UCLA Center for Child Anxiety Resilience Education and Support (CARES) Director, Dr. John Piacentini and CARES Clinical Psychology Fellow, Dr. Diana Santacrose answer a common question from parents: Should you tell your child’s teacher about their anxiety? The experts also suggest strategies for parents and teachers to help reduce the impact of a child’s anxiety on their school performance. For more information, visit CARES: http://carescenter.ucla.edu/
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Raising children requires good parenting techniques as well as avoiding bad habits. A positive body image help children develop socially. Quality time with kids also helps them in school. But just as important are avoiding mistakes that can curtail a child’s social, physical, emotional and intellectual development. The following is a transcript of this video.. Parents of unsuccessful kids could have these 6 things in common.. They’re authoritarian. Authoritarian parents discourage open communication. They make demands without explaining why. One study showed, when these parents checked children’s homework it inhibited the child’s overall school performance.. Parents who let kids watch TV when they’re really young. Researchers said children who watched more TV were less likely to participate in class and had lower math scores.. Parents who yell at their kids a lot. Shouting, cursing and insults can have the same negative effects as physical discipline.. They’re helicopter parents. Over-controlling parents have been linked to higher levels of anxiety and depression in children. Researchers found these children were less open to new ideas and more self-conscious.. Parents who are emotionally distant. This can contribute to: behavioral problems, insecurity, and emotional difficulties.. Parents who spank their kids. First graders who already had behavioral problems were even more disruptive if their parents spanked them. Spanking has also been linked to mental health problems and cognitive difficulties.. -- Follow BI Video on Twitter: http://bit.ly/1oS68Zs. Follow BI on Facebook: http://bit.ly/1W9Lk0n. Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/. -- Business Insider is the fastest growing business news site in the US. Our mission: to tell you all you need to know about the big world around you. The BI Video team focuses on technology, strategy and science with an emphasis on unique storytelling and data that appeals to the next generation of leaders – the digital generation.
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Dealing with a rude and disrespectful child is always a challenge. It’s something that triggers parents more than anything! So in this video, we’re going to talk about how you can deal with this situation in three specific steps.. 00:28 The first thing you should take care of. 01:54 Be careful about this. 02:29 Loving them does not imply this. 03:15 The three stages. 05:04 The second step. 06:31 Hone in on the behavior. Watch and Enjoy! Dr. Paul Jenkins. WHAT TO WATCH NEXT. = How To Convince Your Parents To Get A Dog. https://youtu.be/v-o7L_Mwbgw. How To Convince Your Parents To Get You A Phone. https://youtu.be/Zpuqf9N6KhQ. Find out more about Positive Parenting here: http://parentingpowerup.com/. For a FREE copy of Pathological Positivity (you only pay the shipping), visit this link: https://drpauljenkins.info. If you are ready to take your positive parenting to the next level, explore options for coaching and advanced services through your FREE Parenting Breakthrough call with one of our certified coaches here: https://drpauljenkins.com/breakthroughcall. LINKS & RESOURCES. = Website: https://drpauljenkins.com/. The Parenting Power-up Audio Course: http://parentingpowerup.com/. Free digital copy of Portable Positivity: https://bit.ly/2PoIDam. MUSIC. = Track: Kisma We Are [NCS Release]. Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds.. Watch: https://youtu.be/WfluodjOkOk. Licensed under Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0. = Video by Nate Woodbury. BeTheHeroStudios.com. http://YouTube.com/c/NateWoodbury. #LiveOnPurpose. #PositiveParenting. #Positivity
View full lesson: http://ed.ted.com/lessons/3-tips-to-boost-your-confidence-ted-ed. Made in partnership with the Always #LikeAGirl campaign.. When faced with a big challenge where potential failure seems to lurk at every corner, you’ve probably heard the advice, “Be more confident!” But where does confidence come from, and how can you get more of it? Here are three easy tips to boost your confidence.. Lesson by TED-Ed, animation by Kozmonot Animation Studio.
A classroom’s appearance, and how it is decorated, can also affect academic performance, Sapna Cheryan, of the University of Washington, and colleagues noted. For example, classroom objects that depict the success of groups who traditionally face educational barriers (for example, photos of women scientists) can boost school. Being healthy obviously makes a big difference in how your child functions at school, but the most significant ways to boost their performance stem from the ways in which they spend their free time.
3. Spend more time with your child than they spend with the television. The second factor is having high expectations of students, as well as teachers. High expectations of students have repeatedly been shown to have a positive impact on students’ performance.
More attention should be paid to high expectations of teachers. Taras notes that some children simply do not get enough to eat. When children do not consume enough food, it can affect a child’s ability to learn, a factor stated in numerous studies.
Taras maintains a healthy breakfast is an effective means to improve academic performance and cognitive functioning among undernourished kids. Studies show that children with asthma under the care of an allergist have a 77% reduction in lost time from school. Make an appointment with your child’s teacher and/or school administrator to. It has been shown many times over in research studies that a parent who is involved in their child’s education has a positive impact. It’s reflected in improved grades and test scores, strong attendance, a higher rate of homework completion, higher graduation rates, improved attitudes and behaviors in the child, as well as the child being more likely to become involved in positive.
Pals play an enormous part of our kids’ self-esteem, and research also reveals that who our kids befriend can affect their study habits and their overall academic success. The truth of the matter is that peer pressure can have both positive and negative consequences on a child’s education. If your child chooses friends who. Student learning can be positively impacted by the encouragement of teachers to their students.
A teacher’s influence, ideas and expectations of his or her students’ capabilities have an effect on student academic performance and achievements. If teachers believe in their students, their students begin to believe. Funding has a significant impact on student performance. A lack of funding typically leads to larger class sizes as well as less technology and curriculum materials, and the more students a teacher has, the less attention they can pay to individual students. Sibling bullying can affect self-esteem and cause emotional problems like hopelessness, loneliness, and even depression.
These, then can cause a child to struggle in school, as they aren’t able to focus on their work. This is a short list of problems that may affect your child’s learning abilities and performance at school.
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Once their children enter school, they continue the early pattern of stress on individual achievement – in sports, extracurricular activities, and academic work.
If your child is doing poorly in school, these kinds of activities may be a wonderful outlet for him to receive praise in another area, or they may be just another setting in which he has to prove himself.
These inferences, in turn, should affect parents’ expectations for their children’s future performance in these activities and should affect the opportunities these parents give their children to develop skills in these various activity domains.
In contrast, parents can negatively affect their children’s academic competence and achievement through such behaviors as providing rewards extrinsic to academic tasks, making unrealistic demands, avoiding conflict arising from learning expectations, and not valuing selfdirected learning (Borkowski & Thorpe, 1994).
Teachers also may notice that your child is participating more in daily activities and that her nonverbal communication (for example, pointing and other gesturing) has increased in the classroom.
The results from the analyses presented in Parents, Their Children, and Schools (Schneider & Coleman, 1993) suggested that family activities outside of school were more beneficial for children’s academic performance than parents’ involvement in activities at the school, such as joining the PTA or volunteering.
Will this, too, teach children to read their traits from their performance so that, even though they might feel wonderful at the time, they will later read negative traits when they display poor performance?
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The people disliking the video must be of fixed mindset. Success has no shortcuts, so stop believing a video would make a difference in your life in a single day. Live the teachings of the video on a daily basis.
I don’t believe tv have an effect in children’s performance in school. At an very young age, I love watching television but I excelled in math and science. Now I’m studying engineering.
Your channel has and is truly help me with raising my 13 year old daughter who lost her father to suicide 2.5 years ago. I’m finally getting thru now that I’m working ON ME. She said on the phone to me, ‘Mom why are you being so nice? Keep doing it, I like it’ and then proceeded to listen to me for 45 minutes talk about Jonah and prayer and the Lord in general. Every day things are getting better and her respect level for me is going up now that I’m not allowing myself to show any anger or frustration. When I don’t give in to her attitude, she gives up and then talks to me openly and we usually end up having a wonderful convo
What about a newly adult child (18,19) that still lives in ur house but is disrespectful to the point they curse out their mom daily… won’t work toward education goals and is just plain lazy… Refuses to get a job and keep it longer then a few weeks.. My god friend and neighbor is goin thru this.. Apparently there’s a lot of resentment over moms attention to a special needs sibling that required a lot of care.(The sibling had a congenital heart condition and autism)
I don’t see how checking homework is the same as being authoritarian. If anything, it shows your child you want to be involve in the things they do especially something as important as school. And nothing is wrong with watching T.V. it’s how, when, and what programs they watch that matters. And there needs to be some kind of discipline, not sure if spanking and yelling helps reinforce it thought.
0:06 when you face with a big challenge 0:08 where potential failure seems to look at every corner 0:11 maybe you heard this advice before 0:13 “be more confident” 0:15 and most likely this is what you think when you hear it 0:19 “if only it were that simple” 0:21 but what is confidence? 0:23 take the belief that you are valuable, worthwhile, and capable
Growth and fixed mindset are pseudoscience. Interestingly when it said ‘it has been proven by neuroscientists’ it continues with ‘the connections in the brain do get stronger and grow with study and practice’, that is literally what happens when you learn, always. (Fatty rings around axons create better connections, because the electricity going through the axon can move faster and is less prone to interference is what they mean here) Having a mindset alone isn’t going to get you anywhere, but practicing itself is already wired in the brain to be a great way to improve. If you are a person to always try again, well yes, then of course you’ll finally succeed, bc you have the guts to try:) So I guess, get that mindset, but don’t forget to act on it continuously
It goes back to the intention and the heart that the parents performed the discipline in. We need to be realize that spanking can be done in a loving manner or in an abusive manner. But there is something about breaking the spirit of a child and parents who are detached. I think this is the root of many evils in our society.
When i face a challenge 1 i accept it confidently 2 self doubt 3 study n research too much 4 overthink 5 makes mistakes 6 work hard 7 completes it anyhow 8 i get awesome results����
Every Failure Is A Step Closer To Success you guys have no idea how much this has helped me. i need to compete in a short track competition and i know i will be embarrassed, but after watching this video, i have gained more confidence knowing that every failure is a step closer to success
I’m glad came across this video. It proves the essence of what I do as an educator not only builds relationships that last forever, but helps my kids learn in my present class and the classes they’ll embark upon in the future. Thanks!!!
Ha! Sure! So I even asked the sibling to relay what I needed done, then I watched the reaction. It was still an attitude with moving lips that I couldn’t hear. So what suggestions do you have for that?
My child was known as a good and respectful son. He reaches this age 24 no complain from me and from others. I dont know what seems to be the problem and he acted this rudeness on me. He gave me 2 dollars (100PhilippinePeso) everyday to support me and his sister for one whole day. I spend it very cautiously and it so happened he got mad at me for the reason that the another 10usd that he was given to her sister was also been spent without me knowing. And this was the main issue. He got mad for accusing me that i am not contented for the 2 dollars that was alloted as our daily expenses for our meal ( her sister and i)
I do not know where he is coming from. And i cannot believe he throw ill words to me. He almost pick his rubber shoe and aiming to hit me with that. And also he was telling me if i want him to do bit me like what her father was doing to me when that bitch is mad at me. I believe that i was raised him to be a good person and i was shocked that he acted that way. I have no way to do help him to understand that it is not true but he just listen to reply not to understand. I was so hurtful.i saw him like his father’s behavior. Im so saddened i experience it again after a year of being separated with his father. Shame on me. I failed.as a mother.
What about all those people who never have anxiety to talk to someone? Those who are so handsome and pretty that everyone is nice to them and they become popular? And those who don’t even have to study to get a better grade than me who studied?
It’s hard when you’re in a divorce situation and the disrespect is unacceptable so I’m so tired I’m her mom and I’m 56 she’s almost 15 and is going through a lot with her dad not being there for a couple of years due to a girlfriend now that she acted out with drugs he has come back in her life. I can’t even explain its so hard for me how she treats me. If I take her phone away she goes nuts called
parents please watch Rickey smiley message to kids who disrespect their parents AND dont let your kids keep you in bondage. Enough of sweet talk to this ungrateful GENERATION.
My mom spanked me almost every week when I was 6-10 years old, I learned discipline, honesty and respect. When my younger brother arrived it was the time TV advocated for no spanking, so they never spanked my brother, he turned out the opposite as I did. I was always top at class, he was at the bottom. I never asked my parents to buy me anything I knew they couldn’t afford, my brother demaned to have whatever his friends had. Anyways, spanking works! At least try to discipline your children.
1st time i watch this video..i am a mum if 4..i already try my best to be a gd mum..but….i always sit down n think back where did i do wrong until my kids rude to me..i sometime can cry bymeslf..should i ignore them until they say sorry..? Help me please..thanks..
i just watched in my class and this really helps i came to watch it again for better understand an i also subbed and liked your vid you guys boost my confidence
Hi we live you videos! Can you refer to a video if you made one of recommended consequences for 7 year old boy? If not can u help us with some ideas? Thanks
I guess I’m looking for help early in my journey. I worked with kids since I was 10 years old and thought parenting would be so easy, but no, parenting is hard. I have a 5 year old who is disrespectful and I have a hard time with consequences for him. I hear a lot that the “punishment should match the crime” but the only real privileges he has right now are screen time and desert. What do I do?
My parents screams at us alot my parents said one day that we are not the parents who let their child do that others do my friends wear cute clothes like hoodie, overalls,and so many I’m only wearing pant shirts and long dresses I hate these clothes. The only thing that will get rid of me is I will suicide one day or I wish I was DEAD I WILL WITH THESE PARENTS. OH GOD HELP ME. I WANT SOMEONE TO ADOPT E BUT IM TOO OLD. I DONT LIKE THEM.
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Bull fucking shit. Succeed can mean anytime from having a huge family or earning a million dollar salary or being peaceful and content with a min wage job or anything. Success is as subjective as peoples favorite color. Parenting also varies according to culture, social and economic class, political environment, education level and so on. Stop trying to shape your destiny. You cant. Just live. Whatever happen happen. Smile.
Most of this comment section is just people who think their specific case is the same for all people in the world and act like their the scientists like you have no data to back this up your just using personal anecdotes that might be made up to try and form a cohesive argument
Look people are not going to keep cheering you on in every aspect or any aspect of life, in the real world there will be alot of negativity and loads of people to pull you down. It’s how you turn that into positive reinforcement by yourself that matters.
How could you be stupid enough to believe you actually made those shots blindfolded when you missed them all the first time when you weren’t blind folded
Spanking is a huge hit and miss. Some kids desperately need their asses beat because they’re just bad kids. However, a lot of parents in the black community always resort to that as a first line of defense in combination with constant yelling and screaming. This is where tactics need to change because it’s really the only thing you see in most black families.
Spanking also makes them violent. For example, if you react violently when your child does something wrong. Then your child react violently when someone does something wrong to them. Setting your kids up for prison.
BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I WATCHED TV SINCE I WAS 3YR OLD AND I HAVE STRAIGHT A’s IN MATH, SO UN TRUE. BUT I THINK THAT WATCHING TV CAN HARM OHTER SUBJECTS THAT THE CHILD DOESNT LIKE READING BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
My parents are like this. While I turned out okay, I will not raise my kids this way. Just cause it works, doesn’t mean your kid will turn out great as an adult.
I used to to wacth tv when VERRY young and no it dod not lower my math i was the best acsually i allways get a avrage of 100% and i was rlly bad at english and when i strated wacth tv i get Alot better…
2:01 that’s where people go wrong, it’s “believe in your ability to IMPROVE” and not what most of us usually remember “believe that you are the best”, it takes practice and time to be the best, you can never know when you become the best.
I don’t see a problem with spanking, sometimes you need an instant punishment to let the kid know what he/she was wrong. What else are you supposed to do to a toddler, ground them?
Going to extremes either way will hinder a kids success in life if you don’t have rules and standards and punishments for them they grow up thinking they can do anything without consequences on the other hand if you try to dictate everything they say and do and you severe punishments when they don’t act accordingly all the time you will give them possible physical and mental damage which will also hinder their ability to survive as an adult
Theres a difference between spanking (Which my parents called a “whoopin”) and a beating. Spanking a kid will help alot if the cause was spank worthy. A beating is abuse where it’s unwarranted and that crosses the line. You need to know there’s consequences for actions. And they get worse when the action gets worse.
Some kids have their ears on their backs, some would say. IMHO spanking is only for those times that they become uncontrollable. Otherwise, it would probably be better if they understand why what they did was wrong.
Maybe we come from a generation where our parents WERE to hard on us. Then comes the generation where they aren’t hard at all. I had a hard childhood. I had to forgive ALOT. Had a controlling, authoritarian for a parent. I I loved the Military, it was easy. My teenage years were not good. Discipline is NECESSARY. Discipline with love and not frustration and anger. That’s all. Every kid is different. I spanked my boy once and he learned his lesson. I was so grateful. My daughter. Spanking does not work. So I have to use rewards method and a combination of other styles. Nothing is black and white people. Everything requires your thought and attention. THINK. THINK. Try something new if one style does work.
Wow it just explained south Asian parenting in 5 minutes. Every kid in South Asia goes through all of that in childhood. But I believe that it’s a good thing. Because once he gets past all that negative things and still have a more broader and matured outlook in life….. That kids golden. It’s like they’re rough diamonds in the making. You endure that shit and still be positive than you my friend are a force to be reckoned with.
Im 17 years old, and i rather get hit any day, then have her tell me for a good 30 minutes how disappointed she is in me. Thats the worst, wtf does hitting do? Ill still go out and do the same shit if i want to. But when she gives me that talk, thats what gets a nigga up at night rethinking his life and moves ����
This is exactly what i needed! Thanks so much. Tho i got to ask how can i get my wife to stop letting her negative feelings control her behavior even at me.
My parents were strict, authoritarian parents who beat me and my siblings. How do you think we turned out? My older brother is in his early 30s and is single, living at home, and works at a distribution center for a grocery store. My older sister is working as a glorified bookkeeper, living in a small, messy apartment with her deadbeat boyfriend. I’m the “successful” one. I’m in my final year of college to be a high school teacher. The only reason I’m the “successful” one is because I have a career plan, no shitty boyfriend, and actually want to move out (to get away from my shitty parents). So, tell me, does authoritarian parenting work? Because it didn’t work for us.
The comment section 60% authoritarian parents 20% adults who say that these methods helped them 20% racist dickbags saying that All Asian parents are authoritarian
This is basically every parent from Asia… Those people are fucken crazy about raising their kids. I guess that’s why Japan has a ridiculous number of virgins and stay at home deadbeats… They were never able to develope properly and depend solely on their parents. I worked in Japan for 3 years and it is amazing how many guys stay at home in their late 30’s and even 40’s without ever having a relationship. They get room service and everything done for them at such an old age. It’s really disturbing, not to mention some kids sleep with their parents till they are well into their teens.
Studies have shown that parents who murder their children have children who are less likely to succeed. This can be attributed to the fact that those children were murdered.
This is why I learn alone and be selfish. Why should I being thankful if some of the more important skills in life did not inherit or came from parents or something?
This is like when the jerk gets more girls while a nice guy (obviously from a shitty parent club) are less dominant and less successful.
The First Issue, Authoritarian Parents, confused me a bit. I thought that Parents helping their kids with homework, including checking the homework, helped the kids a lot. Perhaps this video implies that Authoritarian Parents are hypercritical and put too much pressure on their kids and frighten them out of creativity and intuition.
I was a victim for most of these and now I’m the most succeeding person in my family. I ignore all negative things in life, work hard and try to reach the light in darkness.
My dad was strict af, but it made me fit in naturally in the military where questioning commands is foolish. Other work positions I’ve had where unquestioned obedience to a dick boss actually paid off immensely. Most kids raised the way shown in this video become soft and lack perseverance.
The basketball master’s ability to win by trying to have no involvement in the offences. The game within the game. Reverse engineering the game with a wise star players tricking the defence. A dud, fake, or diversion on the floor the whole game.
How living in a non supportive and destructive environment killed my ability to sing and chopped my ability to dream. I knew it, but the confirmation is pretty painful
That is not negative reinforcement. It is positive punishment.
Reinforcement strengthens a behavior. Negative, in the case of behavior change, means something affecting the behavior is removed.
The boos were added, so that’s positive. They did not strengthen the behavior, so that is not reinforcement, but punishment.
Brain Games, please correct this error.
It helps to think of the positive and negative in terms of charges. A positive charge has a plus sign. Plus means add. A negative charge has a minus sign. Minus means subtract or remove.
Not to be a hater or disbeliever, but that is not necessarily causation, it may correlation. The more shots she takes, the better she gets, this is something normal
That last shot was definitely missed on purpose, bball isnt a great way to demonstrate the point there’re trying to make, personally I enjoy people doubting me when I shoot in practice or games, but maybe that’s just me.
My child starting to talk back at me, and can’t stand my husband talking to me she wants all the attention all the time. Her latest phrase when you don’t do something she wants you don’t love me”! Help, I don’t want to slap her like my parents did, but I am trying the nice calming side and it seems to not work
There was an error in terminology. It was not negative reinforcement that decreased his accuracy, it was positive punishment. Reinforcement will only increase responding never decrease it. Negative reinforcement is when you remove something aversive to increase responding.
Negative crowd, more like jealous group of people. No mater how good you play, inside they pray desperately for you to miss. Every practicing sports person will find these kind of people whether in your neighborhood or in a stadium, even in school.
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In spite of negative reinforcement, we need to focus on positive sides if we want to make it because there’s so many things to overcome in the world. Everybody around you can’t cheer you up all the time. If there’s no one to do that, you gotta give yourself positive reinforcement. Anyway, no doubt that positive reinforcement will help you do better as shown in the video.
Like so many others, I have been positively influenced by many educators, but, the one that stands out the most for me is my fourth grade teacher. She was very dynamic and engaging, and cared about us as individuals as well as a class. This teacher acknowledged and praised my work on reading and writing assignments and as a shy student, this really boosted my confidence. I credit her with my life long interest in reading and writing. I would also notice her giving feedback to other students in different subjects/projects. I relate this experience to Rita Pierson’s message and the mantra she would motivate her students with, “I am somebody. I was somebody when I came, I’ll be a better somebody when I leave. I am powerful, I am strong.” Pierson is telling her students she cares about them, she is there for them, and she will continue to be there for them to support and encourage them. It’s an important message about creating relationships with all students and about creating a welcoming classroom environment.
Learning should be joyful experience. Without connection you can’t involve students in learning process. Let’s prepare our students to face 21st century chaleges.
Our admin sent us here to watch this however all our class sizes are too big to make really good connections with all the students. Also admin does little to support the teachers with disruptive students, or the students that assault other students and even teachers.
I was brought up to ‘know my place’. I was always respectful to my parents while growing up in the ’50s and this continued when I was an adult. My youngest daughter however, is disrespectful to my husband and I. She has used foul language to me and also gave us silent treatment last year for 7 months. She married a passive aggressive who has alot of ‘issues’. She has stopped our 2 grandsons visiting us. More recently she stormed off 2 weeks ago because I asked her why she told my grandson not to say ‘goodbye ‘ to his grandfather because he stayed in his study when he had ‘flu symptoms, she is very controlling, I cannot just forgive her easily. Please help
Research shows that students who feel safe and supported by adults at school are better able to learn. Yes I agree, so why are districts cutting the lowest paid staff that are the closest to the students? District continue to pay the administrators 6 figures and those admin never interact with the students. I don’t get it.
The teachers don’t care and a lot of the time they think they’re helping when they put us in groups or call us up to answer a question. they think we are lazy and unmotivated, they think we aren’t listening when it’s hard for us to make eye contact.
The people disliking the video must be of fixed mindset. Success has no shortcuts, so stop believing a video would make a difference in your life in a single day. Live the teachings of the video on a daily basis.
I don’t believe tv have an effect in children’s performance in school. At an very young age, I love watching television but I excelled in math and science. Now I’m studying engineering.
Your channel has and is truly help me with raising my 13 year old daughter who lost her father to suicide 2.5 years ago. I’m finally getting thru now that I’m working ON ME. She said on the phone to me, ‘Mom why are you being so nice? Keep doing it, I like it’ and then proceeded to listen to me for 45 minutes talk about Jonah and prayer and the Lord in general. Every day things are getting better and her respect level for me is going up now that I’m not allowing myself to show any anger or frustration. When I don’t give in to her attitude, she gives up and then talks to me openly and we usually end up having a wonderful convo
What about a newly adult child (18,19) that still lives in ur house but is disrespectful to the point they curse out their mom daily… won’t work toward education goals and is just plain lazy… Refuses to get a job and keep it longer then a few weeks..
My god friend and neighbor is goin thru this.. Apparently there’s a lot of resentment over moms attention to a special needs sibling that required a lot of care.(The sibling had a congenital heart condition and autism)
here coz of my online classes but for Pete’s sAKE! I’ve watched this before HAHA. i love ted ed videos so much that i binge watch them lol
I don’t see how checking homework is the same as being authoritarian. If anything, it shows your child you want to be involve in the things they do especially something as important as school. And nothing is wrong with watching T.V. it’s how, when, and what programs they watch that matters. And there needs to be some kind of discipline, not sure if spanking and yelling helps reinforce it thought.
Confidence is the ability which helps you to overcome all your challenge and obstacles in your life. so never loose your confidence.
0:06 when you face with a big challenge
0:08 where potential failure seems to look at every corner
0:11 maybe you heard this advice before
0:13 “be more confident”
0:15 and most likely this is what you think when you hear it
0:19 “if only it were that simple”
0:21 but what is confidence?
0:23 take the belief that you are valuable, worthwhile, and capable
Growth and fixed mindset are pseudoscience. Interestingly when it said ‘it has been proven by neuroscientists’ it continues with ‘the connections in the brain do get stronger and grow with study and practice’, that is literally what happens when you learn, always. (Fatty rings around axons create better connections, because the electricity going through the axon can move faster and is less prone to interference is what they mean here) Having a mindset alone isn’t going to get you anywhere, but practicing itself is already wired in the brain to be a great way to improve. If you are a person to always try again, well yes, then of course you’ll finally succeed, bc you have the guts to try:) So I guess, get that mindset, but don’t forget to act on it continuously
Confidence is an ongoing practice. As life changes, so does your confidence. I believe it’s an aspect of our wellbeing and It needs to be nurtured.
It goes back to the intention and the heart that the parents performed the discipline in. We need to be realize that spanking can be done in a loving manner or in an abusive manner. But there is something about breaking the spirit of a child and parents who are detached. I think this is the root of many evils in our society.
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you guys have no idea how much this has helped me. i need to compete in a short track competition and i know i will be embarrassed, but after watching this video, i have gained more confidence knowing that every failure is a step closer to success
I’m glad came across this video. It proves the essence of what I do as an educator not only builds relationships that last forever, but helps my kids learn in my present class and the classes they’ll embark upon in the future. Thanks!!!
Ha! Sure! So I even asked the sibling to relay what I needed done, then I watched the reaction. It was still an attitude with moving lips that I couldn’t hear. So what suggestions do you have for that?
My child was known as a good and respectful son. He reaches this age 24 no complain from me and from others. I dont know what seems to be the problem and he acted this rudeness on me. He gave me 2 dollars (100PhilippinePeso) everyday to support me and his sister for one whole day. I spend it very cautiously and it so happened he got mad at me for the reason that the another 10usd that he was given to her sister was also been spent without me knowing. And this was the main issue. He got mad for accusing me that i am not contented for the 2 dollars that was alloted as our daily expenses for our meal ( her sister and i)
I do not know where he is coming from. And i cannot believe he throw ill words to me. He almost pick his rubber shoe and aiming to hit me with that. And also he was telling me if i want him to do bit me like what her father was doing to me when that bitch is mad at me. I believe that i was raised him to be a good person and i was shocked that he acted that way. I have no way to do help him to understand that it is not true but he just listen to reply not to understand. I was so hurtful.i saw him like his father’s behavior. Im so saddened i experience it again after a year of being separated with his father. Shame on me. I failed.as a mother.
What about all those people who never have anxiety to talk to someone? Those who are so handsome and pretty that everyone is nice to them and they become popular? And those who don’t even have to study to get a better grade than me who studied?
How do I become like them? I really want to know…
It’s hard when you’re in a divorce situation and the disrespect is unacceptable so I’m so tired I’m her mom and I’m 56 she’s almost 15 and is going through a lot with her dad not being there for a couple of years due to a girlfriend now that she acted out with drugs he has come back in her life. I can’t even explain its so hard for me how she treats me. If I take her phone away she goes nuts called
parents please watch Rickey smiley message to kids who disrespect their parents AND dont let your kids keep you in bondage. Enough of sweet talk to this ungrateful GENERATION.
My mom spanked me almost every week when I was 6-10 years old, I learned discipline, honesty and respect. When my younger brother arrived it was the time TV advocated for no spanking, so they never spanked my brother, he turned out the opposite as I did. I was always top at class, he was at the bottom. I never asked my parents to buy me anything I knew they couldn’t afford, my brother demaned to have whatever his friends had. Anyways, spanking works! At least try to discipline your children.
1st time i watch this video..i am a mum if 4..i already try my best to be a gd mum..but….i always sit down n think back where did i do wrong until my kids rude to me..i sometime can cry bymeslf..should i ignore them until they say sorry..? Help me please..thanks..
I have very VERY low self esteem. I had a hard time asking my cousin’s girlfriend if I could go the the bathroom cause i was too afraid.
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i just watched in my class and this really helps i came to watch it again for better understand an i also subbed and liked your vid you guys boost my confidence
Hi we live you videos! Can you refer to a video if you made one of recommended consequences for 7 year old boy? If not can u help us with some ideas? Thanks
I guess I’m looking for help early in my journey. I worked with kids since I was 10 years old and thought parenting would be so easy, but no, parenting is hard. I have a 5 year old who is disrespectful and I have a hard time with consequences for him. I hear a lot that the “punishment should match the crime” but the only real privileges he has right now are screen time and desert. What do I do?
My parents screams at us alot my parents said one day that we are not the parents who let their child do that others do my friends wear cute clothes like hoodie, overalls,and so many I’m only wearing pant shirts and long dresses I hate these clothes. The only thing that will get rid of me is I will suicide one day or I wish I was DEAD I WILL WITH THESE PARENTS. OH GOD HELP ME. I WANT SOMEONE TO ADOPT E BUT IM TOO OLD. I DONT LIKE THEM.
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Bull fucking shit. Succeed can mean anytime from having a huge family or earning a million dollar salary or being peaceful and content with a min wage job or anything. Success is as subjective as peoples favorite color. Parenting also varies according to culture, social and economic class, political environment, education level and so on. Stop trying to shape your destiny. You cant. Just live. Whatever happen happen. Smile.
Most of this comment section is just people who think their specific case is the same for all people in the world and act like their the scientists like you have no data to back this up your just using personal anecdotes that might be made up to try and form a cohesive argument
Look people are not going to keep cheering you on in every aspect or any aspect of life, in the real world there will be alot of negativity and loads of people to pull you down. It’s how you turn that into positive reinforcement by yourself that matters.
How could you be stupid enough to believe you actually made those shots blindfolded when you missed them all the first time when you weren’t blind folded
Spanking is a huge hit and miss. Some kids desperately need their asses beat because they’re just bad kids. However, a lot of parents in the black community always resort to that as a first line of defense in combination with constant yelling and screaming. This is where tactics need to change because it’s really the only thing you see in most black families.
Spanking also makes them violent. For example, if you react violently when your child does something wrong. Then your child react violently when someone does something wrong to them. Setting your kids up for prison.
Disciple the kids to be submissive, once they start obeying you after grade 5 they will keep obeying so u can stop beating the shit out of kids
BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I WATCHED TV SINCE I WAS 3YR OLD AND I HAVE STRAIGHT A’s IN MATH, SO UN TRUE. BUT I THINK THAT WATCHING TV CAN HARM OHTER SUBJECTS THAT THE CHILD DOESNT LIKE READING BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
My parents are like this. While I turned out okay, I will not raise my kids this way. Just cause it works, doesn’t mean your kid will turn out great as an adult.
I used to to wacth tv when VERRY young and no it dod not lower my math i was the best acsually i allways get a avrage of 100% and i was rlly bad at english and when i strated wacth tv i get Alot better…
2:01 that’s where people go wrong, it’s “believe in your ability to IMPROVE” and not what most of us usually remember “believe that you are the best”, it takes practice and time to be the best, you can never know when you become the best.
I don’t see a problem with spanking, sometimes you need an instant punishment to let the kid know what he/she was wrong. What else are you supposed to do to a toddler, ground them?
Going to extremes either way will hinder a kids success in life if you don’t have rules and standards and punishments for them they grow up thinking they can do anything without consequences on the other hand if you try to dictate everything they say and do and you severe punishments when they don’t act accordingly all the time you will give them possible physical and mental damage which will also hinder their ability to survive as an adult
Theres a difference between spanking (Which my parents called a “whoopin”) and a beating. Spanking a kid will help alot if the cause was spank worthy. A beating is abuse where it’s unwarranted and that crosses the line. You need to know there’s consequences for actions. And they get worse when the action gets worse.
Some kids have their ears on their backs, some would say. IMHO spanking is only for those times that they become uncontrollable. Otherwise, it would probably be better if they understand why what they did was wrong.
Maybe we come from a generation where our parents WERE to hard on us. Then comes the generation where they aren’t hard at all. I had a hard childhood. I had to forgive ALOT. Had a controlling, authoritarian for a parent. I I loved the Military, it was easy. My teenage years were not good. Discipline is NECESSARY. Discipline with love and not frustration and anger. That’s all. Every kid is different. I spanked my boy once and he learned his lesson. I was so grateful. My daughter. Spanking does not work. So I have to use rewards method and a combination of other styles. Nothing is black and white people. Everything requires your thought and attention. THINK. THINK. Try something new if one style does work.
Wow it just explained south Asian parenting in 5 minutes. Every kid in South Asia goes through all of that in childhood. But I believe that it’s a good thing. Because once he gets past all that negative things and still have a more broader and matured outlook in life….. That kids golden. It’s like they’re rough diamonds in the making. You endure that shit and still be positive than you my friend are a force to be reckoned with.
Im 17 years old, and i rather get hit any day, then have her tell me for a good 30 minutes how disappointed she is in me. Thats the worst, wtf does hitting do? Ill still go out and do the same shit if i want to. But when she gives me that talk, thats what gets a nigga up at night rethinking his life and moves ����
This is exactly what i needed! Thanks so much. Tho i got to ask how can i get my wife to stop letting her negative feelings control her behavior even at me.
My parents were strict, authoritarian parents who beat me and my siblings. How do you think we turned out?
My older brother is in his early 30s and is single, living at home, and works at a distribution center for a grocery store.
My older sister is working as a glorified bookkeeper, living in a small, messy apartment with her deadbeat boyfriend.
I’m the “successful” one. I’m in my final year of college to be a high school teacher. The only reason I’m the “successful” one is because I have a career plan, no shitty boyfriend, and actually want to move out (to get away from my shitty parents).
So, tell me, does authoritarian parenting work? Because it didn’t work for us.
The comment section
60% authoritarian parents
20% adults who say that these methods helped them
20% racist dickbags saying that All Asian parents are authoritarian
This is basically every parent from Asia… Those people are fucken crazy about raising their kids. I guess that’s why Japan has a ridiculous number of virgins and stay at home deadbeats… They were never able to develope properly and depend solely on their parents. I worked in Japan for 3 years and it is amazing how many guys stay at home in their late 30’s and even 40’s without ever having a relationship. They get room service and everything done for them at such an old age. It’s really disturbing, not to mention some kids sleep with their parents till they are well into their teens.
Studies have shown that parents who murder their children have children who are less likely to succeed. This can be attributed to the fact that those children were murdered.
This is why I learn alone and be selfish. Why should I being thankful if some of the more important skills in life did not inherit or came from parents or something?
This is like when the jerk gets more girls while a nice guy (obviously from a shitty parent club) are less dominant and less successful.
The First Issue, Authoritarian Parents, confused me a bit. I thought that Parents helping their kids with homework, including checking the homework, helped the kids a lot. Perhaps this video implies that Authoritarian Parents are hypercritical and put too much pressure on their kids and frighten them out of creativity and intuition.
I was a victim for most of these and now I’m the most succeeding person in my family. I ignore all negative things in life, work hard and try to reach the light in darkness.
My dad was strict af, but it made me fit in naturally in the military where questioning commands is foolish. Other work positions I’ve had where unquestioned obedience to a dick boss actually paid off immensely. Most kids raised the way shown in this video become soft and lack perseverance.
The basketball master’s ability to win by trying to have no involvement in the offences. The game within the game. Reverse engineering the game with a wise star players tricking the defence. A dud, fake, or diversion on the floor the whole game.
How living in a non supportive and destructive environment killed my ability to sing and chopped my ability to dream.
I knew it, but the confirmation is pretty painful
That is not negative reinforcement. It is positive punishment.
Reinforcement strengthens a behavior.
Negative, in the case of behavior change, means something affecting the behavior is removed.
The boos were added, so that’s positive.
They did not strengthen the behavior, so that is not reinforcement, but punishment.
Brain Games, please correct this error.
It helps to think of the positive and negative in terms of charges. A positive charge has a plus sign. Plus means add. A negative charge has a minus sign. Minus means subtract or remove.
He’s using mental resources to inhibit his desire to savage the crowd, an unusual division of attention, which reduces motor control!
Not to be a hater or disbeliever, but that is not necessarily causation, it may correlation. The more shots she takes, the better she gets, this is something normal
That last shot was definitely missed on purpose, bball isnt a great way to demonstrate the point there’re trying to make, personally I enjoy people doubting me when I shoot in practice or games, but maybe that’s just me.
Negativity rubs off. I stopped hanging out with all negative people and I have been more successful in 3 years than all of those years combined.
My child starting to talk back at me, and can’t stand my husband talking to me she wants all the attention all the time. Her latest phrase when you don’t do something she wants you don’t love me”! Help, I don’t want to slap her like my parents did, but I am trying the nice calming side and it seems to not work
There was an error in terminology. It was not negative reinforcement that decreased his accuracy, it was positive punishment. Reinforcement will only increase responding never decrease it. Negative reinforcement is when you remove something aversive to increase responding.
Negative crowd, more like jealous group of people. No mater how good you play, inside they pray desperately for you to miss. Every practicing sports person will find these kind of people whether in your neighborhood or in a stadium, even in school.
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In spite of negative reinforcement, we need to focus on positive sides if we want to make it because there’s so many things to overcome in the world. Everybody around you can’t cheer you up all the time. If there’s no one to do that, you gotta give yourself positive reinforcement. Anyway, no doubt that positive reinforcement will help you do better as shown in the video.
good relationships with the students is a very big impact to their lives.let them feel that they are loved. this is the most important.
Like so many others, I have been positively influenced by many educators, but, the one that stands out the most for me is my fourth grade teacher. She was very dynamic and engaging, and cared about us as individuals as well as a class. This teacher acknowledged and praised my work on reading and writing assignments and as a shy student, this really boosted my confidence. I credit her with my life long interest in reading and writing. I would also notice her giving feedback to other students in different subjects/projects.
I relate this experience to Rita Pierson’s message and the mantra she would motivate her students with, “I am somebody. I was somebody when I came, I’ll be a better somebody when I leave. I am powerful, I am strong.” Pierson is telling her students she cares about them, she is there for them, and she will continue to be there for them to support and encourage them. It’s an important message about creating relationships with all students and about creating a welcoming classroom environment.
Learning should be joyful experience. Without connection you can’t involve students in learning process. Let’s prepare our students to face 21st century chaleges.
Our admin sent us here to watch this however all our class sizes are too big to make really good connections with all the students. Also admin does little to support the teachers with disruptive students, or the students that assault other students and even teachers.
I was brought up to ‘know my place’. I was always respectful to my parents while growing up in the ’50s and this continued when I was an adult. My youngest daughter however, is disrespectful to my husband and I. She has used foul language to me and also gave us silent treatment last year for 7 months. She married a passive aggressive who has alot of ‘issues’.
She has stopped our 2 grandsons visiting us.
More recently she stormed off 2 weeks ago because I asked her why she told my grandson not to say ‘goodbye ‘ to his grandfather because he stayed in his study when he had ‘flu symptoms, she is very controlling,
I cannot just forgive her easily. Please help
Research shows that students who feel safe and supported by adults at school are better able to learn.
Yes I agree, so why are districts cutting the lowest paid staff that are the closest to the students? District continue to pay the administrators 6 figures and those admin never interact with the students. I don’t get it.
The teachers don’t care and a lot of the time they think they’re helping when they put us in groups or call us up to answer a question. they think we are lazy and unmotivated, they think we aren’t listening when it’s hard for us to make eye contact.