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Verywell. To give a stronger voice to the postpartum experience and share some honest tips on how to navigate this important first step of motherhood, we turned to the real moms of our Verywell Family Facebook community.Here’s just a sampling of what they said to expect after giving birth and the important lessons they learned since becoming a mom. 35 Honest Postpartum Experiences Shared by Real Moms The good news is that more and more mothers are talking about this. Multiple first-person accounts of postpartum rage have been published in the media. Below, real moms share a new kind of motivation — one that shifts the focus from the end result to embracing all bodies and going at your own pace.

Work your “mom bod” confidence. 10. Former Real Housewives of Atlanta star Kenya Moore shared this three-week postpartum photo after giving birth to her and husband Marc Daly’s daughter, Brooklyn. She captioned, “I was cut twice.

Yet still, we tend to glamorize the postpartum period without telling the honest stories of our postpartum experiences. We ignore the physiological and hormonal changes, the pain, the stitches. On the whole, our society emphasizes maternal/baby bonding far more than the mother’s physical recovery and life. Knix is selling underwear, but the brand is also creating real change with a project called The Life After Birth Project, which saw 250 photos of real moms exhibited in an NYC gallery before rolling into Knix’s hometown, Toronto, Canada, this week. The photos are refreshingly real and exactly what women need to see in 2019.

Moms Share Their Postpartum Depression Experiences by Christine Coppa To let you know you’re not alone, we asked some real-life moms to share their postpartum depression stories and how they pulled themselves out of. Mom’s honest postpartum selfie is making the rounds on Facebook. It’s funny that there is so much talk about “post-baby bodies,” because anyone who’s given birth knows that the state of your body is the last thing you’re thinking about during that postpartum time. One mom took to Facebook to show what a body. And that’s why Lee wanted to share the photo, even though it proved difficult.

She wanted to give other new moms and moms-to-be a “real” look at what pregnancy can do to a woman’s body—and to. These real-life moms are sharing their own parenting journeys publicly—from the difficult challenges to the joyful moments that make up modern-day motherhood. 35 Honest Postpartum Experiences Shared by Real Moms.

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Every mum (even those seasoned pros you doubtless eye with envy) feels in over her head in those early weeks, especially when postpartum exhaustion – teamed with nightly sleep deprivation and the recovery from childbirth – is taking its toll on her, body and soul.

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But pushing thirty left me with fewer acceptable responses, and the truth—that I’m absolutely, inexplicably terrified of motherhood—was too embarrassing to speak aloud.

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Because my experience was so positive, it was easy for me to be a little judgmental of women who didn’t breastfeed, given the long list of benefits for both mother and baby.

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What I said to her then is what I want to share with you now: it’s interesting how we immediately start these postpartum conversations with criticism and comparisons— by saying “I only have one baby” or “I just have two kids.”

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Still, when you seek out stories of moms in your area who had positive birth experiences, it’s worth asking them questions about their caregivers.

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There was even a WebMD article on what being a good mom is!

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Mothers experiencing none of the steps were 8 times more likely to have stopped breastfeeding before 6 weeks postpartum.

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NICE (2007a) Antenatal and Postnatal Mental Health.

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This thorough postpartum visit should include a full assessment of physical, social, and psychological well-being.

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I was “mom-ing” hard and loving it, yet felt an ache for something more, a yearning to explore what was beyond poopy diapers, and that’s when a second baby—my blog Siriously Delicious—was born.

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  • hai mansi thankq for this informative vedio.i am falowing all ur videos nd not using powder and kajal to my 5 mnts baby girl.and sharing this infomation to my frnds and family.i have one question i am using daipers to my baby frm 3rd mnt now i have observed that daiper area become black i am worrieing about it.plez give me some tips

  • My biggest fear would be the pain meds, I hate feeling like I’m not in control of my body so to be paralysed from the waist down sounds like the most terrifying thing in the world

  • Brittany has become my favourite YouTuber and I found her probably 2 months before both of us gave birth. I love how our babies are the same “age” and we are both going through the same things:D Thank you for the down-to-earth momma videos Brittany!:D

  • I am suffering and am very uncomfortable this time so I see your video I feel very comfortable mam thank you so much but kyun hota h ye

  • One tip for everyone reading this: It is possible that those around you don’t umderstand. Maybe your partner either isn’t aware, or doesn’t get it if he is insensitive, or has this condition too because he is too sensitive. Maybe Mansi ji here is blessed to have understanding elders as she mentions, but you most likely have a typical mother-in-law with (convenient) selective memory loss of her own young motherhood, or ignores your condition to ensure you enter the kitchen, or brainwashes your husband that you are ”abnormal’. Maybe your friends despite being educated are not aware of this either. In which case 1. SOMEONE you know has gone through this and is sensitive enough to listen to you. Reach out. 2. Shed the guilt. Even if you don’t bond yet, you love your baby (and have created a beautiful ome!). 3. Regardless of everyone else… You are loved. You are special. You have the permissio to ONLY care for you and your baby right now. Not the kitchen, the boss at the other side ofnur maternity leave, the parasitic elders who can fend for themselves but don’t. You even have the permission to stop being the perfect wife for now. Be happy, be you and love yourself….that is also the best gift for your baby

  • Shashank anand sakha Successful overcome from deppression Method BODY MIND SOUL FILL THE EMOTIONAL allighted person who cure disease by atma nu from rishicase in one week believe me insomnia Axiety Sleeping rishicash find on YouTube deppression shashant anand sakha science had no any treatment don’t waste your time from doctors

  • Mujhy ye 5 sal pehly hoa beta Mera 5 sal ka hae shru me sab symptoms ai medical checkup me sab clear a gya I m ok normal but kisi ne is tarf dheyan nhi Diya me abhi Tak is me hun Kya krun��

  • I am 32 weeks now and just got to learn about it. Your video made so much senses and im so going to watch it again and would share my own experience if i face this in my channel too. God bless you and your little one. Stay strong. ����

  • Hi mansi it was needed as I suffering after postpartum depression is i don’t think sumone had really hv gone in to blank n it s really effecting till now in terms of my health on my baby so wants to request to all mothers pls be happy nothing is important more than ur health n baby seriously typing msgs n crying just tears in my eyes I know u don’t share abt ur in laws help but exactly i can say with was with me just my mother n my husband was there n in my baby case he was not sleeping in nights I was nt getting massages even my baby dint get n i was c section mother can’t say more still suffering hv nt slept from last 16 months

  • Have u tried the BIBS pacifiers yet? I LOVE THEM! An they come in the cutest colors and BPA FREE and closest to the moms breast, I LOVE THEM

  • Meri beti abhi 6 mths ki hai…main akele hi uska saradin care karti hoon…childbirth k suru se hi sirf mere husband ne help kiya mujhe…ajkal main bahut tired feel karti hoon…jab beti soti hai to akele depressed lagta hai mujhe…chirchiri bhi ho gayi hoon…kya 6 mth k baad bhi postpartum depression aa sakta hai

  • I get so excited every time I see you post a video!!���� I was due with my first only a couple days before you were due. It’s been so fun to follow along on your journey at the same time with you. Your videos are always a fun distraction while breastfeeding!����❤️

  • Very good video for this topic i have same experience because my husband is in abroad and am alone with my baby and am same do things you say I love dark �� and am enjoying further any bothering and am very happy

  • Very very good vedio mam ��.. i hd gone through this during first 5 months of my pregnancy.. it was difficult for me to hv control over my emotions.. n after delivery it was just irrigation..because of so many things people say to do that a new mother suppose to do..that irritate me sometimes.. lot of enger and crying.. but i engaged myself in taking care of my baby n watching ur vedieos.. ur vedieo not olny helped me to take care of my baby but to take care of myself too.. thanks a lot ��☺☺☺☺☺☺

  • my mama was going through labor and my pops said he needed to get his haircut so he was lookin’ “good and fresh for the baby”(me) and made it back in time for my birth��������in them baby pictures he do be lookin’ clean tho✌��

  • I’m not that scared about tearing or pain but omg I’ll never let my husband watch me poop on the table..that’s too embarrassing ��

  • Very informative video..thank you..I am a 9 th month baby mom..I have a doubt that I don’t have periods till this month now also I breastfeeding is their any problem.

  • Very informative video but I would have loved it more of they would have used more medically accurate termes, like for the C-section for example, they don’t shave nor cut your vagina, the vagina being the inside part, they shave and cut your pubis. That’s really the only thing that bothered me.

  • Thank you for sharing. It would inspire many that when such an active, positive, balanced person as you can undergo this and SHARE it, so can they. I have a 5 month young baby, I love him and my life, yet I am more vulnerable than ever. Thank you.

  • Great Video, Informative too��. Kindly Check my son’s page https://youtu.be/rAe4ChqUwQo. LIKE & SUBSCRIBE

  • When I was born I inhaled some gross fluid by accident & my little brother ended up going into a weird pose and my mom had to get a c section ;-; (fun fact: I’m adopted!!!)

  • Are there any Mom’s or Future Mom’s that have Costochondritis and are pregnant or Have been pregnant? Has that been manageable for anyone or safe for the baby? I’ve had Costo since August 2018 & the recurring Flare up’s of chest pain along with a Pregnancy scare me so I’m terrified of the whole thing. I’m young & 23 ��

  • Salut à toute et à tous, je viens surtout pour témoigner de mon histoire et j’espère quelles profitera à certaines d’entre vous. Je suis marié depuis 19 ans avec un homme exemplaires d’origine marocaine, nous avons eu un un seul enfant à cause de ma stérilité. Son comportement à changer du jour au lendemain, agressif avec moi et l’enfant aussi. Lorsque nous nous disputions c’était très violent, insultes et une fois une gifle alors qu’il ne m’avait jamais tapée. Il à même rencontrer une autre femme mais ça n’a pas duré. J’ai même appris qu’il à été envoûté par la sorcellerie à fin qu’il quitte le domicile conjugal. Ces parents lui ont fait quelques choses pour retirer l’esprit mais c’est trop tard, des fois il oublie certaines choses faites ou dite, la procédure de divorce est entamée. Beaucoup de mes amis mont conseillé de n’ai pas divorcer. C’est de la une amis m’a mis en contact avec le Prophète Bossou sur +22951718449 et grâce à ces travaux, en une semaine, progressivement mon mari est revenu à lui même, il a repris tous ces facultés et on est nouveau ensemble. J’avais 46ans pourtant ce Prophète m’a promis que je vais encore avoir des enfants et il m’a envoyé des tisanes par DHL. Heureusement je suis la mère des jumelles. Contacter Prophète Bossou sur WhatsApp +22951718449 pour tout les problème de tomber enceinte même si vous êtes dans les périodes de ménopause. Merci pour la compréhension.

  • Helo mam my baby is 8mnths old
    I just wanna ask that
    Din me kitni baar me use feed karu
    Right now
    I used to give him
    Apple puree in mrng
    Then ragi or or upma or rice porridge in lunch
    And then kichdi in dinner adding sm veggies
    Like bottle gourd then sm day potato like wise
    So pls tell me this is ok
    Or mujhe use aek do baar aur khilana xhahiye is se extra
    And solids k saath BM bhi chal raha hai
    So pls do rply
    Looking forward

  • I was suffering from PP depression. There is an herbal tea “relaxing mama prenatal and postnatal tea” that helped immensely in getting me out of this overwhelming anxiety and stress. go to http://secretsoftea.com to learn more.

  • My baby is 2 months old nd I’m experiencing the same.i don’t feel the bond with my baby she keeps on crying nd i feel nothing.i don’t feel like to go out,no work,all empty. Sumtimes I’m afraid that something is going to happen to me nd wat will happen to my baby nd my family.worse condition never felt like dis… Don’t know how to deal with dis…I m always getting negative thoughts nd jst bcoz of dis my baby is not getting enough care nd love…Plz help me

  • Thank you for making this video and creating awareness.. Postpartum depression is not a myth, it’s a reality and new mothers definitely need a lot of understanding and support from family/spouse..

  • Hi Thnkx a lot I m big fan of urs channel posting first tym comment on ur video this video is really v helpful for me, my baby is 1.5 month nd i m going through this my situation is very bad now…. my baby doesn’t sleep for 8 hrs in a day..no one understand me what i m going through

  • She’s too cute!!! This is also funny to me because I have a husky named Aero and for a nick name I’ve always called him my squishy ��

  • Thanks mansi, very informative video, even I was suffered from post partum depression, my husband understands it & helping me to came out of it but my monther in law, did not trying to understand my condition, even she start staying to everyone that ” muu banae baithi rhte hai, khush nhi hai, ldki hue hai sayad islye ” & that make me feel more depressed, that was such a hard time I felt ever in my life.

  • Okay…so…apparently I pooped in my mom AND was born sunny side up. My nose was slightly broken. They also thought that I had something wrong with my heart, but…it was hiccups. So…yeah…You’re welcome.

  • Hai mam very informative video…my going through all those symptoms which you have spoken post after 7months of delivery since two weeks…and I’m feeling so cold during my afternoon sleep and during mid night also..not able to sleep properly

  • Due September 30th and have been following your journey ever since I found out I was pregnant back in January. Love your videos! Also that aerie outfit is super cute! Still don’t know if I should wait to buy postpartum clothes until after I have the baby, or get some things now…

  • Damn your schedule looks like a DREAM!! I have a 7 week old and he doesn’t nap during the day! He will pass out for an hour tops every other day. It amazes me that he can stay awake! ����‍♀️����‍♀️�� Love, one tired momma!!

  • Hi Mansi ma’am….m also going through the postpartum depression still my baby is going to complete 4 months. But abhi Thoda Kam ho raha h…par hot zarur h…baby ki har 6oti 6oti cheese ko leke tension…and work pe vapas jaungi tab in laws k pas baby ko 6odne ka tension….
    Now a days what is happening that my baby awake every 20 minutes or 10 minute from her sleep….even in the afternoon…so I can’t take proper sleep…n may b because of this I feel very low….very negative… don’t like to talk with anyone.please help me out….m a working woman…n from August I have to start my work again..then how will I manage if I can’t manage my mind��…Muje ku6 b a6a ni lag raha..

  • I know I’m late but I also kinda sorta had some bowl movements in my mom’s stomach �� I was also about 1 week late. I’m so grateful for her❤ shoutout to all mothers and fathers adoptive or biological

  • I’m a Full Spectrum Doula (Fertility, Birth & Postpartum) specializing in Holistic Care. I make it a point ti educate my clients on misinformation surrounding birth, our birth rights (yes you have those) as well as protecting them from the abuse of the medical system (a lot of which you hear in this video).
    Find me on IG & FB: @AGoddessGardenBirth

  • Honestly I’m afraid with all that pain if your body can take all those injections, all those inducement like damn, I’m just afraid! Woman body are made for that but oh god, some woman die from giving birth as well

  • I’m currently 10 days overdue (being induced this week if she doesn’t come naturally before!) and I have just loved watching your videos sooo much and now seeing your baby girl

  • Oh my gosh!! Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh! OH MY GOSH������ I want my own kids but then I don’t want to physically give birth aaahhhhh!!

  • If giving birth is such a horrible thing, then why women did it all over the history.
    I think it’s not the right thing to do by showing such vedio talking only about the negative parts of child birth because it just create the fear inside other woman who never gave birth and it makes them decides not to have children for the rest of their life which is a huge decision to make, we need women to talk about the bright side of such experience becsuse everything in life has 2 faces.

  • Haha if there’s anything I love about mothers, is the filter completely vanishes and nothing scares them or makes them feel awkward!

  • Hi Mansi,
    Thanks a ton..!! I went to this situation too hope ur video was there on my bad days…
    My son is suffering from cold in this summer, he is sweating a lot while slping,can I make him slp in A.C? although he is wear soft cotton clothes now adays still he sweats..plz suggest

  • I feel like labor and cramps and lady stuff in general are so different for everyone. I get terrible cramps, just awful. My grandmother and mother had this as well. My grandmother said her period cramps were literally worse than giving birth. And she gave birth vaginally without an epidural.

  • I’m 7 weeks now and ran across your channel, before my pregnancy, during the last trimester of your pregnancy and now I get to go through my own journey ❤�� I’m so excited and happy

  • Am facing the worst part of my life, even I born my first child ��. I really couldn’t get this why an my husband too. Thx a lot for the information ��

  • For cradle cap I just put baby oil in his hair let it sit over night and it’ll come straight off when you comb it xx
    I love how real and raw your videos ��

  • This is hilarious. As a mom and a nurse, this is amazing to see women sharing all the things we go through to have our beautiful babies. Give babies all the love they need then let them fall asleep to some beautiful sounds on my channel.

  • I gave a all natural birth to a 10 lbs baby lol. The contractions weren’t bad and I fell asleep during labor I was sleepy. I didn’t
    know I tore until my doc told me. I think it depends on the person because birthing a baby was easy for me

  • Raspberry leaf tea is supposed to help with contractions, drinking it from 30 weeks pregnant. Also, jasmine massage oil and clary sage massage oil, massaged on the tummy, and lower back help with labour pains make up these bottles before labour.

  • Hi…I am getting lumps in my armpits since the 4th day post delivery…I had a normal delivery…I contacted lactation consultants n they said it’s clogged milk ducts n suggested my pumping along with breastfeeding…also massaging during bath n sometimes hot packs..I have been doing all this but they are not disappearing…could you please suggest some remedies to cure them?

  • helloo mansi…i love ur videos…but i have a video request on the topic…that if babies fall from bed or get hurt in head by falling down…then what should be the first step and next…
    actually my 6.5 mth baby fell down yesterday from bed…thank god she didn’t get any injury…we rushed to the doctor…but still now i am very scared…so please mansi do a video on my request and make other parents aware too…

  • Thanks for sharing your experience.Even i had several depression like you,and my main concern now is am unable to feed my son now.He is 7month old unfortunately my bm is reduced completely last two month and i have started giving formula milk.Is there any possibilities to reproduce bm do i need to consult doc…but all elders were telling its common is tat true…

  • Would you do a video about baby sleep? Curious if you co-sleep, if Arrow aways sleeps in her crib… etc. I have a baby a week older than Arrow.

  • Nice video and i want to share please involve ur self in some comedy scenes I felt it 2 months and I must sAy i watched friends daily as I was at home full time n it went Automatically after a month

  • Very very informative. My doc had instructed the same without my query about the problem. Followed all. But still feeling the same.
    By watching this video I understood as it is a depression.
    My baby is now 9 months old n I am facing the same problem. Tried my level best but going on.

  • I just had my baby girl 5 months ago (vaginally) and tore from vagina to butthole. I didn’t have an epidural so I felt the tearing and that actually hurt more than the contractions that I had.

  • My first son was frank breech bum first I had him naturally no meds no gas no needles and I prefer bum first I have had 4 babies and head first hurts ��

  • I love your videos!! You were due 2 weeks before me but ended up giving birth late and I got induced a week early so Arrow is only 2 days older than my little boy! I actually watched your “I’m in labour video” whilst I was in the hospital waiting to be induced. Love having you and Arrow to reference to especially seeing your “schedule” as I realise my baby is normal!! I see so many YouTube’s say how there baby is sleeping through the night already and I really question how??? Thank you for creating realistic and inspiring content! ��

  • A little tip about dirty diapers, you can roll it up and stick it together with the sticky flaps of the diaper. And then just tuck it into the diaper genie. It makes things a lot easier and less stinky ��

  • Hello madam,Mera Beta 4 month ka hai mujhe bhi same problem hai mujhe bahut gussa Aati Hai Rona aata ha or mara bata jab rota ha Mujhe Bhi Rona aa jata hai mujhe lagta ha main uska thick Sa dhain nahi rak parahihu aur Hamara doctor Bhi Koi solution nahi deta hai to Madam please help me aur main bahot week file Kar rahi hoon

  • I have family members who hated getting c-sections because its more difficult to heal and its more expensive. But somehow they ended up with the baby on breech, wayyy past due date and no labor, or their bodies just will not allow.

  • I love these videos ���� arrow is a doll! Can you do a no makeup video? Show what products you’ve been loving for the makeup In this vid? It’s so fresh and pretty!

  • Funny story, I just had my son on July 2, but was due July 9th. I found out my son has a dairy intolerance as well and it has been so hard cutting out dairy �� I miss all the cheese. I’m super interested in seeing what you eat! We have so much in common so it’s been fun following along ��

  • I remember giving birth to my son, I squatted on the floor with no pain relief and just gave birth. I blocked everyone out and they let me do my thing. Where I am we are all about natural birth (New Zealand) and highly recommend no medicine. I caught my son myself and immediately brought him up to me to hold, we both got covered in blood but I had a healthy 9 pound 7 son��

  • Omg I love your videos and how real you are about being a mom. I’m expecting my fourth and I just get so exited about being a mom again. Your baby is adorable!

  • Maybe i’ve just got a REALLY low pain tolerance but when I nearly cry from a paper cut, I don’t know how I may handle labor and ripping (and stitches).

  • if I have a nurse ask me can students watch you give birth I would be like NOPE I’m sorry but I’m trying to give birth and I don’t want people watching me I already have my (future) husband and the doctor! I don’t need other people to watch!

  • aisa mujhe bhi hua tha mam par maine apne aap OK sabaal liya kykoi mere koi support nhi tha sab aisa aur kehte the ki tu bahut hi chidchiddi go gayi h abhi bhi ander se dar feel hota h

  • It’s one of your best videos till date. Making every video in Hindi as well as English in that hot weather is commendable! Keep doing the good work.

  • I am also suffering this problem…..and I just talk about it with my husband but his not understand this all, his not aware about this all…..so what can I do??.. please help me ����

  • Thank you so much for making these videos! I got pregnant unexpectedly at 23 and I’m so scared. I’m in the first trimester and I’m so sick and I spend all day bawling cause it takes a toll on my mental health to be so sick and laying in bed or in the bathroom. your videos make it seem manageable and like it gets better. I can’t wait to meet my little squish. And your postpartum updates help me so much. You are killing it and just thank you for brightening my day.

  • V nyc
    V useful
    My current situation
    Wid my 1.5yr old baby
    Jst bcs she s still learning how to eat
    She eats v less n want brst milk or bottle
    Bcz of tht i get angry frustrated
    Ur video us hlpful ma’am

    Any othr advc pls share
    ������
    Jst today afternoon was v bad of mine
    Bt jst bit relaxing now

  • I`d really inform my friends and family members to use this particular treatment “fetching kafon press” (Google it) in case if they willsuffer into depression. There are many things that this treatment method assisted me apart from keeping my mind calm and not to over think. Part of it was making some plans for my life and live life to the fullest..

  • Thanks for sharing your experience in depth. I am in week 3 post delivery and have been seeing PPD symptoms from week 1. Your video really helps!

  • Soz..dont like what the Italian said. I wish we could be considered more as mothers & not as a “person” who needs 2 go back 2 the workplace!

  • My kid was born 2 weeks after yours! Can you tell us what happened that you knew she reacted to dairy in your diet please??
    Sending love from Dubai��

  • I’am dealing with ppd. Please help me out with this. My mom looks after the baby in the night. I top feed him.. i don’t even feel like breastfeeding the baby. Suggest me a diet. And i also have bad headache… its all over my brain. M scared what may happen.. should i consult a psychiatrist

  • Maine bhi ye experience kiya… Baby bohot roti thi mujhe bohot gussa aata tha smjh ni ata tha kya kru… Na mere in-laws ne mera sath diya…na mere ghar walo ke liye possible tha mera sath de skte
    ..mere husband ko maine kai baar kaha mujhe kuch ho gya h mai alag ho gyi hu mai main ni hu.. But he said “zyada YouTube google krke dimag me weham mat dalo…. And now my baby is 20month old… Or mujhe ab sb bure lgte h sbse jhagda hota hai bohot gussa ata h… Sb kehte h pehle jesi ni rahi….

  • I am pregnant and for some reason this doesn’t really scary meI will persevere for my little girl. Trusting God for a safe delivery for myself and for all other expecting mamas

  • You are doing a great job dear.
    We women really need to talk, listen to, be heard and share these experiences. It helps immensely, I feel sorry that women don’t do all this openly without any hesitation. It is the greatest help that women can offer each other. I too started experiencing depression much before my delivery… and after delivery it got even worse. I knew it was all because of hormonal imbalance but did not know that it was a medical condition and so did not consider taking professional help. I had such horrible nightmares twice that I can’t even share.I was terrified.
    I read a lot of books on pregnancy and was well informed. But when depression hit me I was just not myself.
    We are planning second baby and this time I am prepared better abd experienced��.
    And I really appreciate specialy your this video because I have’nt actually talked about my depression to anyone. But listening to you has definitely made me understand better all that had happened. Heartiest thanks Darling.
    Stay happy, stay healthy, stay blessed ��

  • Aap Bahar jaake fresh hone ko bol rahe ho….me ek working woman hu… suddenly in laws saath rehne as gye…n delivery k baad mere aane jaane pe restrictions as gye h…so har man pasand activity nai Kar pati…even baby bhi mere pas tab hi hota h jab uska Sone ka time ho…vo vaise b formula milk pee…to Muje aur zyada dukh n guilt hota h

  • It struck me about halfway through watching this that I was the cause of a ‘horror story’ like these. �� I came out with a huge bruise/bump on my forehead because my mother went through 12-ish hours of labor and then had to have a c-section because I got stuck on her pelvic bone.

  • C-section women is my best friend. Seriously I wish me and her were friends. She’s just so hilarious. I’m so glad my labour was so nice

  • My little girl is 3 weeks old and is also breast fed. My diet consists of basically no flavour (no onion, garlic, spices, lemon etc) along with no peas / vegetables from the broccoli family, no chocolate/ nothing too sweet, and this she only cries when she’s cold. Not sure if this helps!

  • Big claps for you and saurabh bhaiya �������� keep doing the good work!! I would love to write a book on u and ur channel to help new mothers..

  • I see these videos and have to push all the horrible things asside and be like. “Having a baby is amazing.” But then I worry but I am totally going to have child that is my own. I’m just very scared about the giving birth part.

  • The breastmilk is produced from the blood, not directly from what you eat this means normally food you eat doesn’t cause allergy, it’s extremely rare to happen, better consult specialist.

  • Yess! I would love to see your diet
    My daughter is almost the exact same age
    And We’ve has the same issues, so trying to get more ideas of what to eat

  • When you ran to her cause the Paci was out���� felt that!
    I have a 1 month old and she’ll freak when her paci falls out. I do have to say though, ever since I switched to Bibs pacifiers, they hardly EVER fall out now! Highly recommend ����

  • Hi im chris i have 3 kids all via NSVD all no epidural 1st delivery in a private hospital full term 2nd delivery still in a private hospital with 3x cord coil and lastly my 3rd baby 8months premature delivered in a public hospital

  • Very helpful video! Things which we consider personal are actually general ; most common.. it takes a lot of courage to share your personal experience thank you once again

  • Ladies who are expecting, please don’t watch this video. Every labour experience is different. Don’t frighten yourself watching these woman talk about their labours, its not worth it.
    I have two weeks to go and this video made me mad. Take each moment as it comes, do your breathing, don’t panic and you will be fine. Your body knows exactly what it’s doing ��

  • W.e you think childbirth is like, its 10X worse! I’m so traumatized that I haven’t decided on having a second child yet (Its been 9 years). The thought of going through that pain AGAIN terrifies me.

  • Thank you for making this video,I m passing through this my baby is 6 months old bt the problem is my in laws family doesn’t support me even i wll share with my husband he can’t understand and tell me back u r not understanding…all is my fault..please tell me wt can i do??

  • being a female is hard….am here trying to deal with tampons and menstrual cups….now we have this..where do i sign the forms..i need to resign being a lady……i need to be a man /i need a pp

  • Hey guys if you read this can you help me for advice so I am 17 years I am Busy whit my kickbox career but I always said I will become a young mam but that wil not happen if I want to become one of the best women in the kickbox fighter history that’s mean I will be a mam in my 30s and in my head it seems so old but I no is not but ya that is my struggle ������love if you read this and if you have the struggle as me

  • I just realized that you were the first youtuber I had ever subscribed to, dating all the way back 11 years ago to your lip piercing video… and now you’re a mom and I am hoping to be a mom soon myself ��

  • You really fell into motherhood AWESOMELY!! I’m so proud to watch these videos as I’ve been around since the very beginning and you are soooooooo different now. Seeing you as a mom and the baby talk and boops to the nose of sweet baby Arrow warms my heart. So happy for you both ��

  • I call bullshit on being told “authorities” will not remove a child if you dare to ask for help. It may be different in the UK but in Australia it happened to me. Never admit you are not coping. The offer of help/support is a screening mechanism to get more kids into care.

  • Omg isn’t it the best feeling ever when your baby sleeps and you get to do your makeup and hair. Ive got a 2month old and i always feel gross most days but the one day a month I get dolled up is THE BEST! #newmomlife

  • Hii
    Mujhe mom.com bahut pasanda hai
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    After pregnancy meri skin bahut kharap hogayi hai bahut dark ho gaya hai
    Mein bahut pareshan rahati hoon
    Abhi mere bacche ko 7 months chalrahi hai
    Please mam koi home remedy share kijiye face or body ke liye
    Please mam

  • Hi Mansi near about I see this video every day… I have gone through a v nice pregnancy… But my delivery was not normal… I delivered a healthy baby on 26dec but I lost my dad on 29dec… Thats y I m not able to come out of this… I m always sad n upset… My husband tried meany thing to keep me happy but I m still the same… Tried to open a chinal but I m not happy doing that too… Plz help

  • I wouldn’t say my last 2 siblings where mistakes but they were not expected cause my parents had to take a bunch of medication and stuff it took them 5 years to get pregnant with me so they where very surprising

  • Kudos to u and ur husband. What you’re doing is great. Understanding a myth is very important instead of blindly following it. Sharing each and every experience of ur parenthood is commendable. I appreciate it. All ur videos are informative and helps the new parents one or the other way. Keep up the good work ��God bless your family ��

  • These all things happening with me and my in laws are telling i am become psycho and dur not getting support for anyone i got irritate while they all are giving me lecture but after watching this hope I will cure myself.There is no words to thanks you.

  • Mam my 10month old baby only do toe walking.. he never keeps his feet flat.. is it normal at dis point of time or is it fr concern?? Plz rep mam

  • i jsut had a baby 4 weeks ago i had to be induced cause of pre eclampsia and my labor went from 1 am to 10:03 that night i wouldnt dialate due to the pain so i had to get a epidurale after that i was honestly stillin major pain from when the pressue started till i gave birth cause i had back labor as well it sucked i also had to have a catheterand like so many meds that caused the pain to be worse

  • Mans should learn by now that childbirth pain isn’t your typical stomachache and you can just sleep through it
    What I mean is that if you’re not going through any pain at the moment doesn’t mean that your partner/wife is also like you, like BRUH

  • I feel like if a pregnant women has dilated and they are in pain and ask for an epidural the doctors should do it because she knows what she needs and she is in pain 
    I’m not sure if I said that correctly but you get the point

  • I am too experiencing this… i dont know what is going on in my mind.. bt i am not me.. some kind of fear i have but what cant understand.. Thank god i found this video of your Maam.. i hope this atleast will help me..as nobody here is able to understand me and even i cant express exactly..

  • Honestly this is the most I have enjoyed your channel. It’s so real, funny, and entertaining. Keep up the great work mama. I go in Friday to have my baby girl

  • So my first baby was a surprise you mean an accident. PS trying not to be rude I respect you and everyone reading this so please don’t come after me.

  • It’s not all that bad. It’s just a wonderful/crazy experience that we end up doing it over and over. My second child was a natural birth and being pregnant now with my third, I plan to do it natural again. The contractions are the worst part, pushing was nothing in comparison. I had an epidural for my first and I honestly prefer natural. To each their own of course but it’s really not all that bad. You don’t feel the tearing and they stitch you up quick so the only bad thing from that is some stinging when you pee but they give you a squirt bottle which helps SOO much.

  • My daughter weight 8lbs 15 oz. And that was 15yrs ago. And I feel like shit still isn’t normal down there. I ripped really bad and I tore. Its was bad so I feel your pain. Its so cool you show all u show cause its not always easy for some of us our body goes threw alot alot.

  • Hlo mam.. my baby is 7 months old and from 2 months my periods are not stopping… jab doc k pass jati hu unki medicine se 10-11 days k liye ruk jate hai aur firse start ho jate hai
    Aur m ab tak depression face kr rhi hu all symptoms are same

  • Omg… my husband also slept while I was on labour I didn’t have the strength to get mad at him I wished I can transfer the pain to him at that time…

  • Omg baby girl looks like her daddy. I see it. Lol. You both so precious ��. Hope all is well momma. Especially with this damn heat in Cali. Ugh��������������

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  • I remotely considered having a child maybe two before this. Now, I don’t know man. Like… I do not have that kind of willpower, my poor poor mother(she had a c-section AND it got infected)

  • Is it just me but the 3rd mom, when they showed pictures of after her son was born her and her sister kinda look like brittany Murphy?