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The Dangers of Online Dating. Teens may also get tricked into giving out personal information that could lead to their identities being stolen. Or, in more serious cases, they may be lured into in-person meetings that could be dangerous. Unfortunately, predators often take advantage of the teen’s trusting nature. Pros: Arguments for allowing teens to use online dating apps Your Agreement Can Build Trust.

Showing your teen you trust them can reduce tension at. There’s no right answer. It’s important to consider your child as an individual. Consider their emotional maturity and sense of responsibility.

For many kids, 16 seems to be an appropriate age. So the question remains, “Should I allow my teen to find dates online?” The simple answer is, “No.” While online dating has come a long way in finding successful matches, the dating game is still fraught with many bad apples and poor experiences. The possibilities to worry about online teen dating are endless, even with “good” teen dating sites.

But the solution is the same, whether we’re talking about Tinder, Instagram, MyLOL or the latest yet-to-be-invented app. Stay aware, parents, and stay involved.. What Parents Can Do To Promote Safe Online Datin. Twenge adds that when teens conduct the early stages of relationships online rather than in person, “it can place a lot of emphasis on physical appearance, particularly for girls.

It’s your job, as their parent, to figure out if your child is ready to handle the level of dating they have in mind. Pay attention to how they respond when you start a conversation about dating. So be involved with his teen dating life to the extent that both you and his father are beyond clear that you expect him to be respectful (in person, online, or while texting) toward anyone he dates.

Acknowledge your teen’s pain but assure her that she will be happy again. “I understand how upset you are, and I know you may feel like your sadness is never going to go away. But it will, and probably sooner than you think.” Do not use this opportunity to reveal how you never liked the newly insignificant significant other in the first. But what if you find out an adult is trying to have a relationship with your teenager?

You need to clearly state what your rules are and why. If your child is 15 and they’re dating an 18 year old, I would encourage you to openly discuss the risks to him/herself as well as the risks to the other party if they were to engage in a sexual.

List of related literature:

RULES FOR THE WIRED WORLD: KEEPING YOUR TEEN SAFE ONLINE To parents, the Internet can seem a terrifying place.

“My Teen Has Had Sex, Now What Do I Do?” by Ph.D., Maureen Lyon, Maureen Lyon, Ph.d., Christina Antoniades
from My Teen Has Had Sex, Now What Do I Do?
by Ph.D., Maureen Lyon, Maureen Lyon, Ph.d., Christina Antoniades
Fair Winds Press, 2009

One of the best things parents can do to keep their daughter safe online is to be informed.

“Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years” by Shana Nichols, Liane Holliday Willey, Ginamarie Moravcik, Samara Pulver-Tetenbaum
from Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years
by Shana Nichols, Liane Holliday Willey, et. al.
Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2009

One thing many parents worry about that turns out not to be true is the myth that social networking sites like MySpace and Facebook make children more vulnerable to online predators.

“Free-Range Kids, How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children (Without Going Nuts with Worry)” by Lenore Skenazy
from Free-Range Kids, How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children (Without Going Nuts with Worry)
by Lenore Skenazy
Wiley, 2010

It’s not unusual or unreasonable for parents of kids under 18 to monitor all their online activity—including knowing what their profiles say on Web sites like MySpace and who they talk to on these sites.

“How to Talk with Your Kids about Sex: Help Your Children Develop a Positive, Healthy Attitude Toward Sex and Relationships” by Dr. John Chirban
from How to Talk with Your Kids about Sex: Help Your Children Develop a Positive, Healthy Attitude Toward Sex and Relationships
by Dr. John Chirban
Thomas Nelson, 2012

At the same time, parents are concerned about the risks kids face online.

“Making the Internet Safe for Kids: The Role of ISP's and Social Networking Sites: Hearings Before the Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations of the Committee on Energy and Commerce, House of Representatives, One Hundred Ninth Congress, Second Session, June 27 and June 28, 2006” by United States, Congress House Committee on Energy and Commerce Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations Staff, United States. Congress. House. Committee on Energy and Commerce. Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations
from Making the Internet Safe for Kids: The Role of ISP’s and Social Networking Sites: Hearings Before the Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations of the Committee on Energy and Commerce, House of Representatives, One Hundred Ninth Congress, Second Session, June 27 and June 28, 2006
by United States, Congress House Committee on Energy and Commerce Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations Staff, United States. Congress. House. Committee on Energy and Commerce. Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations
U.S. Government Printing Office, 2006

Teens can meet people, flirt, date, and break up beyond the earshot and eyesight of their parents and other adults while also doing these things in front of all their online friends.

“Hanging Out, Messing Around, and Geeking Out: Kids Living and Learning with New Media” by Mizuko Ito, Sonja Baumer, Matteo Bittanti, Danah Boyd, Rachel Cody
from Hanging Out, Messing Around, and Geeking Out: Kids Living and Learning with New Media
by Mizuko Ito, Sonja Baumer, et. al.
MIT Press, 2009

Tell your child he must never agree to a face-to-face meeting with someone he’s met online without your approval and supervision.

“The Educated Child: A Parents Guide From Preschool Through Eighth Grade” by Chester E. Finn, Jr., John T. E. Cribb, Jr., William J. Bennett
from The Educated Child: A Parents Guide From Preschool Through Eighth Grade
by Chester E. Finn, Jr., John T. E. Cribb, Jr., William J. Bennett
Free Press, 1999

Of course, parents ultimately decide what they think is appropriate in monitoring the online behaviors of the youth in their household.

“Bullying Beyond the Schoolyard: Preventing and Responding to Cyberbullying” by Sameer Hinduja, Justin W. Patchin
from Bullying Beyond the Schoolyard: Preventing and Responding to Cyberbullying
by Sameer Hinduja, Justin W. Patchin
SAGE Publications, 2009

More important, teens should never meet in person with online friends because these friends may not be who they say there are, potentially placing your child in danger.

“The Science of Making Friends, (w/DVD): Helping Socially Challenged Teens and Young Adults” by Elizabeth Laugeson, John Elder Robison
from The Science of Making Friends, (w/DVD): Helping Socially Challenged Teens and Young Adults
by Elizabeth Laugeson, John Elder Robison
Wiley, 2013

Teens who date on the dl have a much easier time doing so if at least one person’s parents let them communicate freely.

“Desi Land: Teen Culture, Class, and Success in Silicon Valley” by Shalini Shankar
from Desi Land: Teen Culture, Class, and Success in Silicon Valley
by Shalini Shankar
Duke University Press, 2008

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  • Again, attractive people giving dating advice, you never see ugly or plain people giving advice or rarely.

    Confidence, money, nice clothes, funny, charming ect mean zero if you’re unattractive, not nice but true, only a liar will tell you otherwise..stuff your advice.������

  • Online is fake we should all just focus on the real world skills, putting phones down etc and in the real world you focus on your self more then meet someone versus life being f**ked up and seeking validation online when you need to be getting your ish together in real life. But this comment section cracked me the hell up so hard I’m crying ������ I hope everyone finds what they’re looking for

  • what if your a sophomore in high school and really like a girl that you have known for quite some time now. I feel like I have a very strong relationship with christ, but I also want to learn what the qualities of a future spouse would be? I also meet this person at a retreat that our church does designed for adults, but they pick like 10 very dedicated high school volunteers that are all on very similar paths.

  • My Brother, My heart is broken! ��
    I can’t take it ��. I gave my life to Jesus and followed by it I got into a girl, now I’m heart broken to say that she left me ����

  • I need help there is a girl I really �� like. She said I am extremely hot and I have a amazing body. However, she said she has not felt a connection yet I am trying to establish a connection however I am not sure what to do

  • I download the app and logged in with snapchat, I set up my profile and it asked me to put my birthday in so I put in November 4th 2002, and it says put your real birthday in after I hit enter a couple seconds later the page goes white and says something went wrong, app is stupid I literally just got it and haven’t even entered my b day and it thinks I’m lying about it. My snapchat account is was created with my real birthday too so idek

  • Dating is hard tbh. Everyone wants to find a soul mate. But you need to find who you are single before you can ever try to find who you or anyone else is in a relationship. This guide really helped me https://www.digistore24.com/redir/302188/CailinnW/

  • You’re awesome ������ I do want to get married by the time I am 21, but I agree completely w/ the?s that one should ask b4 diving into dating. Wonderful video & stories. To anyone reading this: God loves you & gives you purpose + I love you #stayblessed #Godgotu ��������✌

  • Lmfao, utter boomer nonsense. There is no such thing called personality, no one gives a crap. Dating is not for you in 2020, either be online or offline, if you are ugly, short and non-white. It’s over.

  • Boys and girls, you can allways worry about religion later when you’re old and stuck in some dead end job you hate, while you’re still young and in high school just remember to have fun and don’t take everything as seriously as this guy.

  • This is absolutely true! As a 20 year old, I get so caught up in finding “the one” especially at church. Everyone around me is in some kind of relationship even some younger than me and I guess the pressure is high. But I’ve been praying about it because I know well that I’m not near ready and that it’s just my surroundings that affect me. I know I have to seek Jesus first and make him the center if everything. He is more than enough and I definitely need to feel, believe and live that. Thank you so much for your insight and perspective

  • My question: What should you do if a non believer wants to be with you? i read about it that you should not yolk urself with them but if they marry you that they will be made holy because you are holy

  • Without ever dating I have a pretty good idea on this topic. I am 17 and there is this girl I’ve liked for almost 2 years now. Her and I talk and are really good friends, but for this whole time I have worried about it constantly, and during this past summer it really got to me and I was super depressed for awhile. I ended up talking to one of my friends about it and through a lot of conversations I eventually realized that I just needed to stop liking them for lack of a better word. I’m not really sure how to explain it. I had to decide to just let it go, and as soon as I did that day I just felt so peaceful and more happy than I had been in a long time.I still talk with her every day and I’d say we are even better friends now, but I just don’t think about liking her anymore. When you date, you give up a lot of freedom that you otherwise have. I can do so many things that my friend can’t because I’m single. Also you have to deal with so much else in high school that putting the extra stress on can make it unbearable sometimes. So my answer to this question is really to just wait. There is so much more of a life ahead of you, and you need to focus on you before you can focus on someone else. And before you can focus on you, you need to focus on God. I am really glad I was able to just say no, and that one word has changed the last month of my life so much. I also said how happy I always was when I was around this girl, and my friend told me something which is probably one of the most important and most valuable words I’ve heard in my life. “Don’t put your happiness in a person.” That is so true. People will fade away, and the love and happiness of people is not perfect and is corrupted. But putting my happiness on God will never fail.

  • I’m a 17 year old and I would like to share a few pointers on dating girls, that somewhat work for me.
    1. Caring about your appearance is important
    2. Be Confident (your appearance can also boost confidence)
    I know these first to are obvious
    3. When talking to a girl, instead of saying “I think” say “I feel”
    4. Don’t even mention Sex (I used to be obsessed with the idea of having sex with someone because I was a virgin) but girls can see through you, they can tell if you lust them or love them. If you just want to f #ck her, then it’s probably best to wait until you find someone that you actually love. Sex will eventually come anyway. Plus she will be asking you a lot more about it, if you play hard to get. (Remember us guys hate girls playing hard to get, but for girls it’s the opposite) It’s a thirsty part of a man’s life and it will come sooner or later. (I call it the Degenerate Phase)
    4. (Forgot to label this one) Don’t tell them too much about you, it kind of ruins the mysteriousness of yourself, and humans are generally curious by nature no matter what gender they are.

  • I have always suspected my wife was cheating on me. We have been married for 15 years now and its been a smooth ride until last year when she changed and started seeing other men. A friend of mine linked me up with a great hacker Cyber Hack who helped me hack into her phone, I had complete access to her phone right on my device and I could monitor all her activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, her location, call logs, text messages and all. I was left with no other choice.I loved my wife so much and I just dont know why she chose to betray me, I have been a good husband and never for once cheated on her. I tracked her down to a hotel where I found her with another man. You can contact them at cyberhack003 at gmail or Whatsapp +15303784744 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into her phone without even touching her phone.I have enough evidence against my wife now and I am thinking of Filing for divorce. I want advice from men and other women on here, should I give her another chance because of our kids or file for divorce? We have a 4months old baby.

    People will forget what you SAID.People will forget what you DID But they will NEVER forget how you made them FEEL.

  • There’s not really an age for that people date when they want they even have sex when they want so never mind when it comes to dating. I personally think you should take care of your self financially and in adult ways before you start doing adult activities weather if it is dating going out to party or having sex hanging out with friends ecs. People grow up only for there own convenience. At 13 they feel ready for dating first they should get a job and work they need to learn how to wip there own ass and then is dating that’s my opinion.

  • U don’t understand that when there is an attraction between ppl u don’t need a text msg or a call from someone,it’s like the universe brings u together. N it doesn’t matter who is the first to call or start a convo. Hence, just go with the instincts instead of making someone fall for u.

  • God Bless You, Emily and all of your viewers in King Jesus’ Name! You are Awesome! This is a super helpful video! I am sharing this to my personal FB! Love you and your Emily in Christ My Brother ��✨����✨��

  • I’m done with online dating. Too many fake profiles, women have unrealistic expectations and most women lie not disclosing they have a child or children, in the process of a divorce or separated acting like that means single. Online dating is where fake people meet fake lifestyles.

  • I’m now 41, single, never been married, and no kids… and last time I went on a date was about… honestly it has been so many years since I have been on a date that I can’t even remember when was the last time. But not by my choice. A little advice to anyone reading this who is 29 and younger… once you turn 30, and can then no longer partake in college age church groups, your options and opportunities for meeting a good single, without kids, Christian man or woman become significantly more difficult to find. And those opportunities become more and more sparse as you get older. Most Churches have well established singles groups for teens and college ages up to 29. After that, for the most part, there is no more large single’s groups within a church. And if you don’t already have a well established network of trusted friends, where you live, to help increase your chances of connecting to someone who is single then at that point your odds of meeting someone drop off dramatically.

    The lesson here is simply this… once you get past 30 years of age expect the dating pool to mostly dry up. But remember with hope and faith in Jesus anything is possible.
    Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
    Cheers and God Bless you all that you may be a blessing to others! ��

  • I am. Myself this is why I’m both single and man drama / relationship free for the last 4 years!:D
    Side note my self doesn’t think that me is attractive physically most times infact I’ve accepted that and am dressing down and staying away from close relationships so I don’t attract any body in the street or otherwise. Ahem

    Anyway um curious, all of you who are saying “I was myself and I’m still single for the past ten years!” Is that because you are actively choosing not to date or bond with people or because being yourself horribly backfired and repelled everyone around you?:p

  • I agree. Just be yourself. You’ll know Pretty Quickly if you do or don’t like this person (as far as their attitude is concerned) I literally used to read the same magazines, and figured out they are pretty BS through trial and error. I’ve found over thinking your own flaws doesn’t help either, and they either can accept them or not (and I have to remind myself that) You either like zippers or not:-/

    I always thought the friend zone was the safest place to start (still do) but I think that paradigm needs to shift.

  • Hey Justin! Not sure how I stumbled upon your videos but they’ve been a blessing for sure.:) Also, unrelated but I think we actually have quite a bit of mutual friends…..that sounds creepy but it’s not meant to lol. Anyways, to get to the topic at hand, I myself am 24, about to finish college, have always been a Christian & gone to church & the whole 9 yards (though that by NO means defines your relationship with God, said relationship is not defined by a set of rituals), but only now do I feel God has brought me to a point where it’s reasonable to start dating, when God opens the doors with the right person. I did have one relationship in undergrad with another Christian, but he was not of the same faith as me, & I did the whole over-justification-to-myself thing that so many of us do, because we want it to be the right relationship & we don’t want to mess up & go through that hurt. Not my brightest decision, but-oh, did I mention I was 19/20? Yeah, college plus that relationship especially did a LOTTTT to mature me (though I’m still a work in progress! see Phil. 1:6) & to help me realize GOD MUST BE FIRST. It doesn’t matter if you’re both well-meaning, praying, Bible-believing Christians; if God isn’t #1 in your life & consequently in your relationships, FORGET IT. He WILL lead you to where you need to be, & who you need to team up with-not just in personality compatibility, but also for the sake of ministry & of nudging each other closer to Christ as Christ leads you. But you (we) must have God first & trust Him with our lives. After all, if He loves us AND knows us more than anyone else possibly could, & He does, why WOULDN’T we trust Him to lead us to the best decision?…boy, for a single person, I sure got a lot to say lol. Well I’m done for now xD GB!

  • I’ve been myself and women still don’t like me. So at this point I feel like it’s hopeless for me. Try as I might or not at all. The result is always the same. Deafening silence and endless rejection. Im so sick of it.

  • What should you do when the parents of the person you are dating don’t like you and are very discouraging and only rebuke your girlfriend/boyfriend while also not demonstrating good christian ideals?

  • What if you’re a very photogenic guy, and you are great at messaging back and forth, and you are confident, dominant and very charming in person, and you in reality, have a dynamic and interesting personality……. Well, in that case I GUESS YOU WOULD BE ME!!!

  • Awww… “being myself” turned out very painful for me… every time. People just don’t appreciate honesty and real you… but that doesn’t mean you should pretend to be something else or play some silly games. That’s exhausting.

  • My boyfriend and I constantly fight I want to see him so bad and he lives in Georgia and I live in Ohio I want to see him so badly I love him so much you have no idea he means so much to me I can’t live my life with out him without I Can’t breathe. I mean it

  • I was 18 personally because I was never that into dating but honestly.
    I think have the time place and actually similarity go ahead.
    I think 14 yrs is okay because it a teen relationship but everyone different

  • Now I’m a great looking guy not being egotistical but at 49 and look 33( I hear it alot and sick of it!)and I think it is the opposite.. meaning insecure women. WON’T select you because they are insecure… They are intimidated and no confidence. Today’s WOMEN want a man they can CONTROL…. See it all the time.

  • wow… The video is perfect… to God be the glory*** no one can love enough bt the person compromising to love God, cannot love the other one…(bf or gf)

  • In my experience it gives them huge power and massive options. I know for a fact that even plain-looking women or the ugly ones for that matter get litterally dozens of messages from decent-looking men. So you end up messaging and shooting Likes at women you wouldn’t even look at in real life; only to get ignored completely.

  • met a 40 yr old woman at an event, she had a 14 yr old kid, got together a few times, she was also on tndr. She being on Tndr never bothered, but she turned out to be narcissist, egoist passive aggressive person. While getting to know each other she said she was married 3 times, but the didnt matter. She has game in real life to be fair, but she lives her life tricking people, acting like she is a savior and a god giving presence for the ppl she tricks. She’s a business owner and invites speakers for her clients to listen to under a fee agreement, but she breaches fee agreements based on her premise that she is a friend to you or even dates you. this writer was horny and dmbass to go there. just be careful guys.

  • My granddaughter just got married at 23 and her parents decided but she was in college them and they told her no you cannot get married until you are at after Kali so her and her boyfriend got engaged in 2016 they just got married last January in 2018 so they’ve been engaged for a really really long time they’re very compatible but she’s even going for a very long time so which is good and they had to wait no kissing no hugging no nothing they had the day out of Christian parents around them all the time

  • Is it really possible to be in a relationship, but not have sex if you are a guy?
    If so, how do you prevent yourself from having sex if you dating?

  • Is it really possible to be in a relationship, but not have sex if you are a guy?
    If so, how do you prevent yourself from having sex if you dating?

  • I’m 19 and I have never dated anyone, but I realized that maybe it is because God wants me to focus on Him on this part of my life:3

  • I’m 19 and have been in relationships. Now I’ve decided to chill and focus on college and spirituality. I’m planning on dating again at 23

  • I don’t think its about age its about spiritual maturity… I’ve met some 30 year olds who weren’t ready for a relationship and some 14 year olds who were. its not about age its about your relationship with God. He wants us to have a relationship with another person so we can have a physically intimate (once we are married) where with God we’re spiritually intimate.

  • Bruh these Christians virgins are just making excuses because they can’t get a gf lmao I’m 13 and I’ve already made out with my gf

  • I consider all girls who using online apps even worse than damaged slatternny runaways with tattoo. Don’t waste your time guys also it’s going to destroy your confidence and self-esteem

  • But if you’re fully content with singleness, then why would you date or prepare for marriage?

    I would say based on your point that one shouldn’t be discontent with singleness to the point where they’re idolizing marriage/relationships. Besides, God works in our lives in ways we like and don’t like, yet it’s always for the best.

    Yet if one has absolutely no inclination or desire to get married, then that may actually mean that they should be single.

  • I recently had doubts concerning my wife’s loyalty to our marriage, but with the help of @jonathan_waver on Instagram helping me to hack into her account I was able to be certain of her infidelity.

  • What advice would you give to marriage if one continues to mature, and other emotionally remains young? I’ve seen many marriages that end up unbalanced, that usually ends up divorced.

    Waiting until 21 before getting serious, or even dating that is probably more true for collage students. Met plenty of blue-color workers who got married right out of high school, and had a good marriage. Perhaps a better milestone are you going through major INTULECTUAL changes? if so, better to put off relationships until you settle into the “new” you.

  • The thing is in this modern society, it seems to be a normal thing to date at a very young age. I’m 14 and already a lot of my friends are in a relationship. I have decided that I’m not ready for a relationship, but that will probably seem very weird for the people around me. How do I deal with this?

  • It’s easy to say “just be yourself” but dating extensively and internationally has taught me that many people (I only date women) don’t know who they are yet. Until that self discovery is made, it can be difficult to connect with someone in a meaningful and romantic way.

  • hahahaha, this is what people who never tried online dating thinks…
    For me, I’m excellent in real life, but I’m not photogenic, and can’t be bothered to write some cheesy chat messages.

    I’ve matched with 100-200 girls and not a single one has met me in real life…

  • If a woman is very attractive and has modest requirements, then she is always taken. if a woman is NOT attractive and she has above average requirements, then she goes online. Think about it. Most girls online are BOTH unattractive AND have high demands. That’s why they are single. They are looking for guys online because in the real world almost nobody approaches them and they think that online they will find the “prince” whom they think they deserve.

  • money is what scares me most about relationships, im a senior in highschool and a welder by trade, i basicly get paid a few bucks off minimum wage, and money is always what women seem to want, just last week on a mission trip in a van, 4 girls in the back were talking about how they are not going to mess around with average christian guys, they said they r going to marry someone rich so they can buy expensive clothes, i was a little frustrated, christian girls who want only rich guys not average Godly men like me, this is probably why i wont get married, women want money it seems

  • This video was very helpful to me. I would always see my other friends get into relationships and I always think why am I not with anyone. There have been times I could’ve gone into a relationship with someone but for some reason I couldn’t bring myself to do it and I thought something was just wrong. But in actuality I am still finding myself and purpose and am not ready for the responsibility of a relationship

  • I dont date leftover women. Most online chicks are over 25. They have too many bodies, diseases and entitlements. Their days are over

  • well there are some things in time matter that apply to this so called dating game. you can not have a reltionhsip if you do not agree to things. if its a different indendent realtionship then it might be different.are you compatible that way?

  • Eh. It worked great for me, but that’s because I’m in a niche where I’m in a very conservative sect of an old school religion and the only other people on the site I was using are also after the same thing.

    Still very happily married to woman was then a 21 year old virgin, who is still very attractive after two kids, and I’ve got a great clan of in-laws that I’m closer to than most of my own family

  • Nice Girls finish last. Love your videos…very entertaining. But you can’t be “yourself”. You can’t Call or Text everytime you think of them. Men don’t appreciate it. They are hunters…chasers. It’s in their DNA. Men like a challenge. Mystery. Make sure your not just waiting for their call or text. Don’t be always available. These are the rules…that works. Work.

  • And not to mention women online use manipulative photos from 10years ago and you meet them in real life and you run for the hills..

  • Online dating is great for pump n dump, after a few of those a relationship forms of sorts based around sex, meet the fam, meet the bfs, meet the craycray. How far down the rabbithole is up to you. Memorize the DSM5 n criminal code. Study mortal combat. Be ready to pull the ejection handle before its too late. No matter how great the sex, no matter how often the sex, prepare to be ghosted, so always have backup for the backup for the backup. Never rely 100% online, pickup random women, allow random women pick u up, date your online date’s gfs. Enjoy chaos but never deviate from your purpose.
    https://piratenews2020.blogspot.com/2020/09/my-girlfriend-is-whore.html

  • when your on youtube all they talk about is high quality men or woman..yet I just came back from a packed Walmart…there wasn’t any quality there at all….

  • This is so true, games, strategies and all are fun to watch in movies but in real life the best course of action is to be yourself

  • I think trust in a relationship is overrated. When my husband started getting frequent night calls, i would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, i decided i deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this great ethical hacking team( [email protected] ) who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch the device. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location, WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages (both deleted and incoming ones) with a remote link to a programmed App on my phone. I’m here in Florida and able to access my husband’s phone…even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. If you need help or that little bit of closure, i advice you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( [email protected] )Or Text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467…thank me later.

  • I should’ve saw this before. My ex said “you’re cheating on me.” “Go with him.” Whenever I said I was texting my friends. But it in reality he was cheating, he was chatting his ex’s, bragging about having tons of girlfriends to his friends on insta. Etc. Now I have trust issues. DO NOT ONLINE DATE

  • Tinder is cryptonite for young guys. Not only will you have hardly any good matches unless you’re photogenic but this will also undermine your confidence and success in real life and thus keep you thirsty and hooked on that app. I’ve deleted Tinder and saw immediate improvement. I’ll avoid it until I’m 30.

  • I can only make a basic educated guess about a persons personality traits based on photos. All the idiosyncrasies of a person are invisible.
    Internet dating is probably mainly for the extremes of the IQ Bell curve. A. The very dull minds that recognise a mate by nonverbal instinct B. The (literary) educated people that can express themselves and navigate all the hindrances posed by indirect communication.

  • This is really refreshing. I was looking for content for my brother. I happen to be single also and don’t use online dating anymore.

  • As often, simple does not mean easy:) It’s about consistency: are all facets of person consistent? If the dating partner detects inconsistency, that leads to suspicions, whether warranted or not. The difficult part is that one has to become the sort of person that other person would find attractive, and that requires a ton of (ongoing) work. As a man, one could simplify it to: work out. That takes care of the vast majority of the other issues.

  • I’m turning 14 soon and I want to start dating. My cousins are younger than me and are allowed to date bc they are boys but my mom won’t let me even try. So for now I want to just wait until I’m 16-17 bc that’s when I’ll be able to drive.

  • i would like to see videos on long term christian relationships, how much to text/ call, when to let go, how to talk about boundaries, how to spend time so that this long term relationship may results in a succesfull marriage.

  • Hello justin! I am 17 years old and i have been in a relationship for two years now. We both believe in God and I put God before everythink, my boyfriend isn’t as important as God..
    Our relationship is very strong and we make plans about future and marriage. What do you think? Am I doing the right thing? Please help me, I am very confused about my age, dating and such things.

  • These days I’ve thinking about getting a girlfriend. This video helped me a lot to think and focus on what is really important. I have things to do like in my church and school. Maybe this pressure of being a teen and don’t having a girlfriend lead me where I shouldn’t be. God bless you all. First seek his kingdom.

  • I (25) helped a work mate in his 50ies get out of online dating. He was subscribed to about ten sites and paid regular premium fees to about five of them. They are all interconnected, it’s always the same user base, the same back end, the same owners who pocket your money double and triple. Your subscription gets extended automatically, when you unsubscribe they continue sending bills or even menace you with suing you and you can only contact them through a signed letter to some dummy headquarters address where no rat goes. It’s addicting and numbs you with an illusion of satisfaction, similar to porn. Avoid it like the plague! Seriously.

  • Keeping secrets,jealousy,narcissism,lies and infidelities are major threats to most marriages and relationships and it is very much important for us to be smart not to trust 100% when dealing with our partners. Yes, I know the importance of trusting but that same trust can hurt you so much and so badly. I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone. I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and 2 years far back deleted messages from my phone through a programmed link to a cloned app containing all cloned cell information without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all deleted and recent chats on his Whatsapp, Twitter,Facebook,Instagram messages and Skype. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” via Gmail  (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp: +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later!

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  • Wrong…When you know what you are doing, whether you meet them in person or online, you get the girl. The focus has to be on being as authentic as possible. It is not about game or manipulation…It is about being real…a man…authentic…firm… self-aware. If a person is not congruent with what they put down….in person or online, it will fail. A woman’s shit test will reveal you’re true nature. Again, it is not about the game. Online….works for me. I have options galore. This just shows that you don’t have the knowledge to be successful with women

  • I agree to an extent.because my.partner and I.both motivate each other to get closer to god and yes we still make.mistakes.but.we learn. From it and it brings us closer to.each other and God.as well

  • please give details of my friends to your single guy friends who actually come to Thailand. They seek serious nice men to have long term relationships, marry with. thank you so much. all the best dear.

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    i block fast after tell Facebook of girls.
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  • I’ve had the exact experience of having little success online. I can’t attract the kind of woman I normally do when in person. I have very good success with women irl I believe because of my presence, intellect, depth of conversation and qualities that can’t be conveyed in a short online profile. But the women that I tend to meet when I do connect online are not at all those I find to be attractive beyond looks or character. I’ve given up and gone only irl.

  • “Dating” is a bunch of bullshit. What happened to horny single mothers
    and women that would seduce me because that’s what they wanted? In 20
    years every so called “date” I was in was basically me getting used for
    sometimes up to 8 months for a free ride, no sex at all and then getting
    dumped for a meth zombie with no roof over his head that just got out
    of jail. Oh yeah, almost forgot, one of them tried repeatedly to get me
    to smoke meth with her, locked herself in the bathroom smoking meth,
    masturbating and watching porno on her phone I had to call the police
    on her to get her out of here. All of her cloths are still here and she
    is flopped out somewhere in a drug den. I don’t need any of your
    fuckin’ advice OK. I need the women I meet and live with me for
    free to get off that methamphetamine bullshit!! It has fucked my life
    up for 20 years now and I never even used the crap!!

  • This is outdated. Online dating is now mainstream and all kinds are there it’s to be avoided for other reasons now. It’s good for casual dating and playing the field

  • Oh dear so many of these comments are so sad to read. I’m convinced the reason I’m single at 44 is that I was put off dating as a teenager out of fear for “getting it wrong”, “putting God / study first”, and a general lack of self-confidence, all mainly emanating from Christian teaching. The later I left it, the less confidence I had to make anything happen. Then I eventually met a lady on a Christian group holiday, and started dating her afterwards (she was about 30 and I was about 40). Neither of us had a clue how to handle a relationship due to inexperience! Plus by this time I had been having serious doubts about my faith for at least 10 years…which eventually led to me having to break up with her as I was less and less convinced about the Christian faith but her faith was solid. I’ve been to a few speed dating events since, but don’t have the confidence or drive to put a lot of effort into starting a long term relationship and largely feel I’ve just left it too late.

    Also in my relationship above, we fell into the trap of reading this awful book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Dating-Relationships-Thomas-Gerald-Hiestand/dp/1433527111/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=. One of its major ideas is to have a “dating friendship” until you get engaged, so no-one gets hurt if you split up. Yeah, that really worked (not!), she was still mortified a year on.

  • The good looking guys get women, the rest struggles. Yeah game might help you out. But if you don’t have looks it’s gonna be super hard. It’s biology. Good luck beating that.

  • The Mormon Church sets a minimum dating age of 16. That’s disgusting and just encourages paedophillia. Let children be children. It should be 18.

  • To be honest allot of guys that resort to online dating do exactly that because they have average looks and/or physiques and simply lack the personality to get women first hand. Yes if you arent carried much if at all by your looks online dating isnt for you. But even if you are very highly attractive online dating actually becomes a waste of time. Why spend all the time taking pictures and swiping right if you can just pickup a hot girl that smiles at you at the gym, during your actual workout. Online dating is really for people who are stuck in the middle. Enough looks to attract from a picture but not enough to get instant eyes on them during everyday life.

  • My experience with online dating sites is pretty bad and a waste of my time. There are a lot of narcissistic people on there and it is extremely difficult to actually get to know someone’s personality. I find that joining social groups and expanding your community presence is way more effective.

  • Agree with him totally. Thing is, they won’t listen to you. They go after the skirt and come here after to complain about the shitty quality of a woman they got and how she got pregnant. Same ol’ same. Yawn.

  • Watched a female Housemate going through Tinder a few years ago, I was shattered that you get less than a tenth of a second before she swipes left brothers.
    Also, every one of her lovers (and she rotated them fortnightly) had one thing in common.
    Mad Haircuts…LOL

  • All that a guy wants is a girl who is
    1. Not a hoe
    2. Somewhat attractive

    All this split the bill equally, qualifications and other stuff is secondary.

  • Dating in general is rigged af. Women just have to be there looking pretty, while guys have to be charming, convincing, confident, good looking, carrying the conversation and risking rejection. That is a stupid unfair game and I’m never going to play it.

  • With online apps people can edit their photos to appear more photogenic than they actually are, or take 20 minutes to formulate a witty response to seem more interesting. Apps are  an easy way for people to lie to themselves and to others. Instead of loving themselves and loving others for who they are, people would rather pretend to be someone they’re not and chase a fantasy that can never exist.

  • its good to do both. swipe away on these apps and approach women whenever possible in the outside world. I’ve gotten plenty of ladies this way. and for those who don’t have too much experience approaching girls outside, try making small talk with girls from the supermarket. they have the lowest self esteem. I’ve gotten a lot of numbers this way.

    when you get a fuck toy from these apps, practice game with them. be patient with apps because it takes time. for every 150 girls I swipe right on, there’s about 4 or 5 who just want to fuck. so be patient. it may be more or less for you.

  • Amen! I was not allowed to date until I was 16, but by the time I became 16 I did not want to date and guys annoyed me. I’m 25 now and I’ve dated, but not on a serious level and couple of guys I have talked to, are not what I believe God has for me.

  • Guys, online dating apps are run and administered by humans… consider the possibility that they may well be feminist/betas with hypocritical bias in favour of women… this will become apparent when they side with women you reject after chatting. Seriously, just read the terms and conditions… you can get banned without having your side of the story out across just because a woman you rejected wants to report you. Since finding this out, I’ve stayed completely off dating apps and quite frankly, there’s plenty of reasons for not being on there.

  • Nothing wrong with thinking serious about relationships at a young age, because it is taught in the bible that the relationship should lead to marriage because the bible does not speak about boyfriend and girlfriends but about wives and husbands…so just let God do the match making and never go chasing for someone because God has it sorted at whatever age he decides to bring you to your future husband/wife.

  • Would it be okay to let the person you would like to date know that you recognize we both probably are not ready to date for marriage and maybe we can wait till then?

  • Im 15 and while having a boyfriend sounds so good, the ultimate goal is marriage and I don’t think I’m ready for a commitment that big yet. I haven’t avoided dating but I’m not actively looking atm

  • What is the best way to totally get rid of my shyness, and finally escaping the friendzone? I read lots of good opinions on the net about how exactly Troplusfix Dating Secrets will help you become badass with women. Has anyone tried using this popular dating manual?

  • I rather just not do the whole online dating bs the majority are attention whores aka time wasters. Time is to valuable to waste on random hoes. I rather just go out live my life do things I like to do and if someone comes along that I like then I’ll see where it goes from there. If you’re looking for a hoe go to clubs there’s plenty there that would do one night stands, just dont let it fuck up your night if you dont “score” you dont need a woman to have a good time they are just an add on to the fun you’re hopefully already having.

  • I have a few principles. I see a Biblical man as one who is masculine. That means he feels responsibility to lead, provide for, and protect women.

    He must have a strong, personal relationship with Christ. He must have leadership skills, the ability to adequately protect a woman, and the ability to adequately provide for a woman. He must also feel feel responsible to do these things.

    Prior to seeking a relationship with the opposite sex, his focus should be on maturing as a man and developing his own walk with Christ. But, he should not pursue such relationships before he is ready.

    Though God can still work and make you ready if you start too soon, it’s a far more unnecessarily difficult process.

  • I’m nearly 12 and a half, let me know when I should start dating, I honestly think 13 to 15 but I want to know what other people think

  • I think it is really important to know who you are in Christ before you get to know someone else in the aspect of dating and compatibility, and to have the maturity to support a godly relationship. Yet this maturity could come at any age for some people. My grandparents started dating when they were 14, my parents when they were 16, and both have lead beautiful, godly, and fulfilling marriages. So I know first hand that teen Christian dating can work. The topic is all very subjective but I think it does come down to maturity. Most people only find that maturity when they’re older and have graduated high school, while others find it at a much younger age. It all depends on the person, their identity in Christ and what God’s plan is for them.

  • Thanks for your input, you’re a very wise young man. It’s hard for me as a mother because I didn’t know how to date properly myself or how to be pursed and I’m 44. I’m currently listening to your videos and they’ve blessed my life so much. I base everything in my life on what the Bible says, you’ve allowed me to apply practical principles in the Bible to my everyday life. I have allowed my daughter to date but I feel it was a mistake. It’s hard to go back and say “no” when I’ve opened the door. I don’t want to make him a “forbidden fruit” to her allowing the thoughts of “what if” to entice her even more. I’m a firm believer in “know better do better” so I’m gonna continue to pray and seek God’s help with this situation. I’m not worried or distressed by it because I know His will will be done and He will get the glory one way or the other. I’m just seeking, seeking and seeking for answers and as much clarity as I can get. She will definitely date someone eventually and I want her to know how to date. I’m gonna have her listen to your videos on dating, friendship, soul ties and being pursued as a prerequisites to continue dating for sure. Thanks so much.

  • Thank you. This video I needed to hear. It was painful to hear ”if you’re not already content with Christ alone, you won’t be content with a partner”. And up until now I’ve been completely content, but lately I’ve just been craving any form of attention. I don’t even care for sexual relations, as pleasant as that would be. just a girl to be with who I could talk to and cuddle or something. I know we’re never alone because God and Christ are always with us. But are we to blame for wanting human attention? Is that so sinful?
    I know I was a horrible sinner before, but I have been redeemed through Christ, and I no longer live in sin. I even gave up masturbation, which had plagued me for years, because obeying God was more desirable for me. Can I not just have an innocent relationship where I can just be there with someone? To be with a physical presence? Or must I be completely satisfied with the Spirit and presence of God in me and in the world?
    But your will be done, Lord, not mine.

  • The asian chick is right. If you are an average male being yourself is definitely not going to bring you a lot of women, probably just a few for your entire life, but eventually it might bring a good one. Getting a date or a woman should not be the ultimate goal of your life, so just be yourself, be confident, work on yourself and remember that there are always going to be people who are going to dislike you for whatever reason, you shouldn’t care, they’re not protagonists in your story 😉

  • U don’t understand that when there is an attraction between ppl u don’t need a text msg or a call from someone,it’s like the universe brings u together. N it doesn’t matter who is the first to call or start a convo. Hence, just go with the instincts instead of making someone fall for u.

  • Coach can you explain how to get better at dms? Many girls don’t respond which I understand, but even the ones that do, don’t try even a little bit to keep the conversation going. They mostly respond with one word or avoid questions entirely. They demand from us to be original and to make them laugh. What are we supposed to do?

  • Online dating are for left overs. Essentially losers competing with other losers. Its all about women competing with other women. More manipulation. Not a masculine thing.

  • Hi!!!
    I’m 13 going on 14 in July and… I feel like I’m almost ready to date but not quite there yet
    I already know what my calling and my future career is
    I want to be an entrepreneur and have a dance company and I want to mentor teenage girls and boys and help them out in relationships, friendships, careers, and their callings

    I have a good relationship with God but, I think that I’m too focused on who’s dating and, when will I get my first kiss, etc
    I now realize that at my age, that I need to focus on my education and God before I start dating
    Thanks for the inspiration and u also earned yourself a new subscriber!!!������

  • Ok, TOTALLY agree with this advice and don’t understand why more people (girls especially) don’t go for it, HOWEVER I think it’s also important to keep in mind that you shouldn’t use “being yourself” as an excuse to quit working on yourself. like if you have all of these shity personality traits or unhealthy qualities (being overly obsessive of someone you just met or needing to know where someone is EVERY 5 MINUTES) and then you’re just expecting people to love you the way you are, and are confused when they don’t…. It’s because being yourself doesn’t mean you stop improving.

  • True!..But according to some..They Find it silly when two teenagers date just coz they’re too young…however,the Big Question is-What Does God Say About Dating?Like is it okay to start when u’re a Teenager or Does he say that we should wait??…btw..i really found some of your advice constructive..however,i’m still in a bit of doubt

  • I know this video is old but I really thank you for this. I almost got myself into something I don’t need to be in before I have my relationship with God worked out first. As a 16-year-old, I frequently wonder about who God will set into my life as my partner but now I realize I need to work on myself first. Once again, thank you for this.

  • I’m 15 and I hope to find a guy who I can date then marry. Sometimes I worry that I’ll never find anyone, but then I try to set my focus back on God. And I pray that one day I’ll find someone. ��

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  • I don’t date online because it’s literally nothing but single moms, fake profiles, and fat chicks. That’s it. I rather stick to real life.

  • the music in the backround ( if im not wrong is tchaikovski ) describes my entire life: doing the balet when I was 5 years old and dealing with guys liking me ( and dealing with my fluctuations of emotions and overthinking behind a poker face XD:))) )

  • to get a girl hooked on you?? wtf are you some sort of drug for women? Girls choose who they get attached to, they are not fish to bait and catch. You don’t always have to have a dominant presence you thick typical standard male! many girls like intelligent emotionally intelligent guys.

  • I took tinder serious for years and got nowhere, now I made a troll account you can’t take that app seriously it’s a quick way into depression.

  • I would also add that women on dating apps/sites are not only concerned with your appearance but also greatly obsessed with their own.

  • that why people go after the so called clean. ummm not that I want someone burning me at every turn of want and desires flooded in her emotions unable to pick a man anymore. But I see different in asian women

  • I’m 14 and I’ve been talking to this girl and I feel that we are both mature enough to start a relationship but I am an athies and she’s very religious and I just wanted to get your opinion on how that would work out. And she’s fine with that I’m an athies

  • Avoid online dating unless you are a very good looking, photogenic guy. There are like 3 to 4 times as many men to women ratio on there. I know guys who are good looking and have a lot going for them and they settle for 5’s or 6’s they met online…basically to justify how much texting and back and forth they did just to get on a date.
    Most women take very manipulative photos as well.
    The odds are stacked against you and it is a waste of time for the most part. Attractive women are way pickier online and you can’t use your personality, or sense of humor on there unless you craft some corny line that she happens to like but that is a needle in the haystack.

  • i have lots of success on online dating and even had 2 more or less serious relations, i´ve quit though, i don´t want women in my life anymore… all because of a great pic an ex girlfriend took…

  • However most of us have insecure attachment styles and so being yourself is actually coming from your childhood traumas and an insecure place. Def something to look into and work on

  • I came here for tips on how to make a good date like what type of restaurant to go to and stuff like that, lol
    Left with useless advice everybody has heard before, but don’t care to follow because society has taught us that imperfection is inexcusable.

  • I think if you have anything, any recurring sin in your life that doesn’t just put a rift between you and God but between you and people, you need to spend a good amount of time working on your spiritual life, and then God will send someone YOUR way. Don’t look for something. dig your well before you’re thirsty (pun intended), and then you’ll have a foundation for the future.

  • The real problem with conventional online dating is that things that are less important in the relationship are given more priority. These are mainly looks and financial assets.
    Right from the beginning if you don’t stand out in those things, almost no girl will give you a chance.
    A good dating site will prioritize things that are more important to the relationship like intelligence (it’s not the same as education), moral values (with endorsement)

  • IRL game has almost no use online until it comes to the close, unless maybe u just so happen to have photographic game to compete in the online arena to access opens, but anyone with IRL game isn’t going to bother to curate a contrived arrangement of perfect photos of themselves (which couldn’t be a less masculine thing to do, ironically). Of all the dudes who see the BS side of online dating, it’s the IRL game masters who see it the most!

  • Where should I go to find a woman who is marriage-minded? I don’t mean post-wall women who are looking for marriage because they can’t party anymore. I’m talking about young women who are looking for marriage as their first choice in life.

    Based on simple searches on Mingle2, less than 1% of the female user-base fits this description. I went on more conservative dating sites, and although there were lots of attractive ladies, the male-female ratio was 4-1 or greater.

    I have been thinking about cold approaches on the street, but I haven’t done it yet. Not only is it stressful, but for someone who wants more than pussy, it seems like such a huge waste of time. How in the hell do I know which women I’m approaching will even want what I want? I have to go through the stress of trying to impress a random stranger before I have any idea whether I actually like her yet.

    I suppose the easy answer is that there just aren’t many women who want to be responsible. But if there were some way to find women with their heads screwed on straight, that would be nice.

  • I am 13 and I write to my future husband everyday, I have talked to God about is it okay to date someone at my age? I have a strong relationship with God and I try to think about God in everything I do…I know I’m very young, but I have all my Faith in him…I have gave up my life to him and I know this may seem cheesy I’m just very mature for my age….Anyways back to the point…I love God and I know what I want for in a guy because I look at guys in my school and I see what I don’t like and what I do….I had one of my best friends in my class I just didn’t know it yet,and so we got seats by each other and we already knew who each other were and we have talked a couple of times but now it was different I started realizing how much Faith and Love he has in God…I was starting to like him and I knew it was gonna be a big thing because I had never felt like how I do with him…Every night I prayed to God about I and I asked him is it okay to date him if I see this going somewhere? I never got an exact answer on how I wanted so went to the Bible I looked at some verses that helped me about what I was going to say if the guy ever asked me out and how to handle it…I then went to my dad on what to do..he said it’s okay..your gonna seem nervous at first because you have need had this happen to you,and you are finally going into how everything works and different things like that then after that I went to a friend who is close to my age and has gotten a boyfriend and I asked her and she said it’s okay if you truly like him do it! Then I went to my mom my mom asked me three questions right away saying Christian,Kind,smart? I said yes yes and yes �� I was nervous because I am not the type of person who likes to waste time and I just don’t want to hurt him or me or just end things badly if it ever happened…he asked me out and he said yes… I am talking to God and I know it’s what he’s wanting right now due to our talks…it may not be in the future but it how you learn..I just feel like am I going to be frowned upon because of that reason

  • Online dating works very well for me. I have met interesting women on line! Different strokes for different folkes. And yes im good looking haha.

  • Hello there, I want to know if Episoketren System, will really work for me? I notice many people keep on talking about this popular training course.

  • Actually if somebody falls in love with you is faling with the idea that you presenting.We want them to fall in love with the real us but it is not the case.When we are in love we are practically blind just aislate some caracteristics and throw the rest of the window

  • lmao i thought this is gonna be like a legit video about “What Age Should You Start Dating ” but no, hes a christian with his retarted christian message.

  • Everyone in the comments saying “yeah you should be yourself unless you have certain flaws you want to conceal or your shy or etc” I don’t think you guys are ready for a relationship. Because there should be no buts to being yourself, and saying that you have to hide things about yourself in order to love someone else is a big indicator that you should focus on liking yourself first before you love anyone else. It’s also the big indicator that the relationship won’t last.

  • It’s not that one may be bad, it’s that biology favors women in the dating process. Just science really.

    In the majority of systems where mate choice exists, one sex tends to be competitive with their same-sex members[4] and the other sex is choosy (meaning they are selective when it comes to picking individuals to mate with). There are direct and indirect benefits of being the selective individual.[5][6][7] In most species, females are the choosy sex which discriminates among competitive males,[4] but there are several examples of reversed roles (see below). It is preferable for an individual to choose a compatible mate of the same species, in order to maintain reproductive success.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mate_choice

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