On the topic of intimacy after 50, it is not unusual for couples to have a disparity in libido once midlife hits and menopause is in full swing. Is a low libido putting your relationship at risk? Are you afraid to talk about it? Today, we’re inviting that conversation. Menopause is a confusing and turbulent time for all involved, and many couples assume that something is wrong with their relationship if they have lost desire. While ‘something’ may be wrong, depleted hormone levels do not need to be the reason your relationship is at risk. The simple truth, most of us don’t understand what is happening with our bodies during menopause and are hesitant to discuss “what’s going on” – most often for fear of hurting our partner’s feelings. The good news, there are lots of ways to deal with loss of libido and rediscover intimacy after 50.. Paige Valdiserri is an internationally recognized traumatic stress and integrative healing consultant. Paige is also a Licensed Professional Counselor, who has helped people around the world navigate love and relationship issues. For more information about Paige, click here: https://paigevaldiserri.com/. -- 2nd Act TV is a resource full of motivation, inspiration and information for men and women over 50! Our content is focused on helping you get the most out of your 2nd half of life.. Find us here!. Home Base: http://2ndact.tv/. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/2ndActTV. Our Blogs: http://2ndact.tv/blog/. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/2ndActTV/. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/2ndacttv/. Twitter: https://twitter.com/2ndActTv
MY BEST MARRIAGE SAVING ADVICE: The MARRIAGE BREAKTHROUGH® 2016 EDITION. INFO: http://bit.ly/2czIWAM Use Coupon Code: 89OFF for $89.00 OFF Time Limited.. Michele Weiner-Davis is the founder and content creator of divorcebusting.com, Divorce Busting®, The Sex-Starved Marriage®, Keeping Love Alive®, Marriage Breakthrough®, Sex-Starved Wife®, It Takes One To Tango® and a variety of additional products designed to explain and improve couple’s relationships.. She is the founder of the Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching Program. Each year, her coaches speak to thousands of clients worldwide who want to save their marriages.: http://bit.ly/293e9Kk. Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW, LCSW is an internationally renowned relationship expert, best-selling author, marriage therapist, and professional speaker who specializes in helping people change their lives and improve important relationships.. Among the first in her field to courageously speak out about the pitfalls of unnecessary divorce, Michele has been active in spearheading the now popular movement urging couples to make their marriages work and keep their families together.. She is the author of seven books including the best selling, DIVORCE BUSTING: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again (Simon & Schuster), and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: A Couple’s Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido (Simon & Schuster).. Michele is the Director of The Divorce Busting® Center with offices in Boulder, Colorado and Woodstock, Illinois. In addition to her private practice, Michele is a highly acclaimed and sought-after speaker, known for her life-transforming, energetic and entertaining keynote addresses and seminars for both lay and professional audiences including Fortune 500 companies, universities, religious organizations, the military, professional organizations, and community agencies. She consistently ranks among top presenters at national conferences.. Her extremely busy website, www.divorcebusting.com attracts thousands of visitors each day.. Michele’s work is highly regarded in professional circles. She was the recipient of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy’s prestigious Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Therapy Award and Smart Marriages’ Impact Award.. Her work has been featured in major newspapers such as the New York Times, USA TODAY, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, and magazines such as Time, Redbook, Ladies Home Journal, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Woman’s Day, Men’s Health, New Woman, and McCall’s.. She has made countless media appearances on shows such as Oprah, 48 Hours, 20/20, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CBS Evening News, CNN, and Bill O’Reilly. Michele’s Keeping Love Alive® program aired on PBS stations nationwide.. Michele maintains that her true expertise in helping couples have great relationships is derived from first-hand experience. She and her husband have been married for more than thirty-five years.. Praise For The Sex-Starved Wife: “If you think that women are the only ones saying ‘no’ to sex, think again. Millions of men have little desire to be intimate with their wives. This gutsy book reveals the truth about what goes on behind closed doors and what couples ca do to bridge the desire gap”. -John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. “The Sex-Starved Wife will dispel the commonly held myth that men are always the more highly sexed spouse. By shedding light on this important subject and offering tools for boosting desire, Weiner-Davis will help couples move from emotional and physical distance to building more loving and passionate sexual relationships.”. -HARVILLE HENDRIX, author of Getting The Love You Want and. Keeping the Love You Find. Praise For Change Your Life And Everyone In It: “Full of practical solutions to life’s dilemmas. Everyone will benefit from reading it.”. -Bernie Siegel, M.D., author of Love, Medicine & Miracles. “This book spreads hope – reminding us that vision is greater than baggage, that effective people are opportunity-minded, not problem-minded. Michel Weiner-Davis will restore your faith in your own instincts and resourcefulness.”. -Stephen Covey, author of The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People
Men who reach middle age often begin to wonder anew who they are, where they’re going and what’s the meaning of life. God is not afraid of those questions, and He wants to point men to Himself through those questions instead of pointing them to a Harley or to a career change.. Based on his book, 6 Ways for Men to Thrive in Middle Age, Stephen Arterburn comes alongside men to help them live their best life at middle age instead of spiraling into a crisis.. To buy his book: http://bit.ly/30fVbGN. For more information on this broadcast: http://bit.ly/2NjLIKR
Christopher Ryan and his work have been featured just about everywhere, including: MSNBC, Fox News, CNN, NPR, The New York Times, The Times of London, Playboy, The Washington Post, Time, Newsweek, The Atlantic, Outside, El Pais, La Vanguardia, Salon, Seed, and Big Think.. Chris has been a featured speaker at TED, SXSW, The Festival of Dangerous Ideas at the Sydney Opera House, and the Einstein Forum in Pottsdam, Germany and appeared in well over a dozen documentary films.. Even before co-authoring the New York Times best-seller, Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships (translated into 15 languages), with his wife, Cacilda Jethá, MD, Chris was on a wild ride. After receiving a BA in English and American literature in 1984 he spent the next two decades traveling around the world, pausing in unexpected places to work at decidedly odd jobs (e.g., gutting salmon in Alaska, teaching English to prostitutes in Bangkok and self-defense to land-reform activists in Mexico, managing commercial real-estate in New York’s Diamond District, helping Spanish physicians translate and publish their research). In his mid-30s, Chris decided to return to school to pursue doctoral studies in Psychology at Saybrook Graduate School, in San Francisco, CA.. Drawing upon his multi-cultural experience, Chris’ research focused on distinguishing the human from the cultural, first by focusing on shamanism and ethnobotony—studying how various societies interact with altered states of consciousness and the sacred plants that provoke them—and later, by looking at similarly diverse cultural perspectives on sexuality. His doctoral dissertation was a multi-disciplinary investigation of prehistoric human sexual behavior, guided by the world-renowned psychologist, Stanley Krippner.. Chris’s latest book is called Civilized to Death: Why Everything’s Amazing but Nobody’s Happy, and he hosts a weekly podcast, called Tangentially Speaking, featuring conversations with interesting people, ranging from famous comics to bank robbers to drug smugglers to porn stars to authors to rattlesnake experts.. Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/user/PureEnergyWellness. Access show notes, comment and share at: https://www.pureenergypdx.com/integrate-yourself-podcast/chris-ryan. 4-Sigmatic affiliate link: http://www.us.foursigmatic.com/#_a_integrateyourself. Enter our code and get 10% off: integrateyourself. Join us on Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/integrateyourself
The importance of sexual expression in older adults remains a controversial topic despite the positive relationship between sexual functioning and quality of life across the lifespan. In this talk, Dr. Kukkonen encourages us to examine and discuss sexuality in older adults and challenges some of the societal biases that limit our understanding of sex and aging..
Dr. Tuuli Kukkonen is a clinical psychologist, assistant professor, and director of the psychophysiology of sexual health laboratory at the University of Guelph in Guelph, Ontario, Canada.. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
Although women talk about it a great deal, there’s no real evidence that women’s sexual desire decreases in the years just before and after menopause. In fact, one of the largest surveys of women and their sexual desire found very similar rates of low sexual desire among premenopausal and postmenopausal women (24 and 29 percent, respectively). How to Rekindle Your Sexual Connection at Midlife Q & A with Sex Therapist Yana Tallon-Hicks. Diana Whitney. 23 Jul 2020 Sexual Health. sex.
I recently interviewed Yana Tallon-Hicks for my story about sexual health in middle age. Tallon-Hicks is a relationship therapist, sex educator, and sex advice writer. Sexuality in Midlife and Beyond The physical transformations the body undergoes with age have a major influence on sexuality. This Special Health Report, Sexuality in Midlife and Beyond, will take you through the stages of sexual response and explain how aging affects each.
But Yana emphasized that women can reconnect to their sexuality in midlife: “Menopause is a big marker that can loom for many women as representative of this fear [of undesirability]. Luckily, the fields of sexual health, sexual advice journalism and sex education are speaking more openly about healthy and passionate sexuality after menopause.”. Whether you’ve been married for 25 years or are only dating, sex at midlife—we’re talking 40s and 50s—can hold some unique challenges for you and him.
For women, this time of life is one in which your. Most people will tell you a healthy sex life is important to a satisfying relationship, yet when problems arise they don’t know where to turn for help. What’s more, many people find it difficult to discuss intimate issues with a doctor.
To help, Harvard Medical School experts created Sexuality in Midlife and Beyond. The two hormones that most affect sexual physiology, estrogenand testosterone, tend to decrease during midlife, in both women and men. As a result of these hormone decreases, the most common. Can Sexual Preference Change at Midlife? Research suggests that falling in love might open new paths of sexuality.
November 20, 2014 | Comments: 0. Getty Images. Sometimes a person’s life undergoes such a radical transformation that the change was inconceivable before it occurred. Sarah Doherty answers one of the most top midlife questions from clients. In long-term relationships, there are always periods when sexual intimacy is lacklustre.
As a sex therapist I often hear worries from women like these; “I rarely feel in the mood for sex these days” “I just don’t seem to fancy my partner anymore. Midlife is the central period of a person’s life, spanning from approximately age 40 to age 65. It can be a stressful time, as many people come to feel discontented and restless as they struggle.
I don’t think that they were entirely divorced from my feeling my sexuality was changing, or that I was defining myself in a different way, but it was far more to do with the fact I was feeling very unhappy.
Likewise, midlife gay and lesbian partnerships have been described as “more companionable and less passionate”(Blacker, 2005, p. 304) than young adult gay and lesbian partnerships.
Kutluk Oktay, MD, FACOG is one of the world's foremost experts in fertility preservation as well as ovarian stimulation and in vitro fertilization for infertility treatments. He developed and performed the world's first ovarian transplantation procedures as well as pioneered new ovarian stimulation protocols for embryo and oocyte freezing for breast and endometrial cancer patients.
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As a 65 year old woman and a registered nurse I feel confident that I know a lot more about this topic than my physician. He should ask me questions. I could teach him a lot.
Men Love a women who is aggressive and takes the lead!!!! and if you are a very good leader trust me he will follow!!!! no one wants quiet sex ok!!!! call his name,tell him how good he is, tell him you like it its good baby etc u get my point…every man want his wife in the kitchen and a freak in the bed room…many men cheat because soo many women are not open minded when it comes to sex with their husbands,but remember what u wont do another women will
Well when i was a kid in high school i worked Sat. and Sun. at a cattle feed lot. Guess this old cowboy took a liking to me. On day he said boy let me tell ya something. When you get sixty,sixtyfive and get a chance to die. TAKE IT! I thought wth? Im well past the old cowboys age now and 72 or so years later. He hit the nail square on the head! No head might as well be dead!
Has anyone used the Erectodom Secrets to solve your erectile dysfunction problem? Simply just do a google search. On there you will find a great tips about how exactly you can last longer in bed. Why don’t you give it a chance? maybe it can work for you too.
So is it really such a common thing for men to not do anything around the house? I do about 90% of the housework all by myself while my wife plays with her phone and then always tells me that she’s too tired to have “hurry up and get it overwith” sex more than once a month.
But it’s all my fault that our relationship sucks…
OMG! Who is this lady? She is absolutely brilliant! I don’t think I’ve ever seen a women who “gets it” better than this lady when talking about how men view sex in a marriage.
OMG. You are a genius. You are an angel. Every woman who is getting married or going through a rough spot in her marriage needs to watch your video.
Men need sex. If we are in a relationship without sex and without affection, we are going to become very unhappy. We will try to resolve the situation and if we are unable to resolve the situation we will end up either getting a divorce, opening the relationship up or in some cases men will cheat.
We have our needs. Just like women have deep needs, sex is a deep need for men.
How disappointing that this topic is not being presented by a 75 year old rather than someone who is getting paid for the research. This seems like a conflict of interest just like we see with drug companies.
Great video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard about Qanucas Meyyatt Smasher (do a search on google)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for skyrocketing your libido without the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my buddy at very last got amazing results with it.
Excellent video content! Sorry for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is a smashing one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the headache. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my friend after many years got amazing success with it.
As a 65 year old woman and a registered nurse I feel confident that I know a lot more about this topic than my physician. He should ask me questions. I could teach him a lot.
Men Love a women who is aggressive and takes the lead!!!! and if you are a very good leader trust me he will follow!!!! no one wants quiet sex ok!!!! call his name,tell him how good he is, tell him you like it its good baby etc u get my point…every man want his wife in the kitchen and a freak in the bed room…many men cheat because soo many women are not open minded when it comes to sex with their husbands,but remember what u wont do another women will
Well when i was a kid in high school i worked Sat. and Sun. at a cattle feed lot.
Guess this old cowboy took a liking to me. On day he said boy let me tell ya something. When you get sixty,sixtyfive and get a chance to die.
TAKE IT!
I thought wth? Im well past the old cowboys age now and 72 or so years later. He hit the nail square on the head!
No head might as well be dead!
Has anyone used the Erectodom Secrets to solve your erectile dysfunction problem? Simply just do a google search. On there you will find a great tips about how exactly you can last longer in bed. Why don’t you give it a chance? maybe it can work for you too.
So is it really such a common thing for men to not do anything around the house? I do about 90% of the housework all by myself while my wife plays with her phone and then always tells me that she’s too tired to have “hurry up and get it overwith” sex more than once a month.
But it’s all my fault that our relationship sucks…
Excellent talk. I’m almost 60 and still extremely active as I’ve always been. Kudos to you, Dr. Kukkonen and thanks for great presentation.
English is not my first language,.. she speaks such a clear and well pronounced english, it is just a pleasure to listen to her. is she canadian?
OMG! Who is this lady? She is absolutely brilliant! I don’t think I’ve ever seen a women who “gets it” better than this lady when talking about how men view sex in a marriage.
OMG. You are a genius. You are an angel. Every woman who is getting married or going through a rough spot in her marriage needs to watch your video.
Men need sex. If we are in a relationship without sex and without affection, we are going to become very unhappy. We will try to resolve the situation and if we are unable to resolve the situation we will end up either getting a divorce, opening the relationship up or in some cases men will cheat.
We have our needs. Just like women have deep needs, sex is a deep need for men.
What if she goes thru menapause and that’s it? I’m done? I’m still alive and well and want to still be active!! What about those stats?
How disappointing that this topic is not being presented by a 75 year old rather than someone who is getting paid for the research. This seems like a conflict of interest just like we see with drug companies.
Great video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard about Qanucas Meyyatt Smasher (do a search on google)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for skyrocketing your libido without the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my buddy at very last got amazing results with it.