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Post-weaning depression should only last a month or so, as your hormones adjust and you acclimate to your new normal as a non-breastfeeding mother. If after a month or so, your feelings of depression and moodiness don’t subside, speak to your healthcare provider about seeking mental health help, or a medical evaluation. Post-weaning depression doesn’t get its fair share of attention—and there’s little research on the condition. That may have something to do with.

Post-weaning depression is very real for many moms, but many don’t recognize the signs until it hits. And it can hit hard. If you’re no stranger to postpartum, you’ll know there’s never a dull moment.

Our hormones and emotions are always fluctuating with the changes our bodies continuously adapt to. We hear a lot about postpartum anxiety and depression, but not many of us talk or even know about post-weaning anxiety and depression. However, this very real occurrence can leave many moms in a state of worry and fear that can spiral if left unchecked.

This article offers one mom’s story of how she got through. If you start noticing the symptoms of post-weaning depression, talk to your doctor. Medication and therapy are often the best courses of treatment. Talking through this transition period can provide comfort and clarity.

Many women feel like seeing a doctor or taking medication makes them weak or less of a mother. Post-weaning depression doesn’t get its fair share of attention. That may have something to do with the fact that moms aren’t always closely monitored for depression at the time of weaning. Post weaning depression, a common phenomenon, yet largely ignored in India, and ways to combat it, for yourself and your loved ones. Postpartum depression (baby blues) is a common occurance largely ignored and very rarely talked about in India. baby blues is not the only form of depression new mothers have to worry about.There is another one, which most.

The biggest argument for the existence of post-weaning depression lies within the thousand of personal account buried across the internet in mom blogs and parenting forums. Sadly, in most cases, once the baby is here, mom falls to the wayside. They definitely need to do more research on the effects of weaning and hormones so that women who go through this don’t feel like they are alone or going crazy. Reply jenna westall on July 9, 2016 at 2:06 pm.

But for some women, depression delays even longer, surfacing during or after weaning a baby. While there’s very little research on the subject of post-weaning depression, experts hypothesize that a mom’s mood changes after ceasing breastfeeding stem from a decline of the hormones oxytocin and prolactin.

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Since these depressed mothers do not reinforce communication, their children learn to keep interaction to a minimum and speak less in general.

“The Routledge Handbook of Family Communication” by Anita L. Vangelisti
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Because every new mother experiences at least some of these symptoms, they may be wrongly interpreted as baby blues.

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They should be able to distinguish the symptoms of depression from normal postpartum adjustment such as the blues and be able to assess their severity and impact on mother and baby.

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Mothers who had no one to talk to about their problems after delivery had a high rate of postpartum depression and a low rate of help-seeking.

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Acknowledging that many new mothers feel down (blues) but are not emotionally incapacitated (atypical depression or psychosis) gives families guidelines to do self-monitoring.

“Home Care Nursing Practice: Concepts and Application” by Robyn Rice
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I had post-natal depression and was advised by my doctor to have special classes with other mothers.

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Depression in first time mothers: Mother–infant interaction and depression chronicity.

“Handbook of Infant Mental Health, Fourth Edition” by Charles H. Zeanah
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Intervention studies could play a role in answering that question by identifying moderators of the effectiveness of interventions designed to improve sensitive parenting in women with depression during the postpartum period.

“The Oxford Handbook of Stress and Mental Health” by Kate L. Harkness, Elizabeth P. Hayden
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Talking about postpartum depression before birth can actually have a positive impact in reducing depression because it will help a mother develop realistic goals and expectations for herself.

“Natural Health After Birth: The Complete Guide to Postpartum Wellness” by Aviva Jill Romm
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Many mothers with postpartum blues or mild PPD benefit from talking with a therapist and becoming involved in postpartum support groups.

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  • Man you hit the nail on the head when u talked about feeling like what’s the point of anything and life. I just recently went through this exact thing, not from post weaning, but it is awful. I get major anxiety and depression out of nowhere and noone in my family or anyone I know has ever had it so I feel like I’m crazy and messed up sometimes. But it made me feel better hearing u talk about it, not that I’m happy you had to go through it, but u know what I mean lol. Anyways I have been following you for a long time now and watch all of your videos so I kinda feel like I know you:)
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  • So I’m only half way through but my heart is breaking for you Angela. Also I relate so much. Our babies are a week apart, so we are on similar timelines. I stopped breastfeeding around 9 months and definitely felt it emotionally. I was so sad all the time for no reason and I couldn’t figure it out. It didnt help that my husband was deployed from June until February so I was alone with 3 children. I kept having the same feeling of, “what’s the point”. Every time I scrolled through IG, I was getting very upset and irritated because I kept thinking, who cares about your freakin highlight or the new eye shadow palette coming out! Theres so many more important things going on in the world! It actually made me completely delete my IG (which I did on a whim so I now regret it lol) but I havnt yet made a new one because I dont know if I’m ready. I never had these feelings with my other 2 children so it was all new to me. I didnt breast feed my first 2. I’m glad you’re working through everything and you have a lot of support. Thank you for opening up to everyone. These problems are real and people relate. Prayers for healing ❤

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