Carli is a Licensed Sex and Relationship Therapist who specializes in women’s health including infertility, endometriosis, and PCOS. In this video, she talks about the importance of sex talk therapy for those with pelvic conditions.. Carli provides therapy to individual and couples therapy and her approach to therapy is interactive and challenging yet supportive. She is certified in Maternal Mental Health, received her Master’s of Social Work from Columbia University, a Master of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University and is currently working on her Ph.D. in Clinical Sex Therapy at Widener University studying infertility and sexual esteem in women trying to conceive.. Website https://www.carliblau.com/. Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexdoccarli/. Twitter https://twitter.com/SexDocCarli. Facebook https://www.facebook.com/CarliBlau/. -- The 2019 Pelvic Health Summit is an online summit created to bring the latest information and top practitioners of pelvic health to you. Our goals for the summit are: Educate Men and Women on the importance of Pelvic Health. Provide multiple perspectives and specialists to weigh in on Pelvic Health. Provide multiple perspectives and specialists to weigh in on Pelvic Health. Provide an accepting platform for people to engage, discuss, and support one another. Learn more about the summit, speakers, topics and join our supportive community group at: Summit https://www.pelvichealthsummit.com/. Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/pelvichealthsupport/. -- If you are suffering from pain and want to learn more here are some resources from our partners: Pelvic Rehabilitation Medicine https://www.pelvicrehabilitation.com/. International Pelvic Pain Society https://www.pelvicpain.org/home.aspx. The Women’s Pelvic Health Podcast https://www.thewomenspelvichealthpodcast.com/
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Pain during sex may be caused by many factors. Oakdale ObGyn’s Dr. Shannon Harris discusses some of the reasons for painful sex and how ObGyn doctors can help reduce or eliminate this concern. Appointments: 763-587-7000.
According to the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University, up to 30 percent of women aged 18 to 59 experience some type of pain during sex in their lifetimes, compared with just 5 percent of men. Post-menopausal women are more likely to suffer from it than young women, but it can happen at any age for a variety of reasons. CBS News chief medical correspondent Dr. Jon LaPook discusses the issue with Dr. Lori Warren, an Ob-Gyn and gynecologic surgeon.
Vaginismus is a painful condition that can make sex painful or impossible. But Vaginismus is treatable. In this video, I explain how to use an exposure hierarchy and progressive muscle relaxation to reduce vaginismus and make sex comfortable again.. Looking for Affordable Online Counseling? BetterHelp connects you to a licensed professional for $65/week. Try it now for 10% off https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell. Support my mission on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therapyinanutshell. Learn more in one of my in-depth mental health courses: Now on Teachable! Use the code NUTSHELL for 25% off! https://therapyinanutshell.teachable.com/courses. Sign up for my newsletter: www.therapynutshell.com. Therapy in a Nutshell, and the information provided by Emma McAdam, is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and is not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.. If you are in crisis please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 1-800-273-TALK (8255), or your local emergency services.. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC. -- Music licensed from www.Bensound.com or Artlist.io. Images from Freepik.com (premium license), Pixabay, or Wikimedia commons. Images from wsj.com, thedailytexan,
Pain during intercourse is a troubling secret for many women. They might have intercourse about as often as other couples do but hide the pain from their partners. For a small number of people, “genital fit” can be a cause of pain during intercourse—meaning your partner’s quite large, and you’re extra petite. Lube can. Active vaginal infections, such as yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or some STDs, can cause vaginal discomfort during intercourse.
If painful intercourse is relatively new, pay your OB/GYN a visit to get things checked out. Painful sex can make you worry. Anxiety reduces lubrication even more and may cause you to clench the muscles of your vagina during sex. If sex becomes too painful, you may avoid it entirely. Beyond the immediate effects of the pain itself, pain during sex (or simply fear or anticipation of pain during sex) can trigger performance anxiety or future arousal problems in some women.
Worry over whether pain will come back can diminish lubrication or cause involuntary—and painful—tightening of the vaginal muscles, called vaginismus. In many cases, sex can be painful when lubrication is not sufficient. In these cases, the pain can be remedied with the use of a lubricant, such as KY or by changing up your sexual script in the. Dryness can not only make sex painful, it throws off the vagina’s balance of good bacteria, which can result in infections that contribute to painful sex. ‘Try using a lubricant if dryness is causing you pain during sex. Many conditions may cause pain during sex.
Once atrophy is advanced, they’re less helpful and may be irritating, as you’ve experienced. The most likely effective treatment is localized estrogens like the most recently approved lmvexxy, which is a vaginal insert. There are also localized estrogens available in cream, ring, or tablet form.
Applying lubricating gels to the outer sexual organs, the vulva and labia, as well as using lubricating products in the vagina may be helpful to some women and ease pain during intercourse. Sex toys, such as vibrators or dildos, may also be useful. The first port of call for women suffering from painful sex is usually the GP, who will check for infection or injury and make a referral to a specialist if necessary.
However, those suffering from painful sex can also visit a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic.
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Painful Intercourse In women, painful intercourse can be caused by vaginal infections, insufficient vaginal lubrication before intercourse (usually the result of not being sufficiently sexually aroused), and anxietyproduced spasms of the muscles surrounding the vagina, which makes vaginal penetration painful.
You can prevent the pain by changing positions during intercourse to avoid hitting the cervix and doing exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor, or by working with a pelvic floor physical therapist.[41] Do not continue to engage in any sexual activity that triggers pain, because pain perpetuates more pain.
Painful intercourse, or dyspareunia, may be the result of lack of arousal but is most often due to physical factors such as pelvic infection; anatomical conditions; congenital deformities; or vaginal atrophy due to inadequate estrogen exposure.
The pain or injury associated with an abrupt resumption of sexual activity can lead to a secondary female sexual dysfunction of dyspareunia or vaginismus (respectively, painful intercourse and severe contraction of the vagina – see below).
Depending on the cause of dyspareunia, counselling, extra lubrication, vaginal HT cream, or antidepressants may be prescribed, and surgery to expand or repair the vaginal opening is occasionally needed.
Kutluk Oktay, MD, FACOG is one of the world's foremost experts in fertility preservation as well as ovarian stimulation and in vitro fertilization for infertility treatments. He developed and performed the world's first ovarian transplantation procedures as well as pioneered new ovarian stimulation protocols for embryo and oocyte freezing for breast and endometrial cancer patients.
Adding lubrication to the mix often helps with this. And as weird as this sounds… improving the man’s penis skin texture helps a lot too. This will cut down on friction and dry spots etc. He can do this by applying a penis skin moisturizer every day. These are kinda like hand cream for the penis and work really well. In my opinion, Man1 Man Oil is the best one out there. Check it out ladies and gents.
I would have liked to offer a dollar per month on Patreon. “The minimum price for this tier is $3.00” Not looking for perks. I like your channel and what you do.
This content needs a serious update. The issue of women’s sexual arousal is really not emphasized enough nor talked about. Sex is painful when the woman is not turned on and hardened yes, a woman’s clitoris needs to be aroused, too! Oftentimes the pain doesn’t need to be “treated” at all but simply either the moment or the the partner or both is wrong! Women are often raised not to listen to the cues coming from their bodies, or ignore the fact that they are not turned on enough it takes more time than for men and their partners rush and force themselves upon women. Even if enough talking is involved and things are not rushed, the chemistry still might not work and women’s bodies are not aroused enough. The result is painful sex for women and/or no orgasm. So really before we start to talk about “vaginismus” diagnoses, we really need to make sure that the precondition not only wetness in vagina/vulva but also hardened clitoris was met in the first place! This is really important and never the be merely assumed or dismissed in sex education, as female arousal and pleasure sadly is even today. It would be really important @TherapyinaNutshell for you to edit this video accordingly! Otherwise, by talking about vaginismus, you are uncounciously supporting a very harmful Christian fundamentalist bias of pathologizing and diagnosing wives who cannot have sex due to ‘vaginismus’, which in fact just a mismatch in body chemistry of the couple: a female body saying no to their husband’s body. Oftentimes this happnes when sex is taking place only after the marriage. There is no need for treatment or diagnosis there if the women are not turned on.
Hi, I used a product called vagi-wave to help me. I tried all sorts of things before this hypnotherapy visits to clueless gynaecologists etc. There is loads of things on this website which may help.
My long time partner is very well endowed. The only time it doesn’t hurt is during menstruation. It’s so frustrating that they have so many cures for men’s conditions but not for women!
I’m 52 and I’m going through menopause and this pain is new to me.It feels like razor blades.It just started a couple weeks ago and the bf isn’t having any of.We had great sex life that we both enjoyed…I’m desperate for answers and any advice before I go to the doctor
between the other problem is oxalic acid in food, look up Sally Norton and her experience!!! Oxalate is a crystal that loges into tissues and can cause pain.
Thank you for the suicide prevention line in the description,its nice to know that even on a video not about your still an amazing doctor and go the extra mile.im bad with words but honestly i think your brilliant
4:10 Women ARE NOT, on average, “slower to get aroused and lubricated than men”.
Studies, initially using IR cameras, but later precise sensors, ALL found that women took no longer to reach any stage of arousal in response to visual stimuli than men. In addition, when self-pleasuring sans edging women took no longer, on average, to achieve orgasm (e.g. 65% in under 3 minutes).
At the heart of this misconception is comparing apples to oranges (e.g. erections vs lubrication). For example, women get clitoral erections actually slightly faster than men, and men produce peak lubrication (pre-cum) with the same average delay as women. In short, comparing an initial stage of arousal of one gender (erections) to a later stage in another (lubrication) makes no sense.
This information is so needed to be provided! Thank you for a wonderful lovingly presented video! I am very fortunate to have been sent to a gynecologist who specializes in women with post menopausal problems. He directed me to additional sources of information and “supplies” and he has physical therapists who work in his office who are also specialists. It is time for these issues to be brought out into the open and for men and women to have access to healthy education. You are such a gift to all of us who subscribe to your channel. Sending you and each of your daughters big hugs!
This is not a pertinent subject for me. But I appreciate that you are addressing it. And I just listen to all your stuff because it’s educational. and many things I share with others. And there are topics that you address that I have found helpful. Like the brain rewiring, trauma recovery, dealing with anxiety videos. And I REALLY appreciate your inclusion\respect of a person’s spirituality in dealing with issues.
I’m so glad awareness is being spread about this little-known topic. I had vaginismus as a young bride 25 years ago and got over it. The journey wasn’t easy but it is possible. I now have 4 kids ����
I’m 41 years old, never been married and never had a sexual partner who actually cares about me. In the very few times that I have been with men throughout my life, it has been very painful. It’s not the width, it’s the length. It feels like he’s hitting a wall inside me. And for some reason the man can’t feel this, but I certainly can. So would this also count as vaginismus? I assume I’m just involuntarily tensing? Is there anything else he could be hitting? I assume it would not be my cervix. Thank you!
Hey I have a question about therapy? Is online therapy still as safe as in person therapy? My parents r worried about my interest in online therapy bc they’re nervous about scammers which is valid. But I haven’t gone this whole quarantine since March without a therapy session and I’m not comfortable even with the tools given to me. I miss my old therapist but he’s going to retire this yr. so how and what are the best ways to transition to one therapist to the other? Do I have to start from the very beginning, bc that’s a lot of info? Thanks for reading!
So I’m going to go ahead and drop this bombshell on. I’m a single man and I am 40 years old my girlfriend is 38 years old and she is married to her husband unfortunately we are together and we live in Nashville Tennessee her husband lives in Virginiamy girlfriend has pelvic pain and we don’t have sex and have not have sex for a while at least nine months now we have attempted to have sex but we have not had complete sex now here is the things that I do not understand we have two kids one one year old and 1 3 year old so she had to be able to have kids and sex for the work but now we don’t have sex at all and I am a nympho and need sex.we have discussed sex and things that we can do we have tried different methods nothing is work and I’m in a stalematesome people in this world you need sex to survive other people feel like sex is something that you don’t need my girlfriend is a Capricorn and she feels like if it hurts her then we really don’t need it but vices first it is hurting me not to have sex so do we break up and go our separate ways and the kids get hurt or do I go and cheat �� and it is a bad situation for a female to feel like well if I can’t have sex neither can youyou got what you wanted out of the relationship which was kids now I just basically have to deal with the situation
This is a real thing. I know a lady who had pain for a long while. Hormone treatment. I dated a virgn years ago. I never really understood what turned her into a tiger. She was shy. She consulted a doctor and something changed. Don’t be afraid to ask your doctor for help.
Great video! It would be amazing if you record a video on fear of love and closeness. I think it’s really common in our world but people dont talk about it at all.
I had issues after my daughter was born, have to have surgery to remove hardened scar tissue in my vagina due to a bad tear during birth. The surgery helped some but by that time I was so tense my muscles were just tense all the time which caused more pain. I ended up having to see a pelvic therapist who essentially massaged the muscles until they finally relaxed. It took a year after my daughter’s birth to finally have sex pain free. I still have some nerve damage in one spot which can cause pain but being well-prepared solves that problem.
There are also “tools” to help slowly open things up and learn to relax. A set of glass “expanders” pops up if you type that word VAGINISMUS set into Google. They’re different sizes. You gradually move up to larger sizes. This helps if your vagina has “clamped up” way too tight. I didn’t know that it’s a “thing” but it definitely is.
And certain vaginal cream helps your hormones to balance out again.
Dr Christine Northrup suggests a good kind.
Also there are some vitamins made to help with thyroid issues. They help with dryness and mood swings and depression and libido. Lots of good reviews.
I contacted HIV in 2009, I was told by my doctor that there’s no possible cure for HIV. I started taking my ARV’s, My CD was 77 and viral load was 112,450. my cousin told me about this herbal Dr. Ambala thats helping people get cured and i also saw a lot of testimonials about him on how he uses medicine to cure HIV. I contacted him and told him my problems, He sent me the herbal medicine and I took it for 14 days which was two weeks as he instruct me to take it, after then I went for test check-up and I was cured. The medicine has NO SIDE EFFECT, there’s no special diet when taking the herbs medicine. He also cure HEPATITIS B, ANXIETIES, BREAST/LUNGS CANCER, HERPES, MISCARRIAGES,HBP, STROKE, FIBROIDS, INFERTILITY PROBLEMS, LOSING OF BELLE FAT, GENITAL WARTS and lots more with his spiritual power and nothing is Impossible in his shrine, just want to make sure that this disease never happen to anyone, that’s why i will be dropping his contact email ; Dr.v.ambala @gmail.com You can Call/WhatsApp him via; +2347041190299
I’ve been in a functionally sexless marriage for twenty years due to this condition. I know there are treatments, but the issue is my wife has severe avoidance about addressing this. She becomes extremely defensive, and actually (verbally) violent and cruel when I force the discussion every six months or so. Thank you for addressing the issue, but as a man looking for resources to deal with my situation, forgive me, but this is yet another base level explanation for someone who’s never heard of the condition. I’d love someone to address the avoidance issue that comes with vaginismus. The base emotion is fearfear of pain, fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of judgement. My wife will NOT engage in even discussion about this. How do you support someone you love who has this condition, who is unable to confront her fear enough to get treatment. Thank you.
I’m experiencing this. I’m only 28. I don’t know if it’s because I’m too small or if my bf is too big but I don’t like to experience pain. It’s discomforting and I have to stop.
Adding lubrication to the mix often helps with this. And as weird as this sounds… improving the man’s penis skin texture helps a lot too. This will cut down on friction and dry spots etc. He can do this by applying a penis skin moisturizer every day. These are kinda like hand cream for the penis and work really well. In my opinion, Man1 Man Oil is the best one out there. Check it out ladies and gents.
I would have liked to offer a dollar per month on Patreon.
“The minimum price for this tier is $3.00”
Not looking for perks. I like your channel and what you do.
This content needs a serious update. The issue of women’s sexual arousal is really not emphasized enough nor talked about. Sex is painful when the woman is not turned on and hardened yes, a woman’s clitoris needs to be aroused, too! Oftentimes the pain doesn’t need to be “treated” at all but simply either the moment or the the partner or both is wrong! Women are often raised not to listen to the cues coming from their bodies, or ignore the fact that they are not turned on enough it takes more time than for men and their partners rush and force themselves upon women. Even if enough talking is involved and things are not rushed, the chemistry still might not work and women’s bodies are not aroused enough. The result is painful sex for women and/or no orgasm. So really before we start to talk about “vaginismus” diagnoses, we really need to make sure that the precondition not only wetness in vagina/vulva but also hardened clitoris was met in the first place! This is really important and never the be merely assumed or dismissed in sex education, as female arousal and pleasure sadly is even today. It would be really important @TherapyinaNutshell for you to edit this video accordingly! Otherwise, by talking about vaginismus, you are uncounciously supporting a very harmful Christian fundamentalist bias of pathologizing and diagnosing wives who cannot have sex due to ‘vaginismus’, which in fact just a mismatch in body chemistry of the couple: a female body saying no to their husband’s body. Oftentimes this happnes when sex is taking place only after the marriage. There is no need for treatment or diagnosis there if the women are not turned on.
Hi, I used a product called vagi-wave to help me. I tried all sorts of things before this hypnotherapy visits to clueless gynaecologists etc. There is loads of things on this website which may help.
My long time partner is very well endowed. The only time it doesn’t hurt is during menstruation. It’s so frustrating that they have so many cures for men’s conditions but not for women!
I’m 52 and I’m going through menopause and this pain is new to me.It feels like razor blades.It just started a couple weeks ago and the bf isn’t having any of.We had great sex life that we both enjoyed…I’m desperate for answers and any advice before I go to the doctor
between the other problem is oxalic acid in food, look up Sally Norton and her experience!!! Oxalate is a crystal that loges into tissues and can cause pain.
Amazing Book to read: * “ Restoring the Pleasure by Joyce Penner and Clifford Penner”. It’s so informative and detailed, highly recommend it!
I hate this myth that women take longer to get aroused than a man.
This is pretty much nonsense IMO.
Basically if you’re not naturally lubed, you’re just not into him. You might even have thought you loved him. But your body is saying otherwise
Thank you for the suicide prevention line in the description,its nice to know that even on a video not about your still an amazing doctor and go the extra mile.im bad with words but honestly i think your brilliant
4:10 Women ARE NOT, on average, “slower to get aroused and lubricated than men”.
Studies, initially using IR cameras, but later precise sensors, ALL found that women took no longer to reach any stage of arousal in response to visual stimuli than men. In addition, when self-pleasuring sans edging women took no longer, on average, to achieve orgasm (e.g. 65% in under 3 minutes).
At the heart of this misconception is comparing apples to oranges (e.g. erections vs lubrication). For example, women get clitoral erections actually slightly faster than men, and men produce peak lubrication (pre-cum) with the same average delay as women. In short, comparing an initial stage of arousal of one gender (erections) to a later stage in another (lubrication) makes no sense.
This information is so needed to be provided! Thank you for a wonderful lovingly presented video! I am very fortunate to have been sent to a gynecologist who specializes in women with post menopausal problems. He directed me to additional sources of information and “supplies” and he has physical therapists who work in his office who are also specialists. It is time for these issues to be brought out into the open and for men and women to have access to healthy education. You are such a gift to all of us who subscribe to your channel. Sending you and each of your daughters big hugs!
This is not a pertinent subject for me. But I appreciate that you are addressing it. And I just listen to all your stuff because it’s educational. and many things I share with others. And there are topics that you address that I have found helpful. Like the brain rewiring, trauma recovery, dealing with anxiety videos. And I REALLY appreciate your inclusion\respect of a person’s spirituality in dealing with issues.
I’m so glad awareness is being spread about this little-known topic. I had vaginismus as a young bride 25 years ago and got over it. The journey wasn’t easy but it is possible. I now have 4 kids ����
I’m 41 years old, never been married and never had a sexual partner who actually cares about me. In the very few times that I have been with men throughout my life, it has been very painful. It’s not the width, it’s the length. It feels like he’s hitting a wall inside me. And for some reason the man can’t feel this, but I certainly can. So would this also count as vaginismus? I assume I’m just involuntarily tensing? Is there anything else he could be hitting? I assume it would not be my cervix. Thank you!
Hey I have a question about therapy? Is online therapy still as safe as in person therapy? My parents r worried about my interest in online therapy bc they’re nervous about scammers which is valid. But I haven’t gone this whole quarantine since March without a therapy session and I’m not comfortable even with the tools given to me. I miss my old therapist but he’s going to retire this yr. so how and what are the best ways to transition to one therapist to the other? Do I have to start from the very beginning, bc that’s a lot of info? Thanks for reading!
So I’m going to go ahead and drop this bombshell on. I’m a single man and I am 40 years old my girlfriend is 38 years old and she is married to her husband unfortunately we are together and we live in Nashville Tennessee her husband lives in Virginiamy girlfriend has pelvic pain and we don’t have sex and have not have sex for a while at least nine months now we have attempted to have sex but we have not had complete sex now here is the things that I do not understand we have two kids one one year old and 1 3 year old so she had to be able to have kids and sex for the work but now we don’t have sex at all and I am a nympho and need sex.we have discussed sex and things that we can do we have tried different methods nothing is work and I’m in a stalematesome people in this world you need sex to survive other people feel like sex is something that you don’t need my girlfriend is a Capricorn and she feels like if it hurts her then we really don’t need it but vices first it is hurting me not to have sex so do we break up and go our separate ways and the kids get hurt or do I go and cheat �� and it is a bad situation for a female to feel like well if I can’t have sex neither can youyou got what you wanted out of the relationship which was kids now I just basically have to deal with the situation
This is a real thing. I know a lady who had pain for a long while. Hormone treatment.
I dated a virgn years ago. I never really understood what turned her into a tiger. She was shy. She consulted a doctor and something changed. Don’t be afraid to ask your doctor for help.
Some women endure painful sex for years and years. It burns physically. Emotionally, I imagine self harming or floating up out of the room to escape.
Great video! It would be amazing if you record a video on fear of love and closeness. I think it’s really common in our world but people dont talk about it at all.
I had issues after my daughter was born, have to have surgery to remove hardened scar tissue in my vagina due to a bad tear during birth. The surgery helped some but by that time I was so tense my muscles were just tense all the time which caused more pain. I ended up having to see a pelvic therapist who essentially massaged the muscles until they finally relaxed. It took a year after my daughter’s birth to finally have sex pain free. I still have some nerve damage in one spot which can cause pain but being well-prepared solves that problem.
There are also “tools” to help slowly open things up and learn to relax. A set of glass “expanders” pops up if you type that word VAGINISMUS set into Google. They’re different sizes. You gradually move up to larger sizes. This helps if your vagina has “clamped up” way too tight. I didn’t know that it’s a “thing” but it definitely is.
And certain vaginal cream helps your hormones to balance out again.
Dr Christine Northrup suggests a good kind.
Also there are some vitamins made to help with thyroid issues. They help with dryness and mood swings and depression and libido. Lots of good reviews.
I contacted HIV in 2009, I was told by my doctor that there’s no possible cure for HIV. I started taking my ARV’s, My CD was 77 and viral load was 112,450. my cousin told me about this herbal Dr. Ambala thats helping people get cured and i also saw a lot of testimonials about him on how he uses medicine to cure HIV. I contacted him and told him my problems, He sent me the herbal medicine and I took it for 14 days which was two weeks as he instruct me to take it, after then I went for test check-up and I was cured. The medicine has NO SIDE EFFECT, there’s no special diet when taking the herbs medicine. He also cure HEPATITIS B, ANXIETIES, BREAST/LUNGS CANCER, HERPES, MISCARRIAGES,HBP, STROKE, FIBROIDS, INFERTILITY PROBLEMS, LOSING OF BELLE FAT, GENITAL WARTS and lots more with his spiritual power and nothing is Impossible in his shrine, just want to make sure that this disease never happen to anyone, that’s why i will be dropping his contact email ; Dr.v.ambala @gmail.com You can Call/WhatsApp him via; +2347041190299
I’ve been in a functionally sexless marriage for twenty years due to this condition. I know there are treatments, but the issue is my wife has severe avoidance about addressing this. She becomes extremely defensive, and actually (verbally) violent and cruel when I force the discussion every six months or so.
Thank you for addressing the issue, but as a man looking for resources to deal with my situation, forgive me, but this is yet another base level explanation for someone who’s never heard of the condition.
I’d love someone to address the avoidance issue that comes with vaginismus. The base emotion is fearfear of pain, fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of judgement. My wife will NOT engage in even discussion about this.
How do you support someone you love who has this condition, who is unable to confront her fear enough to get treatment.
Thank you.
I’m experiencing this. I’m only 28.
I don’t know if it’s because I’m too small or if my bf is too big but I don’t like to experience pain. It’s discomforting and I have to stop.