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Do you want to practice speaking English? In this lesson you’ll watch me have a conversation with a kid. Speaking with children is good because they are easy to talk to, have good grammar, and have a lot to say. You also don’t need to feel nervous when you speak with them. I’ll teach you some easy ways to start conversations with kids. I’ll also tell you what kind of behavior kids DON’T like from adults. In this video, my young friend, Mohamed, will have a conversation with me so that you get a real example of what conversations with children are like. Speaking with children can be a great way to practice your English and learn slang! http://www.engvid.com/practice-your-english-by-speaking-with-kids/. TRANSCRIPT. Hi there. Do you kind of have a hard time speaking English? So maybe you’ve studied English in your hometown, or at a school, or online at www.engvid.com, and you think that your grammar’s pretty good, and… You’re just shy. And maybe you live in a country and you don’t have English speakers around you, and you don’t know how to practice speaking.. So, there’s one really wonderful resource-it’s not a textbook, it’s not a webpage, and it’s not on YouTube-it might be living in your house. It could be beside you, it could be next door, or it could be in the park. Do you know what this is? It’s a child, or children, and we like to say “kids”. So, I’m going to teach you how to improve your speaking without really doing too much or spending a lot of money.. This is the trick: Talk to kids. They are amazing. Kids will always want to talk to you, because they are fun, amazing guys. So, it’s really easy to talk to kids, because first of all, they choose the topic. You maybe are: “I don’t know what I’m going to say to this person”, so if you… If you see an adult, or someone who goes to your school, and think: “I don’t… What…? What am I going to talk about? I… I… I don’t… I don’t… I don’t know.” Kids just choose the topic, they just talk to you about whatever they want, so that’s cool.. Another thing about kids is if they’re learning English, if you’re in Canada or an English-speaking country, luckily enough, children are learning vocabulary and they’re learning grammar. Now, their brains are like sponges. They learn, the teacher corrects them. Their grammar is absolutely perfect, with a couple exceptions. They will learn and they will be able to correct themselves. So, their grammar and vocabulary is amazing. It might be a little bit better than mine. A little bit, not that much.. And the last thing is children know, this says: “a lot of slang”. If you look at a lot of new videos or music, kids listen to this music, and that’s where we get slang from; we get it from performers who make new words. So, kids know a lot of slang, and to you, they know new words. One of the big problems that a lot of people have when they come to an English-speaking country is that they’ve learned older words. Maybe they learned from an older person, or they have old textbooks. What happens is we don’t use those old words anymore, and when we do, the person kind of looks at you weird because that’s a really old word.. So, what you want to do is you want to find a child. Oh! Where could I find a kid? Here’s a kid now. Hah. Huh. What’s your name? Mohamed: Mohamed.. Ronnie: Oh, hi, Mohamed. Where are you from? Mohamed: Libya.. Ronnie: Wow. I’ve never been to Libya. How is it? Mohamed: It’s pretty sunny, and it’s pretty extremely hot there. Like, it’s pretty hot. Like, you can go to the beach every single day.. Ronnie: No way.. Mohamed: It is actually possible, if you want.. Ronnie: How’s the beach? Mohamed: It’s, like, I can swim there for 25 hours, and I will be tired.. Ronnie: 25 hours, that’s a lot. And what about the water? Is it clean? Mohamed: Yes.. Ronnie: It’s really clean? Mohamed: Yeah.. Ronnie: Yeah? Mohamed, if somebody talked to you and they said: “Oh, hi, how are you? How are you? How are you?” How do you feel about that? Mohamed: That’s annoying.. Ronnie: Oh, oh, okay. I’m sorry. And… And what if somebody told you what to do, like: “Hey, you, sit down. Stand up. What are you doing?” How do you feel if someone said that to you? Mohamed: That means they’re just bossy people that want attention.. Ronnie: Oh, that’s a good point, yeah. Do you like people like that? Mohamed: No.. Ronnie: No. Would you want to talk to them? Mohamed: No.. Ronnie: Okay.. Mohamed: I would like to have better friends that actually do good things.. Ronnie: Yeah, that’s a good idea. Do you know people that do good things? Mohamed: Yeah. Like, pretty much all of my friends, and mostly my mom.. Ronnie: Oh, your mom does good things? Mohamed: Yeah.. Ronnie: Aww.. Mohamed: Yeah, she does a lot of things to me.. Ronnie: Yeah? That’s awesome. Mohamed, what’s your favourite colour? Mohamed: My favourite colour is phosphoric orange.. Ronnie: Glow-in-the-dark, florescent orange? Mohamed: Yeah.
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Learn English with KIDS Practice English conversation & Slang words with Kids. http://www.learnex.in/learn-english-with-kids-slang-words-conversation. Like us on Facebook http://www.facebook.com/letstalkpodcast. Visit our Website http://www.letstalkpodcast.com. Follow us on Instagram. http://www.instagram.com/esl.learnex. Improving one’s English can actually be a very simple, fun and creative process. Now I know most of you watch online videos like you are doing right now and I would encourage you to do it. Some of you read books, the newspaper and even watch movies. And I want to say good job!!! But do you know of a rather different approach you could try to improve your English listening and speaking skills? I am not talking about taking another online course…I’ll give you a hint..I’m talking about something small and clever…oh wait actually I’m talking about “someone” who is small, clever and just awesome.. That’s right! Children or Kids. Talk to them-they are amazing people!!! Talking with children is the easiest thing to do because they say anything that comes off the top of their head. Now that’s a great conversation starter-an important part of learning to talk in English. Kids always have something to talk about. As you can see that she starts talking about her visit to the beach and uses related words like “vacation” which means holiday, “sand castles” which means castle shaped structures made in the sand for fun. Bathing suit is swimming wear. Waves are a surf like thing that moves back and fro on the beach. Talking about any topic with children can make you learn new words. Take note of what children say and try to find new words related to the same topic. I bet you can come up with many other words related to a vacation and your visit to a beach.. Children talk in “up-to date” English. That’s because they are learning new things every day. They use new slang, new words that books sometimes don’t mention. So if you want to keep up to date with your English vocabulary, talking to kids is going to do the job. She uses phrases like “blog” which is a web page you create to record anything you want and publish it for everyone to see. Adorable means cute or very lovable. Face time is another word used to have video chats with people who are away from you. Also watch the phrases she uses like “stay in touch” which means keep contact with someone, Getting along means being on good terms or feeling comfortable with someone. Hit the books means going back to studies. So kids are a great source to come in contact with modern English vocabulary.. Kids are curious by nature. So, they will ask questions. That gives you the opportunity to respond in English by using new vocabulary or vocabulary you may already know. Yes they can get you talking in no time. As you talk more, you will realize that your fright or anxiety of speaking in English will start to melt away. Here, Ananya is curious about what I do for a living. She wants to know what my job is like. She also gives her own views about “learning English”.. Please remember that not all kids will talk to you, some of them are shy. So don’t force any child to talk to you. While talking to kids, don’t baby talk and don’t try to boss them around. They will open up if you talk to them naturally as you would with an adult. She uses the term “Baby talk” which means talking like a child or using a style of speech which imitates how toddlers speak. Bossing around here means giving orders or being dominating.
https://www.kids-pages.com. Conversation in school background, during class time or break time, between students and teacher, on different topics, like favorite subjects, teacher’s commands. Great tool for beginners to learn new English words., and great for improving vocabulary.. Please subscribe if you liked the video. Thank you!
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Conversations to avoid with young adult kids There are some topics that parents of young adult kids are better off avoiding unless the young adult kids bring them up first. Respecting privacy and reserving judgement are two skills needed as kids grow into adulthood. Tell it like it is sometimes! Most of the time, grandparents should use the opposite approach when communicating with adult children. The best way to bridge the generation gap is to use tact and to defer to the parent’s right to make child-rearing decisions.
Here are seven guidelines for communicating with your adult childre. When your children are young, there are all kinds of resources at your fingertips to help you communicate with them. Countless magazines and Web sites are devoted, at least in part, to the art of talking to your kids how to teach them responsibility, how to help them express their feelings, how to get them to eat vegetables.
You also might spend a lot of time on the playground swapping war. When your young-adult kids have serious adult-sized problems, the kind that can derail a healthy and productive life, your heart may break, but your child’s choices don’t have to break you. Your child’s regrettable decisions do not make you a bad parent. Even good parents have children. Stop Enabling Your Addicted Adult Child Tough love is a hard, but a valuable language to learn.
Posted Nov 25, 2014. As a psychologist working with children and teens for over 30 years, I have counseled many troubled, overly dependent adult children. It is heart-wrenching to see these young adults in a. The words that follow either of those two don’t matter as the walls have gone up and the mind has shut down in your child. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me..
Philippians 4:13. Although unsolicited advice and money are probably the top two issues that cause conflict with parents and their adult kids, there are a few more things to keep in mind when parenting adult children. Don’t interfere with your child’s life unless asked.
When parents and other adults become more of a “partner” and less of a “boss” during conversations, children enjoy communicating with parents and stay interacting longer. Comment and wait. When you make a comment, express what you think and see, without demanding a particular response from your child. @Chrys I don’t read this as encouraging the child to intrude on conversations that is not relevant, but more that if you are having a conversation and the child offers a opinion treat the child as you would an adult.
The nosy neighbor will be gently rebuffed, but I agree with mxyzplk that treat children as persons.
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Questions such as “Have you any children?” complicate making new acquaintances.
By the time children are four or five, they’re already suspicious of the open-ended questions parents use when they’re fishing for intel, for instance, “What did you do today?” or “How was lunch?”
If they’re talking about unfamiliar topics, this isn’t a conversation your teen or young adult should join because he or she will slow it down, making it frustrating and boring for the group.
We talk about the questions a bit, and I ask the children to think about which ones seem the most intriguing: “Which one would you most like to talk about with someone else?”
Introduce this session to the children by explaining that they will be learning some new conversation skills that will help them to better initiate conversations with each other, as well as with other children and adults.
As I got older, I developed categories of conversation and within those categories I had rules about what’s appropriate to talk about and what’s not, what interests people generally and what will turn them off from the start.
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Actually baby talk or child directed speech can help babies learn language. Might be hard as someone who doesn’t know the kid to know what level/kind of cds is appropriate though. I’ve mostly heard about cds from caregivers though, can imagine it’s not really effective if you don’t know the infant. And ofcourse for older children it’s not a good idea.
Yes alright, we can learn from a child.. I agree that the children are amazing..many lessons that can we take from them.. The most one is about “patient”
Haha I liked it You’re just saying what is happening to me, there are no one to speak with me, NO ONE. I live in Brazil and it’s difficult to find someone that know English to practice
Has anyone noticed that either Hank or Rachel are hanging in the Hang in There poster in the background and when they’re both in the episode no one is in the poster?
The whole “oh, their immune systems are so weak” hypochondria is BS and the reason why serious allergies are on the rise. Maybe HTA should pass their scripts by their colleague from Healthcare Triage Dr. Aaron.
I really like english languege and i allways talk about somethings with my self and that’s funny…. And i really want to learn english and i try to learn but i think english languge is too diffecult
It’d be awesome if you could share role plays or example conversations a nanny who’s new to the US could use to start a conversation with a child in the US (maybe between the ages of 6-13). The setting is mostly for tutoring or teaching children in small groups. Thank you!
I wish i had the chance to talk to someone younger now. Id probably say life hits you hard mate, keep on going. Some days it will feel like the entire world is against you, and some days it will feel like an achievement to just et out of bed. Whoever needs to hear it, keep going. I love you and you can do it, believe in yourself.
I’m here because i love babies and kids but idk how to take care of them (im still a teen) while most of my friends prolly think im crazy cuz they don’t like kids lmao
interesting points,if anyone else wants to discover toddlers and tantrums try Panlarko Teaching Toddlers Planner ( search on google )? Ive heard some great things about it and my m8 got cool results with it.
Thanks so much for this video! I‘m having my Au Pair interview with a lovely host family for the second time tomorrow and I‘m going to skype with their kids. They are two years old and I felt so helpless because I didn‘t know how to talk to them for the first time. Especially when it‘s over Skype. I think with this video I‘m feeling prepared! ����
Hank here is such a surprise to me.. I have watched a couple of biology tutorial videos on crash course and I never thought I would see him in such vids.. Cool☺️
Today my niece talk to me in English on phone. I somehow managed and cut the call after sometime. He is just in 4th class and and I’m in class 12.It was super awkward for me to talk in English with family members.Whole my life i only talk in regional language (not even national language) with my family.. But now the world is globalizing. Some country managed to maintain their own language like china, japan, Russia. But not my country. I don’t know I should happy about it or not.
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At work, I needed to get the attention of a 4-year-old girl that was running around in the store, and all I could think of to say to her was, “ma’am, um ma’am, excuse me ma’am.” XD Which is a bit strange, but I felt too weird about calling her “sweetie” or something cutsie like that, cause it felt creepy and I also would not call her by that if she was an adult. Was there anything less dumb to call her?
I’m going to be interacting with kids from middle school and high school and relating to them on some level may be a different conversation. Is there a video from Chelsea on this?
That was fine but her exaggerated excitement interactions would be pretense and condescension. I hate that. Going back to her comment about not talking down to a kid, there is no reason to talk to a kid differently than anybody else. If it’s good then it’s good, if it’s bad then it’s bad. I hate pretense. Everyone, please watch my tiny nature videos. There is no talking in them. Shhh!
I honestly didn’t know that other people have this same problem of not knowing how to talk to children. I thought it just came natural to other people. Good tips.
Speaking to young kids is hard and frightening. If I’m walking somewhere and see a child coming towards me, I’ll normally turn around and quickly go the opposite way.
The problem is when we are young we want to grow fast and when we are grown we wish to be young again. We are not satisfied with what we have but want something we don’t. . Learn to accept, not to expect, Because expectation lead to disappointment And when we understand the importance of that time it’s too late…
perfect, I really like your method for teaching English and that is the most interessting way to explain the issue very simply, thank you very much,,,,,,
Thank you for this video. It helped me a lot with my nervous feelings about meeting my siblings foster children. I have always been pretty good with kids and this video reinforced for me that I already know and do the basics right while offering some more nuanced perspective.
I treat my 12-year-old brother and his friend like I do to adults. But why are they so mean? They probably don’t know any better. …………Actually I think they do. Maybe I should put my foot down like I would to a mean adult.
What I think of being young is not having information in our brain It’s like empty hard disk that can be filled with endless possibilities But when we grew up, we make our own believes, fears, choices and due to experience, we feel lot of things repetitive…
Baby talk thing is so true. I coo at babies, sure. It’s hard not to. �� But I have vivid memories of how much I hated being talked down to by adults when I was a child. My parents didn’t!
“If they want to talk about princesses, talk about princesses.” OK but what if I really don’t want to have a conversation on a topic about which I know nothing, or a topic for which I have no interest? What if my niece’s passion for Disney princesses makes me very uncomfortable? One time, I told her, “You know, you don’t have to wait for prince charming.” Somehow she took that to mean that he would never ever come. I’m very bad at this…
This is why I’ve stayed in my severely underpaid job for so long. Yesterday I built a rocketship for dinosaurs, played Mario Kart, and had a discussion about why different balls are used for different games. Working as a Play Specialist means I get to just hang out and be silly all day long.
You hear the word “quarantine” and automatically hear the long list of things we’re not allowed to do these days. But perhaps you should think of all the opportunities this slower lifestyle offers. As parents, instead of sitting around worrying about coronavirus or feeling lonely, use your downtime to learn new skills to teach your KIDS to speak and read in an early age, come on!!!
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Nowadays, not all kids are able to speak well even in their own language. Otherwise, Mohamed’s English is brilliant. Ronnie, your advice may be useful if I travel to an English-speaking country, which is quite expensive, but where can I find an English-speaking child in my country?
Really refreshing video with wonderful advice that couldn’t have come at a better time! I was just admitting my worries with my ld partner at how I’m no good with people around 16 and under (don’t know what to do/say with them) and the prospect of meeting her close family most of whom have kids that are below that age and three of whom she sees/looks after on a daily basis was quite terrifying. I’ll try and remember these tips when I go!
I realized I didn’t know how to interact with babies and really little kids until one of my best friends had baby and once he turned 1 and was walking around like a real little human, I was like ‘wait, how am I supposed to talk to him?’ His parents were like we just talk to him like another adult, which was good because that was my default guess. I still was surprised when I asked if he wanted help opening a granola bar and without looking up he said “no, I’ve got it.” Kids really are smarter and more capable than we’re lead to believe.
Be careful you do not speak with kids in the street cause police get you wrong sure try to speak with kids when thei parents alowed it in a park or bus station or some friends kids ok byeee
This helps I grew up an only child I did not realize how bad I am around kids until some kids came to a birthday party at my house and all of the older adults (my parents) left the kids with me. I just had them playing video games, tablets, etc so I could keep them distracted lmao. I feel like I shouldn’t pollute their innocent minds wit technology just yet
When I take your lessons before my exams I am clear with them. And you are the best teacher ever I wish you were in Pakistan, Karachi. I live in Karachi.
I seem to do okay with the neighbour’s little girl who is fascinated by my cats and wants to tell me about hers, but for the most part… well, I chose not to have kids for a reason. We don’t all think infants are adorable and irresistable, for the record. I’m just as happy not touching or holding. Doesn’t mean I’d ever let any harm come to one, I just find my maternal instincts only trigger over, say, orphaned kittens, not humans. But thank you for the suggestions. I may have little interest in kids, but I do remember feeling misunderstood and awkward and would rather not inflict that on anyone of any age.
My brother’s a dick to me lol. Now how do I become a nonintrovert?
Edit: imagine having to tell adults how to speak to children. I mean, I have to watch this because I’m horrible at interacting with my 5yo brother But like. Imagine a 20yo not being able to speak to a 1yo normally
Is the free book an audiobook perchance? I’m a mother of littles and one tween bonus daughter. I don’t have much time to myself yet to read, or at least I would get interrupted shortly starting. Just wondering.
I’m crying, the video is very strong when you know that you stopped being a child to be an adult and that you have less time to grow old and in the end die…
Ciertamente, el o los niños son fáciles para absorber todo aprendizaje y realmente uno aprende mucho con ellos. Recuerdo que mi primo ya una persona madura practicaba su ingles con un sobrino que tenia de apenas 4 años
I feel like maybe this is a Canadian thing but practically every one I’ve ever known takes off their shoes inside the house, babies or no babies… How’s that weird at all?
I’d love to be able to goof off with kids, since you just don’t get to do that with many adults. But the fear of looking weird in front of other adults is too much for me to overcome. I even feel awkward holding kids or crouching down to say hi if there’s other adults watching. I’ve considered working around kids since it seems like so much fun, so I’d love some help overcoming my fear of looking nuts.
Me before I watched the video: WHERE WAS THIS VIDEO THIS PAST WEEKEND WHEN I HAD TO INTERACT WITH A LOT OF KIDS AT WORK?!?! Me after I watched the video: Oh, I did most of these things she suggested, so I actually did ok!!:D
Super amazing helpful advice Chelsea!! This reminds me how much I appreciate being spoken to as an adult by my parents when I was little. I honestly think that helped me to have much more advanced language skills than my peers early on in school.
Alright, you can’t say “Talk to them like adults” in step one and then go on in all the later steps to give examples that are clearly not following that rule.
hello i’m a brazilian 17 years old boy, and i want to practice my english with a native speaker no matters if you are male or female i just want practice my english and help you with portuguese if you want just answer this coment… thanks for yours attencion
Is this only me or everyone can sense the situation as it’s looking like a time travel and they both are the older and younger self of their own selves.
I didn’t know how much I needed this XD I’m great with kids aged 1-3, but the older kids I’m super awkward around. I’m already an awkward and shy person, and then when talking to kids I don’t have as much of a “script” to follow to ease my anxiety like I do with other people my age. This was helpful!
i thought it was really cool that that kid faced the fear of sticking out his hand for the man to shake. thought that was interesting, and really cool.
as 14 year old girl that distant herself from others it makes me think im not really enjoying my life that much i always worry about other peoples opinions that it takes away my fun in life im afraid to connect to someone cause im afraid to get hurt its hard to trust someone well at least for me i feel so lonely and sad i Wanna have friends but im afraid to connect to someone got any advice for me? its ok if not…just need little help…
1.Children are humans just like you. 2.When going to someone’s house,follow the etiquettes given in the video. 3.Speak to them at eye level 4. Don’t only comment on appearance. 5. Keep a sense of humour.
With “Go with they are.” Yes ask them about school (they may or may not be interested in talking about that) ask them about a toy you see in the area, are they wearing a graphic t-shirt, or shoes with a design? Ask them about that. Walk through a toy section and look at the ones based on TV or movies for pop culture references. Also hi-fives? Yes, I work in retail and I have gottwn kids out from behind their parents and smiling by aaking for a hi-five or fist bump.
Thank you for being on my team. Raising a tween by myself so communication with my daughter is very important to me. These topics are great to talk about with her:)
Dr Paul, I didn’t see the link for the video on how to talk about sex with kids? Thanks! Would love to see a video with your kids and grandkids,showing a healthy family dynamics to all of us here:) last but not least, can you please do a video for expecting parents with some specific advice on those first years,how the couple is affected, etc? Thanks again
A tip from god this is a pretty good video to help all those pedos out there to make it easier to lure children gl guys make sure to send me a blessing and tell me how it went. “God out”
Whenever I talk to kids, I forget that I’ve grown up and then I get really silly. Not good if you’re supposed to be looking after them and making sure no one eats a crayon…
You talked about not touching a baby uninvited or respecting kids’ personal space, but I have the exact opposite problem. People want me to hold their baby and I am NOT comfortable with that, what do I do? And kids always want to touch me and hug me and I am also not comfortable with that but I don’t know how to tell them to stop without sounding mean.
Thank you soo much! I’m gonna see my younger cousin (5) again after a year and my baby cousin who I’ve never met. I’m really exited and I’m only sixteen so you’d think I know how to talkbto kids but I’m super self concious so this really helped me a lot.
Yes I always talk to my mom but she’s did want.. and I said.. why you always tell me to speak english so I can improve my English skills.. and she said always not now.. so I just always talk to the mirror… ������.. By the way she always serching how to speak english well.. and she said your so so good.. she love your video.. thank you��������
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So hilarious!!!! Currently binge watching the “how to adult” series. So practical and also so funny. I can’t stop laughing. Thanks for all the great advice!
Not baby-talking infants and toddlers is such a good tip and it’ll make you cringe when you meet a kid for the first time and have to stay silent about their parents baby-talking them.
I’m one of those adults who relates too much to preteens and teenagers such that I have accidentally made comments about when all your friends are getting married to them and they’re like… I’m 12. But when we’re talking about common interests (and when teenagers now watch Drag Race) it just feels like talking to friends. Overall, I thought working at a children’s theatre (and staying appropriate) would be harder, though.
omg they are so sweet talking to each other, the innocence of the child talking to him and you can feel the experience every time the men talks to him, this is amazing.
Actually baby talk or child directed speech can help babies learn language. Might be hard as someone who doesn’t know the kid to know what level/kind of cds is appropriate though. I’ve mostly heard about cds from caregivers though, can imagine it’s not really effective if you don’t know the infant. And ofcourse for older children it’s not a good idea.
Yes alright, we can learn from a child..
I agree that the children are amazing..many lessons that can we take from them..
The most one is about “patient”
Haha I liked it
You’re just saying what is happening to me, there are no one to speak with me, NO ONE. I live in Brazil and it’s difficult to find someone that know English to practice
Hi Mohamed, My names ziad from egypt I’m eight years old, you’re handsome boy and you speak English very good, I’m proud of you
Has anyone noticed that either Hank or Rachel are hanging in the Hang in There poster in the background and when they’re both in the episode no one is in the poster?
The whole “oh, their immune systems are so weak” hypochondria is BS and the reason why serious allergies are on the rise. Maybe HTA should pass their scripts by their colleague from Healthcare Triage Dr. Aaron.
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I really like english languege and i allways talk about somethings with my self and that’s funny…. And i really want to learn english and i try to learn but i think english languge is too diffecult
It’d be awesome if you could share role plays or example conversations a nanny who’s new to the US could use to start a conversation with a child in the US (maybe between the ages of 6-13). The setting is mostly for tutoring or teaching children in small groups. Thank you!
I wish i had the chance to talk to someone younger now. Id probably say life hits you hard mate, keep on going. Some days it will feel like the entire world is against you, and some days it will feel like an achievement to just et out of bed. Whoever needs to hear it, keep going. I love you and you can do it, believe in yourself.
I don’t think that kids in Vietnam want to talk at all. they always hold the phone on their hands and don’t want anything interrupt:v
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I’m here because i love babies and kids but idk how to take care of them (im still a teen) while most of my friends prolly think im crazy cuz they don’t like kids lmao
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Thanks so much for this video! I‘m having my Au Pair interview with a lovely host family for the second time tomorrow and I‘m going to skype with their kids. They are two years old and I felt so helpless because I didn‘t know how to talk to them for the first time. Especially when it‘s over Skype. I think with this video I‘m feeling prepared! ����
Hank here is such a surprise to me.. I have watched a couple of biology tutorial videos on crash course and I never thought I would see him in such vids.. Cool☺️
Today my niece talk to me in English on phone. I somehow managed and cut the call after sometime.
He is just in 4th class and and I’m in class 12.It was super awkward for me to talk in English with family members.Whole my life i only talk in regional language (not even national language) with my family.. But now the world is globalizing. Some country managed to maintain their own language like china, japan, Russia. But not my country. I don’t know I should happy about it or not.
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At work, I needed to get the attention of a 4-year-old girl that was running around in the store, and all I could think of to say to her was, “ma’am, um ma’am, excuse me ma’am.” XD Which is a bit strange, but I felt too weird about calling her “sweetie” or something cutsie like that, cause it felt creepy and I also would not call her by that if she was an adult. Was there anything less dumb to call her?
I’m going to be interacting with kids from middle school and high school and relating to them on some level may be a different conversation. Is there a video from Chelsea on this?
That was fine but her exaggerated excitement interactions would be pretense and condescension. I hate that. Going back to her comment about not talking down to a kid, there is no reason to talk to a kid differently than anybody else. If it’s good then it’s good, if it’s bad then it’s bad. I hate pretense.
Everyone, please watch my tiny nature videos. There is no talking in them. Shhh!
I honestly didn’t know that other people have this same problem of not knowing how to talk to children. I thought it just came natural to other people. Good tips.
Speaking to young kids is hard and frightening. If I’m walking somewhere and see a child coming towards me, I’ll normally turn around and quickly go the opposite way.
The problem is when we are young we want to grow fast and when we are grown we wish to be young again.
We are not satisfied with what we have but want something we don’t.
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Learn to accept, not to expect,
Because expectation lead to disappointment
And when we understand the importance of that time it’s too late…
perfect, I really like your method for teaching English and that is the most interessting way to explain the issue very simply, thank you very much,,,,,,
Thank you for this video. It helped me a lot with my nervous feelings about meeting my siblings foster children. I have always been pretty good with kids and this video reinforced for me that I already know and do the basics right while offering some more nuanced perspective.
I treat my 12-year-old brother and his friend like I do to adults. But why are they so mean?
They probably don’t know any better.
…………Actually I think they do. Maybe I should put my foot down like I would to a mean adult.
Hey Miss Ceema you r looking fab. I have seen u 2yrs ago… on YouTube. Bug these days u r killing. Love u keep teaching us. God bless u
What I think of being young is not having information in our brain
It’s like empty hard disk that can be filled with endless possibilities
But when we grew up, we make our own believes, fears, choices and due to experience, we feel lot of things repetitive…
Baby talk thing is so true. I coo at babies, sure. It’s hard not to. �� But I have vivid memories of how much I hated being talked down to by adults when I was a child. My parents didn’t!
“If they want to talk about princesses, talk about princesses.” OK but what if I really don’t want to have a conversation on a topic about which I know nothing, or a topic for which I have no interest? What if my niece’s passion for Disney princesses makes me very uncomfortable? One time, I told her, “You know, you don’t have to wait for prince charming.” Somehow she took that to mean that he would never ever come. I’m very bad at this…
This is why I’ve stayed in my severely underpaid job for so long. Yesterday I built a rocketship for dinosaurs, played Mario Kart, and had a discussion about why different balls are used for different games.
Working as a Play Specialist means I get to just hang out and be silly all day long.
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Nowadays, not all kids are able to speak well even in their own language. Otherwise, Mohamed’s English is brilliant. Ronnie, your advice may be useful if I travel to an English-speaking country, which is quite expensive, but where can I find an English-speaking child in my country?
Really refreshing video with wonderful advice that couldn’t have come at a better time! I was just admitting my worries with my ld partner at how I’m no good with people around 16 and under (don’t know what to do/say with them) and the prospect of meeting her close family most of whom have kids that are below that age and three of whom she sees/looks after on a daily basis was quite terrifying. I’ll try and remember these tips when I go!
I realized I didn’t know how to interact with babies and really little kids until one of my best friends had baby and once he turned 1 and was walking around like a real little human, I was like ‘wait, how am I supposed to talk to him?’ His parents were like we just talk to him like another adult, which was good because that was my default guess. I still was surprised when I asked if he wanted help opening a granola bar and without looking up he said “no, I’ve got it.” Kids really are smarter and more capable than we’re lead to believe.
Be careful you do not speak with kids in the street cause police get you wrong sure try to speak with kids when thei parents alowed it in a park or bus station or some friends kids ok byeee
This helps I grew up an only child I did not realize how bad I am around kids until some kids came to a birthday party at my house and all of the older adults (my parents) left the kids with me. I just had them playing video games, tablets, etc so I could keep them distracted lmao. I feel like I shouldn’t pollute their innocent minds wit technology just yet
When I take your lessons before my exams I am clear with them.
And you are the best teacher ever
I wish you were in Pakistan, Karachi. I live in Karachi.
I seem to do okay with the neighbour’s little girl who is fascinated by my cats and wants to tell me about hers, but for the most part… well, I chose not to have kids for a reason. We don’t all think infants are adorable and irresistable, for the record. I’m just as happy not touching or holding. Doesn’t mean I’d ever let any harm come to one, I just find my maternal instincts only trigger over, say, orphaned kittens, not humans. But thank you for the suggestions. I may have little interest in kids, but I do remember feeling misunderstood and awkward and would rather not inflict that on anyone of any age.
My brother’s a dick to me lol.
Now how do I become a nonintrovert?
Edit: imagine having to tell adults how to speak to children.
I mean, I have to watch this because I’m horrible at interacting with my 5yo brother
But like. Imagine a 20yo not being able to speak to a 1yo normally
Is the free book an audiobook perchance? I’m a mother of littles and one tween bonus daughter. I don’t have much time to myself yet to read, or at least I would get interrupted shortly starting. Just wondering.
I’m crying, the video is very strong when you know that you stopped being a child to be an adult and that you have less time to grow old and in the end die…
Ciertamente, el o los niños son fáciles para absorber todo aprendizaje y realmente uno aprende mucho con ellos. Recuerdo que mi primo ya una persona madura practicaba su ingles con un sobrino que tenia de apenas 4 años
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I feel like maybe this is a Canadian thing but practically every one I’ve ever known takes off their shoes inside the house, babies or no babies… How’s that weird at all?
I’d love to be able to goof off with kids, since you just don’t get to do that with many adults. But the fear of looking weird in front of other adults is too much for me to overcome. I even feel awkward holding kids or crouching down to say hi if there’s other adults watching. I’ve considered working around kids since it seems like so much fun, so I’d love some help overcoming my fear of looking nuts.
Me before I watched the video: WHERE WAS THIS VIDEO THIS PAST WEEKEND WHEN I HAD TO INTERACT WITH A LOT OF KIDS AT WORK?!?!
Me after I watched the video: Oh, I did most of these things she suggested, so I actually did ok!!:D
Super amazing helpful advice Chelsea!! This reminds me how much I appreciate being spoken to as an adult by my parents when I was little. I honestly think that helped me to have much more advanced language skills than my peers early on in school.
Alright, you can’t say “Talk to them like adults” in step one and then go on in all the later steps to give examples that are clearly not following that rule.
The dude had someone he loved and chose not to replace her even after she died.
Damn…….
Sir you are the man one should strive to be like.
hello i’m a brazilian 17 years old boy, and i want to practice my english with a native speaker no matters if you are male or female i just want practice my english and help you with portuguese if you want just answer this coment… thanks for yours attencion
this video made me cry, idk i just need maybe to talk my little self and say heeey pls “you’re worth it and u have nothing to worry about, ilove you”
My dream job is working at Disney and I dislike small children. But I hope that changes in the next 2 years before I apply to work there. ����
Is this only me or everyone can sense the situation as it’s looking like a time travel and they both are the older and younger self of their own selves.
I didn’t know how much I needed this XD I’m great with kids aged 1-3, but the older kids I’m super awkward around. I’m already an awkward and shy person, and then when talking to kids I don’t have as much of a “script” to follow to ease my anxiety like I do with other people my age. This was helpful!
i thought it was really cool that that kid faced the fear of sticking out his hand for the man to shake. thought that was interesting, and really cool.
as 14 year old girl that distant herself from others it makes me think im not really enjoying my life that much i always worry about other peoples opinions that it takes away my fun in life im afraid to connect to someone cause im afraid to get hurt its hard to trust someone well at least for me i feel so lonely and sad i Wanna have friends but im afraid to connect to someone got any advice for me? its ok if not…just need little help…
There is nothing wrong with telling a girl that she is beautiful.
I rather she hears that from close family and friends than strangers.
I forget that outside of america, taking off your shoes in someones house is automatic and without question….do Americans really wear shoes inside?
1.Children are humans just like you.
2.When going to someone’s house,follow the etiquettes given in the video.
3.Speak to them at eye level
4. Don’t only comment on appearance.
5. Keep a sense of humour.
With “Go with they are.” Yes ask them about school (they may or may not be interested in talking about that) ask them about a toy you see in the area, are they wearing a graphic t-shirt, or shoes with a design? Ask them about that. Walk through a toy section and look at the ones based on TV or movies for pop culture references. Also hi-fives? Yes, I work in retail and I have gottwn kids out from behind their parents and smiling by aaking for a hi-five or fist bump.
Thank you for being on my team. Raising a tween by myself so communication with my daughter is very important to me. These topics are great to talk about with her:)
Dr Paul, I didn’t see the link for the video on how to talk about sex with kids? Thanks! Would love to see a video with your kids and grandkids,showing a healthy family dynamics to all of us here:) last but not least, can you please do a video for expecting parents with some specific advice on those first years,how the couple is affected, etc? Thanks again
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Whenever I talk to kids, I forget that I’ve grown up and then I get really silly. Not good if you’re supposed to be looking after them and making sure no one eats a crayon…
-Hello! How can I help you?
-Hello! I would like a table for four,please.
-Of course. Please follow me! Here is a table for four.
-Thank you! Could you give us the menu, please?
You talked about not touching a baby uninvited or respecting kids’ personal space, but I have the exact opposite problem. People want me to hold their baby and I am NOT comfortable with that, what do I do? And kids always want to touch me and hug me and I am also not comfortable with that but I don’t know how to tell them to stop without sounding mean.
Thank you soo much! I’m gonna see my younger cousin (5) again after a year and my baby cousin who I’ve never met. I’m really exited and I’m only sixteen so you’d think I know how to talkbto kids but I’m super self concious so this really helped me a lot.
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So hilarious!!!! Currently binge watching the “how to adult” series. So practical and also so funny. I can’t stop laughing. Thanks for all the great advice!
Not baby-talking infants and toddlers is such a good tip and it’ll make you cringe when you meet a kid for the first time and have to stay silent about their parents baby-talking them.
I’m one of those adults who relates too much to preteens and teenagers such that I have accidentally made comments about when all your friends are getting married to them and they’re like… I’m 12. But when we’re talking about common interests (and when teenagers now watch Drag Race) it just feels like talking to friends. Overall, I thought working at a children’s theatre (and staying appropriate) would be harder, though.
omg they are so sweet talking to each other, the innocence of the child talking to him and you can feel the experience every time the men talks to him, this is amazing.