7th lord [MARS] placed in 10th place of Aquarius. Also its conjunction with venus. In my D9 chart there are.(Moon Saturn Jupiter) conjunction in 7th place

  • My ascendant lord itself is darkarka placed in second lord with 7th lord mars… (Taurus ascendent) jupiter aspects them from eight house

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  • Such a great talk. I always find shocking when somebody tells me “I cannot afford to quit my job” or the best one ” you are so lucky to have a job and live in the UK”. But I am the living proof with a dream and a plan you can get a lot of fulfilment in life money does not do that. I am not “lucky”, I started in live with no parents no money, I worked really hard and took the path of uncertainty while I could have much easily taken the path of easy. It was scary at time, but mostly exciting. While I studied full-time a degree abroad, I work part time to finance myself. I achieved a career in a number of different areas. I learnt new languages, many new skills, met amazing people and had fulfilling experiences while doing it. But most importantly, I got to know myself. You don’t need to do what I did, my point is, is easier to make excuses for oneself instead of going out there and fighting for what you want. There is always a way forward, as long as you have done the work of knowing what ticks for you and seeing it throu. No matter if you achieve your goal, the goal changes anyway as you move toward it, as Laura (not the lawyer) says, the important is the EXPERIENCE, ditch the title. Don’t label yourself into a corner, that is all she is saying in a very well articulated way! Labels and job titles are an excuse to hide and wither.

  • you say don’t give too many details about your past,but what if your partner keep asking and asking? Even though you might not want to talk about your past too much but rather focus on your future

  • My darakaraka is Sun. I have Sun in pisces in the 6th house (libra ascendant). My 4th house lord is Saturn. I’ve Saturn in the 3rd house in Sagittarius, 12 places from the 4th house ������

  • I love this. Thanks for making this video! It’s so helpful. Thank you for mentioning how you work with your dynamic and personality types.

  • This sounds a bit like me. I’ve been a stay at home mother of 4 for almost 25 years. I homeschooled all of them until 9th grade. Once the last one was in HS I went to and graduated college with my BA degree in ESE. I have been an educator (grades K-12) and substitute teacher for about 8 years. I no longer want to teach. I do not enjoy being in the coffin called a classroom. I want to write books, encourage, speak publicly, and clean my home. I feel so lost.

  • My current: his exalted sun is 7 away from my debilitated sun. And my exalted mercury is 7 away from his debilitated mercury. Both his and my Venus are in mars rules houses. His Jupiter is in the same sign as my 7th. When transposing both of our 5th houses get strengthened. His Venus is in the 10th and my Jupiter is in the 10th. We met at school and reintroduced later. Not a work relationship but i don’t know ����‍♀️

  • Nice, thank you for this video! I’m a wedding filmmaker from Germany and just started out my business. Your videos are really helpful for getting started and answering the questions I had in my mind concerning the process of shooting a wedding and also how you manage to work together as a married couple! Thank you so much for the insight into your work:D

  • I clicked so fast all I saw was “Tips for Running…” but I’m glad about the “…a business” part:D I love Aaron’s tip #2, that is such a good reminder. Just because you are doing what you love doesn’t mean it’s going to be hunky dory all the time. I already know I’m going to like this new series:)

  • I just watched your video about appreciating people, and I thought you might like to hear about the time someone truly touched me my mom took me to the bank and I got out twenty and we went back to the store to get our supper a pizza and a pizza tray and sprinkle cheese,and treat for me taffy. I went up to the counter to pay and I reached into my pocket to get the money and I wasn’t there and I started to panic and a lady in front of me saw the panic in my eyes and she asked me what happened I told her I lost my money and she helped me look for it but didn’t find it the lady opened her purse and handed me twenty dollars she said I don’t normally do this but you look like a very honest person she said you need it more than I do to buy your supper. I told her I’d try and give her the change she said if I’m still here you can give it to me but i might be gone when your done she said if I am just keep it I thanked her and she said you needed it more and told me to pay it forward.

  • Emotionally striking!
    I’ve committed the same mistake as depicted in the video!!
    We just get comfortable without notecing. I’m a good person, I know I am, and YOU that are reading this and feeling the same are too.
    First step is to notice that we are doing wrong, Second step (and easiest, since we love our partners) is to change appreciating the other person as a PERSON and NOT the girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband that we “HAVE”!

  • My darakarka is Sun exalted in Aries in Ashwini pada 3 (the pada of Ashwini ruled by Venus) and in my 11th house not conjunct any other planet (I only have Sun in the 11th house). So this means my spouse will be possibly working as a racecar driver, runner, equestrian or doctor or nurse since Ashwini rules all those occupations. Being in Aries means he may have a mean streak and be fiercely independent and assertive and be quite egotistical. But being in the Venus-ruled pada 3 of Ashwini this means he has an artistic flair and may be a musician on the side or a painter. So basically he could be a doctor, nurse, equestrian, racecar driver, or runner and will be egotistical, confident, assertive and independent to a fault with a strong artistic flair especially since my Venus is exalted in Pisces in Revati nakshatra at the most exalted 25th degree in my 10th house conjunct lagna lord Mercury debilitated in Pisces thus causing a Raja Yoga! So spouse could be of royal lineage or act like he’s royal since my darakarka Sun rules my 3rd house of Leo and my 7th lord Jupiter sits in the 3rd house of Leo in Magha nakshatra, the nakshatra of royalty!

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  • I commend your efforts Ben Zulu, u are so exceptional in your analysis and your delivery, I enjoyed every part of this show thanks for educating and imparting knowledge in the area of relationships
    Thumbs up Ben ��

  • When she retires…. enters those fragile years, starting into the sunset:

    -The people encountered from the many walks of life
    Championing the fond experiences and challenges met successfully will fill her with joy
    Nostalgia of being present in multiple environments, travelling (in her thoughts) through those different moments
    The broad range of personalities encountered who brought a range of personalities out of her

    Simply couldn’t happen being a lawyer, dealing with injustice and battling through cases that would only offer an experience of having to always be in “defense mode” which would have led to a depressing mental state from the experience of working as a lawyer for 25 years!

  • There was a time my husband discredited a girl he cheated on me with by saying that she was bad in bed only for him to tell me that for him sex is just the same. And he just needs that part coz there is no difference and I have no idea why it hurt so badly. I hate dishonesty and I am not sure if that is why it broke me so badly.

  • a wonderful, down-to-earth view of marriage and biz. I enjoyed this very much. Husband and I married for about 24 years and in biz together for 20.

  • Have no fear, God Jesus loves u,died 4 ur sins n arose on the 3rd day, forgave all ur sins n gave heaven,just trust him. C Jesus saves in Google!!…

  • yay! LIBRA powerrrrr!
    but seriously thanks for making this great insight! my husband (gemini btw) and I have dabbled in videography together and now 2019 is the year we hope to market ourselves more seriously, so this is helpful!
    could you make a video highlighting more of having a baby along with your business?

  • This was exactly what happened with my marriage. We lived in the inlaws house and he got comfortable again. I was expected to do all the major house work while chasing a then 2 year old. Then I started working full time but nothing changed.