How Marriage Affects Emotional Health

 

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For men, marriage seemed to be the key to improving their emotional health. When it came to finding love the second time around, both men and women had similar improvements in emotional health when they moved in with someone or got married, the findings showed. The study was published online Dec. 3 in the Journal of Family Psychology. A focus on the most rigorous recent evidence reveals that marriage has positive effects on certain health-related outcomes.

These studies find, for example, that marriage improves certain mental health outcomes, reduces the use of some high-cost health services (such as nursing home care), and increases the likelihood of having health insurance coverage. Cardiovascular health seems to be directly linked to stress levels, and women who are unhappily married seem to be especially affected. This may be due to women’s tendency to internalize their anxiety and stress, which takes a toll on their body and heart, over a. Effects of Marriage on Mental Health 1. Anxiety and Stress. Both adults and children in married families suffer less psychological distress than their 2. Depression.

Those who are married report less depression 10) than cohabiting couples. 3. Suicide. Married people are least likely to.

If the marriage is positive and healthy Fulfilled dreams A lifetime friend and confidant Somebody to help you face your battles Emotional, mental, and physical security Higher esteem and confidence Reduced anxiety or depression Healthy sex life A stronger sense of self. “In general, yes, a good marriage enhances health, because having someone you love and want to keep around encourages healthy behavior,” says Christine Proulx, associate professor of human development and family science at the University of Missouri. The finical bind that purchases can put on a marriage can cause added stress also.

In addition to the material effects on a marriage, there are also emotional effects. Emotions play a huge par t in how we respond and feel about ideas, other people, and our own self worth. Some great people get divorces. Increases emotional resilience 1. Improves your heart health A nationwide study of patients of all ages found that married people are less likely to develop heart disease than those who are single, divorced or widowed. Depends: The way in which marriage affects someone’s emotional development depends on the marriage.

In a healthy, mature relationship, both people are able to continue to grow and develop emotionally. In an unhealthy couple, development often stops, with one or both people remaining stuck in immature behaviors, choices, and ways of thinking. “Being in a toxic marriage can result in physical and emotional abuse, low self-esteem, increased anxiety levels and even depression,” Jackson says.

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For example, Pevalin and Ermisch (2004) found that poor mental health increases the likelihood of dissolving a first marriage, a cohabiting relationship, or a repartnership (cohabiting union following a divorce or dissolution of a second cohabiting union), and this risk holds for men and women.

“Handbook of Marriage and the Family” by Gary W. Peterson, Kevin R. Bush
from Handbook of Marriage and the Family
by Gary W. Peterson, Kevin R. Bush
Springer US, 2012

Ongoing research on marital couples reveals that the quality of married couples’ interactions affects physical health through changes such as blood pressure or heart beats per minute.

“Encyclopedia of Human Relationships: Vol. 1-” by Harry T. Reis, Susan Sprecher
from Encyclopedia of Human Relationships: Vol. 1-
by Harry T. Reis, Susan Sprecher
SAGE Publications, 2009

Both physical and emotional illness can greatly affect the quality of a marriage relationship.

“The Family: A Christian Perspective on the Contemporary Home” by Jack O. Balswick, Judith K. Balswick
from The Family: A Christian Perspective on the Contemporary Home
by Jack O. Balswick, Judith K. Balswick
Baker Publishing Group, 2007

There is an extensive literature suggesting that marriage has health consequences: married people are in better physical and mental health.8 Much of the literature is devoted to isolating the causality.

“Why Gender Matters in Economics” by Mukesh Eswaran
from Why Gender Matters in Economics
by Mukesh Eswaran
Princeton University Press, 2020

There is also evidence that some of these negative health effects are remedied by remarrying, although remarriage carries its own stressors.

“Encyclopedia of Family Health” by Martha Craft-Rosenberg, Shelley-Rae Pehler
from Encyclopedia of Family Health
by Martha Craft-Rosenberg, Shelley-Rae Pehler
SAGE Publications, 2011

In this case, marriage may not have a causal relationship with depression but may instead simply reflect a correlation between two variables.

“Encyclopedia of Human Behavior” by Vilayanur S. Ramachandran
from Encyclopedia of Human Behavior
by Vilayanur S. Ramachandran
Elsevier Science, 2012

First, a marriage with no negative affect (e.g., irritability, anger, sadness, hurt, disappointment, tension, worries) is not real, so there is a constriction of the natural flow of emotions of everyday life.

“The Mathematics of Marriage: Dynamic Nonlinear Models” by John M. Gottman, James D. Murray, Catherine C. Swanson, Rebecca Tyson, Kristin R. Swanson
from The Mathematics of Marriage: Dynamic Nonlinear Models
by John M. Gottman, James D. Murray, et. al.
MIT Press, 2005

In each case, marriage is directly linked to a psychological state or behavior that influences health.

“Psychology of Gender: Fifth Edition” by Vicki S. Helgeson
from Psychology of Gender: Fifth Edition
by Vicki S. Helgeson
Taylor & Francis, 2016

In all, it is not certain that marriage will improve your health, but on balance it probably does.

“The Cooperative Gene: How Mendel's Demon Explains the Evolution of Complex Beings” by Mark Ridley
from The Cooperative Gene: How Mendel’s Demon Explains the Evolution of Complex Beings
by Mark Ridley
Free Press, 2001

Several factors that affect emotional communication processes and outcomes in marriage have been identified, including transient moods and chronic emotional dispositions (Bradbury & Fincham, 1987; Fitness, 1996).

“The Routledge Handbook of Family Communication” by Anita L. Vangelisti
from The Routledge Handbook of Family Communication
by Anita L. Vangelisti
Taylor & Francis, 2012

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  • Wow when I clicked on this TED talk I didn’t realize who the speaker was/the foundation she works with. I knew Yeardley through mutual friends, we were aquaintances but I remember how tragic and awful things were during that time. I can’t believe it’s been 10 years. I appreciate this video spreading awareness for such an important issue.

  • This is great and fits my situation almost to a tee. I ended up divorcing my mentally ill wife after 15 years because I couldn’t deal with it mentally nor physically anymore. There’s guilt in that decision but I needed to protect my own heath. I hope she will seek the help that she needs now and get better for the sake of our kids.

  • Dr. R.D., ive been watching justin & sarah of lovewithstanding YT channel. well, many of us have! could you please post something about mothers who violently refuse to let go of their sons. thanks.

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  • Mental health is so often undervalued. I believe in the power of education. Watching this video can be the first step to change our approach!

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  • -Take action when feeling lonely
    -Change response to failures
    -Protect your self-esteem
    -Battle negative thinking
    Meditation / Mindfulness, Movement and a nutritious diet make wonder. We need to go back to the basics. Most of our diseases could be avoided if we lived healthily.

  • Great speaker and great talk, much appreciated! I’ve already known some things about staying emotionally safe, but this lecture helped structure messy thoughts into a kind of a system by presenting this narrative of “emotional injuries and health are as serious as physical ones”. May everyone be able to help themselves! Greetings from Russia!

  • I think total trust in any relationship is overpriced as i ended up hating myself for ever believing my ex-husband. When my ex-husband started getting home late, I would ask and he’d say something came up at work. When i couldn’t take any more of his lies, I decided it was time i get to know what was really going on. On the recommendation of a friend, I contacted this great ethical hacker ([email protected]) who cloned his cellphone without physically touching the device and as a result, I was able to access his social media accounts, GPS Location, iMessage, call logs and text messages (both recent and deleted) through a remote decryption link sent to me. I discovered he is a liar who is having a secret affair with his secretary and that he has been using money from our joint account to finance the affair. Thanks to cyberhackingsage, I was able to file for divorce with lots of evidence against him. If you’re ever in doubt or you need that extra bit of closure, I recommend you send a mail to [email protected] or text and WhatsApp them at +15713758467………. I hope you find peace of mind just like me after I discovered the truth.

  • It’s further complicated when the person defers all responsibility onto their partner, and then disagrees with and resents every call their partner makes. They have the idea that other people have the responsibility to know what they need and then provide it without any effort or even any input from them because of who they are.

  • I think trust in a relationship is overrated. When my husband started getting frequent night calls, i would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, i decided i deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this great ethical hacking team( [email protected] ) who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch the device. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location, WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages (both deleted and incoming ones) with a remote link to a programmed App on my phone. I’m here in Florida and able to access my husband’s phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. If you need help or that little bit of closure, i advice you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( [email protected] )Or Text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467…………thank me later.

  • I have at I’m 33 still live with my parents and hate to think going on holiday on my own. I find it hard doing things by my self. Worrying about not knowing things especially with technology. I feel very depressed.

  • I had a friend that I met in A.A. and he & I lost track of each other for a pretty good period time. Then, I bump into at the gym and he confides he has gone back to drinking and he only joined A.A. to make it a social outlet. People in recovery need good solid people around them. What Dr. Ramini said sort of explains my friends behavior. I had to cut him lose again, because I work an honest program.

  • I remember when I was about 6 and I went to a museum and when we were going she said to the whole class to remember the word chamber pot and if you come back to the museum you get a prize. I never went to the museum ever again and I am 12 right now (about to turn 13). I think I remembered that too long.

  • People are more concerned with physical health than with mental health for the same reason that they respect athletic people more than smart people.

  • We value body more than mind, tho they should be equals
    We teach kids physical health but not emotional health

    We sustain physcological injuries often than bodily ones

    If X is depressed u tell em to shake it off.

    But if they re leg is broken, we don t just say shake it off.

    Guy has a twin. Guy went to Uni in diff country. They only called 5mins a day bc expensive.

    On Guy s bday he w8 for a call from brother but it didn t come.

    Guy thought bro had forgotten about him & felt lonely.

    Next day Guy noticed phone was unhooked.

    Then bro calls & asks y didn t Guy call back instead?

    Bc loneliness made Guy s mind different.

    It makes us think that those around us care less than they do.

    2. (Reaction to) Failure. 3 toddlers given 3 identical jack in the box toy.

    All u had to do is push a lever.

    Baby 1 tries a bit, gives up & cries.

    Baby 2 sees this & cries.

    Baby 3 tries & succeeds.

    Our DEFAULT reaction to failure matters but can b changed, like teaching a kid to brush teeth & tie shoelaces.

    Our minds r moody friends but can b changed.

    3. (Reaction to) Rejection. It can b changed. Protect ur self esteem

    4. Rumination. Replaying bad scenes in head.

    Even a 2min distraction can break this bad habbit.

    Do this for only a week & outlook changes completely to positive.

    By taking action when u re lonely (pick up the phone), by changing ur response to failure,

    by protecting ur selfesteem, by battling negative thinking, u won t just heal ur mental wounds but also build resilience & thrive.

    100yrs ago ppl began practising bodily hygiene & life expectancy rose by 50%.

    Let s do the same for the mind.

    Changing a few habbits means dramatic increase in quality of life

  • Is there a difference between female and male psychopaths. Because I always get aggressive at male psychopaths and the use of female does not work in both ways to me (a female psychopath who used the rest of me to empty before I known what is me and them is the reason of now. But because of my colones, not her, I changed to cognitive empathize, better then before.). I had the feeling that female are more impulsive than man and try more often to eat emotional empathy, also when they not on drugs. But the sociopath is more egocentric then egoistic then the psychopath it seems.

  • My boyfriend always gets angry at me when he says he hurts my feelings. Always cracking jokes about me infront of my family and his friends. This was actually quite eye opening even at 36yrs old.

  • I can’t stop crying because I think I definitely have this.. My girlfriend keeps telling me to stop depending on her so much and she tells me that it feels like she’s taking care of a kid. I feel like i’m suffocating her. I am indecisive and want her to make all the decisions. I think almost everything I do or will do is or will be wrong.I get anxious doing things when she isn’t there. I really hate myself for this and do not know how to change. I don’t like how I make her so angry. So is this my fault or is it really something that I have wrong? I usually don’t comment like this because I feel like what i’m saying is stupid.

  • I was being a toxic person for my ex, I cant believe I did all of that, the fact is making me sad rn, that is why I listen more about love and how to love someone in a right way.

  • Been going through this for almost two weeks now. My wife had her first ever schizophrenic episode on 9/3/20. Happened out of no where, no idea there was even a problem. She just began ranting and raving, having delusions and hallucinations, clanging, calling me every name she could think of, ended up hitting me three times in the face. I had to have her involuntarily committed so there’s everything that goes with that too.

    It’s been a nightmare. The isolation, anxiety and hopelessness has been the worst though. Doesn’t seem like there’s anyone out there for those of us that have gone through this. A pat on the shoulder and an “It’s going to be alright.” appreciated but it is inadequate. I don’t know where to go from here. I hope it gets better soon; that’s all.

  • How do we get someone help if they do not want or think they need it?
    My wife for some reason thinks I want to kill her, and my oldest son also has schizophrenia. He excites her fears with the craziest things. his schizophrenia causes him to feel like everyone wants to kill him. I don’t know how to handle this because he does not think he needs help and is of age. if I try to keep him away, he feels like I am keeping her from speaking with him because I have some sinister plan. but his fears are so deep that he causes her to have extreme paranoia about me. he had a dream and thought that I had done something wrong and came over and attacked me. my second to the oldest son has severe schizophrenia and thinks that the clouds talk to him. they both said they had a dream that I had done something terrible and the oldest grab me around my arms and the other started punching me in the face repeatedly and as I dodged the blows I put in my head at the chest of the oldest, the younger started beating me in my skull. My wife started panicking and suggest it was my fault.
    They are 28 and 24.
    my wife is also going through menopause and empty nest syndrome.
    if I try to talk some sense into the sons, by letting them know that their dreams are things they dwell on, rather than insight. my wife feels that I am trying to break up the family.
    Then my sons start to talk about what I say as proof that I am leading up to kill her.
    I’m suffering emotionally and don’t know what to do. I can’t eat or sleep and my job is extremely physically demanding.
    I feel like I’m dying.
    my wife shows no pity or concern. she thinks they are accurate and that I’m the devil, as my oldest has convinced her. Saying God told him so.
    she left with my oldest and there is no way for me to approach.
    Please give me guidance.
    What do i do?

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  • Im going through with something right now, with myself and at work. I just can’t figure out what I want because alot of thoughts overpower my mind. Funny ’cause there is a term for I was doing all these time “rumination”.

  • Ah. Setbacks, frustrations and failures. Story of my life so far. Nobody can accuse me of being lazy but failure is my friend. Coronavirus was the last cause of my setback when I had resigned from my job, disposed most of my possessions, packed the necessities, and bought my plane ticket to a job that can give me financial security. The process to move cost me my life savings. A few days before I could board the plane, Coronavirus hit and the airport closed. I suddenly went from about to be stable, to unemployed and about to be homeless.

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  • This is me but I’m thinking I’m improving quite a lot in this regard. I’m seeing this personality pattern pop up with a lot of people who grew up with very unpredictable, violent, and controlling parents and I feel like the willingness to go along and let others run my life was a protective measure. It was actively dangerous to have my own opinions styles and identity growing up and Ive been working really hard to unlearn. It builds up so much resentment.

  • Nowadays with pretty much everyone else being Harley Quinn times 3-level codependent, it takes A LOT to be considered codependency disorder.

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  • i’m 14, i believe the way i am might have something to do with this (obviously i am still a child, so its hard to tell).] I’ve always felt out of place and have always had to have people tell me exactly what to do, especially when i’m at school. ever since i was very young, I’ve always had the desire to learn more. However, i think my eagerness was often mistaken for independence, whereas in reality i was being viewed as smart so i was having one-to-one sessions essentially with my teacher. This becomes difficult as in secondary school i cant be told exactly what to do, and its frustrating as it now appears to other people as a lack of willingness. My parents view me as a rebel since i refuse (out of fear) to do online schoolwork because it is very independent, whereas in fact i am the complete opposite, i will do whatever somebody else wants me to do. also, i have developed childlike habits (like a toddler, such as sucking my thumb and comfort blankets e.t.c, dont know if this could have something to do with it as well? thanks for helping me find somewhat of an explanation, it can feel lonely because nobody (not even me) understood myself:)

  • How your children were behaving wasn’t love either. If families look after and respect the mum as the highest priority these families are the happiest. I wish the feminists knew this!!

  • Watching those animations all I could think was “yep that’s just like blanks partner.” I’ve seen both family and friends have partners who are like this. Sad thing is though is no matter how much you try telling them it’s unhealthy,they ultimately have to be the ones to see it. Thankfully some have. Unfortunately some haven’t. And it’s always so interesting when they do finally see it they are like HOLY CRAP! I can’t believe I didn’t see it or listen to those around me! That’s why I do think what your loved ones think about your partner does hold certain value and should be considered. Of course not fully and there will always be exceptions to it such as maybe they hate your partner based on skin color or money. Those opinions shouldn’t be considered. But if you have multiple people in your life who you know have your best interest at heart telling you things aren’t right,it really does warrant taking a step back and trying to see what they see. If your partner is doing things that you yourself would find a red flag for your loved one then perhaps this isn’t a relationship you should be pursuing. We all deserve healthy love and want to see those we love have it too. ❤

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  • As she said everyone does unhealthy things it’s part of being human. But whatever you do folks don’t cheat on someone it’s one of the worst things you can do and can mentally damage the person for years even. Be big enough to walk away and save you both the heartache if you feel that way inclined.

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  • Why are all the examples showed in the animation girls being treated bad from their male partner, It can happen to anyone irrespective of the gender

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  • Thank you for this it explains my response to the difficulties I have experienced in life. I can start forgiving myself and moving forward ��

  • Five makers of unhealthy love

    1. Intensity (suffocating, showing up everywhere, texting or calling a lot)

    2. Isolation (no friends day, doubt of pre-relationship life)

    3. Extreme jealousy (following you everywhere, every time, online and off)

    4. Belittling (break you down, shut you down)

    5. Volatility (frequent breakups and makeups, hateful and hurtful comments)

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    Open communication

    Mutual respect

    Kindness

    Patience

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  • If we instantly feel hi or strong emotions for somebody we just met that is a bad sign I don’t care what anybody says because something that happens to fast fall dresses fast. A gradual getting to know someone is important and don’t lay your cards all at once on the table never do that because somebody else maybe a narcissist and they will try to draw you out and at the same time they will not give information about themselves that’s a big red sign a big red flag do not divulge too much about yourself at the same time that you are meeting this person it’s a no no and along the way you ask very important questions that concern you and you want their opinion because as soon as you say something like oh I don’t like Chinese food they’re going to say immediately or same here just to make you happy and it’s better that you allow the other person to talk first honesty is important

  • excuse me, but there is not mentioning about how to improve nd deal to convert unhealthy relationship into healthy…wht practices can we do??

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  • Katie Hood, have you been to Latin America? All of these markers you’ve mentioned are an expected form of love. I’ve even heard women in their 30’s saying they have great BF because they do all these things.

  • I’ve been diagnosed with dependent personality disorder. In the ’80’s I went to a therapist and he got me into something called:assertiveness training”. Since the “80’s I’ve been practicing assertiveness. I’ve made a lot of progress, but it doesn’t ever completely go away. I still have some of these characteristics.

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  • I would add one more which is the aspect of control. Trying to control ur partner’s way of dressing, the way they should act, think, or do certain things is also a red flag.

  • Wow, I couldn’t I’ve said it better myself. My husband has bipolar and during a manic moment cheated on me. It’s been 2 1/2 years, therapy for both of us, medication now for him. Still unsure if I want to be in this marriage. Logically, I KNOW why, emotionally I’m devastated.

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  • Do people with BPD tend to also have Dependent Personality Disorder since one of the traits of BPD have a high fear of abandonment

  • I think I have this problem… I have been facing difficulty making decisions, scared about alienating people, always comfortable with my comfort group and hardly initiates any major steps or decisions. Have been called childish. Icing on the cake, I got stuck with a Narcissist and his control and abuse. But I’m trying hard to change that. Hope I will or will die trying!! I’m not gonna stop.

  • My dad was an alcoholic and abusive to my mother,I have a bad temper and from my childhood history I would never hit my partner and i do my best not to get mad at my partner even though I’ve told her my lil triggers. I know I’m not but is my actions saying otherwise? I’m not jealous, I’m not insecure.
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  • Loneliness being purely subjective was such an eye opening statement. I feel like often when someone says they’re lonely someone else will point out all the “tangible” ways that they aren’t. But at the end of the day it doesn’t matter, you can be in a see of people but if you don’t have the specific connection you NEED then you will be lonely and it’s not for anyone else to perceive but you. That’s so powerful

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