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MONDAY, May 14, 2018 (HealthDay News) Women looking for a husband tend to rule out flashy guys, a new study reports. But if she’s just in it for sex, a dude with bling will do. READ: Tips for Safe Online Dating. The study of more than 100 women found a man’s practical side carries more weight than bling for those deciding on a lifelong mate. The women seeking sperm donors cared about good genes more and partner potential less than women seeking life partners.

When strictly contemplating a. It turns out that behavioral science has some answers to offer based on careful empirical research, and perhaps not surprisingly, men and women want different things. In. In a new study, Todd and colleagues found that though individuals may claim otherwise, beauty is the key ingredient for men while women, the much. New research on what people find ‘desirable’ and ‘essential’ in a long-term partner is based on two of the largest national studies of mate preferences ever.

A new study found the trait they consider most appealing. A new study from the University of Swansea finds that kindness is the trait that college students prioritize most in a long-term partner. Women seek older mates with good financial prospects, higher status and ambition. “Because women bear the cost of pregnancy and lactation, they often faced the adaptive problem of acquiring resources to produce and support offspring, while men faced adaptive problems of identifying fertile partners and sought cues to fertility and future reproductive value,” Conroy-Beam said.

That study and the endless, mind-numbing studies of mate choice that followed all claimed that it must be in our genes for men to want young pretty women and women to want older established men. In the new study, published Wednesday in the journal Science Advances, Bruch and her colleagues analyzed thousands of messages exchanged on. Loving is the 13th most popular characteristic for women in their 30s, the 11th for women in their 40s, and 9th for women over 50.

All women love a good sense of humor Just like the men, women of all ages mention humor or a sense of humor as a top trait. And men who know how to have a good laugh or can make a women laugh are popular too.

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3.10), but no specific male trait appeared to predict mating success in this study.

“Sex, Color, and Mate Choice in Guppies” by Anne Houde
from Sex, Color, and Mate Choice in Guppies
by Anne Houde
Princeton University Press, 1997

These findings indicate that women seem to adjust their preferences on the basis of their own mate value.

“Oxford Handbook of Face Perception” by Andy Calder, Gillian Rhodes, Mark Johnson, Jim Haxby
from Oxford Handbook of Face Perception
by Andy Calder, Gillian Rhodes, et. al.
OUP Oxford, 2011

This study is important in supporting the ideas of evolutionary psychologists using a sample of individuals who were actually seeking a mate.

“The Social Psychology of Attraction and Romantic Relationships” by Madeleine A. Fugère, Jennifer P. Leszczynski, Alita J. Cousins
from The Social Psychology of Attraction and Romantic Relationships
by Madeleine A. Fugère, Jennifer P. Leszczynski, Alita J. Cousins
Palgrave Macmillan, 2014

Another study of human mate choices complicates this claim in ways even more relevant to Wharton’s story: according to the study, women who rate themselves as attractive expect more from potential mates, while women who do not think as highly of themselves expect less (Buss and Shackelford 134).

“The Oxford Handbook of American Literary Naturalism” by Keith Newlin
from The Oxford Handbook of American Literary Naturalism
by Keith Newlin
OUP USA, 2011

This study suggests that women may obtain information about the phenotypic quality of men by investigating their odors and faces.

“Hormones, Brain and Behavior Online” by Donald W Pfaff, Donald W. Pfaff
from Hormones, Brain and Behavior Online
by Donald W Pfaff, Donald W. Pfaff
Elsevier Science, 2002

Indeed, when the traits most desired in a mate are examined, no gender differences are found.80 Even according to evolutionary theory research, the important traits in a potential mate, for both men and women, are kindness and consideration.81 Studies done at a university and a dating club concurred.

“Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose” by Ayala Malakh-Pines
from Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose
by Ayala Malakh-Pines
Routledge, 2005

The central premise of this chapter—that women will respond preferentially to men displaying traits indicative of high mate value—does not imply that women consciously appraise men through the sharp eye of maternal pragmatism.

“The Adapted Mind: Evolutionary Psychology and the Generation of Culture” by Jerome H. Barkow, Leda Cosmides, John Tooby
from The Adapted Mind: Evolutionary Psychology and the Generation of Culture
by Jerome H. Barkow, Leda Cosmides, John Tooby
Oxford University Press, 1995

These results support the mate switching hypothesis—women who indicate that they have pursued short-term matings are more likely to cite problems with a partner as a rationale for an affair.

“Evolutionary Psychology: The New Science of the Mind” by David Buss
from Evolutionary Psychology: The New Science of the Mind
by David Buss
Taylor & Francis, 2015

The primary finding of the study, however, was that there were more cultural differences than sex differences in mate preferences, emphasizing how norms shape what is attractive in a mate.

“Psychology of Gender: Fifth Edition” by Vicki S. Helgeson
from Psychology of Gender: Fifth Edition
by Vicki S. Helgeson
Taylor & Francis, 2016

Here, I first describe research on the specifics of what women prefer in a mate, as well as the trade-offs they are willing to make when actually choosing a mate.

“Sex and Sexuality: Sexual function and dysfunction” by Richard D. McAnulty, M. Michele Burnette
from Sex and Sexuality: Sexual function and dysfunction
by Richard D. McAnulty, M. Michele Burnette
Praeger, 2006

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  • Mr. right does not want to get married it’s not a thing in today’s world thanks to entitlement in family court. Alimony, child support half his assets. No point for either to marry and it only favors woman in most cases when the marriage ends.

  • Very high status and hot man who adores me likes me cos of my massive boobs, cute face, being blonde and white and enjoys my dissident nazi white nationalist conservative views, my lack of fear, my philosophical insights, controversial views, level of wisdom, emotional capacity, and high morals. Yes l am good looking (above average in looks) but he can get hotter, but no one ever as interesting on so many levels, as me. I am very rare, a pretty face means nothing after awhile, some rich men want depth. I manifested him using LOA.

  • Fun fact: I have gotten many compliments by guys when I was wearing Tommy Hilfiger’s perfume “Tommy Girl”. They literally came up to me and said “wow you smell amazing” lol

  • Dating in college was a nightmare for me. 1st dategirl had a boyfriend and just wanted to hook up (I didn’t know and I didn’t go to her dorm because I had standards then) Never called her again. 2nd date she just had me pay for lunch, asked me in (middle of the dayhad to go to work, I said next time) then she ghosted me. 3rd date she hooks up with me and ghosts me. 4th date had me pay, teased me, insults me, and then ghosts me. It went on like that for a while. Me mostly avoiding hookups, desiring a real relationship but being ghosted. Eventually, all I wanted was to hookup and thennobody was interested in me anymore. It’s like not wanting to hookup was a turn on. Then I just gave up for years. Happily married now, but what an awful first impression of women.

  • Hi Anna, if a girl talks too much, you can always make the first moove and interrupt her with a kiss!
    Works almost every time! Just go for it, woman like that!

  • A friend mine who has seen it all in terms of models, beautiful ladies and stuff told me that for a really serious relationship or marriage His number one choice is a woman of peace. So I think calmness and peace is one reason a guy might go for the more seemingly less attractive woman.

  • I’ve never really thought about it. Do some women actually worry about this stuff? Should I be worrying? When I eat around my boyfriend is he really thinking ‘that fat pig’? ahhh.. paranoia!

  • You forgot the most important type of girl. The day one girl. The girl that stayed with the man as he was climbing up the social ladder. The one that was with him when he had nothing. Not these shallow harpies waiting at the finish line to be spoiled. I rather take a woman who is a 5 on looks, but have been to hell with me and back. When the chips are down, these are the type of woman that will stay with you.

  • Interesting. I’m totally clueless of dating myself and I’m a man. And no, i’m not so worried about money or what else involved far as dating, More like I’m just unsure which is the right woman for me than anything else. Because yeah, every woman loves a committed man who can provide, but I’ve yet to find one myself mostly because I’m just shy and don’t talk most issues other men concern themselves with. Which I’ve had bad experience of in the past from my father why.
    I’m sorry you came to understand men like this. True most will be what they are, but not all are the same. It’s like my mother used to say to me why: you just have to look for the right people until you find the right one for you.

  • I feel like insecure men choose unattractive women or sometimes with men, cheaters usually choose a woman that they feel wouldn’t cheat on them. I’ve seen this happen with a few couples.

  • Can we please have numbers for both sides?

    As in, the women who think of sex every 30 mins, AND those who either never think of it or avoid it and accuse their boyfriends of rape if they ask for a hug or kiss?

    Those who are uncomfortable eating in front of b/f’s AND those who refuse to be seen in public with them because they think their PARTNER is the hideous one?

    That way, I can calculate the odds of finding “The One” and the odds of meeting a woman that was like approx. 84% of my ex’s.

  • Never really understood the idea of abstinence before. First I thought it was about some misplaced religious ethical concern. Then, as some defensive excuse as to why you can’t get girls.

    But now, after two years of one night stands, friends with benefits and whatever else there is in between to essentially forget the love story that ended in cheating to monkey branching. I finally realized that it’s not about misplaced ethics or lack of competence in the dating arena. It’s about enlightenement.

    Every guy is out there chasing the next dopamine hit from an external source. Every girl is out there chasing the next dopamine hit from the next jester that can excite her vacuous mind.

    And not one is looking for the dopamine hits where they really come from. Themselves. The moment you step out of the hamster wheel you can’t help laugh at how pathetic the rats behave. And you know, you finally understand it.

  • It’s about POWER and SOVEREIGNTY, feminist and other women alike want power over men and what’s more powerful than making a man kissing your ass and making you feel like royalty. It’s a trick, a shadow on the wall, a wolf in sheep’s clothing because it requires less energy.

    I like to call this power struggle “the baby and parent struggle”, women and feminist alike want RAW power over men like a parent has over their babies and also want men to think like babies as in babies think they own the place and acts accordingly which sometimes works in the parent’s favor and parents use their raw power to correct the babies behavior when it doesn’t.

    It’s about power and the path of least resistance.

  • It’s not “benevolent sexism”; it’s simply looking out for someone who’s weaker than you (in this case, physically), which is something decent people do, regardless of gender.

  • In the words of THE MAN, THE MYTH & THE LEGEND, AL BUNDY, THE KING OF INSULTS

    “Don’t Try To Understand W*m3n, Only W*m3n understand W*m3n & They Hate Each Other”.

    Only when i turned 19 did I finally realize what he truly meant and how right he was.

  • One time I went to a coffee place with my boyfriend and when he got his card out to pay for our coffee, I literally grabbed it out of his hand and handed the lady mine instead �� The look on his face was priceless because of how I went about doing that. He’s so used to paying for everything, and I knew if I offered to pay he wouldn’t let me.

  • PS: I would also add that all the same observations you shared, apply to highly attractive women who marry plain looking men. All the same reasons apply to highly attractive women in uneven beauty-capital relationships, as well.

  • Every human being (male/female) wants to believe there is someone who cares for them. (Defends them, cares when they get sick, e.tc) I don’t think Ana’s story was feminism issue.
    Whoever man and women don’t have to use one another financially or take advantage of their sex

  • I have been shouted at for holding a door open. Not once or twice, but a few dozen times. Open a door for a woman today and you risk a complete mental breakdown, even if her hands are full. Sad to say, if I see one needing help, I keep walking.

  • Its obvious to me. Women are more delicate and oversensitive, its natural not sexist…Not understanding this is a lack of awareness in males, or denial in feminists.

  • Men have many insecurities.Yes beta males rised by single muns not havibg father model in their life makes them having no life skills.

  • This is all true, why?

    Because humans are not monogamous creatures, 1 man is intended by our creator to impregnate multiple females. The evidence is in our actions, and bodies. Large testicles provide the sperm, slow development of infants, woman care about being pretty, guys care about having power, and on and on.

    The truth is everywhere, can you see it?

  • Dear Ana: What a revelation! Thank you for giving me further insight into this mystery. One time, I was genuinely puzzled by an insanely attractive man who married a very plain (not unattractive, just plain) woman.

    But because I later discovered that the man was a narcissist, your video addressed my question in one shot: he wanted all the attention on himself.

    So now, that those two have divorced and are no longer together, I understand why it didn’t work out. More likely than not, the woman got fed up of being the side piece accessory to the narcissist.

    Good for her! I am always happy when women break free from disadvantageous circumstances and move on to better possibilities of life out there.

    So grateful for this video! It was fascinating! ❤

  • Life is complicated. Feminism isn’t nearly consistent enough to even begin to encapsulate all the variables involved. The term has become meaningless at this point.

  • Look at Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos neither of them married gorgeous women. Looks don’t always matter.Appearance matters in terms of being well groomed, well maintained & healthy not someone who walks of a Victoria Secret Runway.

  • Level up means own something be proud of yourself some girls tend to depend on rich men to do everything for them which is not cool you will end being an option or trap by the money so please ladies own something do something you are proud of so that you can be close to the man you are looking for

  • definitely agree with the safety, my first girl was extremely good looking she came to the gym with me 5 times a week to keep in shape. She definitely had a lot of options but chose me. But through time dating her it got very tiring she was very spoiled by society and she acted like she had a lot of options other than me which slowly got old since I had heaps of options too but chose her. Now I have a girl I would say is 6/10 when she wakes up most of my friends find her average but my attraction for her grows more and more. As she’s a good daughter to her parents, the most valued person in her friend group and extremely loyal.

  • 0:55 I am sorry, but I go to the gym and pump some iron before any date. I am also usually the one who looks better than the girl at the date. So why tf should I have to pay?

  • 0:55 xD really? Men also spend money on their clothes and cosmetics and haircut etc. What’s more is that noone is asking you for it so why you assume it should be taking into account? You look good, men treats you good so why won’t you count what men do for you but you count what you do for men? Is it one side relationship or what? If a man has to ride a car for you to go on a date are you taking into account that using this car and petrol costs money? Really your logic here is fucked up my lady

  • I used to talk to a pretty wealthy guy…he is older than me..he’s like In his 40s…I’m 26…i stopped talking to him when I met my bf:) he was kind of an asshole and he didn’t agree with my life or how I live my life…he was always putting my life down and said I should improve myself and my life and then I’d be able to attract guys…

  • 51yo here. Back in 1980 my Granddad told me this would happen, he said women did not self-reflect and thus in time men world get sick of the narcissism, ignorance, hybrids, rabid hypocrisy and arrogance. He was right!

  • So I have seen this before, but I had a few drinks and my inhibitions have been lowered. I can’t lie, this is not only true, but disappointing. With this said, most GOOD guy have left the scene, and it is the woman’s fault. I want to be clear, I’m not trying to hurt anyone… but seriously, with independence you girls NEED to figure out what U want!

  • I’m sorry Ana, but your example is ridiculous. If a someone is going to attack his wife then what is your husband expected to do not respond? If it was the other way around and someone was coming at your husband, I think your first instinct is to try to stop them. I don’t think Cenk or Ana understand what people mean when they talk about benevolent sexism.

  • my question is ‘what exactly is a plain or unattractive’ woman? I’ve always been puzzled by this, even as a kid. Is it more about whether someone pays attention to her looks, or her natural beauty?

  • I’ve noticed on TYT that you guys too often make mistakes reading something. At about 25 seconds Cenk reads something and says “attached” where the text says “attracted” and he never corrects it. This is not the first time I’ve seen this on TYT, and not just Cenk but also Ana. This is NOT good for your credibility because it makes people wonder ” what other mistakes are these people basing their analyses on?”

    YOU GOTTA START BEING MORE CAREFUL. They don’t do this on CNN or MSNBC, when they misspeak they CORRECT it. It makes it look like you guys aren’t paying attention, which is very bad for what you are trying to do.

    WISE UP GUYS!

  • Me and a friend had an idea for who pays the bill: whoever planned it (if you both collaborated then split) but if he/she can’t for reasons then you can. If you both can’t pay then don’t go out.

  • I’m married. I watch these videos for social etiquette purposes. I’ve always been a tomboy. These are very useful for socializing with women.

  • Everyone likes to be made to feel special (male or female). I am a man and capable of looking after myself but it is nice when a woman cooks for me or makes decisions on which clothes to buy for example. It works both ways.

  • Okay the concept of hoocking or “catching ” a man is not something I agree with. If a man wants you he wants you. Nomatter how you are. If he really wants you he will fight for you becauwe thats how man are if thes decide on something. No womam should try to “catch” a man because if his heart is not there he will leave. So dont settle for anything less than true commitment and desire from your partner.

  • OMG no wonder my husband never hardly says I smell good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love and only have tons of floral fragrances because I love it!Now I will be on the search for something he loves and I kind of like /:

  • @ilovetheview47 haha, don’t be silly. I knew I was gay before I knew the word for it. But because of societal pressures, I gave being straight the old college try. I can still say that the girl I lost my virginity to (not the same girl who pretended not to be hungry, though we got busy too) is still my best friend after 3 decades. We’ve even “double dated” since then, her with her husband & me with mine. We made a pact in high school to remain friends till our dying breaths.

  • I agree with most of their opinions and think they have really wellrounded view on feminism. But to add
    1. I think it is not a bad thing for humanity to become more egalitarian
    2. helping out i it is because you think the other gender is often too weak still feals wrong to me,
    3. Men should not have to feel like they ought to use chivalry because most women want’s to see strength. Many men want their wifes to be obideint, but in the same way women should no have to feel like they have to be obidient towards their men in their actions.

  • Of course, he brings up right wingers as not accepting facts, while in this case, natural gender roles is what right wingers don’t refute. I recall it was the leftist Marxist progressives that questioned and protested gender roles.

  • 1They’re insecure about themselves.
    2Jealousy issues.
    3He actually sees her as beautiful.
    4Has other preferences. Examples: intelligence, wisdom, caregiving, etc.
    5Prioritises her background and path in life.

  • It’s not a mystery. Attractive women don’t have a personality and they aren’t loyal. Simply put the women will always be looking for her next encounter. Also every man has to date down because every woman tends to date up.

  • there embarrassed because they are with someone, just to be with someone. no real connection or personality. that’s what we do now adays, its come to be like a goal at work or a quota: ‘must be in relationship’ (robot voice)

  • May be the so called less attractive girl has character and personality which is more attractive then self obsessed beautiful girl

  • Being born a man and growing up as a man is way different. The dating aspect is a small portion of this, important to many, but small.

  • @rafaravioli Honestly the sexiest woman I’ve ever met was one in the gym. Don’t get all silly, she wasn’t smoking hawt or toned she was just very tall and was exercising very very hard and was sweating up a storm. Her legs and mainly thighs looked phenomenal but completely I actually found myself just staring and it was personal concerning that I actually had to tell myself to look away, quietly but still out loud. But then I’ve always had a personal “soft spot” for very sexy legs.

  • Having a relationship with someone of the same gender helps you understand the opposite gender? No it just means you are not satisfied sexually or otherwise, with one gender. Simples!

  • Men aren’t afraid of approaching women because they’re less approachable. We’re afraid because if they aren’t into us, we get labelled as a creep/harraser.

  • Open doors for women I can say that 8/10 females will look at you weirdly like a bug. And 9/10 will never say anything even close to thanks. So worth opening doors for females…not much. It’s different if it’s relative/mother/gf/wife.

  • “I know this very discreet, highly exclusive little restaurant, would you care to join me although I feel it only proper to inform you that I do fart up a storm”

  • Why doesn’t it turn women on that we think about sex so often? Isn’t the concept of sex the core drive of any successful sentient being?

  • Omg I remember that assault, she was live streaming on Facebook and I got so scared… Glad she wasn’t alone. I hope one day men will stop assaulting women and we won’t need our partners to protect us anymore

  • ahh my girlfriend gets embaressed to eat certain things in front of me. She’s really self concious and paranoid about her weight and thinks that i would be less attracted to her if she eats and stuff. its just absurd and really sad and i tell her its alright etc etc but yeah im not surprised at this study.

  • Yeah idk…I want a wife and kids…but theres too many hoes out there…I’m probably gonna build my log cabin in the woods and marry mother nature lol

  • I love to cook and I love to eat what I cook. If my partner was uncomfortable eating in front of me, I would encourage her to get the fuck over it.

  • LOL..I feel the same way Ana. A friend of mine never eats when we are around guys, then when she is alone or around girls she eats. I asked her, and she just says shes not comfortable eat around guys. But, like u, i dont give a shit. if ur repulsed by my eating, get the fuck out of my face then.

  • I must say, I ONLY dated other women and have never had any of these issues. In fact, when I was dating my wife, I would have to race to pull my money out before she got to her wallet. And to this day, we always thank each other for paying for dinner (even though we already share finances). And when I went up to her barrack’s room for the first time, there was definitely some making out involved. I wonder if, in your situation, she was waiting for you to make the first move? Were the women you dated also bisexual? I have heard from my fellow lesbians that bisexuals can often carry over bad habits from dating men (like not paying for dates and expecting the other woman to adopt the “male role”). Being a woman-loving woman often requires unlearning a lot of the cultural expectations put on women (and men) by society, including the expectation that your partner must take care of you financially and initiate everything. When there’s no man around, you learn how to move heavy things on your own, open your own jars, repair your own plumbing, maintain your own house and car, protect your own property and loved ones. Just looking pretty doesn’t cut it anymore.

  • In your 20s, have as much fun with Mr Wrong and when you about yo hit 30, look for Mr Right to come and raise Mr Wrong’s bastards….

    Mr Right aka Real Man, where are you? It better not be any of the males around me, I’m dispensing them

  • Great Video! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you ever tried Sonsaiah Nonpareil Superiority (do a search on google)? It is a great one of a kind guide for attracting amazing ladies using this simple pheromone trick minus the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my friend at last got amazing success with it.

  • You’re genuinely a bad person, really you aren’t a good person. Men opened up to you and you just dismissed their issues? You really think that’s acceptable?

  • Insecurity seems like an unattractive trait in either men or women simply because you tend to stress people out in totally unnecessary ways which leads to resentment. I mean I think it’s cool and all that women have made it their MO to try and impress and be enticing to other people, but part of that is to keep the guy from looking at the hot chicks sitting at the other tables…let’s keep it real.

  • Just give up on physical relationships. S*x brings out the worst in both men and women anyway. If you’re desperate enough to be here (hey, I’m just being honest), it’s not going so well, but it might be a blessing in disguise. I gave up on the whole male-female thing when I had a religious conversion, and it was the best decision I ever made. I would add that before this, however, I never in my life was attracted by a scent. LOL

  • I swear the majority of relationship videos on youtube are made by women, and whether it’s feminists, pro marriage, pro single or whatever… the two common denominators remain… WOMEN ARE NEVER HAPPY! and WOMEN ARE ALWAYS COMPLAINING!

  • This is why complete equality doesn’t work and never will. Men and women are not supposed to be equal, biology and evolution didn’t design them that way, there is supposed to be a difference….

  • It is a BS argument that men should pay because women take time to “get ready”. First of all, I don’t even want for a woman to get ready. I want her to appear natural. so, telling this to a guy like me is like bringing him a wine that costs five dollars, and when the check arrives, saying it costs 500 because you added something that I didn’t even want in the wine.

  • Perhaps superficial isn’t the right word, but i like the sentiment of the comment. The point is women shouldn’t be concerned with these trivial matters, thinking that their PARTNERS will view them as superficial.

  • I would not be too concerned about what or how much they eat, but more about the way they eat. Not being able to use a knife and a fork at the same time really turns me off, although not quite as much as eating with your fingers.

  • Women who flirt or approach men first have serious personality problems. Guys, stay as far away as possible from such women. Trust me on that one.

  • What’s the first three things mother’s say to their daughters? How much he makes. Is he good looking how tall is he? Love is not at the top of the list and their lists are long. Father’s say to their sons is she pretty and a few other things. Not as much as women. Doesn’t take much to please a man. But women on the other hand…..

  • What does this have to do with Technology, Entertainment, or Design?? We all already know women love to complain and shirk responsibility.

  • Men have to realize that women are going to have sex with more than 1 guy in their life, and women have to realize that men are going to be attracted to other women even when they’re in a relationship with someone. That’s just the way it is, and all the anxiety in the world isn’t going to change it.

  • The butthurts in the comment.Well guess what,Women won’t stop being strong and independent now even if they stay single all their lives.That ship has sailed.

  • One quick note on this. The line I said “the amount of kisses promised didn’t equal the amount of kisses delivered” can be interpreted as problematic and I want to clarify that ANYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO REVOKE CONSENT AT ANY TIME. I just thought it was a funny thing to say, and was bummed that we didn’t make out cause she was very pretty & intelligent. However I am not entitled to anyone’s body, and they are free to not make out with my face if they don’t want to anymore. In this specific situation, I think we were both merely afraid to make the first move, but want to clarify for those who may take it in the way it isn’t intended to be: just a funny little line I thought of.

  • I’ma woman. I think about all the time!
    They’re just in denial. I’m a size 6 in Scotland & I eat all I want n’ like a pig & its loved!! Eating like a pig is cute ;p

  • Isn’t this what y’all wanted? Miss independent strong woman who don’t need no man? Isn’t this what you asked for? Then why are you complaining about not finding the “Right” Men?

  • beautifull women is a bad investment for 10 to 20 years, coz beauty faded.
    For fun is the best way without commitment, Love is a bussiness. money can buy beautiful girl to bed, its a fact, they cant cook, they dont like children, if its just for sex. Dont buy the Lamb if you only like to eat it. Most of the rich man dont have time for drama from a queen.

    And yes, beauty can be bought and carried home.

  • Wealthy or rich men can have it all so beauty is not an issue any more. What they want is a companion who they can talk to about anything and who will drive their passions and not waste their money on keeping up with your beauty.
    Let us face the reality, many women today look beautiful because of make up and plastic surgery. Which is a turn off for rich men. A man who is self made or even some family old money are very intelligent. Intelligent men like to keep company with people who are just as intelligent or higher. If he wants a wife whom he is going to live with and share a pillow he will want some one whose intelligence is same. So ladies while you try getting better on the outside, to keep a rich man invest in improving your mind or brain not body.
    Try spending money learning about his work, interests not just golf. Read widely so that when he wants to have a good debate or discussion you can keep up with him.
    Then when he wants something better outside he can pay for it.

  • Worst experience i had was a dinnerdate with a woman that didn’t exactly look like in her pictures. She was clean and all but certainly didn’t take that much time to prepare herself and ended up fiddling with her smartphone for about 90% of the date. The 10% we did talk was her bragging about her succesfull career and how much she earned and all but it’s still me who paid the check:) It’s true that i could have left early, but i was hungry so i ate my dinner mostly ignoring her. The next day she texted me stating that she really didn’t feel it. I just deleted her phonenumber and got on with my day. After this for 1st dates i only accepted to go for a drink somewhere before entirely quitting the dating scene. Nowadays i just go out with my friends which proves to be a way better investment of my time and money.

  • The reason they do not approach men is because they are weak and cannot handle any rejection. So they expect men, who are mentally stronger, to do the job and deal with rejection. There, I said it.

  • In my case it’s the reverse, I have been married to a below average belgian man for over 7 years which granted him citizenship in switzerland and my constant financial support here but little did I realize he had been cheating with my best friend, I confirmed my suspicions by contacting a dark hacker to hack his phone and provide me all necessary evidence to confront him. The hacker goes by this email: [email protected] Gmail. Com” and we are divorced.

  • Next there will be a survey showing that women are scared to fart in front of their partner. Jesus, tell me something I don’t know.

  • Don’t agree with this experiment, as it only gives you the perspective from a women vantage point. Because your being seen and treated as a woman not a man. To understand a man you have to approach it as a man, no short cuts allowed.

  • I’m sorry to say, Anna, but this is not equaling out to understanding men…. Just sympathizing with men in one specific area because of your shared experience in dating women.

  • You could have easily inferred this information.

    Women are just as lazy as any other human being so of course many of them are attracted to partners who are willing to pay for their life…

  • I think you said it all. But maybe the biggest factor is beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and if you get to know a person, even if they aren’t the most attractive person, you start seeing then through love goggles and that automatically makes them attractive. ��

  • I don’t give a fu.k how much time u use for make-up, dress or on gym. On date I half u pay half, unless u’re my girlfriend or an angel.

  • All the men in the comment section all remind me of guys I used to date and why I’m single now. And will happily remain so.
    Boys are asking what do you offer if you can’t do 50/50?
    Well what do you offer if I do it all on my own and now you expect me to do 50/50…which means I still work, pay bills, but now I have to tend to your sexual needs, added cooking, and cleaning.
    And if we were to get married in the future, you will expect me to continue to work, be your lover, take care of the household, and then be the main caregiver for any children we had?
    Yeah nah. 50/50 is only somewhat fair until kids come into play.
    There’s the whole physical bearing and childbirth, but also most men even in 2020 will not be the main caregiver or take even half of the caregiving role for a child.
    I’m not saying they don’t want to. this is just how it often turns out due to how the birth of a child and the type of care the child needs for the first few years of life works. The mother is usually the stronger bond parent.
    When women wanted equality we were talking about having the same rights and opportunities as men, because abuse and lack of autonomy was a thing women had to live with because of not having any other choice.
    We were not asking for equality to have to work as much as a man in the real world workforce, and then go home and work as the woman of the household.
    Men will preach that they do it all. Work, cook, clean, coparent, etc.
    But oftentimes don’t do it nearly enough to keep a household running the way a woman is trained to do since childhood.
    This is just the typical household. There are people outside the norm of course.
    But as far as the average man and woman relationship is concerned it makes sense that women look for providers. there are times in life where she will not be able to work or have to work less due to becoming a mother.
    So what y’all are really arguing when you say you want 50/50 is you want all the things a traditional woman provides in a relationship, but for her to also work and pay for half of a relationship/life while taking 60-70% of the workload to maintain the balance in home life.
    Then you wonder why women expect you to at least pay for dates you ask them out on…

  • What sort of ridiculous study is that? I mean, who would possibly propose a study on embarrassment related to eating in front of significant others?

  • TBH there’s allot of girls my age that are selling sugar walls and pictures on Snapchat, or they’re over weight, or the pretty ones are expecting a free meal.

  • @Villeneuve27 It hasn’t happened…yet, but the last time a woman shared my bed, she bled all over my sheets, my bed looking like a Dexter crime scene the next morning. *gags* Now that’s nasty.

  • My female co-workers describe themselves as “fiercely independent” and able to do anything a man can do. Yet, they always ask me to carry boxes paper to the copier.

  • At 1:11, left wing PC run amok where they are afraid to be identified with the language of they’re own discussion… They know what would happen to them…

  • Just because something is the case, does not mean it should be the case. We need to step up as a society and take responsibility for our words, actions and guiding principles. Cynical behaviorism isn’t gonna do it.

  • I’m really confused because I never made those kind of jokes (B). Are you sure that’s not just a you thing, and not a woman thing?

  • for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our lord and savior. take it up with God..

  • this video basicaly describe all the smells i like an i am a woman. an if a dude where smell like this i tots love it, but this post to be the opposite so uummmm im confussed help so all the smell like an attract me ssshhiitttt something wrong here what the the guy scents that post make girls like them then?????

  • I can’t believe people showed up just to hear this!! I like when she said my independent women make some noise and heard maybe 3 ����������

  • The worst part of this kind of behaviour is that it leads to binging when you don’t think anyone is looking both for eating and sex. How many guys out there are jacking it to porn in a 2nd window even now as they’re watching this? And how many women are face-stuffing a tub of ice-cream? Americans are fukd up like that, but I guess you consider it multi-tasking?

  • I went to meet up with this girl around 1am and she got mad that I was trying to get in her pants. Why would I go meet a girl at 1am just to talk?

  • I’ve always been bi and understood this. Just wait till girls use you as an experiment and are to embarrassed to be seen with you in public romantically

  • So… Girl dating girls gets to understand guys?, is this some kind of joke��, it’s completely off track….An interview with a guy would make way more Sense.

  • These stuck rich assholes should stay away from us plain girls. They should date someone as stuck up and superficial as themselves. I got bullied by assholes like that.

  • Alot of these comments sound sort of bitter. Why? Not all women are gold diggers guys c’mon. Give some of us some credit. Example, I was with my ex fiance 6 years. During that time he was promoted several times. I encouraged him to apply to jobs I knew he would excel at. Because he is hardworking and smart. His only downfall career wise was he was quite. I encouraged him to finish school. And he was almost graduated by the time we broke up. I paid 80% of the Bill’s. We bought a house and I paid the downpayment. Also bought him clothes for his job. Apparently he had to dress like a person making 45k a year in a 35k a year job. At least in the beginning. After 6 years together and one year engaged. He said he wasnt the” type a guy to want a marriage, he wasnt into communication and romance”. We went our separate ways and it really stung. But I’m glad we didnt get married. Yes I feel used. But I also know all men aren’t like this. Yes I will have bad dates when I’m ready to date. But there is no need to be bitter. It sounds like alot of these comments are from people holding on to baggage. Let’s let all this negativity go. And be happy. So when we meet a quality partner we all dont have to deal with so much negativity. We’ve all been hurt. Doesnt mean we have to walk around mad at strangers. I’m just trying to be optimistic about my future. I hope you guys are too.

  • Most plane janes are very attractive, it’s just that many don’t care to put in 30+ mins to get their hair and makeup game on fleek ontop of cordnate an outfit. Anyone can look good when they put in the effort, also I call bull on all women wanting a rich man, because I know that I myself don’t care how much a guy makes, so long as we have enough to live an ok life then ikc. What matters more is common values and the abblity to communicate with eachother in a healthy way.

  • Right wing men with security, and whom can make a living. Weak liberal beta male feminists are for weirdo women with smelly armpits and purple hair. That’s been my observation over the decades. Right wing are better looking too, I have no idea why.

  • The most miserable men are those without love, from a woman.
    Sometimes women do not realize a man will do any thing to please her if she love him.
    The trouble with us men, is hard to show love, that does n`t mean we are an Ogre.
    Women you have lot of power use it.

  • Well, I can only speak for myself. I personally think that dating or having fun with a woman who is hot is always jolly and well but I found myself falling for women who are not the barbie doll types. Natural looks, casual dress sense and someone who is normal is simply worthy of love because everything feels organic. Any man with a functioning brain rereading this would understand what I am talking to about. There are women who we only enjoy having sex with and there are women who we enjoy everything with. I don’t want to be seen walking around with a woman with fake boobs and fake plastic cover attached to her face. I want people to see me walking with my woman, my lady luck… not my slut

  • Maybe not the “average” girl was very lucky to catch a wealthy man but the wealthy man was lucky to catch someone who might not care about his wealth.

  • Watch your listing of the qualities that you have for mr. Right, he must being everything, but what are you bringing to the table?

  • This sounded great and I bet it totally works, but the fear of being looked at disgustedly or found unattractive and rejected to my face…outweighs the potential positive result ��

  • You can be super pretty physically but without brain, you’re plain and you will fade. You can be physically the plainest girl on Earth but if you’re intelligent, well mannered, and classy, you’re full of colours and it never fades.

    Also, sometimes insecure men picks “plain” looking women to be like, “My lady is better than yours.”

    I like your video. You’re very wise and you think from different angles.

  • Men like feminine women. Not masculine women. If a woman is a woman then it is very attractive to a man. Feminism makes women unattractive, masculine, non-feminine. Yikes!

  • Hello Ana. In my opinion once a lady has began her path towards self-imptovement and has put in the hours and effort into it that woman must carry on. Not just for the purpose or prospect of finding an affluent man, but mainly for herself.
    As per affluent men chosing plain women, I have a theory with regards to that. Perhaps an affluent man choses a “plain Jane”, as you so eloquently put it, is because he firstly likes some of the simpler things which that kind of women can provide for him. For instance the detachment from the complexity of the affluent world and daily lifestyle. Secondly because it may allow them to mould that woman and bring her into their/his world at his pace, but with a different or even fresh point of view, on her part, or look on his surroundings.
    A bit of a resemblance to the plot of “My Fair Lady” film. ��

  • So it’s a study on the response people gave to a question. Where was this question asked? In a nice romantic restaurant, or McDonalds?:):P

  • Because beauty can easily be purchased these days if you have money. When pretty much anyone can pay to look like a glamour model if they want, it’s suddenly a less valued commodity. Beauty is like an extra upgrade that any guy with money can buy for his partner. But you can’t pay for other things like intelligence, attitude, personality, work ethic, etc. They are either a good match or not. If a rich guy (or girl) has any sense, then they will keep quiet about being wealthy, find a partner that matches them on every other level but hasn’t been able to coast on their looks, then they can buy them those bigger boobs, tighter skin, nicer hair, tan, gym membership, dietician, whatever else later on.

  • I have heard stories that men also like very pleasant women. Even if they are unattractive, if they are giggly and very happy women, men tend to like that a lot. So inner beauty and happiness and thankfulness is very important as well. ❤️ A smile makes any woman shine. ���� (Very attractive to men) ����

  • Ambivalence and vanity may be as unsightly as the emotions they stir in the hearts of the poor men who tolerate them.

    Reciprocity, temperance, respect, loyalty, gratitude, fortitude, in summary;

    love is beautiful.

  • I think there is a lot to say for the way someone ‘moves’ I remember being crazy about a certain singer when I was younger, he wasn’t attractive at all, AT, ALL, but their was something in the way he moved. When I was still in school, there was this girl, she was homely and unattractive, but she was never without attention from a guy, I paid attention, curious as to what it was about her that deserved all this constant attention, and one day I figured it out, it was the way she moved, was very eye catching, sexy. I consider myself average looking but have never had trouble receiving attention from men who I thought were more attractive than myself, idk why. Perhaps I learned something from these two about movement.

  • Men and women shouldn’t be independent. That goes against human nature. Everyone needs love from friends, family, coworkers relationships….etc. America has ruined humans. If someone mentions the word ‘independent’, run!

  • We don’t care about Womens career and academic accomplishments. We want Women who are Feminine, co-operative and compliant, not Women who act aggressive, bossy and compete against us.

  • @Chriscom28 I think seriously has to be in the begining og the realationship but a few years after known each other is totally normal to eat together….there has to be something going on to feel shame to eat with your partner

  • Are there any deeper foundational principles that you can teach us beyond the surface level of materialism? Is our self worth only based on someone’s love for us?

  • @PeopleMustAct When i went to summer school there was a girl in my class who asked to use the bathroom like every 30 minutes… it was very mysterious…

  • HORRIBLE TALK!! Ladies please hear me out. DON’T take her advice because she clearly doesn’t understand how men think or how healthy successful relationships work. She’s basically suggesting you flirt with any guy you want and if he doesn’t act how or do what you want then just flirt with the next guy. As a Psychologist I would never delve into any of my clients stories, but I can’t count the number of times I’ve had women (both younger and older) come lost hurt brokenhearted and paranoid because of this same ideal that the Speaker has. It’s only great if it works and 9/10 it doesn’t. Please don’t put yourself through this.

  • I just don’t want people to think I’m not a weirdo based on my general presence, I can’t help that I’m awkward, I’m and engineer and have not had tons of experience talking to women, and most that I have had has shown me they are usually not interested in engines or firearms.

  • The problem is we assume that feminists and all the other kind of people who demand equal civil rights live in an equal world. We don’t since sexism is real and you have to face it 50 times a day so it weighs you down obviously you would want to be with someone who understands that fact. Just like if u have two kids and one is more bullied than the other, you will have to pay more attention to the bullied one. It’s not women like sexism when it suits them, they like someone who understands society treats them with sexism be more sympathetic to their experience as it is in the Now not as we want it to be. Since we live in the NOW but should try to aim for better future.

  • This was great, I’ve been looking for “50 most attractive women over 50” for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework (should be on google have a look )? Ive heard some great things about it and my neighbour got amazing success with it.

  • I’m no expert, but I went down the rabbit hole of learning about feminism from a historical, academic, and social media perspective (something I’m pretty sure most dudes don’t do), and it seems Ana by her own words doesn’t fit the modern definition of a feminist. Equality of opportunity was rejected for equality of outcome, she might be more egalitarian than she thinks.

  • I didn’t realize how much men hated women until I scrolled through these comments. I’m really just gonna continue to remain single and work on my finances. There is no point in trying to appease men that always think women are the problem. If you got your head on your shoulders and you know you’re loyal, devoted, and financially stable there is no need to tolerate such nonsense.

  • Always new studies of what turns women on, they can never figure it out. You dont have news articles every other year proclaiming theyve found what turns men on

  • The reason why some rich men marry some women that society does not approve is maybe because the woman worth something and the man knows he had an additional support and he is not going to be bankrupt in no time who will not want that type of partner

  • Apex Predators:

    Prehistoric era:Female Megalodon Shark, more powerful than the T Rex
    Now: Human Males, species killer, constant consumer and planet killer

  • Hi TYT, great video. Ana, I have even more respect for you with how truly honest you are about this. Most women, especially feminists women, would lie to the highest degree. I love honesty. great response Ana, and great topic both you Cenk and Ana. I will edit this and add that I think what was left out here is the sexuality of men and women. Heterosexual women specifically tend to desire strong men. Lesbians don’t, in fact Lesbian and Bisexual women tend to view any flirting or sexual influenced behavior towards women to be vile. A “strong man” flirting with women to most non hetero women is view as a negative.
    .
    Also, all Hetero men nurture strength to primarily attracted women, and so I don;t think that’s done out of being fake. They genuinely want to be strong, and genuinely want to attract women. Whats fake is when put on the act of this instead of making it be apart of their natural behavior.

  • Those plain women are likely more “wife material”. Most (95%) western women are in fact “concubines”… They are not, and never will be, wife material women. But it benefits no one to tell them this. This is too much truth for women’s ears. Western women are so self-absorbed and vapid offering nothing in the form wifely qualities and lack the self-reflection necessary to see it. Men won’t tell them because…how do you tell a person that they’ll never be worthy of what society has convinced them that they “deserve”??? Only anonymously…

  • I hate eating in front of people in general. I don’t have table manners since my lazy ass mom didn’t teach me shit. Once I’m chill with someone, they get to see me pig out, so it’s all good.

  • How i wish this video was posted before covid. This video is outdated, because in these times of uncertainty would need men more than ever, because men don’t need women any more, the game done changed

  • Wish I knew of her at sixteen I’ve been to finishing school but never thought to apply it in such clever ways. I was in Europe school for 5yrs.

  • @rafaravioli I gotta admit that sexual thoughts do cross my mind about every half hour while I’m awake. Lol But I’m 24 years old. Might be different 10 years from now when I’m past my hormonal peak.

  • @GiygasTheUnbound I am tired of false feminists (Those who turn feminism into man-hatred when before it was a noble and just cause for equal gender rights, and why I became an Egalitarianist instead of a chauvinist), and though I refuse to generalize, I am almost ready to look elsewhere instead of America for my next partner.

  • I know one who did such with a longtime on-and-off again gf after she got knocked up, and he was trying to do “the right thing.” Everyone knew she was trying to entrap him to get him to settle down with her. Years later, he admits he regrets it.

  • I actually took some etiquette classes at my college so I love eating in front of people lol…can show off my etiquette skill WOOT WOOT

  • It seems like they really have complicated dating dating? It’s just something about that word that they have complicated this Society almost feel sorry for people that are dating

  • I also want to add that rich typically and most often marry rich. This is especially true with old money. Sometimes when a rich man remarries, he marries a woman who can entertain guests, manages the properties and help to manage his businesses. Maybe it also depends on the metro area. I grew up in the DC area.

  • It’s also about education. I went out with a male model for a while but it drove me mad because he was not educated. I am a double graduate with average looks but I did not go for looks and neither did my husband. We went for intelligence, personality and similar moral attitudes. He was not rich but he had the propensity to be successful. He is now in banking and we have been married 32 years.

  • Women are driven by a mix of being passive-aggressive and loving money and leisure. So they will expect you to open the door, but feel entitled to snarl at you when they go through it.
    Later on, it will give them all a big laugh when they they lunch on a chunk of the money they extracted from the husbands they left.

  • Met a girl who didn’t like it when others watched her eat. She was healthy and had a awesome figure. Hottest girl is one that can pig OUT!

  • Honestly I prefer that the guy pays to show me that he cares, that he’s invested in me. And men earn more than women. And for guys out there: it’s not that u guys r angels either. U guys lie a lot to women just to try to get laid. And once u get it u guys just vanished bc that’s all u wanted in the first place and make us looking like fools and feeling like objects which is an awful feeling. Definitely not saints!

  • To make this video short, The conclusion is that… “Women are a victim of their own pride and missed many romantic opportunities just because of one thing… “Pride”:)

  • I’ve met numerous rich people and most of the women were average looking at best. I think the men cared if the woman is family oriented, can manage the home, intelligence, is well groomed and fashionable. Someone who’s outgoing since the rich people I met held parties regularly. I can count with one hand the rich men who married beautiful women.

  • What do you mean plain women,is rich women meant to be intelligent and good charactered?character is more important.usually rich and middle class girls will be less in good character

  • I’m a guy and the last thing I do is want to go to a restaurant with a girl and order some big BBQ meal in front of her. With something like a bunch of ribs and so. Because I don’t want her to see me as a pig eating. I’m careful about eating when it comes to that. So I understand how that can be.

  • why do men marry down so to speak such as a KING marry a peasant. but queen never marry a peasant. today male doctors marry female nurses. but female doctors dont marry male nurses

  • @CalizFynest23 Damn right. Idealised beauty and constant reminders on how women should be skinny and beautiful. I haven’t yet read the study, but untill then I guess I’ll have to give you the benefit of the doubt in hopes that you know more about this than me. Daily Mail is a load of crap anyway. Fear mongering for rich, middle-class racists.

  • Actual answer: attractiveness isn’t just about appearances. And what actually makes an insecure man feel less secure? Not a hot woman.. but a successful, accomplished woman 😉

  • Because dealing with a vain high maintenance woman with a bad attitude wears you down in the long term. The less beautiful a woman the more appreciative she is of you. That doesn’t mean beautiful women dont but a beautiful woman always has options

  • HUH? I don’t mind eating in front of my boyfriend of 4 years o.o… I mean he has made fun of the way I chew/calls it cute so w/e… But then again we both talk about when we take a crap so…we’re pretty comfortable with each other.

    6/10? That’s absolutely ridiculous…

  • I love food =w= <3

    I couldn't care less if my boyfriend watched me eat and I think he'd find it fucked up if I was embarrassed to eat infront of him.

  • This is an old but wise saying. “Not everyone judges a book by it’s cover.” Not every one wants “a leveled up, high maintenance, pretentious beauty, who only is looking at him for his money.” Some men wish to have someone they can hold a real life conversation with. Some men are looking for a great mother for their children. Some men don’t value beauty over a even tempered, polite, well cultured women who can attract them on a cerebral level.
    Personally I find the statement “unattravtive woman” a put down of all women. I was under the impression that you were above insulting other women who don’t meet “your standard.” You could have made this video about “other characteristics” that may attract high caliber men instead of click-bate to put down others in your gender.

  • The first date the i ever had in my life i paid for it (it was with a guy lol), and you know i always used to paid for the dinner or almost everytime cuz i think is rude for a girl to go out and a date with someone and ALWAYS let people pay for then

  • First of all sheees hott seccond of all whats with the ads atleast they should put them on the side of the video or at the bottom!!

  • I think personnaly that there is few woman physicaly considered average who possess such an aura and feminine maestria that make them irrésistible and by this fact they can have any men.

  • Yeah it’s kinda true, feminism can’t beat nature at a certain point. There is a “sexist” rule which says the bigger the (female) feminist the more Hells Angels-like is the guy has. And yeah that’s somehow true and nothing new at all. If you break down feminism to an individual level, you may find self respecting and self aware women let’s just say strong women. And have you ever seen a strong women dating weak man? Nope nope nope nope….

  • After exploring the internet about this arguments for some time i can see that man have real issues with millennial woman and its becoming a huge problem for what a healthy society should be, what we need is some honest debating on how the mentality of girls has changed so drastically and if its highly problematic or if its just man not being able to cope with those changes because i find myself being raised by 1 parent just like most people in here and after being a huge fan of girls my whole life i’ve grown bitter towards them because morality seems at an all time low.

  • Im a guy, the more you can eat the more i love you… lol. Its not a fetish or anything, i just love food so much and if you love food half as much as i do your the woman for me. If somebody is willing to gorge with me that is very attractive. Its one of those things where men like wen to be a oman in most instances… i think this isnt one of them.

  • Paying on a date should be based on your income. You make $100,000 a year, you make good money, pick up the cheque, you can afford it. You make minimum wage, or are paycheque to paycheque, let the other person pay too, and don’t go out so much. Live accordingly.

  • 1:00 “You don’t wait for anything on your life.” She says that as if it’s a good thing. Stated another way, American women need instant gratification and are not willing to do the work it takes to build a family and wealth.

  • People prefer people that make them feel great in an honest way. Not in a way that says i want what you can do for me. That lasts longerer than looks. Personality wins over looks when seeking a spouse. Looks only win for fun.

  • I’m ok for paying for dates, sadly i’ve subscribed to the societal norm and normally make more money than my dates…but i’m not sure why girls thing dressing up and makeup is their contribution to the date. Do I offset this contribution by wearing a 1k suit? luxury clothes? 10k watch? 50-80k car? Oddly enough we appreciate you looking good, but always joke we should take dates swimming to see what they really look like. I’m not certain if men equate ur hair/nails/makeup/clothes to the cost of a date.

  • @zenerdo Lol no, there is a lot more to it than that, trust me. Plus, it only costs 5 bucks for a fancy 3 course meal, can’t beat that 😉

  • Why does there have to be a constant war between men and women? We are supposed to balance. Why not meet and accept the person who fits where and who you are at the time or even who you’re becoming. It’s always nice to learn from one another and grow.

  • Them soyboys do NOT think you deserve better, ladies…. they think you deserve EXACTLY what you got: fakeness and abuse because that is what you do to them WHILE in the relationship…

  • LOL. Modern western women are simply crazy. They don’t even know what they want. No wonder an increasing number of men are going mgtow.

  • You didn’t do it right. Go read a “Self Man Man” by Norah Vincent….or if you’re too lazy, they covered it on news ma y years ago and it’s somewhere on YouTube.

  • Beauty is not forever and looks is not everything. I assume (and hope) that these men actually feel good with these women. I have a very attractive man friend and he would tell you stories for days and daaaays about how beautiful women just cannot give him the much needed feeling of partnership:)

  • @zenerdo No prob, I was just wondering if you were asking if the food was homemade. Nah, it was cooked by the chefs at my school. They made sure to give up stuff that would be hard to eat politely in front of a potential client, boss, et cetera like a really cheesy onion soup and stuff like that. It was interesting.

  • Women think about sex more than what was said here, they just don’t admit it. If they did, they would be considered sluts and whores. Men who think about sex are considered masculine and manly and studly there is no negative word for men who think a lot about sex like there is for women. It’s a double standard. More than one-third of the people who visit adult sites are women. And the number is increasing.

  • My ex girlfriend was fairly obvious about going to the bathroom o.o I didn’t have a problem with it. I WISH she belched! I think that’s AWESOME! XD

  • Or maybe it’s because most women have way too high ridiculous standards and won’t settle for less, and will get offended and outraged if also men had standards and she doesn’t meet those standards

  • I would love to post my thoughts on this and how I deal with women but since I tend to write long answers,, I’ll just say grats on knowing maybe 5% of guys, and the easy part lol. Some of us actually know women well and even understand them without going insane lol

  • I 100% agree about timing. These men when they feel “ready to be married” they settle with the first one who was there even if they were in love with someone else years prior or maybe dated the last girl for 5-7 years. The next one he will propose to based on the fact that he just “wants to be married”.

  • So thats what I did��, seems my perfume collection consisted of ONLY natural aphrodisiacs ����
    -delina (vetiver)
    -sound of donna (vanilla)
    -gourmand coquin (chocolate and roses and rum)
    -mad madame (musk)
    -good girl (vetiver, jasmine and lily of the vally)
    -santal complet (coconut and vanilla)
    -addict (jasmine and vanilla)
    -datura noir (vanilla)
    -santalsun (hazelnuts smells like nutella)

    Im an true womanizer or just very appealing ������

  • The problem with men and women is since the beginning we have been brainwashed and taught the wrong way of gender interaction.. We base femininity and masculinity on their actions and looks.. Instead of the persons Soul, Spirit, and emotional aptitude.. We have to unlearn these bad habits in order for us to see the real human in front of us…

  • I am a male, I think of food every minute and think of sex every few hours or maybe days, however I think the reason the statistics show it the way it does because when men think about sex they think of it for longer and spend more time on it and the average for that time measured as the study, if so, presented.

  • My brother married less attractive woman and told me he did it so he can have a peaceful relationship. They been together for 20 yrs now.

  • So went out with a friend and her kid and payed for all of it that was fine but she said she would pay for my next meal next time but she would ghost me every time an yes she was cute but I would Say an honest 9% I might date for anyone who wants to ask or point it out and all I wanted was to hang out an get the free meal she said she was going to pay for anyway that 9% is now zero all you need to do is just be a little host an I’m a lot happier but hey she got her free food an at least the kid was happy with more food all over him than in his mouth that was funny an worth it

  • Why are women so insecure about this kind of stuff?

    It is fine to eat in front of men. As long as you make sure to make yourself puke it up after you do eat, guys aren’t going to think you’re being a pig.

  • All I want to do is say hi and make connections. You know, be friends. It’s really weird that people try so hard to get into serious relationships. You shouldn’t be trying hard, you should let it happen on its own, I guess. Idk.