Be familiar with That Which You Share Online Regarding Your Kids

 

Tip 1: Think Before You Share

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Being Safe Online

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Why Kids Are Confronting Their Parents About ‘Sharenting’ | NYT Opinion

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Child Focus ‘E-safety’

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What parents should know before sharing about your kids online

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How much do you share about your kids online?

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The Offspring The Kids Aren’t Alright (Official Music Video)

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FRIDAY, Oct. 21, 2016 (HealthDay News) Parents often keep a close eye on their kids’ use of social media, but they also need to be mindful of their own posts, researchers warn in a new review. FRIDAY, Oct. 21, 2016 (HealthDay News) Parents often keep a close eye on their kids’ use of social media, but they also need to be mindful of their own posts, researchers warn in a new review.

These days, it’s almost expected that parents will regularly post pictures of their kids online to give friends and family updates on what they’re doing. Be careful about posts that give your child’s precise location. If you are going online for help with your child’s behavioural issues, keep any information-sharing anonymous. Nowadays parents disclose things about their kids online, leaving a lasting ‘digital footprint’, often containing personal information, which can have repercussions. Parents often keep a close eye on their kids’ use of social media, but they also need to be mindful of their own posts, researchers warn in a new review.

If you are going online for help with your child’s behavioral issues, keep any information-sharing anonymous. Beyond that, she advised parents to make sure they understand the privacy policies of all the sites they use. Simply limiting your Facebook posts to “friends” is not enough, Keith said. Don’t post photos or videos online that reveal personal information about your children. Be mindful of the long-term implications of getting a few likes.

Be clear with grandparents, friends, and. Check out Being Aware of What You Share, a free digital citizenship lesson plan from Common Sense Education, to get your grade 8 students thinking critically and using technology responsibly to learn, create, and participate. Never share pictures of your child in “any state of undress”. Be careful about posts that give your child’s precise location.

If you are going online for help with your child’s behavioural issues, keep any information-sharing anonymous. Some information is okay to share online, but online phishing scams and cyber predators make it tough to let the leash out when it comes to your kids roaming the Internet. Make your online presence work for you, not against you. Employers and admissions officers report that the internet can be a good place for applicants to present their talents, professionalism, and sociability.

Assume that nothing you share online is private. After all, it’s only private until the person you’ve shared it with (or a hacker.

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Interestingly, parents of girls and younger children worry more than other parents about the dangers of online strangers and of children releasing private information online (Pew Internet and American Life Project, 2001; Schmitt, 2000).

“Handbook of Family Communication” by Anita L. Vangelisti
from Handbook of Family Communication
by Anita L. Vangelisti
Routledge, 2004

They may also scroll through the history of online activities their children engage in.

“Online Othering: Exploring Digital Violence and Discrimination on the Web” by Karen Lumsden, Emily Harmer
from Online Othering: Exploring Digital Violence and Discrimination on the Web
by Karen Lumsden, Emily Harmer
Springer International Publishing, 2019

We’re sharing a lot about our kids, and all sectors, including schools and the government, are starting to learn a lot about our kids because of this sharing.

“Sharenthood: Why We Should Think before We Talk about Our Kids Online” by Leah A. Plunkett, John Palfrey
from Sharenthood: Why We Should Think before We Talk about Our Kids Online
by Leah A. Plunkett, John Palfrey
MIT Press, 2019

Providing information on how to check their children’s online activities is also important.

“Investigating Internet Crimes: An Introduction to Solving Crimes in Cyberspace” by Todd G. Shipley, Art Bowker
from Investigating Internet Crimes: An Introduction to Solving Crimes in Cyberspace
by Todd G. Shipley, Art Bowker
Elsevier Science, 2013

Exactly, and I think, when I speak to parents in these seminars I do, I often tell them, you don’t have to be a networking person to have enough knowledge to monitor your own PC at home to see if your children are doing things that are dangerous.

“Making the Internet Safe for Kids: The Role of ISP's and Social Networking Sites: Hearings Before the Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations of the Committee on Energy and Commerce, House of Representatives, One Hundred Ninth Congress, Second Session, June 27 and June 28, 2006” by United States, Congress House Committee on Energy and Commerce Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations Staff, United States. Congress. House. Committee on Energy and Commerce. Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations
from Making the Internet Safe for Kids: The Role of ISP’s and Social Networking Sites: Hearings Before the Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations of the Committee on Energy and Commerce, House of Representatives, One Hundred Ninth Congress, Second Session, June 27 and June 28, 2006
by United States, Congress House Committee on Energy and Commerce Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations Staff, United States. Congress. House. Committee on Energy and Commerce. Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations
U.S. Government Printing Office, 2006

The extent of parental rights with regard to monitoring their children’s Internet activity will be discussed in subsequent sections.

“Encyclopedia of Information Ethics and Security” by Quigley, Marian
from Encyclopedia of Information Ethics and Security
by Quigley, Marian
Information Science Reference, 2007

Additionally, a study on child online safety by Tennakoon et al. (2018) finds that self-employed parents are more likely to monitor their children’s internet activities compared to parents who work in the private sector.

“Encyclopedia of Criminal Activities and the Deep Web” by Khosrow-Pour D.B.A., Mehdi
from Encyclopedia of Criminal Activities and the Deep Web
by Khosrow-Pour D.B.A., Mehdi
IGI Global, 2020

More research needs to assess the extent to which parents communicate about Internet dangers and the nature of those conversations.

“The Routledge Handbook of Family Communication” by Anita L. Vangelisti
from The Routledge Handbook of Family Communication
by Anita L. Vangelisti
Taylor & Francis, 2012

At the same time, the studies also indicate the fact that parents are worried by the passivity and unilateral character of their children’s recreating activities on the Internet.

“Internet and Technology Addiction: Breakthroughs in Research and Practice: Breakthroughs in Research and Practice” by Management Association, Information Resources
from Internet and Technology Addiction: Breakthroughs in Research and Practice: Breakthroughs in Research and Practice
by Management Association, Information Resources
IGI Global, 2019

Your kids need to know that people aren’t always who they say they are online, and that real dangers exist out in the world.

“Facebook for Grown-Ups” by Michael Miller
from Facebook for Grown-Ups
by Michael Miller
Pearson Education, 2010

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  • Tip #1.0.1 That stupid thing you thought about NOT sharing but decided to, may become viral and end up getting you a lifetime supply of Vans.

  • Google, why did you direct this video just at minors? Nothing wrong with this, but believe it or not, adults can be the ones most in need of seeing these videos.

  • I oonly text my friends and family well one time somebody weird texted me I deleted the chat it’s what you should do a d I eved told my mom

  • Back in a day This song is catchy, I like it.
    Today Damn, I know I said I liked it…but I never asked it to be a reality.

    This song is one of those things that grow meaning the more time passes…brilliant actually..

  • My mum used to make meme videos staring me and my sister just as I started high school, I’m from a small town so everyone’s parents saw them and showed them to their kids. I look back and laugh at it now.

  • I kinda got on the same track, some guy on my game friended me and we started to talk,then he asked me how old I was but I was younger [aka 11] but I didn’t think and told him I was 11 and he said that he was 17.Then he started to give me “The Talk” I told him I wasn’t comfortable with this chat but he then said “why? Your going through it,you’ll have to learn someday” I just looked at that message and told him I had to go.Then he texted me saying “ok,text me when you wanna learn more ��” I closed the app and he sent me another text saying “your such a good girl ��” at this point I was done so I blocked him from my account.
    The end-

  • So also to the ” if its not on insta” mom
    Did you know most kidnappings happen in family and friend circles? Will it take some perverted friend of the family praying on your daughter for you to stop? Its her body and you are willingly putting it up online for your selfish gain.

  • +Google, Why have you changed your video formats on my smartphone YouTube settings?? You are wasting my video streaming minutes and mega-bite usage!! Please stop ✋ this practice!!!

  • The only solution I can think of is when they post a picture of you, you report it to Instagram so they take it down. If they don’t want to listen, take actions. They are so narcissistic it’s unbelievable.

  • I’ll never forget the crew. Those years in the “hood” was a pinnacle moment in our lives. Times change and ppl change but we will always be family.

    Love you guys forever

  • this song can teach you about reality and life. Be a good person and be at school when you are young. Don’t fuck up or the rest of your life can’t be fixed

  • I’m very disappointed time flying by fast, people are getting older, people are passing away, things are changing like Ottawa radio and TV channels like CMT Canada they don’t play music video like this anymore and it’s 8:39 now that’s not good. I don’t want to be older because I’m scared of death. I want to stay young and alive on earth forever. I want to get a time machine and go back when I was born in 1989 and start my life again as a baby. When 1999 come again I able to watch good music video like this again on Muchmusic.

  • 3:00 3:10 wow.. how could use that something like that on your child I mean come on just ask the child if she wants to be on online or not.. you’re only making her more insecure and cautious of her when she’s in 2 pieces.. you should be there for her when her photo is misused and not be giving ideas of how the photos can be misused.. pleaseee!

  • Indian parents don’t really get the concept of consent. They think it’s all okay to share my kids with thousands of my relatives that I dont care about. Honestly. It’s so frustrating. Don’t come at me btw. I live in India.

  • Wow, this Mom is clueless that she’s addicted to social media and the endorphins high she gets every time she posts and gets a like.

  • Because they are the parents they think they can do whatever. But consent is HUGE. I can’t say this about everyone, but whenever my friends I post a photo of someone or a group photo we always ask if it is okay, every person in the photo has a say of whether or not they want that photo up. Just because it is your child does NOT mean you don’t have to ask for consent.

  • I feel sorry for all those kids growing up in this so-called “digital age”. They will never fathom the true essence of various mundane yet vital stuff, like playing with other kids in the neighborhood till the sun sets, writing letters to your sweetheart, going on picnics and completely losing yourself amidst nature.

  • I never realized how progressive my parents are until I saw this video. They always ask me while sharing my photos, even if they send it to my close uncles and aunts. (I am having a proud parent moment, lol)

  • My parents don’t share anything on social media but they get extremely angry at me when I tell them to delete a photo of mine because I didn’t like it. My entire family makes fun of me for it:” oh now she comes back again with all of her protection of privacy craziness.” My father notoriously denies my requests saying that it isn’t my right. “It’s not your picture. It belongs to the family.”

  • Come to think of it, ever since I was a child, I don’t really like having my photos taken. Even until now, I don’t usually post pictures of myself in my own social media account. I can’t imagine growing up with today’s social media environment (I’m 35 btw).

  • its like when you post pictures of your friends or your dad, ask permission and be willing to take it down. it’s not your decision to make

  • I actually know that my online friend is real.
    I facetimed her, i voicechatted with her, we did a face reveal…
    Yet my mom thinks she is 47 ��

  • I think the mom with the youngest kid has the best attitude towards her kid. she acted calm about it and said the kid looked cute and to show family members and friends. the kid just never gave consent, but she’s fine with it. however, the indian mom is literally something else. “if you don’t put it on insta, it didn’t happen”??? something is genuinely wrong. if she treats her daughter like this on camera, imagine the mother’s attitude off camera. so disrespectful to her own daughter ��

  • Children aren’t your property. They are people. It just bugs me that they see no problem with this. Like let’s post a photo of you that you don’t like and let’s see if you like it.

  • This isn’t nearly as bad as those kids that get exploited on youtube by there own parents. Some family’s post videos everyday since the day there children were born. Who is watching out for these poor kids? My 3 year old use to watch this kid named adley and one day she asks me if people are watching her on there ipad. It go me thinking how these kids are filmed everyday and how everything is made into a video and posted on youtube for money. From loosing teeth to needing surgery, everything is filmed. There needs to be laws to protect kids from being exploited just like there is laws when it comes to child acting.

  • Google is right. A lot of users don’t think before they share and some people wonder why they are lost in the world and not happy. Think before you share

  • I’m 16 and when I have kids it would probably be the peak of the social media world and I will never post a pic of my kids on open stranger accessible platforms

  • Someone said: “If you want to share something, think if you’re willing to write it on a wall in public places. If yes, then share it, if no, then keep it to yourself.”

  • Parents…theres things called virtual photo-books that doesn’t include social media.
    It’s called having a folder on your computer.

    Or is the possibility of your kid bringing in the law once they’re no longer a minor more attractive than keeping things private?
    Face it, you like the attention. You looove having people gush over your kids, and see you as this wholesome parent sharing their lives.
    Shouldn’t the love your kids and family give you be enough?

  • Come to think of it, ever since I was a child, I don’t really like having my photos taken. Even until now, I don’t usually post pictures of myself in my own social media account. I can’t imagine growing up in today’s social media environment (I’m 35 btw)

  • گوگل در ایران بسیار طرفدار داره ولی چرادرترجمه و….از زبان شیرین وکهن پارسی(فارسی) خبری نیست یاخیلی کمه اگررفع مشکل کنید استقبال بی نهایت گسترده خواهدشدباتشکرقبلی وقلبی

  • Love the animation definetly Helpful thank you so much!

    Edit:and also u can read a bike?
    also ride a book?
    i’m already suspicious!

  • Not everyone online is a predator. Just safely make public plans and bring friends or just a friend and go to a busy park or a restraunt to meet them. Don’t allow them to follow you

  • why would you share photos of your kid to the public? if you do it so that the family can see it, why not share it on group chats or videocall? that indian mom does not see the problem with her attitude, her daughter is not her property. shes not something she can be paraded like a trophy. tf is wrong with her???

  • Kids are not their parent’s property to exploit for social media. Kids are people are their privacy shouldn’t be different from anyone else’s no matter who’s posting photos of them. Their parents need to understand that just because they’re your kids, doesn’t mean you can post whatever you like of them, especially without asking permission.

  • my mom hates social media for exactly that reason. When we go to her friends parties and they take pictures of all the kids to put on facebook, she asks them to not put the photos of me and my sibling up because she doesn’t know what could follow. People could track you down, and kidnap you or maybe rob you or steal your identity. It’s scary people. It’s a shame those parents don’t realize that.

  • the crappy things that I post does not explain the 49k followers(on google plus)… and on top of that allot of real scum bags get allot of traffic… I don’t think I am that bad, I am just a little looney… you guys muted me and that is all it is or I’d lose followers when I did wrong
    Open it back up, maybe I’d learn.

    You won’t do anything about the false flags and I do try to keep my posts PG…. so it you guys. You don’t like my political views and philosophy. I am not even that radical. I just know facts, and I am not too nice when big people do wrongs.

  • I only heard of “Sharenting” recently. I didn’t realize how damaging posting too much content, including photos, could be to a child or teen.

  • This didn’t touch on the word of mouth aspect as well. If I could tell you how many times my parents have over shared about my business ��

  • I hate that my parents do it. My cat (that was with me my whole life and I was super close to) died from cancer and my parents told ALL their friends. Online and offline. It was sickening to hear and see everyone talking about my cat dying. And I always told them to stop because it made me want to cry but they never did. ����

  • I mean..if you trust your gut all the way, you’re safe, that’s why I met with my bf at the airport from the UK to here, Czech, and, it didn’t feel bad or pressured, believe in your body more than others, and don’t let ppl fool you

  • My mom and dad have facebook pictures of me as a baby to now.. I honestly wish some of them weren’t public because i just feel exposed.

  • nice plot twist besides with the way that computer talks like YEs LiTTLe gIRL it was obvioITS A CYCLOPS BUT WHEN I SAW IT IN SCHOOL IT DIDNT EVEN LOOK COOL

  • Oh my God, this song. It’s like a time machine, I was at my most suicidal state years ago and now while randomly shuffling trough an old playlist I instantly teleported mentally in that night at the sight of this song.

  • Wow, I can’t believe the mom’s assertion: if it’s not on insta, it didn’t happen. People are forgetting about privacy and living outside of social media completely. It’s scary.

  • And anything you store on a cloud service (which is basically just someone elses computer) is already one step less safe than storing it only on your own devices. Also, whatever you store in your cloud services “privately” can be used to analyze you and, in the worst case, used against you. Don’t trust cloud service providers like Google, Facebook, Microsoft, Apple, Amazon and so on!

  • If you ( like this style of music ) I have a original rock music project on my youtube channel of a ( similar style ) called ( Distorted Colors ) as The Offspring are definitely one of my influences keep on rocking

  • See I forgot about this so on roblox I told this person my name my month of my b-day and the she asked for my last name when I realized what I did and that I could get hurt

  • Since I was lonely I made 2 email accounts and emailed myself cuz I was lonely and my mom barged in and said she had “evidence” the person I was talking to was a child pedo.

  • THIS SONG TAKES ME OUT FROM A DEPRESSION BACI IN 2000, AFTER SOME BROKEN BONES AND THE DOCTOR TOLD ME THAT I WILL NEVER BE A PRO BASKETBALL ALL STAR…

  • i remember having to tell my mom to not post any photo on insta and facebook if you plan to use the photos for something else and not post anything about me. they copy right your photos. good thing my mother still don’t use social media.

  • Infelizmente se corromperam ao sistema
    Hoje n existe ideologia alguma, o Punk morreu, o Grunge se foi com Kurt Cobain e cris Cornell e o Metal com o Motörhead
    Vamos valorizar e pedir a Deus pra manter lendas como Stive tayler, Ozzy, Sting,Bruce Dickson, James Hetfield, Bryan Adams por mais alguns anos entre nós

  • Just because everyone is doing it, doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. I hate that argument, so what you’re going to be a sheep and follow what everyone is doing? When I have my own children, I will not over share pictures of them. I may post about the birth and so my family in Russia could see, but I respect their privacy and would never post pictures of them documenting their every second of their existence. I cringed when I saw my friend posting pictures her son when he was getting potty trained. Like that is so freaking messed up.

  • why would you put those polls there? i know to see if anyone would respond but i think that is just dumb no offence and not being a hater i was just stating my opinion

  • My take on parenting is to keep all the stuff private. The internet has already opened up the world so much, that I don’t need to be enabling other people.

  • so this is basically made for teens and kids? i was hoping this was a video addressing youtube copyright, BUT NO, THEY HAVE MORE IMPORTANT THING TO TAKE CARE OF, NOT LIKE PEOPLES LIVELY HOOD IS BEING RUINED.

  • WOW! Like WOW! I know conservative indian parenting is problematic but my GOD! if its not on insta t didnt happen?! That indian woman is lying. She really needs doses of reality.

  • Just because you don’t think there’s anything wrong with posting it doesn’t mean you should automatically assume your kid is okay with it.

  • 都合のいいものがありました。

    職務怠慢で職権悪用する下衆、捕縛できましたか?
    支社といえども、世界を席巻する企業の不祥事だ。auヘッドラインに取り沙汰されてもおかしくない筈だけどな。
    Google動画へとコメントし始めた2日後には、そう設定してもいないのに、充電を遮るかのように、電池の残量を減らすかのように、届き始めてしまったau ヘッドラインに。

    自国の動画は消せても、本国の動画は消せないか。
    ちっせえなぁオイッ。
    儂が気に喰わないんだろ?
    その儂が、コメントする場は違えども、好き勝手にほざいてんだぞ?イライラしちゃってんだろう??

    小者はコモノなりに、生きる意味を実感できないまま、酸素を無駄にし、二酸化炭素を排出し続けるのが似合ってる。誰にも迷惑かけず、誰からも関心を持たれずに、静かに没せよ。

    おまえらがいなければ、Googleを嫌悪することはなかった。

  • +Google should come up with an online Reputation Management Team and Services Call it Google WORMS World Online Reputation Management Services! Just a thought…..