Whenever You Miss Your Child at the office

 

I Bring My Newborn To Work!

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Boy Missing 80% of Brain Beats the Odds

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Tips For Returning Back To Work With After Baby

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Zara Larsson Love Me Land (Official Music Video)

Video taken from the channel: Zara Larsson


 

Katy Perry Firework (Official Music Video)

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Funny Baby Trying to Help Mommy in Housework Cute Baby Video

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Megan Thee Stallion Girls in the Hood [Lyric Video]

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Many working moms have experienced grief over missing their baby, but there’s a powerful way you can use your mind to help you get back to work. The “Jedi mind trick” helps you learn to compartmentalize and is particularly useful if you are returning to your job after maternity leave. 1  1 Pack It up in the Mama Box. Missing your baby after returning to work is normal.

It is nothing to worry over. Know that you will adjust to being a working mom. After a while, it will all become routine to you. You may even find that you enjoy the balance work gives you in relation to motherhood. Returning to work after a baby can be difficult but these tips can help.

It helps to know how your pregnancy may affect you at work. During the first and third trimesters, expect fatigue, discomfort, and absentmindedness. But you may feel more energetic and focused in the second trimester. Even though the fatigue and forgetfulness are normal, it might help to talk about your pregnancy with a trusted friend at work.

Try the Jedi Mind Trick: Make a mom’s box and take it with you at your workplace. Now, whenever you feel guilty or missing your baby, then open the box. Put those thoughts into that box.

Close the box and keep it aside, away from your eyes. This will help you to keep those thoughts on the shore. When I’m having a bad day, feeling depressed, and missing my baby I watch him laugh and remember why I’m doing this. Why I’m at work.

Vanderbilt Wife on. Finding a caregiver close to work can reduce travel time, time apart from your baby, and the need to pump because you’ll be able to breastfeed more often. Tip: Making it work for you. Moms who are away from their babies 30+ hours per week often choose an automatic double pump for efficiency and to help keep their milk supply up.

Before you head back to work. 1. Breastfeed. Are you concerned that your baby is going to miss you when you are at work? She will be fine. Babies don’t have a sense of time developed yet, so, therefore, they won’t realize you have been gone from home for ten hours.

They also aren’t forming any memories. As for bf, it sounds like you’ve got that sorted, but just to give you some support should you reconsider the possibility of expressing at work, my boss has been very supportive, I do it twice a day and get more than enough for my DS, and I have a little fridge in my office so I don’t have to worry about other people messing with/(tbh) looking. If possible, get a second pump to leave at work to minimize lugging the gear back and forth, and make sure you have a comfortable space to pump in your office. If one’s not apparent in your workplace, explicitly ask HR or an office manager about a “lactation room.”. All of this!

Our DD was an AWESOME sleeper before I went back to work (woke once a night, sleeping 7-8 hour stretches, and then back down) and now she wakes 3. I do think they try to make up for lost time with you while you are at work. Are you nursing? I know they say it’s more common for EBF babies to try and make up that nursing time at night.

List of related literature:

Nothing can make you forget a personnel problem, a botched job or a lost deal faster than conversing in coos with your baby as you change her nappies, watching her splash and giggle in the bath, or rocking her gently to sleep.

“What To Expect The 1st Year [rev Edition]” by Heidi Murkoff, Sharon Mazel
from What To Expect The 1st Year [rev Edition]
by Heidi Murkoff, Sharon Mazel
Simon & Schuster UK, 2010

In some work settings, it may be possible for you to bring your baby to work and care for him during the workday.

“Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn: The Complete Guide” by Janet Walley, Penny Simkin, Ann Keppler, Janelle Durham, April Bolding
from Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn: The Complete Guide
by Janet Walley, Penny Simkin, et. al.
Meadowbrook, 2016

A friend, family member, or even a paid helper can make it possible for you to slip away for an hour or so every day; this can be especially helpful if you’ve got a colicky baby.

“The Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth” by Genevieve Howland
from The Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth
by Genevieve Howland
Gallery Books, 2017

After Return to Work • If available use on-site or nearby childcare, so you can go to the infant during the day.

“Pediatric Primary Care E-Book” by Catherine E. Burns, Ardys M. Dunn, Margaret A. Brady, Nancy Barber Starr, Catherine G. Blosser, Dawn Lee Garzon Maaks
from Pediatric Primary Care E-Book
by Catherine E. Burns, Ardys M. Dunn, et. al.
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2012

One of the few things I miss about my kids during the working day is the weight of their bodies on mine when I pick them up or hug them; little arms around my neck and wandering eyes that scan your face so they can imprint it into memory.

“Has Anyone Seen My Sex Life?: An absolutely hilarious, laugh out loud page turner” by Kristen Bailey
from Has Anyone Seen My Sex Life?: An absolutely hilarious, laugh out loud page turner
by Kristen Bailey
Bookouture, 2020

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  • What have you done now people on roblox wanna be like her and now they all online date and my clan of Argus have to stop THESE ODERS every time I go on a game I hear Megan song THIS SONG ITS ANNOYING IM FR GONNA GET TRAMORTiZe

  • Megan doing her thing. Glad it was her who sampled this song. She’s a Hot girl. An as for Easy E I loved his version too. But its 2020 needed some new blood on the beat.

  • This was providential! I go back to work on Monday (9 weeks postpartum) and I am SO thankful I stumbled upon it. As always, you gave great advice!

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  • Ewan q b s knila bat may mga tao dinadamay aq s buhay nl eh tratrangkasuhin nga aq s mundo nl eh. Sanay aq ng buhay n simpke lang n ns porbinsya at mglalaba aq s ilog������

  • Yes, freak accidents happen. Most babies handle a few falls or knocks well, the parents are watching, that’s how we have these videos. Our entire population would have been much smaller otherwise. All parents have these funny moments, some catch and share them, don’t hate on parents for having a bit of fun, its not like they’re in extremely dangerous situations. Enjoy the cuteness ��

  • Τα παιδακια απο μικρα καλο θα ειναι να συμετεχουν σεοτι μπορουν οχι ομως στη παιδικη εργασια (ανηλικα)γιατι το σωμα δεν εχει διαμορφωθει τοιδιο γινεται και με τον αθλητισμο πολλες φορες αλλαζει ο σωματοτυπος μικραινει το σωμα σπο τη πολυ γυμναστικη δες μωρο μου εγω κιλα δεν εχω παρει αλλα φαρδυνε η μεση μου κσι ειμαι γιουβαρλακι

  • I don’t have kids but I grew up in a home where my mom ran a daycare. I know it’s really emotional for a lot of parents to drop off the kids and they really want that sweet “goodbye” moment before heading to work, but I just thought I’d add to your point and say that it’s so much easier for the kids if parents leave without making a big deal about it. The more they push to have the big goodbye, the more upsetting it is for the kid and it can really make it much harder for them to recover once the parent has left. When things stay quick and upbeat, the it helps the kids have a great time.

  • Katy I will always love u no matter what I am one of ur fan that goes crazy about u I love the dust u walk on I Pray that GOD will grant u long life in good health and STRENGTH for ETERNITY AMEN

  • Pensando em cometer suicídio vim escutar essa música. Sim, chorei e chorei mais… Logo ao derramar de minhas lágrimas saíram de mim um peso enorme (aquela angústia de quando penso que não sirvo pra nada nessa vida). Essa música me ajuda sempre que estou pra baixo, só tenho á te agradecer Katy Perry. Você salvou minha vida várias vezes.����

  • Ah, to be back in grade 5 when everyone in class laughed about how there were fireworks coming out of her boobs. Those were the days

  • If you were in 5th grade when this song was a hit then you are now entering your senior year of college. This song feels like it was a hit last week. WTF is going on.

  • For awhile there I lived and breather crock pot cooking and doing everything the night before takes out morning confusion. Lots of good tips here!

  • Safety’s first, is not all that were funny, many parents put the lives of their babies in danger just to make a video and impress us

  • This reminds me of the first time I fell in love with Katy. Still dreaming to marry her someday even though Orlando is with her lol

  • Zara I know you read all comment.
    So don’t stop doing hard work.
    Tomorrow or later you’ll get your deserved win.
    Keep trying never loose hope ☺

  • Ich mag dieses Lied. Dieses Video ist aber…….! In sehr vielen Live Vids sieht man Zara wunderschön in Natürlich und hier fast nicht mehr erkennbar vor lauter Make up!

  • I don’t get it!! She has 6.05M subscribers and yet this music video has only 5.2M views?! I mean where the hell are you people??!!���� She’s such an underrated artist, she deserves much more better recognition obviously����

  • To those who saying she’s underrated, it’s fan’s duty to push this masterpiece to the top. She’s so talented but she can’t do it alone

  • I can’t… This song is fire! It is an absolute hit! �� But can we talk about the choreography? Zara killed it! I wish I could dance like she does! ��

  • This is really good. She’s talented af. I don’t always like all of her songs, but this is amazing. Why is she still not getting the recognition she deserves? Well I’ll put it on my playlist and listen to it on the commutes to work lel.

  • Love, love, love, love LOVE this song! ❤ Amazing vocals and the dance ������ Wow! Really proud of this girl, finally showing what a badass artist she is!

  • I can see you want attention
    Ive spoken to taylor
    I dont want her to feel upset
    I know you like me
    Look
    As long as taylor is happy
    Then you know ill be there for you
    Ive spoke to taylor
    Its ok if im honest with her
    I told her you’re upset
    Its ok x
    She knows youre a gd girl
    Taylor knows she my girl
    See
    I told you im here for you x
    You can get your kiss and cuddle if you need it

  • just back from listening to a live version and GAWD Zara’s vocals are unbelievably good, we gotta appreciate this talent make this girl win <3

  • Magical voice…
    My whole family loves your voice…
    Keep uploading such a beautiful voice..
    Lots of love and wishes from
    DEEP SENSE.
    India

  • My baby dustin is about the same age and he “half sleeps” a lot too�� BUT he Eats a lot and sleeps every 2-3hrs �� I miss my 8hrs of sleep �� he’s perfectly healthy tho ♥️

  • Great video. You are a great communicator! Love your energy. Not sure what the weird background noise is though? Thanks for the video!

  • I still have 2 months until baby is born and I’m already stressing about having to return back to work 6 weeks after she’s born. I don’t think I’ll be able to leave her so soon after she’s born

  • Mary Scott you don’t need to be judgmental you can leave too. if you feel this way about her don’t be stupid and stay on this channel bye! dont need your judgement and negativity like really you sound stupid

  • I was a working mom the first 16 yrs raising kids, leaving when having 3 kids (one nursing infant) and pregnant with twins. Been home for quite a few years, but going back this year following my husband’s sudden death. With a few kids, it wasn’t that hard. You adjust. Now, with a large family, grieving both my husband and my mother (who just died after him), not looking forward to it.

  • Hi Kyra. I’ve been watching you for awhile and I’m a teen mom, I want to start a channel but kinda shy. How can I get over it?? Your videos help me everyday with my life.

  • I know this is an old video, but having to justify why you’re working with a company when you don’t use their products or believe in using said products is pretty hard to watch. “They have s good message” though.

  • Hey Kyra, have you thought of putting Levi and Alaya into daycare? It can keep them occupied while you’re at work and they’ll be learning and around children their own age

  • Go Megan!!!! Yea Girl!!! Hood Moba Lisa!!! Go Baby Girl!!!! Sending blessings!! You did it Ma!!!! Yea!!!!!!!! Sending luv!!!! Ewww!!! You’re Bad Ass Sweetheart!!!!

  • Great tips Jeni! Thanks for sharing! I think people in the comments are missing the point, it’s not about similack, it’s about all moms being good moms, the formula company is just the vehicle for the message. Quit hating she’s a great mom

  • Some birth control is linked to increased risk of breast cancer…no wonder why everyone is getting cancer nowadays, its like normal….i wonder why. Please be careful which one you get

  • The one with 3 children cleaning absolutely amazing start them young my 18 month old granddaughter helps her dad she dusts sweeps she helps picking her toys up, wonder how long that will last lol

  • Im confused… I thought you only wanted 2 kids?? Because when you found out you were having the 3rd baby you were VERY upset and felt like you wouldn’t be able to juggle 3 kids? ��

  • thanks for your input but I was surprised of the Similac sponsorship. I have very much fallow you because I agree with your food choices. kind of made me sad

  • you have loads of jealous bitches against, but this is what us guys want to hear, vocals and deep base, screeching violins, we want many more like this

  • “Tips For Returning Back To Work With After Baby”  This title does not even make sense.  It’s not a complete sentence, but spell check was used.

  • Yes I used to watch 2 year olds & the parents that would just drop their kids off had kids that stopped crying literally 2 mins after they left. There was a mom who wouldn’t leave her kid & he would just keep crying because he knew she would stay!!

  • My first thought was “oh crap the comments u are going to get”! But I am a certified Lactation counselor, the message you are sending is wonderful. Of course as a CLC it would be against our ethics to take money or work in anyway for formula companies but honestly I’m glad you did it. The people you will reach with this message will surpass the number that get angry and from what I know about you thru the videos, that’s just the point. We have to stand united as moms and never judge them for their choices. I know in my YouTube classes I never bash and only ever educate and support because no matter what people want to believe and/or say many moms are going to use formula even moms who exclusively breastfeed. I always promote breastfeeding and it’s wonderful benefits but mom judging should never be done. My saying like Jeni is “every mom is different and many of us take different paths of motherhood but always toward the same goal.” Thanks Jeni! You did good!

  • Getting out of the house was so intimidating with my 3rd baby. I had a 10 year old, a 2 year old and a newborn…I felt overwhelmed, with everything! I did the Target run thing. Just packed up all 3 and wandered Target or Walmart several times. lol Sounds crazy but it definitely helped.

  • I have such anxiety about this, and we don’t go back to work until a year after birth! I can’t imagine 6 weeks, you guys are superheroes

  • 51% of women who got abortions in like 2015 were on contraceptives. Stay safe out there �� (sorry, just did a presentation on the Alabama abortion ban and that was part of it)

  • Victoria Monét Experience (with Khalid & SG Lewis)…….. this is an example of the direction to take, it is a song with big potential but not sung properly, etc.

  • As a working mom, I totally understand and relate to this. I have 2 toddlers and creating a schedule is definitely needed. Thanks for sharing!

  • Ladies, run away from US as far as you can!! This country is brutal on working women.. I’m crying everyday looking at my baby..:( I don’t get medical insurance for me and my kid if I’m not employed.. I’ve bonding time, but it goes without saying you get sacked if you use it.. It’s crazy..

  • Hello I just wanna say that love watching OKbaby and love how you decorated the house where did you get all the decor, carpet, etc.

  • Hey! I cant figure out how to comment on any of your other videos, but a good way to get your breast milk to go away so you dont get a infection is to wrap a verrry hot towels around your breasts and have oscar pull on it extremely tight behind you.

  • Kyra plz dont take Alaya’s fever lightly b/c having diarhoea and fever of 104-5F is freaking dangerous for a 2 year old cuz having loose motions flush out all the salt contents of the body making her feel weak (I’m a certified child physician) just had concern:) love uh ��
    Edit: it’s about the recent vlog on okbaby
    Just wanted to say it because can’t comment there.

  • I’m at uni doing my Nursing course. Spoken to my rude course leader. She said max I can have is 3 weeks that includes birth n recovery. Then back to lectures n work placements. I’m worried would I heal in time for that uni stress, would my 2 wks old baby be Steiger enough to leave with hubby whose gna spilt in paternity leave into 3 weeks. Then I’d be 3 weeks for annual leave uni would be closed. Then I got 4m hosp placement I have to leave baby his gna be 9wks. Or she has suggested I should interrupt my studies n rejoin in Feb 2020. My baby is due Feb 2019. It is ideal to postpone the course but I think I can do it return back after 3wks. My gods will, hubby n family help, scheduling, planning n I’m quite organised. I’m only 22wks n got all my baby stuff. Only thing left is bottles, on the go express set, breast pump. That 3 wks I’m gna make notes how many time baby eats, poo n sleeps, so I can have a schedule made for my husband n my family whose willing to help me. Sept 2019 I’d start uni 2nd yr, baby would be nearly 7m. 2nd yr gna be tough coz pgdip is intense Nursing course plus I’m gna do my Msc module on top of that. I just pray labour goes well, no c section, babys healthy no illness, I pray baby is a good sleeper so I can study.

  • omg you had to go back to work after 6 weeks??? and Im complaining cause in my country we get three months and two weeks off and that time is so short to me.

  • We’re the big buddies, I thought your first design would be cute bugs, lady bugs and so ����

    Okay not a fan of the whole need to hide the birth control, women take the pill for a whole different range of reason, not just sex and two your a grown adult with a fiancé and three kids, we know your having sex ����‍♀️

  • I went to the website but there are so many problems when I tried to see it, for one they aren’t offered in my state or the states next to me and it says you must be 18 and there are so many teens that should be able to use this so they don’t have teen pregnancy’s and honestly I feel like you would make sure a company would be accessible to all ages

  • love u kyra i watch your vlogs and i orded the blanket just waiting:) hope one day soon u can come to australia melbourne and say hi to me

  • Hi I am a mom who want to food my son by myself and not a ��but I was on a pill that made my milk not to come in so my son got a ��before we got home

  • Hey guys i made a channel over a year ago and it’s been growing thanks to all my supporters! If you would like to support my channel I would really appreciate it. Comment on my recent video and I’ll give you a shout out! And leave questions as well for a q&a!

  • Watched okbaby vlog..
    I appreciate how much effort you put in babycare �� even though you have work to do.

    Levi reaction on that piñata was so cool..
    Also I have watched that vlog of hail storms so I remember

  • I have a question for you! I see you drink wine once and a while and I’m gunna be breast feeding my newborn! But im also getting married 2 months after hes born and I wanted to know do you pump and dump? Or what is a safe limit? I’ve heard alot of different answers.

  • Don’t feel bad about giving formula. I know it’s heartbreaking. My niece was born 3 weeks early and very little, so from the time she was born the hospital and doctors wanted her to get formula in addition to breastfeeding. Then around 4 months old she just refused to be held in cradle or any other position one can breast feed in. She HATED being held laying back and from a very early age wanted to be held upward. My sister had to switch to formula feeding and my niece would only take her bottle if she wasn’t being held, which broke my sister’s heart. We would have to lay her down next to us and hold the bottle for her. She’s the weirdest baby, she is fiercely independent lol. She’s now 11 months old and hates when people try to show her how to do something, she insists on figuring it out herself. She isn’t a fan of cuddling at all.

  • I wish they would give you your comments back on the main channel. It seems so incredibly random in terms of which family channels got comments taken down and which didn’t. I feel like taking away engagement with the viewers hurts the channel and doesn’t do much to solve the problem they were trying to fix. I’ve heard some bigger channels were able to prevent their comments from being taken by hiring a moderator but who knows.

  • I am still mind blown that your the same age as me yet i see you as someone like 10 years older just because your so advanced in your life successes lol, i can barely be an adult lol

  • I just watched your family channel and I can so relate to your tears! I have a 3 week old and I have to supplement because I just don’t make enough milk and it kills me. People preach so much but I can only do what my body does… I actually pump every feed because he was only getting 1 oz from actual breast feeding for 30 minutes… but still… you are awesome… I’m with you and support you…

  • Honey, I just watched the latest episode of OKbaby and I just wanted you to know that you aren’t doing anything wrong by introducing formula to your baby. As long as she is happy that’s all that matters. Screw everyone else, you’re a great mom. Keep doing what you feel is best for your babies.

  • The kids are so adorable.bthe baby is growing. I bet your going to miss them now that your working. And starting a new business. But I want you to know I think it’s great you could start a business as young as you are. Enjoy those beautiful baby’s as much as you can. They grow up so fast. Before you know it they will be grown.love ya Hug’s ❤️

  • Girl I feel you! I’ve had bad experience with birth control and we want another baby a few years down the road. We’ve got 2 girls 11 months apart, 17 month old and 6 month old while being shockingly pregnant with our third (a boy) which will also be 11 months apart from my 6 month old daughter lol. Makes 2 times I got pregnant on birth control even while one caused a miscarriage before. Love watching you guys!!

  • Need some tips for work at home moms. I feel like I am not getting any quality time with hubby because my babies don’t nap at the same time so the only time I have to get work done is at night. Also how to keep pushing through despite the late nights.

  • I loved this! Yes please do more of these!

    P.S. I go my two orders from you! They are for my best friend who is pregnant with her 2nd a girl (1st is a boy and he is the cutest thing ever!) I can’t wait to give them to her at her baby shower I’m hosting July 14th. They were both signed and I did not expect them to be. I got so emotional I started crying. I find you very motivational and a overall amazing woman and mother. If you can have 3 kids, run 2 YouTube channels, and start a business despite having anxieties I can despite having anxieties also do what I need to do.

  • DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE A PLASTIC BAG DRIFTING TROUGH THE WIND WANTING TO START AGAIN?
    DO YOU EVER FEEL FEEL SO PAPER THIN LIKE A HOUSE OF CARDS ONE BLOW FROM CAVING IN?

  • I always had the worst anxiety about leaving my babies to go back to work. I am so thankful that I am lucky enough to be able to stay home with my kids. Mommas gotta do what we gotta do!

  • Can I just say (As a health care professional):
    1. If you can’t talk to your doctor about your sex life, you probably shouldn’t be having sex.
    2. They will only ask if you ARE sexually active, not how often or how much your’re having.
    3. If you are still going for a pap, just do this at the same time, trust me talking about BC won’t be awkward after that.
    4. Most pharmacy’s will deliver your refills free of charge, so it still comes to your door. (plus mail order pharmacies)
    5. A licensed doctor in your hometown is a more reliable source of information than some internet pharmacy site.

  • I just want to say up front, I’m glad you don’t have the double ads on your channel… I’ll watch ads through that aren’t double 3 min. Of ads, or happy with unskippable ones as you have that run through quickly

  • I am so proud and excited for you about your new business! Things really seem to be taking off.
    I have a question. Do you think you may try a “weighted” blanket? I have been seeing and researching about and seem to help a greatly with anxiety. If not the blanket, you could consider making covers for them. Just an idea.